NobleSag
@NobleSag
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Why do I always fight?
He'd do that for the attention and security detail.
You're a Virgo moon. So it's understandable that you have a better grasp of your emotions. Robot moon.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHe hit my mother and physically abused then I got really and strong. He learned that verbal abuse was my achillies heal. I have a huge heart. I can't help it. As I've gotten older I tended to play the roll of his scapegoat. Even now. About a few months back I just walked away. He made accusations and got my ex upset. I told her the truth and after tonight she knows why he did it. It's always been about him. I'm cool with that. Now for future reference he has a record of what happens when you put my daughter in the pain I dealt with. I love my baby. I've screwed up so many things. I'm far from perfect but I'm a good daddy. That's all I need. This daddy don't fuck around. This is my the only thing I've ever done and not ever get tired or wanna quit. She's the best of me and she will be better because I won't let the worst of my family be in her life.
What was your father like growing up?
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHe hit my mother and physically abused then I got really and strong. He learned that verbal abuse was my achillies heal. I have a huge heart. I can't help it. As I've gotten older I tended to play the roll of his scapegoat. Even now. About a few months back I just walked away. He made accusations and got my ex upset. I told her the truth and after tonight she knows why he did it. It's always been about him. I'm cool with that. Now for future reference he has a record of what happens when you put my daughter in the pain I dealt with. I love my baby. I've screwed up so many things. I'm far from perfect but I'm a good daddy. That's all I need. This daddy don't fuck around. This is my the only thing I've ever done and not ever get tired or wanna quit. She's the best of me and she will be better because I won't let the worst of my family be in her life.
What was your father like growing up?
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXHe went to see a real doctor.
You guys need Maury.
Posted by LiveAndLovei tried and finally tonight my ex is gonna see the facts, this situation is something he caused. i warned her what he was doing
Instead of begging him to stop, just get your daughter away from him. Whether that's leaving his place or telling him he needs to get out of yours. I understand that feeling of seeing red when someone is hurting your child. But you need to get away from your Dad if you're ever in that position again and not try to fix the problem with violence :/
Posted by LiveAndLovei tried and finally tonight my ex is gonna see the facts, this situation is something he caused. i warned her what he was doing
Instead of begging him to stop, just get your daughter away from him. Whether that's leaving his place or telling him he needs to get out of yours. I understand that feeling of seeing red when someone is hurting your child. But you need to get away from your Dad if you're ever in that position again and not try to fix the problem with violence :/
Thanks ya'll i was supposed to watching my little bug sleep. Cooking in the morning. I hate this. She stays awayfrom him becuase hell say shady shit then she repeats it and he gets on her i told him to stop that shit.
Posted by Aliensusedourbogrollblood was pooling on the floor i put him in the er. as soon as he touched me i put him to sleepPosted by NobleSagUgghhh, your father is the worst! He knows how to trigger you and does it deliberately. And using your daughter to do it........What a massive PRICK! Hopefully the latest incident is just what you need to fully cut contact with him. Good luck!Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHe hit my mother and physically abused then I got really and strong. He learned that verbal abuse was my achillies heal. I have a huge heart. I can't help it. As I've gotten older I tended to play the roll of his scapegoat. Even now. About a few months back I just walked away. He made accusations and got my ex upset. I told her the truth and after tonight she knows why he did it. It's always been about him. I'm cool with that. Now for future reference he has a record of what happens when you put my daughter in the pain I dealt with. I love my baby. I've screwed up so many things. I'm far from perfect but I'm a good daddy. That's all I need. This daddy don't fuck around. This is my the only thing I've ever done and not ever get tired or wanna quit. She's the best of me and she will be better because I won't let the worst of my family be in her life.
What was your father like growing up?click to expand
I dislocated my finger. That maybe my next thread
Posted by TheLibraMudrathe guilt afterwards is worse.....
