male scorps birthday present

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by dward417 on Monday, October 23, 2006 and has 32 replies.

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@dward417
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I am currently dating this male scorp who I am crazy about. His birthday is Friday oct 27...I really want to get him something nice but I dont want to overdue it. Any suggestions?

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@dward417
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he likes to dress really nice....but he has tons of clothes.He likes sports...so I thought some tickets to the football game would be nice...but I dont know

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@sweet&sour
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yeah, that is so hard to figure out what my special one wants for his birthday. I would give him best sex ever if I just could do that.. πŸ˜‰ But geezz it's so hard to find a nice present for a Scorp.. 😒((((

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@dward417
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yea but you dont think that would be too expensive...I mean i want to keep i simple and sweet. We are only dating and nothing serious right now. You know you have to take things slow with a scorp guy.

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i think anything in the bedroom, including yourself.... πŸ˜‰

just kidding...i have the same birthday so i can tell you this: something that is thoughtful and personal (like SIL said), related to something he is interested in or passionate about - it shows him how much you've been paying attention these past couple of months.

something too expensive would turn me off, to be honest...i'd rather appreciate the thought behind something. taking him out to really nice dinner would be great; and you can present your thoughtful gift then.

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@CreepyPants
20 Years5,000+ Posts

haha! JD... if i were a fly, i'd land on you... cuz you're the shit!
*runs away laughing*

...

*walks back* πŸ˜‰ the smilies kill me too.

i like those ideas scorp-in-law. my gift giving tends to include utilitarian things(what can i say, im a cap)... things i notice a person would find useful in their life, very handy, perhaps something i notice that they need. i myself would like that. and i put a big line between need and want. but when it comes to the s.o.... im going to want to lavish him with both a 'need' and a 'want' because its nice to be treated with a luxury. and if i've gone crazy, which often happens when it comes to spending on a loved one, i'll throw in something that falls under both categories if i can find it. i think the key to gift giving for anyone is getting something that you sought out with them, what they embody, and/or what they like in mind. ahh, it's so much fun.
πŸ™‚

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@lubenica
20 Years

Yes,
the most important thing about the present is to be personilized, nothing generic (eg. a gift voucher, a tie, etc).
If he ever mentioned something that he loves, that is perfect, get something connected with it. The tickets for his favourite team that you can go together to, and maybe a dinner/lunch in his favourie restaurant. Music sounds great, who wouldn't be happy with an I-pod, just make sure he doesn't have the same one already. A subscription to the magazine (if he loves music, then maybe some magazine about the music?).
Doesn't matter how expensive it is, it must show that you put tought into it. The present that shows that you know him. That will surely put the smile on his face.

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@shortyrock
20 Years

Find out what his passion is, and get him something to go with that. It's such a good feeling to see their eyes light up like little boys when they see the time and effort you put into getting it for them, and it also shows that you've been paying attention to WHO THEY ARE...and not giving them just another meaningless gift! They love this!

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"my gift giving tends to include utilitarian things(what can i say, im a cap)... "

LOL...that reminds me, the first gift my ex-cap ever gave me was a fire extinguisher..i had just moved to a new apartment and he noticed i didn't have one.

at the time i didn't think it was romantic at all, but i look back on it now and think that was really sweet. πŸ™‚

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@dward417
19 Years1,000+ Posts

okay guys...i bought my scorp a leather jacket...with the gloves and hat to match. I cook him a lobster dinner and just pretty much pamper him...he told me be like the birthday card more than anything..isnt that interesting?