Sagittarius and Sagittarius.

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Easha23000us on Monday, April 19, 2021 and has 39 replies.

Can Sagittarius Man and Woman Have a Long-Term Relationship

Sagittarius men and women often share a love for adventure and independence, which can strengthen their bond. Their mutual optimism and desire for growth support long-term compatibility. However, they need to balance freedom with commitment to maintain a lasting relationship. Open communication and shared goals are key to lasting happiness between Sagittarius partners.

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I know a Sag-Sag couple who've been together since they were young teens.. got married out of highschool n have three kiddos, and now two grandkiddos. They don't seem like they're splitting up like, ever.. they're in their early 50's now I believe.

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I’ve seen long term pairings with a male and female sag sign. I think it can work if they’re both the mature sag.

Personally, I think if a sag is going to be with any fire sign, another sag pairing works well. I don’t think Leos or Aries are necessarily the best, but as the person above wrote—now their sister is with a Leo.

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Posted by Easha23000us

Can a Sagittarius man and a Sagittarius woman have a long term relationship or marriage?

Depends on the stage they are in when they meet and the energy that each Sag gives off. Have you ever met a Sag and although you understood them, they irked or annoyed you at times, while others you vibe really well and hardly have any issues? I would guess it's the same with romantic pairings as well.

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Posted by Easha23000us

Can a Sagittarius man and a Sagittarius woman have a long term relationship or marriage?

Depends on the stage they are in when they meet and the energy that each Sag gives off. Have you ever met a Sag and although you understood them, they irked or annoyed you at times, while others you vibe really well and hardly have any issues? I would guess it's the same with romantic pairings as well.

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This is true. There was a male Sag that use to irk me every time that he opened his mouth...He was very loud..

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I think it'd be boring. but it depends on the chart.

A Leo moon sag would spice things up a little for the couple. But I get bored and there isn't enough drama or excitement for a sag with my moon. It's too chill and laid back and lazy for me.

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i don't know if this is comparable (probably not) but my partner and i both have sag moons and we get along quite well.

What are your sun signs?

me libra

him taurus

I know many Libra female and Taurus men...They are happy and stable. The older couples that is...The younger fights alot.

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we fought a lot at the start. hardly ever now.

so you think the shared sag moon might not be the source of harmony? i have to say we get each other a lot. there is a lot of eerie similarities in personality. there seems to be an innate understanding where the other is coming from when tackling the world at large. his method can drive me bonkers (very slow, very cautious, very stubborn and resistant to change) but all he has to do is describe the situation and i get why he feels a certain way and i 99% of the time, would feel exactly the same.

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I was with my ex for 7 years have two children with her and if it wasn't for me becoming unhappy of her lazy ass we would probably be married by now etc. So it can work pretty well but I always thought in the back of my head I couldn't see me marrying her so I kewn that something wasn't right.

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Posted by Easha23000us

Can a Sagittarius man and a Sagittarius woman have a long-term relationship or marriage?

Depends on the stage they are in when they meet and the energy that each Sag gives off. Have you ever met a Sag and although you understood them, they irked or annoyed you at times, while others you vibe really well and hardly have any issues? I would guess it's the same with romantic pairings as well.

This is true. There was a male Sag that use to irk me every time that he opened his mouth...He was very loud..

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Ok, that's me. 😄 I'm loud around my friends, so when I really get into some topic, I can be loud, and then friends will say that I should be quieter, and I'm like, I don't give a fuck, lol. I'm not some shy or insecure wuss that cannot express himself fully.

And about Sag-Sag pairing, well...I've met many female Sags throughout my life, and there was always chemistry, even when I later found out about them being the same sign, they always wanted to bang me quickly, even the shyest ones, lol. I've dated one Sagi for a year, maybe a bit more, with some breaks from time to time, but we ended our relationship in August last year. I'm Sag/Scorp, and she is Sag/Virgo, my moon is in Leo, and hers is in Aries. She had many issues and was always complaining that I didn't have enough time for her, and for me, 3x per week (or sometimes 2) was more than enough. She doesn't have any friends, so she was jealous every time that I would hang out with my friends instead of with her, and then she would be outraged via text, break up, block me, then unblock me after a week or two, then we would be together again after me texting her, and so on. Each time she behaved like that, I took more time as a sort of punishment to text her first...she never argued with me in person, always via text when she was mad.