Sagi really blows up when mad lol
Posted by Aliensusedourbogrolli moved out before i graduated highschool, still graduated. Inormally let the personal shit slide but not with my girlPosted by NobleSagUgghhh, your father is the worst! He knows how to trigger you and does it deliberately. And using your daughter to do it........What a massive PRICK! Hopefully the latest incident is just what you need to fully cut contact with him. Good luck!Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHe hit my mother and physically abused then I got really and strong. He learned that verbal abuse was my achillies heal. I have a huge heart. I can't help it. As I've gotten older I tended to play the roll of his scapegoat. Even now. About a few months back I just walked away. He made accusations and got my ex upset. I told her the truth and after tonight she knows why he did it. It's always been about him. I'm cool with that. Now for future reference he has a record of what happens when you put my daughter in the pain I dealt with. I love my baby. I've screwed up so many things. I'm far from perfect but I'm a good daddy. That's all I need. This daddy don't fuck around. This is my the only thing I've ever done and not ever get tired or wanna quit. She's the best of me and she will be better because I won't let the worst of my family be in her life.
What was your father like growing up?click to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudrathat's dumb as hell i hate it, i tend to lose it my control, that anger has gotten me out of serious situations but i wish i didnt have itPosted by NobleSagMy sis used to flip her shite when drunk. Go around trying to fight everyone. Jfc like! Sit your ass down and eat some bread lolPosted by TheLibraMudrathe guilt afterwards is worse.....
Sagi really blows up when mad lolclick to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudrathat's dumb as hell i hate it, i tend to lose it my control, that anger has gotten me out of serious situations but i wish i didnt have itPosted by NobleSagMy sis used to flip her shite when drunk. Go around trying to fight everyone. Jfc like! Sit your ass down and eat some bread lolPosted by TheLibraMudrathe guilt afterwards is worse.....
Sagi really blows up when mad lolclick to expand
Posted by Seraphlighthe charged me i tried. i posted a thread months ago abouthow i cut them off but they used my daughter to leverage me back inPosted by NobleSagI think you need to cut him off. And work on being the best daddy. Be real with yourself though. You can't act like this yourself and be a good Dad. Get help ..before she taken from you and ends up in care ..which is really no care.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHe hit my mother and physically abused then I got really and strong. He learned that verbal abuse was my achillies heal. I have a huge heart. I can't help it. As I've gotten older I tended to play the roll of his scapegoat. Even now. About a few months back I just walked away. He made accusations and got my ex upset. I told her the truth and after tonight she knows why he did it. It's always been about him. I'm cool with that. Now for future reference he has a record of what happens when you put my daughter in the pain I dealt with. I love my baby. I've screwed up so many things. I'm far from perfect but I'm a good daddy. That's all I need. This daddy don't fuck around. This is my the only thing I've ever done and not ever get tired or wanna quit. She's the best of me and she will be better because I won't let the worst of my family be in her life.
What was your father like growing up?
You all need to sort yourselves out. This is not healthy.
The way you dealt with it IS NOT THE WAY TO DEAL WITH IT.
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Posted by DivaCanLeoI'll do what you do all the time and blame white people. Now were friends. That was easy
You sound like a nut. And you're trying to play victim.
Posted by DivaCanLeo
You need to see a therapist dude
I do but if a man wants to charge me im putting him to sleep. It's simple.
Posted by sagsagsagI'm 34. I visit often because he is the only surviving grandparent my daughter has and my brother went to prison and lost rights to his twin girls. I visited with my daughter to try and help him cope. He doesn't want to cope we wants attention from the pity. That hate was cultivated for years. My anger grows as my exposure to him increases. When i don't see him, I feel stronger, sharper, and more patient.
@NobleSag
I'm sorry you have to go through this and experienced it since you were little. It's always tough when you have to choose sides between people you love, because there will never be ex father and ex daughter. And no matter how you hate your dad, his blood still runs in you.
Live separately would be the best option I guess?
