@slowdive80
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Sagittarius Moon Monogamy Question
Yokooooo
lol Yoko. After reading as much stuff on Lennon as I have, she is an embarassment to other sag mooners.
It made my eyes roll when I found out she was one. Yeech...
Posted by slowdive80Just curious,
I have Moon and Mars in Sagittarius. And I've always been flexible when it comes
to being in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship (meaning just sex with others, no relationships though).
Basically, I can do either one. Just curious if that is common with sag mooners or if I am the unicorn out of the bunch.
I've always been weirdly detached when it comes to sex. Emotional infidelity is something I cant do aka polyamory however.
Feel free to give feedback if you're the flexible type too or not when it comes to being a Sag mooner.
I have same moon and mars and I can relate.
Posted by slowdive80Just curious,
I have Moon and Mars in Sagittarius. And I've always been flexible when it comes
to being in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship (meaning just sex with others, no relationships though).
Basically, I can do either one. Just curious if that is common with sag mooners or if I am the unicorn out of the bunch.
I've always been weirdly detached when it comes to sex. Emotional infidelity is something I cant do aka polyamory however.
Feel free to give feedback if you're the flexible type too or not when it comes to being a Sag mooner.
I am kind of the same. I love being with one person and one person only but if that is not an option I am okay with just having sex and letting it just be about sex. But then again life it’s busy and sometimes you can’t focus on a relationship.
I don’t feel like it’s a bad thing but you don’t have to see what you want in the long run. If you can turn the switch on and off of wanting a solid loyal relationship or just sex.
I totally get some people's suns can have more of an influence over them being monogamous then the moon sign.
To be clear, I do prefer monogamous relationships but at the same time it is not a problem for me doing an
open/nonpolyamory relationship aka permission to have sex with others but no relationship.
Problem i, there are men and women that cant separate sex from love. I dont fall in love with someone based on the fact they rocked my world in bed. I need a mental/emotional connection for that
At this point in my life I am not sure I have time for a relationship. I am in the midst of doing a potential move out of town around Feb of next year. Unless I find a an affordable place with my own room with just 1 roommate, then I will stay
But if I do move and get a job along with living situation on point, the only thing I am looking for is a FWB. Unless I meet a really cool girl whose work schedule is compatible with mine, in their 30's or late 20's at least.
Being in my late 30's I am leary of getting in a relationship with a girl that is early to mid 20's as I feel they are in a completely different head space.
I am not ruling out FWB, but no relationship as I dont think that would last since people in 20's change so much.
I do feel age has an influence as well on being flexible for monogamous/non-monog relationships. I'll hit the big 40 in a few years and I dont want unnecessary drama the wrong relationship can bring.
I've always been pretty good at sussing out girls who are not relationship material and that have crazy drama. For the non-monogamous relationships I just am open to the ones who dont have drama but at the same time may not be the monogamous type either.
IM not seeking out a non-monogamous relationship, it just depends on the type of girl which crosses my path.
Posted by slowdive80lol Yoko. After reading as much stuff on Lennon as I have, she is an embarassment to other sag mooners.
It made my eyes roll when I found out she was one. Yeech...
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I thought you were talking about Yoko Ono. Despite her image as being wrongly maligned, she is a very dark calculating woman if you do enough reading up on Lennon.
But if you werent then, nevermind. I am not up to date on internet phrases
Sag sun n moon here n have always been open to the idea of any sort of open relationship sitch be it poly or just sexual or whatevs. In my opinion as long as you're all on the same page with boundaries and actually communicate and listen to each other, why not. I can't be the only one to have any effect on (or affect, always get confuzzled with those two! lol) another person's feelings and/or desires, silly to think only one human can sway another human...idk, seems silly to think that way.
Anywhoozles. It's all very fluid in my opinion...as long as the people involved are mature enough to handle it accordingly why not...F it...live your life! lol 💛😘
Posted by tizianiMy input: Sag Moon is the heart of all darkness.
I'm a one person kind of sag mooner, I don't do casual. I also have Venus, Mars, Jup and Nep in sag.
I'm very much a monogamist lol I can do a fwbish deal but still being exclusive with each other or I'm out. But my Venus is Cap and bull mars. Plus I'm an only child, so I don't share well.
Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
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I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
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No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
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Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
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I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
It's just a question.
At worst it's a no but that also clears things.
Everything is better than uncertainty.