So honestly, it was easy with arranging a time with her or postponing the date, or whatever...but she was not so talkative, so I've found her more and more boring because when we would see each other, I would talk for like, 80% of the time, and I wouldn't say I liked it. She didn't have anything going on in her life besides studying, and that was it. So after the last time that she was mad and wrote me nasty stuff about how she doesn't want to hear anything from me anymore, she blocked me...she expected me to reach out again because it would mean that things will be on her own terms...she still loves me, I know that, but I cannot continue like that anymore. Plus, she was so predictable every day; I would know what she will write and how. It became too repetitive, lol.

I haven't reached out, so she unblocked me after one month, then waited still if I will text, and because I didn't...I knew that she would do it, albeit being so prideful as she is. It was just an easy-going text, and I just ignored it...it was 2 months after we stopped texting and seeing each other...and now 8 months already passed, so yeah...I don't see the point in being with a person with no friends in her own life...I cannot be her life, just a part of it, that is how it's supposed to be, and I love my freedom, do not like possessive people. I know some other Sag-Sag pairings, but it would last up to one year or two, and that's it, most of the time.

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Posted by Easha23000us

Can a Sagittarius man and a Sagittarius woman have a long-term relationship or marriage?

Depends on the stage they are in when they meet and the energy that each Sag gives off. Have you ever met a Sag and although you understood them, they irked or annoyed you at times, while others you vibe really well and hardly have any issues? I would guess it's the same with romantic pairings as well.

This is true. There was a male Sag that use to irk me every time that he opened his mouth...He was very loud..

Ok, that's me. 😄 I'm loud around my friends, so when I really get into some topic, I can be loud, and then friends will say that I should be quieter, and I'm like, I don't give a fuck, lol. I'm not some shy or insecure wuss that cannot express himself fully.

And about Sag-Sag pairing, well...I've met many female Sags throughout my life, and there was always chemistry, even when I later found out about them being the same sign, they always wanted to bang me quickly, even the shyest ones, lol. I've dated one Sagi for a year, maybe a bit more, with some breaks from time to time, but we ended our relationship in August last year. I'm Sag/Scorp, and she is Sag/Virgo, my moon is in Leo, and hers is in Aries. She had many issues and was always complaining that I didn't have enough time for her, and for me, 3x per week (or sometimes 2) was more than enough. She doesn't have any friends, so she was jealous every time that I would hang out with my friends instead of with her, and then she would be outraged via text, break up, block me, then unblock me after a week or two, then we would be together again after me texting her, and so on. Each time she behaved like that, I took more time as a sort of punishment to text her first...she never argued with me in person, always via text when she was mad.

So honestly, it was easy with arranging a time with her or postponing the date, or whatever...but she was not so talkative, so I've found her more and more boring because when we would see each other, I would talk for like, 80% of the time, and I wouldn't say I liked it. She didn't have anything going on in her life besides studying, and that was it. So after the last time that she was mad and wrote me nasty stuff about how she doesn't want to hear anything from me anymore, she blocked me...she expected me to reach out again because it would mean that things will be on her own terms...she still loves me, I know that, but I cannot continue like that anymore. Plus, she was so predictable every day; I would know what she will write and how. It became too repetitive, lol.

I haven't reached out, so she unblocked me after one month, then waited still if I will text, and because I didn't...I knew that she would do it, albeit being so prideful as she is. It was just an easy-going text, and I just ignored it...it was 2 months after we stopped texting and seeing each other...and now 8 months already passed, so yeah...I don't see the point in being with a person with no friends in her own life...I cannot be her life, just a part of it, that is how it's supposed to be, and I love my freedom, do not like possessive people. I know some other Sag-Sag pairings, but it would last up to one year or two, and that's it, most of the time.

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Sounds draining and childish

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Well, I told her that she is childish and immature with that blocking thing, but yeah, I was already drained and usually did not go back ever. Still, she was too toxic at times, so no more...I've realized I enjoy more being single and seeing someone when I want, because, when into a relationship, they want to cage me and starts to be possessive, so no thanks, haha.