It's not a healthy environment for your daughter to live in and grow up with, you know, constant bullying could lessen her self worth and watching you fight with your dad is no good too.
Live separately while also checking on him from time to time.. I understand that when people gets older their psychological age turns backward thus they became a child again who needs a lot of attention. Maybe your dad is insecure and needs more attention? And that is why he's bullying everyone.. for the sake of his ego?
As for the anger issue... this is what works for me... when you're mad... leave for 15 mins - 1 hour take as many deep breath as you can and talk to someone who can make you laugh. Or just read or watch funny stuffs.
I know us Sags,.once we get distracted, that anger is gone in minutes ?
*****UPDATE******
I posted about this issue about cutting ties with toxic people. Then this happened.
I was served a restraining order. I shook the deputies hand and said "thank you and i know you won't see the man who sent this but if you do, tell him to kiss my ass and don't drink and fuck with my daughter. The deputy smiled and said have a good day, you just made mine. Life is grand.
What are ya'll doing for thanksgiving? hahhaha
I posted about this issue about cutting ties with toxic people. Then this happened.
I was served a restraining order. I shook the deputies hand and said "thank you and i know you won't see the man who sent this but if you do, tell him to kiss my ass and don't drink and fuck with my daughter. The deputy smiled and said have a good day, you just made mine. Life is grand.
What are ya'll doing for thanksgiving? hahhaha
Posted by Canbullriussevere concussion, cracked orbit, broken nose, front tooth mia or pow, 3 days in the hospital, and he is telling his friends he fell down the stairs. pride destroyed.Posted by NobleSagAcquire my Cancerian heart and beat your dad to a pulp, no fucker would ever touch or bully my children.
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
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Posted by CanbullriusIm not going to lie it felt good I wish my mother was alive to see that.
I'm dangerous when it comes to people i love and i do my best to not fight.
But i have a very bad past with my father, i would kick the shit out of him for this 😢
Posted by Impulsvhe has surveillance in his house. I checked the footage. she only seen me holding him down when i realized he was out. she is scared of him. I hit him hard and fast i didn't want her to hear him yelling. i showed my daughter that daddy will be there for her when shes done nothing wrong and even if she does i'll coreect her but i'll love her too. on the way home she said i love you daddy you make me feel safe, you spank monsters and mean people, can i have a push pop.Posted by NobleSagPosted by Canbullriussevere concussion, cracked orbit, broken nose, front tooth mia or pow, 3 days in the hospital, and he is telling his friends he fell down the stairs. pride destroyed.Posted by NobleSagAcquire my Cancerian heart and beat your dad to a pulp, no fucker would ever touch or bully my children.
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
This is can be charged as elder abuse
Got to anger management n move!! U are as unhealthy as him probably learned from him
But what did I teach ur daughter!
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I have my own parenting rules.
I don't chastise her, I teach and correct her but I always show my love.
I don't yell. I want her to respect me so she will want me to teach her, fear will be overcome im time.
I let her make her mistakes. I hate it but I can't teach her everything, but when she falls daddy is there.
I talk her like a grown up. I hated it as a kid but it shows her i respect her too. This makes us closer.
I discipline consistent and stay level. It's not her fault im having a bad day. I'll make sure she has the best one everyday. So if she does something that gets me I wait to talk to her so I don't lose control I tell her to sit down we need to talk, I get her a drink and relax then i handle it.
I am never negative with her. Even when she messes up I never use negativity. I want her to be bold and confident, so im building it now.
I forgot to mention the most important thing. There is nothing she can do or be that will make me love her any less. I don't care what happened I love her and will protect first then asses the situation and if she is wrong she will face it and I'll love her still.
I don't chastise her, I teach and correct her but I always show my love.
I don't yell. I want her to respect me so she will want me to teach her, fear will be overcome im time.
I let her make her mistakes. I hate it but I can't teach her everything, but when she falls daddy is there.