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I don't give up that easy. No is like a challenge to me sometimes. I'm a little delusional and just think they are lying 😆 Especially when their actions say they like me but their mouth says no.
The line between friendzoning and fuccking is too blurred with me when I deal with aqua men. I get too turned on by whatever innocence that I see in the ones that I'm attracted to. (I know they aren't really innocent but my mind and feelings deceive me) When I'm interested in one, I'm always too messy with them. A serious crash and burn. I only start acting normal when it's too late lol
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
It's just a question.
At worst it's a no but that also clears things.
Everything is better than uncertainty.
I don't give up that easy. No is like a challenge to me sometimes. I'm a little delusional and just think they are lying 😆 Especially when their actions say they like me but their mouth says no.
The line between friendzoning and fuccking is too blurred with me when I deal with aqua men. I get too turned on by whatever innocence that I see in the ones that I'm attracted to. (I know they aren't really innocent but my mind and feelings deceive me) When I'm interested in one, I'm always too messy with them. A serious crash and burn. I only start acting normal when it's too late lol
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I get this. It's bizarre the mismatched words and actions. This has to be an Aqua thing right?
I think what you're experiencing is common when you meet someone you really like. And when a Sag meets an Aqua, there's a special connection imo. When I first met my Aqua friend I would sometimes stutter when I was talking. I've never stuttered before in my life. I thought I was having a stroke lol
@Antiochus
If you guys aren't ready to acknowledge where you stand will you give a straightforward answer?
Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
It's just a question.
At worst it's a no but that also clears things.
Everything is better than uncertainty.
I don't give up that easy. No is like a challenge to me sometimes. I'm a little delusional and just think they are lying 😆 Especially when their actions say they like me but their mouth says no.
The line between friendzoning and fuccking is too blurred with me when I deal with aqua men. I get too turned on by whatever innocence that I see in the ones that I'm attracted to. (I know they aren't really innocent but my mind and feelings deceive me) When I'm interested in one, I'm always too messy with them. A serious crash and burn. I only start acting normal when it's too late lol
You need to learn how to listen.
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I completely agree with you! I'm trying though. I have 2 female Aquas that I interact with on a fairly regular basis and then you Aquas on the boards that continue to enlighten me. I'm learning.
It will get applied and I will do better the next time around.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
It's just a question.
At worst it's a no but that also clears things.
Everything is better than uncertainty.
I don't give up that easy. No is like a challenge to me sometimes. I'm a little delusional and just think they are lying 😆 Especially when their actions say they like me but their mouth says no.
The line between friendzoning and fuccking is too blurred with me when I deal with aqua men. I get too turned on by whatever innocence that I see in the ones that I'm attracted to. (I know they aren't really innocent but my mind and feelings deceive me) When I'm interested in one, I'm always too messy with them. A serious crash and burn. I only start acting normal when it's too late lol
I get this. It's bizarre the mismatched words and actions. This has to be an Aqua thing right?
I think what you're experiencing is common when you meet someone you really like. And when a Sag meets an Aqua, there's a special connection imo. When I first met my Aqua friend I would sometimes stutter when I was talking. I've never stuttered before in my life. I thought I was having a stroke lol
@Antiochus
If you guys aren't ready to acknowledge where you stand will you give a straightforward answer?
Is that really the case?
That would explain why my Sag neighbor behaviour always seemed so weird to me.
Regarding your question:
I think so but it might require you to ask us because we simply might not have considered this to be a thing.
However I can only talk about what is and even my emotions can be confusing. Add to that that I don't trust my emotions and you will have an honest answer that completly depicts where I stand but can be dissatisfying regardless of that.
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In my experience yes. Thankfully I wasn't the only one having trouble speaking and it's calmed down now. Ah that might be the case. But then again Sags are super weird anyways. You like her? Mayhap ask her out for tea or coffee.
Yep that sounds about right lol
My Aqua friend has the "emotions" problems and overthinks, plus she's very introverted. I think the point is we're all a mess lol
Posted by tizianiPosted by justagirlPosted by tizianiMy input: Sag Moon is the heart of all darkness.
LOL you found it
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I ignored it at first then decided at lunch to troll you.
Posted by slowdive80I thought you were talking about Yoko Ono. Despite her image as being wrongly maligned, she is a very dark calculating woman if you do enough reading up on Lennon.
But if you werent then, nevermind. I am not up to date on internet phrases
Nothing is wrong with being dark and calculating
Posted by FireStarterPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
It's just a question.
At worst it's a no but that also clears things.