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I think it'd be boring. but it depends on the chart.

A Leo moon sag would spice things up a little for the couple. But I get bored and there isn't enough drama or excitement for a sag with my moon. It's too chill and laid back and lazy for me.

What is your moon sign? I am a Sag sun with a Leo moon, Leo Mars, Sag Mercury, and Venus in Scorpio. He is a Sag sun, moon, mercury, Venus and Mars... We both have Pisces rising.

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I think it'd be boring. but it depends on the chart.

A Leo moon sag would spice things up a little for the couple. But I get bored and there isn't enough drama or excitement for a sag with my moon. It's too chill and laid back and lazy for me.

What is your moon sign? I am a Sag sun with a Leo moon, Leo Mars, Sag Mercury, and Venus in Scorpio. He is a Sag sun, moon, mercury, Venus and Mars... We both have Pisces rising.

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I have the same placements as you but with a Cancer moon.

Lord help you dealing with a guy with so much Sag energy LMAO!

You are really gonna have to tick all of his boxes in order for him to commit to you.

And you know for us (Sag) you don't need to be perfect, just be what we want and be prefect for us. Like a puzzle piece that falls in place.

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I was with my ex for 7 years have two children with her and if it wasn't for me becoming unhappy of her lazy ass we would probably be married by now etc. So it can work pretty well but I always thought in the back of my head I couldn't see me marrying her so I kewn that something wasn't right.

And now you are stuck with a fickle Gemini....SMH.

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I think it'd be boring. but it depends on the chart.

A Leo moon sag would spice things up a little for the couple. But I get bored and there isn't enough drama or excitement for a sag with my moon. It's too chill and laid back and lazy for me.

What is your moon sign? I am a Sag sun with a Leo moon, Leo Mars, Sag Mercury, and Venus in Scorpio. He is a Sag sun, moon, mercury, Venus and Mars... We both have Pisces rising.

I have the same placements as you but with a Cancer moon.

Lord help you dealing with a guy with so much Sag energy LMAO!

You are really gonna have to tick all of his boxes in order for him to commit to you.

And you know for us (Sag) you don't need to be perfect, just be what we want and be prefect for us. Like a puzzle piece that falls in place.

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This is funny; because he is already claiming me as his woman...

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Posted by Easha23000us

Can a Sagittarius man and a Sagittarius woman have a long-term relationship or marriage?

Depends on the stage they are in when they meet and the energy that each Sag gives off. Have you ever met a Sag and although you understood them, they irked or annoyed you at times, while others you vibe really well and hardly have any issues? I would guess it's the same with romantic pairings as well.

This is true. There was a male Sag that use to irk me every time that he opened his mouth...He was very loud..

Ok, that's me. 😄 I'm loud around my friends, so when I really get into some topic, I can be loud, and then friends will say that I should be quieter, and I'm like, I don't give a fuck, lol. I'm not some shy or insecure wuss that cannot express himself fully.

And about Sag-Sag pairing, well...I've met many female Sags throughout my life, and there was always chemistry, even when I later found out about them being the same sign, they always wanted to bang me quickly, even the shyest ones, lol. I've dated one Sagi for a year, maybe a bit more, with some breaks from time to time, but we ended our relationship in August last year. I'm Sag/Scorp, and she is Sag/Virgo, my moon is in Leo, and hers is in Aries. She had many issues and was always complaining that I didn't have enough time for her, and for me, 3x per week (or sometimes 2) was more than enough. She doesn't have any friends, so she was jealous every time that I would hang out with my friends instead of with her, and then she would be outraged via text, break up, block me, then unblock me after a week or two, then we would be together again after me texting her, and so on. Each time she behaved like that, I took more time as a sort of punishment to text her first...she never argued with me in person, always via text when she was mad.

So honestly, it was easy with arranging a time with her or postponing the date, or whatever...but she was not so talkative, so I've found her more and more boring because when we would see each other, I would talk for like, 80% of the time, and I wouldn't say I liked it. She didn't have anything going on in her life besides studying, and that was it. So after the last time that she was mad and wrote me nasty stuff about how she doesn't want to hear anything from me anymore, she blocked me...she expected me to reach out again because it would mean that things will be on her own terms...she still loves me, I know that, but I cannot continue like that anymore. Plus, she was so predictable every day; I would know what she will write and how. It became too repetitive, lol.