I talk her like a grown up. I hated it as a kid but it shows her i respect her too. This makes us closer.
I discipline consistent and stay level. It's not her fault im having a bad day. I'll make sure she has the best one everyday. So if she does something that gets me I wait to talk to her so I don't lose control I tell her to sit down we need to talk, I get her a drink and relax then i handle it.
I am never negative with her. Even when she messes up I never use negativity. I want her to be bold and confident, so im building it now.
I forgot to mention the most important thing. There is nothing she can do or be that will make me love her any less. I don't care what happened I love her and will protect first then asses the situation and if she is wrong she will face it and I'll love her still.
I learned how to be a good parent by doing the opposite of my father
have great day
have great day
Posted by Impulsvhe's also in excellent shape and is very strong. he looks late 30'sPosted by NobleSagPosted by Canbullriussevere concussion, cracked orbit, broken nose, front tooth mia or pow, 3 days in the hospital, and he is telling his friends he fell down the stairs. pride destroyed.Posted by NobleSagAcquire my Cancerian heart and beat your dad to a pulp, no fucker would ever touch or bully my children.
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
This is can be charged as elder abuse
Got to anger management n move!! U are as unhealthy as him probably learned from him
But what did I teach ur daughter!
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Beating your dad in front of your 4 year old daughter? Classy..not/
I would of done the same if I was in your shoes. I can't stand abusive drunks. I think it was justified on how you handled your dad although there were other things you could of done such as getting her out of the environment entirely. Cut him off from her. She don't need to be around people like that.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!
My dad was an abusive drunk towards my mother and I. They divorced when I was 7. I still have a scar on my head from when he hit me with an aerosol can. I will never forget that day. It was the day he finally left.
I will also never forget my uncle (his brother) beating the crap out of him for what he did to me. My uncle beating him didn't scare me, it made me feel like someone actually cared enough to protect me.
I don't think op did any permanent damage to his daughter by fighting her bully. The bullying would have damaged her much more. This is just speaking from my own experience.
I will also never forget my uncle (his brother) beating the crap out of him for what he did to me. My uncle beating him didn't scare me, it made me feel like someone actually cared enough to protect me.
I don't think op did any permanent damage to his daughter by fighting her bully. The bullying would have damaged her much more. This is just speaking from my own experience.
Posted by NobleSagNO you idiot! You thought her that her father is an animal!!!Posted by Impulsvhe has surveillance in his house. I checked the footage. she only seen me holding him down when i realized he was out. she is scared of him. I hit him hard and fast i didn't want her to hear him yelling. i showed my daughter that daddy will be there for her when shes done nothing wrong and even if she does i'll coreect her but i'll love her too. on the way home she said i love you daddy you make me feel safe, you spank monsters and mean people, can i have a push pop.Posted by NobleSagPosted by Canbullriussevere concussion, cracked orbit, broken nose, front tooth mia or pow, 3 days in the hospital, and he is telling his friends he fell down the stairs. pride destroyed.Posted by NobleSagAcquire my Cancerian heart and beat your dad to a pulp, no fucker would ever touch or bully my children.
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
This is can be charged as elder abuse
Got to anger management n move!! U are as unhealthy as him probably learned from him
But what did I teach ur daughter!
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Posted by GemitatiNobody questions a bear when it attacks someone for getting between her and her cub.Posted by NobleSagNO you idiot! You thought her that her father is an animal!!!Posted by Impulsvhe has surveillance in his house. I checked the footage. she only seen me holding him down when i realized he was out. she is scared of him. I hit him hard and fast i didn't want her to hear him yelling. i showed my daughter that daddy will be there for her when shes done nothing wrong and even if she does i'll coreect her but i'll love her too. on the way home she said i love you daddy you make me feel safe, you spank monsters and mean people, can i have a push pop.Posted by NobleSagPosted by Canbullriussevere concussion, cracked orbit, broken nose, front tooth mia or pow, 3 days in the hospital, and he is telling his friends he fell down the stairs. pride destroyed.Posted by NobleSagAcquire my Cancerian heart and beat your dad to a pulp, no fucker would ever touch or bully my children.
