Saggy no likie?

So. If a sagittarius is awkward around you, and obviously is happy go-lucky around EVERY SINGLE OTHER human being, what is probably going through their head?
And let's just say it's a bad awkward not a 'oh, he just likes you!' awkward. At least I assume it's bad.

I thought saggys moved on quick? As in pretend you never meant anything and be all happy again, not 'oh god it's her, please don't talk to me'.
I mean I don't really deserve that. I think.

Posted by ZombieCat
I thought saggys moved on quick? As in pretend you never meant anything and be all happy again, not 'oh god it's her, please don't talk to me'.
I mean I don't really deserve that. I think.

I totally act like tht around an old flame. lol. i think to myself "omg, here is comes. i hope he doesnt say anything weird. i hope he doesnt ask for a hug. eww". then i just quickly move to another end of the party, every time.

The majority of the time, i dont know how the other person is going to act. so i just walk on egg shells (awkwardness) or completely ignore the issue.

especially watery types.

Hows that goin zombie?

The Sag probably thinks you want to bring shit up, and talk about it.

I hate that feeling. That's why I always burn my bridges.

Venus in libra don't like to talk about things? ahaha
Cause I sure do.

Posted by Sag89
Hows that goin zombie?

Well honestly after I asked the question he didn't seem interested in sleeping with me anymore.
So I regret.

Well I already set him aside and talked to him about stupid shit which was literally the question 'do you still want to sleep together' then we talked about sun roofs, but after that came him being super awkward/no wanna say hi to you thing.

Alright. Forget understanding.
Can I fix it?
Doesn't matter if there's a point. I just don't want him to act weird, cause I'm sure as hell done doing weird stuff.
That's what I get for having no boundaries for people. I know now. No one can handle anything. I got it.

What did you ask him?

If whatever we were could ever progress. That's it. He knew I didn't like the answer. But I told him I was fine with it.
And it's only gone downhill from there.
I'm seriously reconsidering sag men being awesome. I'm starting to suspect they aren't at all.

gurl please, all of DXP knows you arent fine with his answer.

Posted by ZombieCat
If whatever we were could ever progress. That's it. He knew I didn't like the answer. But I told him I was fine with it.
And it's only gone downhill from there.
I'm seriously reconsidering sag men being awesome. I'm starting to suspect they aren't at all.

Well maybe he doesn't want to hurt you. I'm sure he thinks since you brought it up in the first place that it's something you want. Even if you don't now, and were just curious.

Posted by silentkiller
He OFCOURS knows, you are not fine with it, that's why he's backing off. Other wise he knows, he will be the asshole that kept on sleeping with you but not wanting anything out of it. You should be thanking him man! He is not awesome. He is just a dude not looking for commitment, and that also Means no weird "talks" about "feelings" and what not. Only thing to do is to leave it be. And not to "win him back". Just leave it be to leave it be.

QFT

I want things to end my way for once. That'd be nice.
Please?
People never want to stay. Sex won't keep people around. Friendship won't. Being family won't. I've even tried bribing them with food.
What will?? Gosh people are nuts.

You know what, I think it's a control thing. But I'm pretty sick of it. Wish I could just control myself.

Posted by ZombieCat
I want things to end my way for once. That'd be nice.
Please?
People never want to stay. Sex won't keep people around. Friendship won't. Being family won't. I've even tried bribing them with food.
What will?? Gosh people are nuts.

You know what, I think it's a control thing. But I'm pretty sick of it. Wish I could just control myself.

This person isn't everyone in the world.

Definitely right Sag89; there are more fish in the sea or horses in the stable Zombie.

i know it sounds cliche but your young and you will meet many frogs in your travels. Theres a prince out there for ya 🙂

Its true what others are saying, hes actually trying to do the adult thing and not take advantage of your feelings for him. admirable.

he doesnt want to hurt you. dont fault yourself for having feelings and expressing them. you will find the right one to express 2 and they will express right back 🙂

Posted by DMV
Definitely right Sag89; there are more fish in the sea or horses in the stable Zombie.

i know it sounds cliche but your young and you will meet many frogs in your travels. Theres a prince out there for ya 🙂

Its true what others are saying, hes actually trying to do the adult thing and not take advantage of your feelings for him. admirable.

he doesnt want to hurt you. dont fault yourself for having feelings and expressing them. you will find the right one to express 2 and they will express right back 🙂

+1

Argh. I guess. Can someone just take my leo moon? Take my time slot. Why couldn't it be aquarius or even sag so I could just float the boat and walk away from things instead of do or die. You ladies could probably handle yourselves 10x better than I can at this age. I'm probably going to be immature forever. God help the man who comes to love me.