I haven't reached out, so she unblocked me after one month, then waited still if I will text, and because I didn't...I knew that she would do it, albeit being so prideful as she is. It was just an easy-going text, and I just ignored it...it was 2 months after we stopped texting and seeing each other...and now 8 months already passed, so yeah...I don't see the point in being with a person with no friends in her own life...I cannot be her life, just a part of it, that is how it's supposed to be, and I love my freedom, do not like possessive people. I know some other Sag-Sag pairings, but it would last up to one year or two, and that's it, most of the time.

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Wow...This is me in a nut shell.. I don't have any friends, and I am possessive..(Scorpio Venus).But I do not make him my life...I do my own thing.. Also, I am the more talkative one.. He piggybacks off of me.. Please give me some pointers in keeping him...

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I think it'd be boring. but it depends on the chart.

A Leo moon sag would spice things up a little for the couple. But I get bored and there isn't enough drama or excitement for a sag with my moon. It's too chill and laid back and lazy for me.

What is your moon sign? I am a Sag sun with a Leo moon, Leo Mars, Sag Mercury, and Venus in Scorpio. He is a Sag sun, moon, mercury, Venus and Mars... We both have Pisces rising.

I have the same placements as you but with a Cancer moon.

Lord help you dealing with a guy with so much Sag energy LMAO!

You are really gonna have to tick all of his boxes in order for him to commit to you.

And you know for us (Sag) you don't need to be perfect, just be what we want and be prefect for us. Like a puzzle piece that falls in place.

This is funny; because he is already claiming me as his woman...

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Well then that's definitely a win. You must check the boxes!

I usually think someone is the one pretty early on, and then start backtracking once they start unloading their baggage 😆

I'm not trying to work through problems. I'm selfish like that. I'm trying to forget about them and build to move forward.

My relationship themes need to be similar to this book 😆

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I think it'd be boring. but it depends on the chart.

A Leo moon sag would spice things up a little for the couple. But I get bored and there isn't enough drama or excitement for a sag with my moon. It's too chill and laid back and lazy for me.

What is your moon sign? I am a Sag sun with a Leo moon, Leo Mars, Sag Mercury, and Venus in Scorpio. He is a Sag sun, moon, mercury, Venus and Mars... We both have Pisces rising.

I have the same placements as you but with a Cancer moon.

Lord help you dealing with a guy with so much Sag energy LMAO!

You are really gonna have to tick all of his boxes in order for him to commit to you.

And you know for us (Sag) you don't need to be perfect, just be what we want and be prefect for us. Like a puzzle piece that falls in place.

This is funny; because he is already claiming me as his woman...

Well then that's definitely a win. You must check the boxes!

I usually think someone is the one pretty early on, and then start backtracking once they start unloading their baggage 😆

I'm not trying to work through problems. I'm selfish like that. I'm trying to forget about them and build to move forward.

My relationship themes need to be similar to this book 😆

https://prodimage.images-bn.com/pimages/9780593096000_p0_v1_s550x406.jpg


You are spot on with your comments...A true Saggie!

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Posted by saggurl88

I think it'd be boring. but it depends on the chart.

A Leo moon sag would spice things up a little for the couple. But I get bored and there isn't enough drama or excitement for a sag with my moon. It's too chill and laid back and lazy for me.

What is your moon sign? I am a Sag sun with a Leo moon, Leo Mars, Sag Mercury, and Venus in Scorpio. He is a Sag sun, moon, mercury, Venus and Mars... We both have Pisces rising.

I have the same placements as you but with a Cancer moon.

Lord help you dealing with a guy with so much Sag energy LMAO!

You are really gonna have to tick all of his boxes in order for him to commit to you.

And you know for us (Sag) you don't need to be perfect, just be what we want and be prefect for us. Like a puzzle piece that falls in place.

This is funny; because he is already claiming me as his woman...

Well then that's definitely a win. You must check the boxes!

