Things a sag man does to show he likes you

I've been seeing my sag man for almost a year now on and off. We have been on and off because of me.Me being a taurus i'm always looking for security in a relationship and i really didnt see that in him. Lately we have spending a lot of time together, more than before. One day he ironed my clothes without me asking. I was shocked because he never really showed any considerate actions towards me before. Is this little gesture a sign that he really likes me?

Hi! :-)

Here is a link that helps me understand that question you ask😉 And goooood luck with the Sag!

http://astro-news.tumblr.com/post/13606463275

I read that already.

Can anyone interpret our birthdays. His is dec 8 1984 and mine is may 2 1978?

Ive been on both websites. Are there any sags that can help me? There has to be some types of sign that shows that a sag really cares for someone they are interested in.

Hmmmm...lets see....does he like you.

I'd say yes and for the obvious reason. He ironed your clothes. That's it...its that simple.

Perhaps you could throw some crumbs my way in my thread beautifulsoul!? :-)

Thank you. I like simple but sags are not simple to me. Can you give me some other examples like the one I gave. I trying to figure out how deep his feelings are for me. He always tells me how good I look and compliments my cooking. He really acts silly around me a lot more than before. Now we act silly together. I like my space and I give him his without asking a lot of questions. I love him but I don't want to tell him that for fear that he may feel caged in. sigh.....

men with a venus in cap go very very slowly. some of these dudes take months and even a year or more to start shelling out affection. his love language will be in action, not words.

ironing clothes was like him shouting from the rooftops his affection for you.

worst case scenario, he did something he shouldnt have done and is trying to make up for it on the low

Posted by DMV
men with a venus in cap go very very slowly. some of these dudes take months and even a year or more to start shelling out affection. his love language will be in action, not words.

ironing clothes was like him shouting from the rooftops his affection for you.

worst case scenario, he did something he shouldnt have done and is trying to make up for it on the low

^ Bingo. Both me and the sag guy I'm seeing have cap venuses. We work and move slow, working with quality rather than quantity and we show you what you mean to us. It's the little things like making you a cup of tea or turning the heating on for you when you say you're feeling cold. We're simple folk in that regard. If he's sticking around and doing stuff for you like that, its a good sign.

Posted by ilove2bATaurus
Thank you. I like simple but sags are not simple to me. Can you give me some other examples like the one I gave. I trying to figure out how deep his feelings are for me. He always tells me how good I look and compliments my cooking. He really acts silly around me a lot more than before. Now we act silly together. I like my space and I give him his without asking a lot of questions. I love him but I don't want to tell him that for fear that he may feel caged in. sigh.....

My sag and I both said I love you quite soon after getting together but its the sag kind of love; shared understanding, respectful love. Maybe because we're both the same sign that part was never a hurdle for us. It was organic and came from the right place. It didn't make us or anything feel caged in; business as usual just on the next level. But like I said above, it takes us a while for that love to build into even more significance.

Thank you all. I have asked him about his feelings for me once before. All he told me was what he thinks of me but not that he cared for me. And also that i should know how he feels already.Thats why i would stop communicating with him but he would always find a way to get me back speaking to him. Now since we have spending time together, i think he is trying to show me more of himself. He cooked for me for the first time the other day and it made me feel a little better about being patient with him.

I wouldnt force him 2 express his love how you want it. That would piss me off.

Sounds like u 2 speak different love languages

Posted by DMV
I wouldnt force him 2 express his love how you want it. That would piss me off.

Sounds like u 2 speak different love languages

Yes we do but always tells me to tell him how i feel, that he doesnt like me keeping things from him even if he doesnt like what im going to say.for me its scary because if i tell him that im in love with him it could tun him off.we been steady for a good 5 months with no real issues. Ive been patient with him and havent put any pressure on having more with him. Just going with the flow of things. When i need him, he's there and before it was hard to even see him when i wanted and we worked together.