Everything is better than uncertainty.
I don't give up that easy. No is like a challenge to me sometimes. I'm a little delusional and just think they are lying 😆 Especially when their actions say they like me but their mouth says no.
The line between friendzoning and fuccking is too blurred with me when I deal with aqua men. I get too turned on by whatever innocence that I see in the ones that I'm attracted to. (I know they aren't really innocent but my mind and feelings deceive me) When I'm interested in one, I'm always too messy with them. A serious crash and burn. I only start acting normal when it's too late lol
I get this. It's bizarre the mismatched words and actions. This has to be an Aqua thing right?
I think what you're experiencing is common when you meet someone you really like. And when a Sag meets an Aqua, there's a special connection imo. When I first met my Aqua friend I would sometimes stutter when I was talking. I've never stuttered before in my life. I thought I was having a stroke lol
@Antiochus
If you guys aren't ready to acknowledge where you stand will you give a straightforward answer?
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Sorry I just saw this!
Yes, I always lose my train of thought with Aquas because of their curious, wondering stare.It makes me nervous and want them at the same time. I think its adorable
I love how they observe and take everything in and I also love their spunk. Just really great personalities in general.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
It's just a question.
At worst it's a no but that also clears things.
Everything is better than uncertainty.
I don't give up that easy. No is like a challenge to me sometimes. I'm a little delusional and just think they are lying 😆 Especially when their actions say they like me but their mouth says no.
The line between friendzoning and fuccking is too blurred with me when I deal with aqua men. I get too turned on by whatever innocence that I see in the ones that I'm attracted to. (I know they aren't really innocent but my mind and feelings deceive me) When I'm interested in one, I'm always too messy with them. A serious crash and burn. I only start acting normal when it's too late lol
I get this. It's bizarre the mismatched words and actions. This has to be an Aqua thing right?
I think what you're experiencing is common when you meet someone you really like. And when a Sag meets an Aqua, there's a special connection imo. When I first met my Aqua friend I would sometimes stutter when I was talking. I've never stuttered before in my life. I thought I was having a stroke lol
@Antiochus
If you guys aren't ready to acknowledge where you stand will you give a straightforward answer?
Is that really the case?
That would explain why my Sag neighbor behaviour always seemed so weird to me.
Regarding your question:
I think so but it might require you to ask us because we simply might not have considered this to be a thing.
However I can only talk about what is and even my emotions can be confusing. Add to that that I don't trust my emotions and you will have an honest answer that completly depicts where I stand but can be dissatisfying regardless of that.
In my experience yes. Thankfully I wasn't the only one having trouble speaking and it's calmed down now. Ah that might be the case. But then again Sags are super weird anyways. You like her? Mayhap ask her out for tea or coffee.
Yep that sounds about right lol
My Aqua friend has the "emotions" problems and overthinks, plus she's very introverted. I think the point is we're all a mess lol
Well, it took me around five years to realize that I'm attracted to her but that ship has sailed and found another home port anyway.
Mhm, I guess the introversion would make things even worse.
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Oh I'm always late to the party too. Don't worry there will be other ships. But when you find the right one, you better climb aboard lol
It does. I consider myself an ambivert so I don't quite understand or relate to some introverted tendencies. For an example if you don't text back for awhile, logically I think you do not want to talk. But I guess that's not always the case.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by FireStarterPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
It's just a question.
At worst it's a no but that also clears things.
Everything is better than uncertainty.
I don't give up that easy. No is like a challenge to me sometimes. I'm a little delusional and just think they are lying 😆 Especially when their actions say they like me but their mouth says no.
The line between friendzoning and fuccking is too blurred with me when I deal with aqua men. I get too turned on by whatever innocence that I see in the ones that I'm attracted to. (I know they aren't really innocent but my mind and feelings deceive me) When I'm interested in one, I'm always too messy with them. A serious crash and burn. I only start acting normal when it's too late lol
I get this. It's bizarre the mismatched words and actions. This has to be an Aqua thing right?
I think what you're experiencing is common when you meet someone you really like. And when a Sag meets an Aqua, there's a special connection imo. When I first met my Aqua friend I would sometimes stutter when I was talking. I've never stuttered before in my life. I thought I was having a stroke lol
@Antiochus
If you guys aren't ready to acknowledge where you stand will you give a straightforward answer?
Sorry I just saw this!