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
This is can be charged as elder abuse
Got to anger management n move!! U are as unhealthy as him probably learned from him
But what did I teach ur daughter!
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You bet your sweet ass im an animal. thanks for the compliment
Posted by Gemitatiyou stupid ass i live in a 3 beroom 2 bath house in a gated subdivision with a two car garage and a 25 acre park in the front yard acroos the street and a golf course at my backyard.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!
Posted by NobleSagIt's you who is stupid ass to even go to your abusive father for a visit!Posted by Gemitatiyou stupid ass i live in a 3 beroom 2 bath house in a gated subdivision with a two car garage and a 25 acre park in the front yard acroos the street and a golf course at my backyard.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!click to expand
Let him be and live your life!
But no! We are looking for trouble!
Aren't we?
Plus read title of your thread.
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Posted by Gemitatii did it for my daughter and her grandmother........im tired of proving your comments are uninformed guesses and attempts to be judgmental are borderline insane if it bothers you bad get the fuck out otherwise if you want some details illl be happy to provide. if you want to insult me you need to step it up. your boringPosted by NobleSagIt's you who is stupid ass to even go to your abusive father for a visit!Posted by Gemitatiyou stupid ass i live in a 3 beroom 2 bath house in a gated subdivision with a two car garage and a 25 acre park in the front yard acroos the street and a golf course at my backyard.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!
Let him be and live your life!
But no! We are looking for trouble!
Aren't we?
Plus read title of your thread.
See word ALWAYS—click to expand
Posted by NobleSagPosted by Gemitatii did it for my daughter and her grandmother........im tired of proving your comments are uninformed guesses and attempts to be judgmental are borderline insane if it bothers you bad get the fuck out otherwise if you want some details illl be happy to provide. if you want to insult me you need to step it up. your boringPosted by NobleSagIt's you who is stupid ass to even go to your abusive father for a visit!Posted by Gemitatiyou stupid ass i live in a 3 beroom 2 bath house in a gated subdivision with a two car garage and a 25 acre park in the front yard acroos the street and a golf course at my backyard.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!
Let him be and live your life!
But no! We are looking for trouble!
Aren't we?
Plus read title of your thread.
See word ALWAYS—
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I am sure you would punch me...with pleasure!
Posted by Gemitatii dont hit womenPosted by NobleSagPosted by Gemitatii did it for my daughter and her grandmother........im tired of proving your comments are uninformed guesses and attempts to be judgmental are borderline insane if it bothers you bad get the fuck out otherwise if you want some details illl be happy to provide. if you want to insult me you need to step it up. your boringPosted by NobleSagIt's you who is stupid ass to even go to your abusive father for a visit!Posted by Gemitatiyou stupid ass i live in a 3 beroom 2 bath house in a gated subdivision with a two car garage and a 25 acre park in the front yard acroos the street and a golf course at my backyard.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!
Let him be and live your life!
But no! We are looking for trouble!
Aren't we?
Plus read title of your thread.
See word ALWAYS—
I am sure you would punch me...with pleasure!
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Posted by Se7enHmmm I kind of believe you would! LolPosted by GemitatiDude I'd push you! LolPosted by NobleSagPosted by Gemitatii did it for my daughter and her grandmother........im tired of proving your comments are uninformed guesses and attempts to be judgmental are borderline insane if it bothers you bad get the fuck out otherwise if you want some details illl be happy to provide. if you want to insult me you need to step it up. your boringPosted by NobleSagIt's you who is stupid ass to even go to your abusive father for a visit!Posted by Gemitatiyou stupid ass i live in a 3 beroom 2 bath house in a gated subdivision with a two car garage and a 25 acre park in the front yard acroos the street and a golf course at my backyard.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!