My ex-sag took a year before he told me loved me. I told him first, being a scorpio (water sign), and we had been steady and exclusive for a few months before I told him. His comment to me at the time "pissed me off" but his explanation helped to really smooth things over so that when he told me a year later, it made those words all the more sweet and meaningful. When I told him first I love him, he said, "Ahh, thank you. That's very sweet." I know the look on my face must have been a cross between being very hurt and very angry, because he decided to explain. He said that for him, love isn't something that happens quickly, that it takes getting to know each other very well, spending a lot of time together, seeing each other in many different types of situations, and that he is extremely fond of me and cares for me, but that he wanted to be sure before he ever told me those particular words. I decided to be patient with him, give him time, see where it would go. I didn't force him to say those words. I would say them from time to time to let him know my feelings hadn't changed but would also let him know that I don't expect him to say them back to me until he knows. The night he told me he loved me was extremely beautiful. I had gotten home from work and he had fixed me an intimate dinner (which wasn't unusual for him), but I could tell something was different with him. He seemed nervous, almost insecure. In the midst of the dinner he had talked about all of the fun we had over the previous year, how much I made him laugh, how I was "fearless", how great the love-making was, how he loved to watch me sleep and to wake up in the mornings with my hair a mess from our escapades the night before, my make-up smeared, that I was sexier to him in those moments than any other time, and then suddenly he said, "I'm in love with you." It was the sweetest, most romantic, most sincere time I had ever heard those words and that one moment has stayed with me through the years because I knew in that moment, he was sincere and meant it completely.

@caraboo why is he your ex?

When he and I got together, it was before every household had the internet and computers (1995). In 1998, I finally got a computer system and the internet (back in dial up days). In 1999, I was having some issues with my computer, couldn't figure out what was going on with it, and checked the history on it. There were websites leading to child porn and/or incest. I ended it immediately. We were having problems prior to me finding that, such as he was perfectly content to allow me to provide for him financially, without helping out in any way. I had a young son to take care of, no financial assistance from my son's father whatsoever, and I was barely making it. At that point, I was already re-considering the relationship, when I found the websites in my history, there was not even a second thought about what to do.

Posted by caraboo
Perhaps you could throw some crumbs my way in my thread beautifulsoul!? :-)

_??_ Why be stingy and give crumbs when I'll give you a full loaf _??

LOL - Oh, I can handle a full loaf. I have an insatiable appetite. However, you entered the full loaf on the wrong thread. 😉

Oh wow! Thats crazy. Smh. Im thinking of disappearing for a couple days from my sag.

I wouldn't disappear on him. Sags appear all tough on the outside. And they are actually a tough breed, but they do have their sensitive parts. Don't play games in the relationship. Just remain steady, constant, and yourself. It is who you are that caught him to begin with, and who you are that will keep him. He may not be someone who will profess his love immediately, or even in words, but if he is still there, that means something.

I saw him yesterday. Went all sexy and smelling good. He did not intiate sex but kept slapping on my booty like we were going to and still sent me home. I was so disappointed because it had been a couple days. I dont want him to see how emotional i am about him, so i need to step back to get myself right again.

I havent heard from him all day either

I wouldn't read too much into that. Please, keep in mind that all healthy relationships are built upon mutual respect, care, and that sex is only one aspect of the relationship, an expression of the tenderness and care that you have for each other. There are many ways to express those types of feelings for each other, explore them all, including the subtle teasing (or not so subtle) and the anticipation that comes with that for the next time you can be together. Maybe send him an email and tell him what his "slapping your booty" made you feel, give details, about what you want to do to him for teasing you like that, how you are going to make him "pay" for that.

I told him as i was leaving how it made me feel. He just kept slapping it and laughing.smh

LOL - Then "torture" him a bit in return.

Ok got it. I will try that after i take a break.

The one thing I learned about my Sag ex, and my Sag "friend", they love "sex play", the dirtier the better, bordering almost on the vulgar. Actually, not even just "bordering on the border", as there are very few lines they aren't willing to cross. They want to experience it all. His teasing you was because he knew it would get to you, and it may just be a way for him to introduce another element into your relationship.

Oh ok wow. Now i cant wait to see what he's gonna do. He does say the he's a freak but will not tell me how freaky he is. Im freaky too. I even told him some things that i wanted to do with him.he didnt really ask any questions about it so i guess he is waiting to see.

That's what I meant by emailing him and telling him how his slapping your booty made you feel, and how you are going to "punish" him. The more details (the nastier) you can make it, the more he will enjoy it. lol And yes, they are "freaks", it's what I love about them.