Yes, I always lose my train of thought with Aquas because of their curious, wondering stare.It makes me nervous and want them at the same time. I think its adorable
I love how they observe and take everything in and I also love their spunk. Just really great personalities in general.
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It's ok np
🙂
Yes I've gotten lost in that stare many times. Feel like one of those cheesy cliches.
I like all those things too. I really like their quirkiness and non judgemental attitude. And this may just be my friend but I really appreciate that she laughs at all my stupid jokes/puns. Even my Pisces friend I've known for over a decade sighs and tells me to go home lol
Posted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPuhh, good question.
I'm pretty loyal but don't really need the exclusive or monogamous tag.
All I need is to know where both parties stand.
What if they stand far apart but want to be close to each other? Do you Aquas even let someone know where they stand?
Usually.
I guess that falls into the category of whether the Aqua likes the person or not 🙂
The ones I dated didn't like me much, cause I never knew where I stood with them.
Did you ask?
No, I'm always too scared to. 😢 I don't know why I just can't act regular with Aquas. I like them too much and just get freaked out. I overthink too much sometimes and would rather not talk, then talk.
In that case it's more on you then them.
Yes, I'm aware that I'm flawed. I make it hard on myself.
Just ask or voice it the next time.
I will. I'm actually finding it way easier to be silly and play with Aquas that I don't like. 😢 I get too nervous with the ones that I do like,it's super annoying on my part, cause I can't force myself to get over it and get some guts lol
I will try to be more open if I ever come across another sexy one. 😄
It's just a question.
At worst it's a no but that also clears things.
Everything is better than uncertainty.
I don't give up that easy. No is like a challenge to me sometimes. I'm a little delusional and just think they are lying 😆 Especially when their actions say they like me but their mouth says no.
The line between friendzoning and fuccking is too blurred with me when I deal with aqua men. I get too turned on by whatever innocence that I see in the ones that I'm attracted to. (I know they aren't really innocent but my mind and feelings deceive me) When I'm interested in one, I'm always too messy with them. A serious crash and burn. I only start acting normal when it's too late lol
I get this. It's bizarre the mismatched words and actions. This has to be an Aqua thing right?
I think what you're experiencing is common when you meet someone you really like. And when a Sag meets an Aqua, there's a special connection imo. When I first met my Aqua friend I would sometimes stutter when I was talking. I've never stuttered before in my life. I thought I was having a stroke lol
@Antiochus
If you guys aren't ready to acknowledge where you stand will you give a straightforward answer?
Is that really the case?
That would explain why my Sag neighbor behaviour always seemed so weird to me.
Regarding your question:
I think so but it might require you to ask us because we simply might not have considered this to be a thing.
However I can only talk about what is and even my emotions can be confusing. Add to that that I don't trust my emotions and you will have an honest answer that completly depicts where I stand but can be dissatisfying regardless of that.
In my experience yes. Thankfully I wasn't the only one having trouble speaking and it's calmed down now. Ah that might be the case. But then again Sags are super weird anyways. You like her? Mayhap ask her out for tea or coffee.
Yep that sounds about right lol
My Aqua friend has the "emotions" problems and overthinks, plus she's very introverted. I think the point is we're all a mess lol
Well, it took me around five years to realize that I'm attracted to her but that ship has sailed and found another home port anyway.
Mhm, I guess the introversion would make things even worse.
Oh I'm always late to the party too. Don't worry there will be other ships. But when you find the right one, you better climb aboard lol
It does. I consider myself an ambivert so I don't quite understand or relate to some introverted tendencies. For an example if you don't text back for awhile, logically I think you do not want to talk. But I guess that's not always the case.
Cap Venus?
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Me? Yes
Her...not exactly sure but there's a high chance it's also Cap either that or Aqua.
Titles scare me. It brings expectation and obligation to me
I need to know that ur loyal to me bc I don’t do poly nor do I share but if you’re shoving “be my gf be my gf” down my throat I’ll hate u
Wait until I’m basically dragging u to be my bf and me ur gf. That’s only happened once- w/ the Leo. I wanted to be his girl bc I was in love
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Just curious,
I have Moon and Mars in Sagittarius. And I've always been flexible when it comes
to being in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship (meaning just sex with others, no relationships though).
Basically, I can do either one. Just curious if that is common with sag mooners or if I am the unicorn out of the bunch.
I've always been weirdly detached when it comes to sex. Emotional infidelity is something I cant do aka polyamory however.
Feel free to give feedback if you're the flexible type too or not when it comes to being a Sag mooner.