I usually think someone is the one pretty early on, and then start backtracking once they start unloading their baggage 😆

I'm not trying to work through problems. I'm selfish like that. I'm trying to forget about them and build to move forward.

My relationship themes need to be similar to this book 😆

https://prodimage.images-bn.com/pimages/9780593096000_p0_v1_s550x406.jpg


How old are you if you do not mind me asking?

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Posted by saggurl88

I think it'd be boring. but it depends on the chart.

A Leo moon sag would spice things up a little for the couple. But I get bored and there isn't enough drama or excitement for a sag with my moon. It's too chill and laid back and lazy for me.

What is your moon sign? I am a Sag sun with a Leo moon, Leo Mars, Sag Mercury, and Venus in Scorpio. He is a Sag sun, moon, mercury, Venus and Mars... We both have Pisces rising.

I have the same placements as you but with a Cancer moon.

Lord help you dealing with a guy with so much Sag energy LMAO!

You are really gonna have to tick all of his boxes in order for him to commit to you.

And you know for us (Sag) you don't need to be perfect, just be what we want and be prefect for us. Like a puzzle piece that falls in place.

This is funny; because he is already claiming me as his woman...

Well then that's definitely a win. You must check the boxes!

I usually think someone is the one pretty early on, and then start backtracking once they start unloading their baggage 😆

I'm not trying to work through problems. I'm selfish like that. I'm trying to forget about them and build to move forward.

My relationship themes need to be similar to this book 😆

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How old are you if you do not mind me asking?

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I'm in my mid life crises years between 35 and 45 lol

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Can a Sagittarius man and a Sagittarius woman have a long-term relationship or marriage?

Depends on the stage they are in when they meet and the energy that each Sag gives off. Have you ever met a Sag and although you understood them, they irked or annoyed you at times, while others you vibe really well and hardly have any issues? I would guess it's the same with romantic pairings as well.

This is true. There was a male Sag that use to irk me every time that he opened his mouth...He was very loud..

Ok, that's me. 😄 I'm loud around my friends, so when I really get into some topic, I can be loud, and then friends will say that I should be quieter, and I'm like, I don't give a fuck, lol. I'm not some shy or insecure wuss that cannot express himself fully.

And about Sag-Sag pairing, well...I've met many female Sags throughout my life, and there was always chemistry, even when I later found out about them being the same sign, they always wanted to bang me quickly, even the shyest ones, lol. I've dated one Sagi for a year, maybe a bit more, with some breaks from time to time, but we ended our relationship in August last year. I'm Sag/Scorp, and she is Sag/Virgo, my moon is in Leo, and hers is in Aries. She had many issues and was always complaining that I didn't have enough time for her, and for me, 3x per week (or sometimes 2) was more than enough. She doesn't have any friends, so she was jealous every time that I would hang out with my friends instead of with her, and then she would be outraged via text, break up, block me, then unblock me after a week or two, then we would be together again after me texting her, and so on. Each time she behaved like that, I took more time as a sort of punishment to text her first...she never argued with me in person, always via text when she was mad.

So honestly, it was easy with arranging a time with her or postponing the date, or whatever...but she was not so talkative, so I've found her more and more boring because when we would see each other, I would talk for like, 80% of the time, and I wouldn't say I liked it. She didn't have anything going on in her life besides studying, and that was it. So after the last time that she was mad and wrote me nasty stuff about how she doesn't want to hear anything from me anymore, she blocked me...she expected me to reach out again because it would mean that things will be on her own terms...she still loves me, I know that, but I cannot continue like that anymore. Plus, she was so predictable every day; I would know what she will write and how. It became too repetitive, lol.

I haven't reached out, so she unblocked me after one month, then waited still if I will text, and because I didn't...I knew that she would do it, albeit being so prideful as she is. It was just an easy-going text, and I just ignored it...it was 2 months after we stopped texting and seeing each other...and now 8 months already passed, so yeah...I don't see the point in being with a person with no friends in her own life...I cannot be her life, just a part of it, that is how it's supposed to be, and I love my freedom, do not like possessive people. I know some other Sag-Sag pairings, but it would last up to one year or two, and that's it, most of the time.

