
Why Do Men Keep Asking Me



Posted by JohnnyRed007Seriously?? That never even occurred to me.
Because you probably intimidate them and they want to power to demean you.

Posted by Tirano24go fuck yourself ....I know it will be hard with you being a bottom and all...Posted by DMVYou're worthless? A hoe, perhaps? Classy women don't get asked that.
Why do men keep asking if they can piss on me?
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Posted by Tirano24It doesn't have to represent worthlessness. It could represent anything really. Closeness, fondness, or just purely being freaky.
Pissing on people is apart of BDSM. The person getting pissed on is thought of as worthless. Let's stop sugarcoating. If a guy wants to piss on you 1) He sees you as worthless 2) He doesn't respect you (either altogether or just on a sexual level.


Posted by Tirano24I don't think everyone who wants to pee on someone has to really be into BDSM some people might just be curious and want to know what it feels like. So to say that the person being peed on is worthless isn't always the case. And no that's never been requested of me or by me.
Pissing on people is apart of BDSM. The person getting pissed on is thought of as worthless. Let's stop sugarcoating. If a guy wants to piss on you 1) He sees you as worthless 2) He doesn't respect you (either altogether or just on a sexual level.

Posted by DMVMaybe that's exactly what they try to make you think.Posted by JohnnyRed007Seriously?? That never even occurred to me.
Because you probably intimidate them and they want to power to demean you.
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Posted by Tirano24I dont think thats always the case.
Pissing on people is apart of BDSM. The person getting pissed on is thought of as worthless. Let's stop sugarcoating. If a guy wants to piss on you 1) He sees you as worthless 2) He doesn't respect you (either altogether or just on a sexual level.

Posted by SoulThis has been my experience in the past.Posted by Tirano24It doesn't have to represent worthlessness. It could represent anything really. Closeness, fondness, or just purely being freaky.
Pissing on people is apart of BDSM. The person getting pissed on is thought of as worthless. Let's stop sugarcoating. If a guy wants to piss on you 1) He sees you as worthless 2) He doesn't respect you (either altogether or just on a sexual level.
I probably wouldn't try it though. I have enough weird memories without adding odd sexual experiences.
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Posted by Gob_ShiteLOL! You're my fav dxper! ??
And there I was thinking it was about how much you charge...

Posted by Gob_ShiteLOL! The contouring never works anyway.Posted by aquarius09Posted by Gob_ShiteLOL! You're my fav dxper! ??
And there I was thinking it was about how much you charge...
#crush
Stop it! Blushing is going to ruin the effectiveness of my make-up...
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Posted by notsosureYou know im not the only person who posts about sex or other taboo topics but i seem to be the only one who is subject to such ridicule.Posted by Tirano24Hoping you never have a daughter. Or a child for that matter.Posted by DMVYou're worthless? A hoe, perhaps? Classy women don't get asked that.
Why do men keep asking if they can piss on me?
And that you will mature in life.
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Posted by PhoenixRisingYou're right.
Sweets, have you simply asked them what's the appeal in doing it? I say, always go to the source.

Posted by notsosureThanks for understanding. Ive worked for awhile to obtain an appearance of respect. Car, home, clothes.
Probably you come off as someone who likes to push boundaries, no!? So they ask you, because they think they will most likely get a yes out of you, instead of other "types" of girls.
That and the thing with overpowering you.
I find guys/men do the same with me, but not to the same degree though, and have thought about why myself and came to the "conclusion" as above.

Posted by gemelioristCould be all this 5th house activity. I have no planets in the 8th housePosted by Tirano24I don't think everyone who wants to pee on someone has to really be into BDSM some people might just be curious and want to know what it feels like. So to say that the person being peed on is worthless isn't always the case. And no that's never been requested of me or by me.
Pissing on people is apart of BDSM. The person getting pissed on is thought of as worthless. Let's stop sugarcoating. If a guy wants to piss on you 1) He sees you as worthless 2) He doesn't respect you (either altogether or just on a sexual level.
OP, I think some guys might feel comfortable around you as you might seem adventurous and game to try different or taboo things...just a thought.click to expand