Let him be and live your life!
But no! We are looking for trouble!
Aren't we?
Plus read title of your thread.
See word ALWAYS—
I am sure you would punch me...with pleasure!
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Posted by juliettemy ex was with me for 8 years i hardly raise my voice. you see thats the shit im talking about.Posted by NobleSagPosted by Gemitatii dont hit womenPosted by NobleSagPosted by Gemitatii did it for my daughter and her grandmother........im tired of proving your comments are uninformed guesses and attempts to be judgmental are borderline insane if it bothers you bad get the fuck out otherwise if you want some details illl be happy to provide. if you want to insult me you need to step it up. your boringPosted by NobleSagIt's you who is stupid ass to even go to your abusive father for a visit!Posted by Gemitatiyou stupid ass i live in a 3 beroom 2 bath house in a gated subdivision with a two car garage and a 25 acre park in the front yard acroos the street and a golf course at my backyard.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!
Let him be and live your life!
But no! We are looking for trouble!
Aren't we?
Plus read title of your thread.
See word ALWAYS—
I am sure you would punch me...with pleasure!
don't think you won't get there if you don't do something about your issue.
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people say how could he or she endure that for so long and not get help?
ill tell you why, because the thought of public persecution is not only a reality but a form of control by the abuser. asking for help when nobody believes you must be awful. personally i dont give a bakers fuck there's a man who knows what happened and he knows to leave alone.
google narcissist father. read it and say hi to my dad. its creepier than the zodiac.
Posted by julietteyour an idiot read the whole fucking thread, cliff notes is why you failed at reading comprehensionPosted by NobleSag
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
you beat up your father in front of your daughter? you beat up your father? go to some counseling, and your kid too.
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Posted by julietteshe only saw me holding him down i went to the police station yesterday they asked if i wanted to press charges when they saw the video it was clear i held back and he was the aggressor when my daughter comes in i stop and he starts yelling because he knows i cant yell back, they saw that and called me because the state may proseute, no drop state, so we will seePosted by NobleSagPosted by juliettemy ex was with me for 8 years i hardly raise my voice. you see thats the shit im talking about.Posted by NobleSagPosted by Gemitatii dont hit womenPosted by NobleSagPosted by Gemitatii did it for my daughter and her grandmother........im tired of proving your comments are uninformed guesses and attempts to be judgmental are borderline insane if it bothers you bad get the fuck out otherwise if you want some details illl be happy to provide. if you want to insult me you need to step it up. your boringPosted by NobleSagIt's you who is stupid ass to even go to your abusive father for a visit!Posted by Gemitatiyou stupid ass i live in a 3 beroom 2 bath house in a gated subdivision with a two car garage and a 25 acre park in the front yard acroos the street and a golf course at my backyard.
MY question is what kind of man are you if you can't move your family out of your fathers house? Pretty sure you live in HIS house and soon you might move to government facility with your big heart!
Let him be and live your life!
But no! We are looking for trouble!
Aren't we?
Plus read title of your thread.
See word ALWAYS—
I am sure you would punch me...with pleasure!
don't think you won't get there if you don't do something about your issue.
people say how could he or she endure that for so long and not get help?
ill tell you why, because the thought of public persecution is not only a reality but a form of control by the abuser. asking for help when nobody believes you must be awful. personally i dont give a bakers fuck there's a man who knows what happened and he knows to leave alone.
google narcissist father. read it and say hi to my dad. its creepier than the zodiac.
i said you could go there. which means i believed you that you didn't. yet. i know what a abusive narcissistic person with substance abuse is. don't worry.
doing it in front of your daughter is an abusive behavior as well. just yelling and fighting with someone in front of kids is also abusive by definition not to mention sending someone to the er. you fail to see it. you could also do some googling. she'll learn to fight her battles the same way as her dad did. like your father did. or become too scared of people.
go to some counseling, and never see your father again.