I strongly disagree. Him ironing your clothes means zip. Its just means he's considerate or thoughtful NOT that he's falling.

Sagittarians are very blunt. If you want to know something such as if he's interested in you on a serious romantic level then just ask him. He WILL tell you straight out. Ask him if he could see himself being in a relationship with you in the near future and ask him if he's interested in going towards that goal together. He will either say yes or no. They don't mess around when you don't. If your straight up with him and direct, he will throw it right back.

Honestly I haven't met a Fire sign that's not blunt and straight to the point about what they want. Honestly the fact that your up in the air on where you stand is not good to me. You need to ask him wassup and fast.

Hes keeping his distance because u arent fun nemore, ur starting to feel like work to him. Hes a playful guy.

Posted by pinklibra
I strongly disagree. Him ironing your clothes means zip. Its just means he's considerate or thoughtful NOT that he's falling.

Sagittarians are very blunt. If you want to know something such as if he's interested in you on a serious romantic level then just ask him. He WILL tell you straight out. Ask him if he could see himself being in a relationship with you in the near future and ask him if he's interested in going towards that goal together. He will either say yes or no. They don't mess around when you don't. If your straight up with him and direct, he will throw it right back.

Honestly I haven't met a Fire sign that's not blunt and straight to the point about what they want. Honestly the fact that your up in the air on where you stand is not good to me. You need to ask him wassup and fast.

Especially if hes a venus in cap. They choose you, you dont choose them. He will tell u exactly where u stand with him.

Posted by ilove2bATaurus
Oh ok wow. Now i cant wait to see what he's gonna do. He does say the he's a freak but will not tell me how freaky he is. Im freaky too. I even told him some things that i wanted to do with him.he didnt really ask any questions about it so i guess he is waiting to see.

Why dont u go buy a dildo and use it while he watches. Stop w all the emotional talk and get down to business.

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Posted by ilove2bATaurus
Oh ok wow. Now i cant wait to see what he's gonna do. He does say the he's a freak but will not tell me how freaky he is. Im freaky too. I even told him some things that i wanted to do with him.he didnt really ask any questions about it so i guess he is waiting to see.

Why dont u go buy a dildo and use it while he watches. Stop w all the emotional talk and get down to business.

Truth.

Showed up to Mr Sagman's hotel room wearing lingerie and a smile. Told him the agency sent me. Good times.

The current guy and i talked about going to the toy store, but never got around to it. Went with a girlfriend and picked up some goodies to surprise him with. You'd have thought it was christmas.

Sag guys love to play when they get down to business. 🙂

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Nice!

@Cheeky: I've frequented many a "toy store" with my exes...good times indeed _??

See look taurus, one mention of ass and the sag men are all over this place.

when a guy does any sort of laundry work for you.... loud n clear.

i had a bf do my laundry and he stopped me the first time he did it with the most serious look and said... "do not tell anyone i did this for you."

LMFAO

Posted by beautifulsoul74
@Cheeky: I've frequented many a "toy store" with my exes...good times indeed _—

Thats already in the works. I can tell he has not had a partner thats as open with sex as i am. When i asked him about going to the sex shop, his eyes lit up. Lol

I am surrounded by sags. My mom and dad are both sags.my bests friends are sags. My business partners are sags. Only a couple are blunt. The others have a hard time expressing their feelings because of fear. This sags guy is one type of sag that i have never met. Im not looking for negative feed back im looking for help to win over the sags. If he didnt like me then i dont think he would spend as much time as he does with me.

Posted by caraboo
The one thing I learned about my Sag ex, and my Sag "friend", they love "sex play", the dirtier the better, bordering almost on the vulgar. Actually, not even just "bordering on the border", as there are very few lines they aren't willing to cross. They want to experience it all. His teasing you was because he knew it would get to you, and it may just be a way for him to introduce another element into your relationship.

He came over the next day and put it down on me.this week he asked to come to my studio to hang out to see what i do. He even gave suggestions and that he wanted to help me grow the business.he's been there twice this week.

Posted by DMV
Hes keeping his distance because u arent fun nemore, ur starting to feel like work to him. Hes a playful guy.

