Update with my Leo

Hello all,

I came here for support since you get tired of talking to friends sometimes. I broke it off with the Leo I was dealing with since I felt like he was stringing me along. I did it in a way that I knew would either push him or away or appreciate my effort. We were talking and everythg seemed fine when he just stopped talking to me on Friday morning. Usually even if we don't speak during the day he will answer when I say gm or gn & he stopped & I ddn't hear from him all weekend. No answer to calls & no replies to texts. Tried to remain calm & not send anythg emotional or jump to conclusions.

So this morning I call in late to work (never made it) & head to his house to catch him coming home from work. Yes like I said I knew he would either love it or hate it but I cdn't leave thngs the way the were. So as soon as he pulled up he looked so happy to see me & stated that he lost his phone. He kept saying "wht are you doing here?. Why are you not @ work?". I wz like don't worry about it. He said he was going inside if I wanted to come. All of a sudden he starts to realize what I had done & got scared. He said "Wht wd you hve done if I wd hve hd someone w/me". I said "tht's fine you have every rght to do whtvr you want to do". Of course he ddn't believe tht. Anyway I said if you lost ur phone you could hve let me know. He really had nothing to say. I'm like listen right now you have me in limbo & that's not cool w/me. You gonna hve to decide wht you're gonna do. I said you don't wanna be bothered? Hd said after this no. It hurt but I said ok well give me my stuff tht's here. All the while he's looking scared like i'm going to do something to him. I honestly was really tired becuz I got up early & asked if I could rest before he took me back to the train. He said yes. I wanted to stay in the living room & he wanted me to go in the room. I told him if he was uncomfortable I would leave. He said "don't bite my line. I normally say that". So I go to the room & lay across the end of the bed fully clothed & he goes to take a shower. He comes back & tell me to take my shoes off & said no i'm fine. He said he's not. So we lay there he pulls me close (i knew nothg wd happen it's tht time of month). He kisses me I kiss him back. He takes out his stuff to see how far I wd go & I reject it.

All of a sudden an alarm on a phone goes off. I said I thght u lost it. He said it's a different phone. So I don't say much.

It was kind of hard to read your writting at some parts.

But what I got was that he said he lost his phone but had another one?

Is that right?

Yes. When we woke up his sister was calling (saw her name & face pop up). She seems to be very rooted into his life even thgh she has her own family. Anyway I when asked him he said "it's not the same phone". We got up from our nap & I left w/my bag of stuff. He drove me to the train. When I asked him again "are you sure this is what you want". He said "it's for the best". I said ok. I said well "why did u kiss me". He said "Why did u kiss me back". I said Whtvr you know I hve feelings for you". Anyway I told him I couldn't just stay with the way things were. He said I was trying to force a relationship. It's whtvr, just typical someone who just was ready for a relationship & I had to cut my losses.

Yes. When we woke up his sister was calling (saw her name & face pop up). She seems to be very rooted into his life even thgh she has her own family. Anyway I when asked him he said "it's not the same phone". We got up from our nap & I left w/my bag of stuff. He drove me to the train. When I asked him again "are you sure this is what you want". He said "it's for the best". I said ok. I said well "why did u kiss me". He said "Why did u kiss me back". I said Whtvr you know I hve feelings for you". Anyway I told him I couldn't just stay with the way things were. He said I was trying to force a relationship. It's whtvr, just typical someone who just was ready for a relationship & I had to cut my losses.