Posted by Tirano24Having such a fantasy doesnt render the one who has it worthless thoPosted by gemelioristWhich is a fantasy of being degrading to and/or defiling someone like I already stated.Posted by Tirano24I don't think everyone who wants to pee on someone has to really be into BDSM some people might just be curious and want to know what it feels like. So to say that the person being peed on is worthless isn't always the case. And no that's never been requested of me or by me.
Pissing on people is apart of BDSM. The person getting pissed on is thought of as worthless. Let's stop sugarcoating. If a guy wants to piss on you 1) He sees you as worthless 2) He doesn't respect you (either altogether or just on a sexual level.
OP, I think some guys might feel comfortable around you as you might seem adventurous and game to try different or taboo things...just a thought.click to expand


Posted by yupvirgoLol. Yes.Posted by DMVOh yeah I love and hate her Cancer rising coz there are men who thinks she's a naive pushover tho she's got a Taurus sun and a Leo moon. It makes her look like she can be taken advantage of.
Well i just feel like my cancer rising is a detriment. It doesnt fit my sag sun nor does it aspect anything in my chart.
People, men and women alike, DXP has showed me that, tend to think of me as naive, pushover, too nice, softee, nurturing, good cook, agreeable.
Alas when i open my mouth, the sag and sarcastic no nonsense mercury in scorpio comes out, you know the real me and their taken for a loop.
The opposite is true to. If i come in all sag like, theyre all turn it down, calm down, dont do that, etc etc.
Idk your wife's chart but mine just irks me alot
Tho I have to say, it a pretty rising looks-wise.
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Posted by DMV
Well i just feel like my cancer rising is a detriment. It doesnt fit my sag sun nor does it aspect anything in my chart.
People, men and women alike, DXP has showed me that, tend to think of me as naive, pushover, too nice, softee, nurturing, good cook, agreeable.
Alas when i open my mouth, the sag and sarcastic no nonsense mercury in scorpio comes out, you know the real me and their taken for a loop.
The opposite is true to. If i come in all sag like, theyre all turn it down, calm down, dont do that, etc etc.
Idk your wife's chart but mine just irks me alot

Posted by PhoenixRisingNope. Out of orbPosted by DMV
Well i just feel like my cancer rising is a detriment. It doesnt fit my sag sun nor does it aspect anything in my chart.
People, men and women alike, DXP has showed me that, tend to think of me as naive, pushover, too nice, softee, nurturing, good cook, agreeable.
Alas when i open my mouth, the sag and sarcastic no nonsense mercury in scorpio comes out, you know the real me and their taken for a loop.
The opposite is true to. If i come in all sag like, theyre all turn it down, calm down, dont do that, etc etc.
Idk your wife's chart but mine just irks me alot
Your rising doesn't aspect your moon and merc? I would think it would work well, enhance that intuition, knowing how and when to approach a situation or sit back...basically help you work through seemingly uncomfortable naughty play discussions easily.
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Posted by WiseOwlYou know i have a neighbor, sign who knows, he lives with his gf and a couple of kids.
Because those men have no respect for you or maybe it's has to do with how you carry yourself.

Posted by DivaCanLeoI could not agree more. Men have no hesitation saying these things to me.
that sucks, but perhaps you really need to stop doing things for others, and do them for yourself. that nice house, car, clothes should be for you.
also men are going to be disrespectful, so disrespect them right back.
i don't know but i dont like this thread, it makes me feel yuck, not because you are into sexual adventures, but because they feel they can that to you and its "normal" for you
that's really weird.

Posted by yupvirgoIdk. I dont know there story. But this seems to be a pattern that i get.Posted by DMVJust reading this, pisses me off. Is this the sort of crap that Cancer risings go through?Posted by WiseOwlYou know i have a neighbor, sign who knows, he lives with his gf and a couple of kids.
Because those men have no respect for you or maybe it's has to do with how you carry yourself.
I only know him in the capacity of saying hello to all of them when i see them. I dont even give eye.contact. i go to work in a dress that falls to my knees or below. I worked in finance. Professional.
Im leaving to go to work one day and he is sitting outside. He asks me for a cup of water. I say sure and head back inside. As im walking in, i notice he gets up and asks me "can i come in and watch you walk around naked." obviously i said no.
But this is the type of interaction with men that i get. Ive never spoke more than hello to him.
*smfh
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Posted by DivaCanLeoThats the thing tho. Im not an insecure person.
also please dont' blame your cancer rising...i feel like they can read the insecurity in you and the freakiness too
blame your scorpio moon
if anything you should be more like your SAG sun

Posted by yupvirgoI told a few guy friends. Im not in a relationship.
I hope you told your husband about that cringey mofo.