Wrong, im very fun. Never boring to anyone that i've dated been told that i keep them on their toes. If sex is work then damn i dont want him. But i dont think he would keep coming back.i may be a taurus but im a different breed.i like security and by that i mean not having to worry about being cheated on. Im very independent, have my own everything so i dont need a man for much only to love me for me and sex. Thank you have a nice day!

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This page is ....=lmfao



tell us more about the ass slapping 🙂

I went wearing a long dress with a thong so my booty jiggled when i walked.his eyes were like dollar pieces. He slapped it a watched while it moved over and over and over again. Thats what he does when we're gettin it in. Slap it over and over.

Posted by CreepyPants
when a guy does any sort of laundry work for you.... loud n clear.

i had a bf do my laundry and he stopped me the first time he did it with the most serious look and said... "do not tell anyone i did this for you."

LMFAO

Yeah thats what he said to me. Lol that same day he cleaned my car and it wasnt even dirty.

I'm going to write you ladies a thread...all about Sag men. I'll give a prelude comment and its this: rarely do people look past the surface of actions and words. Get the deeper meaning.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm going to write you ladies a thread...all about Sag men. I'll give a prelude comment and its this: rarely do people look past the surface of actions and words. Get the deeper meaning.

😉 looking forward to it.

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Posted by DMV
Hes keeping his distance because u arent fun nemore, ur starting to feel like work to him. Hes a playful guy.

Wrong, im very fun. Never boring to anyone that i've dated been told that i keep them on their toes. If sex is work then damn i dont want him. But i dont think he would keep coming back.i may be a taurus but im a different breed.i like security and by that i mean not having to worry about being cheated on. Im very independent, have my own everything so i dont need a man for much only to love me for me and sex. Thank you have a nice day!

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Seem to have struck a nerve. Which means im onto something. Did he cheat or did something to imply that?

Venus in cappys know immediately if your the one for them. They may take time to show it, hardly ever saying it..but they know if they want you theyre going to make it clear.

Be wary, we venus n cappys seem to think the grass is greener.

I remember this one saggy w a venus in cappy. I found something I didn't like and he knew I found it. Instead of acknowledging it. He stayed silent and so did I. But then he starts doing all this nice shit. Cleaning up, etc. Aint never did that shit b4. Then I called him out bout it at a later date.

So what happened?

Aww shit this sag is still under 30, not even knee deep into his saturn return. U need to read up on saturian people and saturn returns. All relationships end b4 and during the SR. Not much relationship success till.....mid, late 30s or even 40s.

He doesnt even have kids right? If he doesnt u already know that he doesn't waste his time.

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Posted by ilove2bATaurus

Posted by SUT3point0
This page is ....=lmfao



tell us more about the ass slapping 🙂

I went wearing a long dress with a thong so my booty jiggled when i walked.his eyes were like dollar pieces. He slapped it a watched while it moved over and over and over again. Thats what he does when we're gettin it in. Slap it over and over.

Yea you seem like you might have some L B's on the backside

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Lmao what is L B's?

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Posted by ilove2bATaurus

Posted by DMV
Hes keeping his distance because u arent fun nemore, ur starting to feel like work to him. Hes a playful guy.

Wrong, im very fun. Never boring to anyone that i've dated been told that i keep them on their toes. If sex is work then damn i dont want him. But i dont think he would keep coming back.i may be a taurus but im a different breed.i like security and by that i mean not having to worry about being cheated on. Im very independent, have my own everything so i dont need a man for much only to love me for me and sex. Thank you have a nice day!

Seem to have struck a nerve. Which means im onto something. Did he cheat or did something to imply that?

Venus in cappys know immediately if your the one for them. They may take time to show it, hardly ever saying it..but they know if they want you theyre going to make it clear.

Be wary, we venus n cappys seem to think the grass is greener.

I remember this one saggy w a venus in cappy. I found something I didn't like and he knew I found it. Instead of acknowledging it. He stayed silent and so did I. But then he starts doing all this nice shit. Cleaning up, etc. Aint never did that shit b4. Then I called him out bout it at a later date.

So what happened?

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I have never found any signs that he is messing with any other women.Im over his house on the reg. i have some of my things there too. We talk about just about everything except our feelings. We just have fun.