Wow...This is me in a nut shell.. I don't have any friends, and I am possessive..(Scorpio Venus).But I do not make him my life...I do my own thing.. Also, I am the more talkative one.. He piggybacks off of me.. Please give me some pointers in keeping him...

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Well, I have a lot of Sag planets in my chart, so it means that I can have more pronounced certain characteristics than your Sagi, but in general, give a lot of space, don't be predictable with your texts, don't fall into routines, do not text excessively every day, or complain if for an example this week you saw each other two times instead of three, and chances would be higher that he will stick around. I mean, don't complain if he hangs out with his friends sometimes instead of with you...please do not be harsh and too blunt as we Sags can sometimes be...try to be more balanced. The good thing is that you are more talkative, so that is a plus and good luck. 🙂

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Posted by Easha23000us

Can a Sagittarius man and a Sagittarius woman have a long-term relationship or marriage?

Depends on the stage they are in when they meet and the energy that each Sag gives off. Have you ever met a Sag and although you understood them, they irked or annoyed you at times, while others you vibe really well and hardly have any issues? I would guess it's the same with romantic pairings as well.

This is true. There was a male Sag that use to irk me every time that he opened his mouth...He was very loud..

Ok, that's me. 😄 I'm loud around my friends, so when I really get into some topic, I can be loud, and then friends will say that I should be quieter, and I'm like, I don't give a fuck, lol. I'm not some shy or insecure wuss that cannot express himself fully.

And about Sag-Sag pairing, well...I've met many female Sags throughout my life, and there was always chemistry, even when I later found out about them being the same sign, they always wanted to bang me quickly, even the shyest ones, lol. I've dated one Sagi for a year, maybe a bit more, with some breaks from time to time, but we ended our relationship in August last year. I'm Sag/Scorp, and she is Sag/Virgo, my moon is in Leo, and hers is in Aries. She had many issues and was always complaining that I didn't have enough time for her, and for me, 3x per week (or sometimes 2) was more than enough. She doesn't have any friends, so she was jealous every time that I would hang out with my friends instead of with her, and then she would be outraged via text, break up, block me, then unblock me after a week or two, then we would be together again after me texting her, and so on. Each time she behaved like that, I took more time as a sort of punishment to text her first...she never argued with me in person, always via text when she was mad.

So honestly, it was easy with arranging a time with her or postponing the date, or whatever...but she was not so talkative, so I've found her more and more boring because when we would see each other, I would talk for like, 80% of the time, and I wouldn't say I liked it. She didn't have anything going on in her life besides studying, and that was it. So after the last time that she was mad and wrote me nasty stuff about how she doesn't want to hear anything from me anymore, she blocked me...she expected me to reach out again because it would mean that things will be on her own terms...she still loves me, I know that, but I cannot continue like that anymore. Plus, she was so predictable every day; I would know what she will write and how. It became too repetitive, lol.

I haven't reached out, so she unblocked me after one month, then waited still if I will text, and because I didn't...I knew that she would do it, albeit being so prideful as she is. It was just an easy-going text, and I just ignored it...it was 2 months after we stopped texting and seeing each other...and now 8 months already passed, so yeah...I don't see the point in being with a person with no friends in her own life...I cannot be her life, just a part of it, that is how it's supposed to be, and I love my freedom, do not like possessive people. I know some other Sag-Sag pairings, but it would last up to one year or two, and that's it, most of the time.

Wow...This is me in a nut shell.. I don't have any friends, and I am possessive..(Scorpio Venus).But I do not make him my life...I do my own thing.. Also, I am the more talkative one.. He piggybacks off of me.. Please give me some pointers in keeping him...

Well, I have a lot of Sag planets in my chart, so it means that I can have more pronounced certain characteristics than your Sagi, but in general, give a lot of space, don't be predictable with your texts, don't fall into routines, do not text excessively every day, or complain if for an example this week you saw each other two times instead of three, and chances would be higher that he will stick around. I mean, don't complain if he hangs out with his friends sometimes instead of with you...please do not be harsh and too blunt as we Sags can sometimes be...try to be more balanced. The good thing is that you are more talkative, so that is a plus and good luck. 🙂

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I need to tap into my Libra North node for this...This is why Libra women marry Sag men the most, and have long term relationships with them...