this rollercoaster is getting crazier

SOO as i said in my previous post me and my sag guy have been having some issues.. needing space but texting other girls and ignoring me etc.. he asked me to see him yesterday and i went.. everything was normal, i left and a couple hours after i got home i texted him saying "I'm going to bed now, night night xx" he ignored me until the next day and until he saw id posted something on snapchat.. i replied in a friendly way to which again he ignored.. i fun this odd considering everything seemed normal the last time we'd hung out.

anyways i know this is bad but my curiosity got the best of me and i logged into his fb.. the same things were still going on and it hurt to see.. he was texting people while ignoring me, i called and asked him about it and he denied it. in the spur of the moment i said we should break up he replied saying i hadn't given him enough time and brought up how id been over the day before. (SOO CONFUSING he keeps saying he needs space and then HES the one who asks to see me.. he's the one who wanted me to move in with him.) he hung up on and ended the conversation.

prior to this we had arranged that id go and pick up some of my stuff while he wasnt home.he got home while i was still there and acted like nothing happened.. smiling, and even asked me to stay and watch game of thrones.. i said no and he got offended saying "enjoy yourself then" this threw me even MORE off because this was the same guy who just told me i don't give him enough space and now he's getting mad because I said no to hanging out. i let him know that i felt he was leaving me on the side while he finds a better option.

now i just don't know what to do.. it seems the more i go along with him the worse things get, he keeps saying he knows he doesn't wanna lose me but just needs space.. however asks to see me and gets offended when i say no

Dealt with this recently from a Sag girl... Don't let ANYONE treat you're like a option for their ego boost and to feel better about themselves.... Girl.. He sound so damaged... A lot of baggage... You obviously care, so try until you can't anymore ... You'll know when to give up...!!

Posted by libraqueen
Stop logging into his Facebook. 😢

im a leo and yes i know i really have to stop.. its just sad because we've never had this issue of trust before

Posted by arose32
Dealt with this recently from a Sag girl... Don't let ANYONE treat you're like a option for their ego boost and to feel better about themselves.... Girl.. He sound so damaged... A lot of baggage... You obviously care, so try until you can't anymore ... You'll know when to give up...!!

he does have a lot of baggage// he's made a lot of rules on how to live his life and what is and what is not acceptable. i really think he is conflicted.. he doesnt know whether his rules or me are more important (also should add this is his longest and most serious relationship). i just always thought if a time like this came he'd think it would be worth fighting for

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Posted by busyeyes88
We told you what to do in the last thread! It's obvious DUMP is stupid ass!!! He's looking at other girls to replace you and once he has found that particular girl the you will be dumped!! The only reason he is acting this way is because you tried to dump him before he dumped you!!

I thought Leos were smarter than that and had pride and their ego to maintain and you are letting this worthless sag get the better of you! You CAN do BETTER!!!

To be fair he had every right to dump HER for going through his personal Facebook, but he hasn't. Just give him his darn space.

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He's gone through my things in the past and during this time he's also been through my phone. Like I said we've never had these issues of trust . No message deleting etc. Now it seems like snooping cause I've found something but before for example it was JUST he generally on my phone or me on his phone not looking for or finding anything. And The couple of times in the past he's found something or I have, it's been explained and moved on from

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Posted by busyeyes88
We told you what to do in the last thread! It's obvious DUMP is stupid ass!!! He's looking at other girls to replace you and once he has found that particular girl the you will be dumped!! The only reason he is acting this way is because you tried to dump him before he dumped you!!

I thought Leos were smarter than that and had pride and their ego to maintain and you are letting this worthless sag get the better of you! You CAN do BETTER!!!

To be fair he had every right to dump HER for going through his personal Facebook, but he hasn't. Just give him his darn space.

Re his fb account.. You r right she has no right doing that but she is better off dumping him in the first place then she would not have to do that!


He has enough space... In fact he has so much space he is busy seeking out other women.... The OP needs to dump him!!

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I agree it's wrong and it's not something that FREQUENTLY occurs in our relationship but I don't want to make any decision based on assumptions and the last couple of weeks have made me quite insecure

He wants what he wants, when he wants it.


Sag mantra.

By a general rule of thumb, that's how we all behave.

Posted by Gobshite
You're an idiot. Get yourself some self-respect.

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