Talking ish (Page 2)

Posted by scorpdiva
Like I told him I would work on that I am not trying to be pushy or make him upset it just seem to happen but it's like me and him and go back and forth like that sometimes when it like let's just have sex and get it over it...

Also sometimes when he goes silent and I know it something probably something on my part I will try to say something sweet like I miss you or when am I going to see you and sometimes he is probably like damn one min she is pressing my buttons and the next she can't live without me, well I guess we will get it right on day or just be friends but he tell always says we will get it right.

that is what it feels like. some days, he sticks like glue...other days is distant as fuck.

the nice behavior that i get after my scorp has been a total butthead, dont make any sense. its liek are we going to talk about it or ignore it just like everything else.

if he would tell me what he doesnt like, i could make more a of known effort to correct some behavior. i dont like seeing him sad like he lost his puppy.

since he hasnt been talking to me, i have found out that he still goes out BUT he sits by my 2 girl friends all night long. never leaves their sides. and they said that he is real quiet and shy, withdrawn.

its like he chooses to live in his depression sometimes....i know he thinks about me 24/7 and hes acting like this because he misses me but cant spit it out.

*i am egotistical lol....blessing and a curse

@DMV he will end up contacting you becuase he is not going to be happy until he does at least I know when my sagg and I took a 2 month break I had to break my pride and contact him since I felt like I was in the wrong. Also I tell my sagg all the time what I dont like and he will do good for a while then it seems like nothing is change maybe it a male thing but me talking to him doesnt work and then when I raise my voice to him it's a problem, but how else can I get my point across if you love me as much as you say you do you should be willing to compromise.

Posted by sag1026
Btw, sags as boyfriends are the worst in my experience 🙂. Have you dated a Leo? They say theyre ideal for us. 🙂

I dated a leo for more than a year. Was my most serious relationship and we're best friends now tho he we butt heads now a lot. We didn't used to back when we were dating. There was no power struggle when we were dating. We were both equal, and I really liked that 🙂 Was a very passionate and loving relationship, but it ended due to my own issues from a past relationship. Helped me to realize I need to make sure I am fully moved on before I attempt to date someone else.

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Posted by scorpdiva
Hours pass
me-"I miss you and I dont't know why, you don't give me any loving and you can be an azz"
Him- "I miss you to baby, and I am only a azz when u push me and you can a pusy motherfucka

Him, sounds like he was just retaliating. There's no hard feelings tho or otherwise he wouldn't have said "I miss you too"

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Im looking at it from a typical mans point of view, since I dont know him.
Maybe he said he miss her NOT to be rude, or he was lusting again. @Scorp Did he sound excited or kinda neutral saying it?

The fact that hes a Sag he will the truth, so maybe you are pushy, Sags dont cope well with emotions. I dont wanna get into a story but your Sag reminds me of my close friend, which is also a Sag. Their actions are the same.

@febfish he could have trying to be nice I might be a little pushy cause I do have a very dominant personality and I can be very demanding but nevertheless I have been kinda soft on here so if this is pusy then really he really can't handle me.

I agree that Sag are the wrost at a boyfriend that you could have he is the first sagg I have ever dated and now I see why, either way I think we still will be friends but I am in a being alone mood at the moment so I hope he doesnt take offensive to it but I am sure he will.

Posted by pigeonpie
That's what I mean though, learn to be less ?
I understand the not bothered about other birds thing, but sitting all depressed next to your mates ? Why go out in the first place ?

his gemini moon makes him social and likes parties etc...he hardly spends any time at home.

he likes to torture himself, if in order to sting me...he would sting himself first. he would definitly sacrifice himself for himself and to get his point across.

Posted by scorpdiva
@febfish he could have trying to be nice I might be a little pushy cause I do have a very dominant personality and I can be very demanding but nevertheless I have been kinda soft on here so if this is pusy then really he really can't handle me.

I agree that Sag are the wrost at a boyfriend that you could have he is the first sagg I have ever dated and now I see why, either way I think we still will be friends but I am in a being alone mood at the moment so I hope he doesnt take offensive to it but I am sure he will.