I really do appreciate everyone's answers even if I don't respond to them. Guess I just try to vent here. 😛

Posted by ZombieCat
Argh. I guess. Can someone just take my leo moon? Take my time slot. Why couldn't it be aquarius or even sag so I could just float the boat and walk away from things instead of do or die. You ladies could probably handle yourselves 10x better than I can at this age. I'm probably going to be immature forever. God help the man who comes to love me.

I really do appreciate everyone's answers even if I don't respond to them. Guess I just try to vent here. 😛

i didnt start "dating" till well after college. i really didnt understand men and what it means to be attracted to someone and have someone attracted to me.

i kinda still dont. men can be such an enigma.

Posted by ZombieCat
Argh. I guess. Can someone just take my leo moon? Take my time slot. Why couldn't it be aquarius or even sag so I could just float the boat and walk away from things instead of do or die. You ladies could probably handle yourselves 10x better than I can at this age. I'm probably going to be immature forever. God help the man who comes to love me.

I really do appreciate everyone's answers even if I don't respond to them. Guess I just try to vent here. 😛

You are young. One day you will be centered and what comes and goes won't push you over.

Posted by silentkiller

Posted by DMV

Posted by ZombieCat
Argh. I guess. Can someone just take my leo moon? Take my time slot. Why couldn't it be aquarius or even sag so I could just float the boat and walk away from things instead of do or die. You ladies could probably handle yourselves 10x better than I can at this age. I'm probably going to be immature forever. God help the man who comes to love me.

I really do appreciate everyone's answers even if I don't respond to them. Guess I just try to vent here. 😛

i didnt start "dating" till well after college. i really didnt understand men and what it means to be attracted to someone and have someone attracted to me.

i kinda still dont. men can be such an enigma.

QFT right back at ya!! 😄 I love men. I hate men. They have an effect on me, that woman can never have. And I love it. And I hate it. Taking away my freedom!!! ARG!

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Hahaha. So true c:
I like how men think we're confusing. But at least we're more expressive. My roomie was just talking about how her dude was going through some things and tried to push her away and end it. Then texted her to just let him know if she wants to fuck. Nice.
She ended it when he decided to come back around quietly, not even sparing the time and honestly I wouldn't've had the restraint she did.

I always compromise to keep people around.. I'll try to remember that it should not be that way. Especially with guys.
C:

Posted by Sag89

Posted by ZombieCat
Argh. I guess. Can someone just take my leo moon? Take my time slot. Why couldn't it be aquarius or even sag so I could just float the boat and walk away from things instead of do or die. You ladies could probably handle yourselves 10x better than I can at this age. I'm probably going to be immature forever. God help the man who comes to love me.

I really do appreciate everyone's answers even if I don't respond to them. Guess I just try to vent here. 😛

You are young. One day you will be centered and what comes and goes won't push you over.

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Reminds me of my favorite: "people come and people go, but I don't ever want to say goodbye. I only want to say goodnight"
I suppose I hold onto that too strong. Can't force people to stay.
Thank you for your wisdom 🙂

Posted by mariathesag
It's when I don't really know what to say or do. Deer caught in headlights.

Maybe it's more of a scorpio-sag dynamic too. There's this scorpio girl and sometimes I come up with nothing... caught in between acknowledging her feelings and my own restraint and inhibitions, it cancels out and i come up with zilch.

I honestly would rather it be something like that then "ew it's that girl oh god please don't talk to me crap she's coming my way fuck" hahahah really.
I wish people weren't so.. unexpressive. I was hoping like the leo moon we share he would be. I straight up tell people what I think of them/where we stand. But he seems more hesitant..
And I thought older sags were better. :/
I understand though.
I'm honestly going to keep inviting him over for awhile proooobably until he starts ignoring me. It is in my nature. That is until he tells me to stop >_>;

Posted by ZombieCat
I thought saggys moved on quick? As in pretend you never meant anything and be all happy again, not 'oh god it's her, please don't talk to me'.
I mean I don't really deserve that. I think.

We never truly "move on" from someone we truly liked. We may not communicate for a while, but eventually we'll pop in to see which way the wind is blowing lol. What Wynter said is true. If we feel you'll constantly bring up stuff that is settled or just like to argue/be controlling, we'll keep our distance.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by ZombieCat
I thought saggys moved on quick? As in pretend you never meant anything and be all happy again, not 'oh god it's her, please don't talk to me'.
I mean I don't really deserve that. I think.

We never truly "move on" from someone we truly liked. We may not communicate for a while, but eventually we'll pop in to see which way the wind is blowing lol. What Wynter said is true. If we feel you'll constantly bring up stuff that is settled or just like to argue/be controlling, we'll keep our distance.

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So how does persistence settle with you people?
Does it come off as controlling?

I ALMOST feel bad.
His wave is so half-hearted, it seems like he has to force himself to acknowledge me. Almost as heartbreaking as his face when I asked him about dating. He seemed more upset than I was about the rejection.
Oh, how I'll never understand men.