Why do ladies hate on other ladies?

I just want to vent and get advice??_??_??_??_

I know some of you have followed my career ups and downs. I really don't have any negativity in myself right now I really wish everyone the best this year and I'm going to revamp my thought process as well. But back to the career ups and downs. I have really let go of a lot of BS from before with some people in the company. However they are still carrying some hidden animosities towards me. It is apparent when the others in my team act like I have the plague and I??ve been isolated from the klicks that were once including myself. Sometimes I get the feeling that no matter who I talk to I get a look like I'm the gossip or the untrustworthy person??_??_??_then coldness sweeps through the halls and sends chills down my spine. I never did or said anything to anyone here but they seem to always make it about me being shady. I don't even talk to anyone at work outside of work because any friendships I make are analyzed, and added to a list of things that they deem as shady (mostly this is from their own paranoia).

Now some of this is just a hunch but interactions speak volumes when you get coldness and someone hardly looks into your eyes, and you are very aware of their personality traits.

Now this is seaming from ladies that hate other ladies because they just are not happy with themselves. Why? They just hate because they are competitive.

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That sucks they're still not over...whatever they think there is...

I'm afraid the only way to ever solve this is to get each of them alone one by one and call them out on their problem with you.
Ask them why they're treating you like an outsider, when you used to be included & don't take fake responses for an answer. Don't let them brush you off.
If they don't want to be friends with you, fine, but they need to be professional.

You know the problem with that Bri is that I tried it you know me being a Sag I just come right out and say it.

Like —what's the matter why does it feel like something has changed—

Well they just acted like I was bringing drama on them and they turned it around on me!

So you know what I just said F*** that it was so stupid like projecting what they were doing back on me as the perpetrator. I said well who needs friends like these. Right?

The only thing is like you have to hear comments and endure that if they don't like you and they may be a key person that they could easily push you out and no one is giving you work anymore. Maybe the only way to do better is to leave.

Why do they do that? Like what started that? Did they misread one of your actions?

I have come to realize that its not me it's one leo lady here that is supper obsessed with thinking that every lady is looking or acting towards her like they are jealous. It's a long story to tell but I posted it several times here.

I can boil it down to one thing and one problem that they just don't trust any girls and they have a hard time making friends with women. I am mastering the art of ignoring their constant suspicions of me. I just don't get why the pieces just goes along with whatever the leo tells her too. that is her only friend i think in and out of the office. and she will always have her back no matter if she is wrong or right. She dose not have an opinion unless the Leo tells her to have one. and it's usually in favor of the leo.

I knew it boiled down to one (threatened) female.
So, can you get the Leo alone and talk to her?

Leos can be a little dramatic, honestly. But I think if you can get her alone, you can have a sincere moment with her.
Maybe—?

I was thinking of bringing up in a convo that I would like to talk to her about the nature of our professional relationship and ask if there is an open door policy with her that i can come to her if i beleive she may be wrong about something or if I need help with something can I bring it to her.


I think its because i am going back to school to finish and she dropped out of college in her senior year. And she is extremely competitive with the people in the office like she has to be the smartest person. Hates to be wrong!

Huge ego too!

However i am not going to lie she is very focused and very smart. No dim bulb at all.


And i don't care if im wrong i just like to learn from it.


But we recently had a blow up about work stuff and I think she felt threatened.

(there is the question however that why do people think they need Adderal to do their work. You know these people are lie telling when they say they have AADD. that's just a way for them to always be ahead of regular persons. )