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Posted by juliettehaha i cuss alot only when my daughter is with me do i tone it down, theres a couple of yall and its irritating, but no it takes a ton to make me upset, i dont think a stranger is going to get me that worked up,Posted by NobleSagPosted by julietteyour an idiot read the whole fucking thread, cliff notes is why you failed at reading comprehensionPosted by NobleSag
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
you beat up your father in front of your daughter? you beat up your father? go to some counseling, and your kid too.
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see, you are easily triggered. it really doesn't matter what your dad was, is, how abusive he is, or maybe i missed some facts. you are an abusive person as well, and when you admit it to yourself, which you almost did, until it turned out that you only wanted validation for your actions, which was given to you unfortunately.
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Posted by everlynnwe heard him yelling in the living room she started to cry because i don't yell she isnt used to it, i told her to wait her and watch tv, its not her fault and daddy wont let anyone spank you and i would fix it i didnt plan on on him acting out on a 4 year olds word, who does shit like that?Posted by julietteHe could have at least ask the child to go in the room or somewhere else in the house so that the child wouldn't witness the scenario. Because had that been me, i'd do the same thing the op did too. I don't like bullies. Anybody bully anyone of my kids or even me for that matter, I'm gonna try with every ounce of strength in my bones to knock that individual's head clean off with no regards. This guy don't need no counselling. Not saying what he did was 100% completely right. Just saying that he could have ask the child to go in his room. That's his only mistake he made. Now this child is gonna grow up thinking it would be ok to physically harm his own dad.Posted by NobleSag
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
you beat up your father in front of your daughter? you beat up your father? go to some counseling, and your kid too.
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Posted by LuckyLibra979i am, what would you do if you saw your dad getting beat to a pulp by a yelling man who is scaring the shit out of you, and your only 4, i have been to therapy for ptsd separtion anxiety gad, i it all types of issues, see if it was just me i would have simply left but i couldnt he would have gotten more out of hand if he seen me carry her out.
U got anger issues. Not tryna be rude but anything that comes out as a compulsion is twisted as it is. Maybe you were taught to stomach anger, wasnt allowed to be angry. I grew up like that which never helped because i had(and still have)an affinity for fighting. You should be conscious about your anger. I think we feel that anger has to be used destructively but it doesn't..... you can be assertive instead. Maybe you should try checking things as They happen because it boils over and becomes a negative force. Be more open about it
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I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
pull yourself together. channelize your anger into martial arts or some physical sports but don't let it get the better of you. this sounds really adverse and could be impacting to your daughter and she's gonna need your compassion and security at this stage so don't engage in any fight while she watches. if it persists, send him out or you move out.
Posted by ariessungoddessI have a very nice nice house we were visiting. He got drunk I live outside of the city. I live in a very huge and empty house lol. I've tried to avoid him but my daughter doesn't like going over there. Nonetheless she's fine and I'm fine.Posted by NobleSag
I try to be so peaceful but my father got a few drinks in him and began to bully my daughter, whose 4. Long story short, we fought, I beat him senseless. My daughter was content. He made her cry over a mispronounced word. I begged him to stop. He's at the er now. I just got home.
Couple a months back I got in another fight. I'm so tired of fighting. It's a last resort. I never hit my dad back but when it came to my child I saw myself and it was bittersweet. I would have never fought him for my sake but my child's I'll fight anyone. My dad is a narcissistic Sag. The thing we have in common is anger. I just control mine better. He uses it to intimidate and control.
I don't want to fight anymore. Tired feeling guilty.
pull yourself together. channelize your anger into martial arts or some physical sports but don't let it get the better of you. this sounds really adverse and could be impacting to your daughter and she's gonna need your compassion and security at this stage so don't engage in any fight while she watches. if it persists, send him out or you move out.click to expand
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