They make great friends but not great at emotional comfort, makes them uncomfortable they get irrational.
I dont wanna fuck up what good you have but yes It seems like he was being nice by saying he miss you, and I hope by you being pushy you aint trying to change his ways....cause thats like a real turn-off.

Posted by FebruaryFish

Posted by scorpdiva
@febfish he could have trying to be nice I might be a little pushy cause I do have a very dominant personality and I can be very demanding but nevertheless I have been kinda soft on here so if this is pusy then really he really can't handle me.

I agree that Sag are the wrost at a boyfriend that you could have he is the first sagg I have ever dated and now I see why, either way I think we still will be friends but I am in a being alone mood at the moment so I hope he doesnt take offensive to it but I am sure he will.

They make great friends but not great at emotional comfort, makes them uncomfortable they get irrational.
I dont wanna fuck up what good you have but yes It seems like he was being nice by saying he miss you, and I hope by you being pushy you aint trying to change his ways....cause thats like a real turn-off.

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that sag will start bucking if he ever feels constrained.

@bassace I see your point and the way you describe above does seem like it would be more effective, we had a long talk last night and it funny cause you wouldn't think of sagg to be jealous or possessive but I sense this in his voice last night he said he feels unwanted since he didn't answer the phone that day I just gave him a little space, he told me space will cause a person to stray away and I told him if I feel like you don't want to be bother with me that will cause me to stray also. He went on about why don't I need him or want him and then he ask unless someone else must be taking care of your needs. I simply told him that he knows I love him but sometimes I feel like he needs space espically when I am constanly trying to make contact and I feel ignored so he said he is going to work on that and I in return will work on making him feel wanted. Also he told me I need to be good since I know Valentine day is coming up he is something else but for right now it's all good, it snowed here last night and he text me first thing this morning to be careful driving to work.

ugh...Valentines Day...i hate that day.

@bassace, yeah we are going to see ecah other tomorrow so I think we do need to have that talk about is it offical or what but I would rather talk about it in person rather then by phone or text this way I can look him in straight in the eye.

I did not read past the first page.

But I agree, as a Sag I love talking shit. It's my favorite past time. 🙂


Part of my flirting style is talking shit...if he can keep up, and give it back to me, I sooo wanna do him.
I don't go for the sensitive defensive types. I like em confident/maybe a little cocky even. Someone who will make fun of me/talk shit back. 🙂

Damn I'm on a roll. ^^^that was my second 69th post today.

😄 lucky numbersssss

SO I had a kind funny conversation I thought I would put on here, I was talking on the phone to my sagg and he kinda piss me off by the way nothing unsual you know joking a lot when I am being serious(use to it). We start taking about being submissive and he was like your are a scorp you have no idea what being submissive means. I just thought that comment was so funny.

Also when I seen him the other night he was like let me apologize in advance for what I am about to do, and 2 hours later I knew exactly what he meant by that comment.

Posted by bassace

pps-we are serious too, you just need to say "seriously" before something important

I agree. Just make sure we know it's serious time.

(lol @ us being like kindergartners)

Posted by brianafay

Posted by bassace

pps-we are serious too, you just need to say "seriously" before something important

I agree. Just make sure we know it's serious time.

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haha...disclaimers before you even start talking...


even if people use the word "serious" i still cant seem to settle down the clown in me

@bassace it is not what he said it is what he did to my body I will just say, that he apologize in advance for, let's just say I was sore for two days after I seen him (but sore in a good way, it was a good workout indeed) 🙂

Posted by DMV

Posted by brianafay

Posted by bassace

pps-we are serious too, you just need to say "seriously" before something important

I agree. Just make sure we know it's serious time.

haha...disclaimers before you even start talking...


even if people use the word "serious" i still cant seem to settle down the clown in me

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:X haha true.

It's hard. Sometimes when they're being really seriously serious - too serious - it makes me laugh harder.

But I can be serious if need be.