Posted by notsosureOmg. Can i hug you! I really thank you for understanding and its even better you relate cause now i dont sound crazy.1Posted by DMVThat´s so disrespectful!!!!Posted by WiseOwlYou know i have a neighbor, sign who knows, he lives with his gf and a couple of kids.
Because those men have no respect for you or maybe it's has to do with how you carry yourself.
I only know him in the capacity of saying hello to all of them when i see them. I dont even give eye.contact. i go to work in a dress that falls to my knees or below. I worked in finance. Professional.
Im leaving to go to work one day and he is sitting outside. He asks me for a cup of water. I say sure and head back inside. As im walking in, i notice he gets up and asks me "can i come in and watch you walk around naked." obviously i said no.
But this is the type of interaction with men that i get. Ive never spoke more than hello to him.
Seems like you and me have a lot in common with this, but guys take it even further with you.
How did you respond to this? What did you do? Were you polite and quiet about it, got angry, got loud? And what has happened after? Did you say anything to his wife?
Personally I believe guys go after me, because they know it has an effect on me. I take it to heart way more than I should, start to think there is something wrong with me and I behave like a slut and am somehow asking for it. They know and want to do something for themselves to boost their ego. Just like a lot of people here. They don´t care about you really, they´re selfish and just do what will make them feel good for a few seconds.click to expand

Posted by Tirano24Nope. No low self esteem. I'm not insecure nor do i have low self esteem. No daddy issues. No mama issues.Posted by DMVBeing a Sag is not enough. Just look at Tina Turner, and recently Michel'le. So don't bet your all that these guys see you differently once they see this alleged "Sag side". Let's be clear, there isn't anything wrong with liking sex lol. It's all about image to men and how you come off. I'm sensing you may have low self esteem. This is all across the board, men and women use sex to feel worthy.
Well i just feel like my cancer rising is a detriment. It doesnt fit my sag sun nor does it aspect anything in my chart.
People, men and women alike, DXP has showed me that, tend to think of me as naive, pushover, too nice, softee, nurturing, good cook, agreeable.
Alas when i open my mouth, the sag and sarcastic no nonsense mercury in scorpio comes out, you know the real me and their taken for a loop.
The opposite is true to. If i come in all sag like, theyre all turn it down, calm down, dont do that, etc etc.
Idk your wife's chart but mine just irks me alot
http://www.survivingtherapistabuse.com/2011/10/sex-with-the-therapist-the-need-to-feel-whol/
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Posted by yupvirgoI have a 9mm
or get some self-defense training


Posted by DMVHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH, wow,from asking to take a piss to abuse and self esteem.Posted by Tirano24Nope. No low self esteem. I'm not insecure nor do i have low self esteem. No daddy issues. No mama issues.Posted by DMVBeing a Sag is not enough. Just look at Tina Turner, and recently Michel'le. So don't bet your all that these guys see you differently once they see this alleged "Sag side". Let's be clear, there isn't anything wrong with liking sex lol. It's all about image to men and how you come off. I'm sensing you may have low self esteem. This is all across the board, men and women use sex to feel worthy.
Well i just feel like my cancer rising is a detriment. It doesnt fit my sag sun nor does it aspect anything in my chart.
People, men and women alike, DXP has showed me that, tend to think of me as naive, pushover, too nice, softee, nurturing, good cook, agreeable.
Alas when i open my mouth, the sag and sarcastic no nonsense mercury in scorpio comes out, you know the real me and their taken for a loop.
The opposite is true to. If i come in all sag like, theyre all turn it down, calm down, dont do that, etc etc.
Idk your wife's chart but mine just irks me alot
http://www.survivingtherapistabuse.com/2011/10/sex-with-the-therapist-the-need-to-feel-whol/
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Posted by Tirano24From my point of few, burying the rug is a weekly hobby.Posted by DMVYou should really acknowledge this trait in you and work on it. Sags always bury things under the rug. 'Oh I'm fine, nothing's wrong with me'. That only gets you so far.Posted by Tirano24Nope. No low self esteem. I'm not insecure nor do i have low self esteem. No daddy issues. No mama issues.Posted by DMVBeing a Sag is not enough. Just look at Tina Turner, and recently Michel'le. So don't bet your all that these guys see you differently once they see this alleged "Sag side". Let's be clear, there isn't anything wrong with liking sex lol. It's all about image to men and how you come off. I'm sensing you may have low self esteem. This is all across the board, men and women use sex to feel worthy.
Well i just feel like my cancer rising is a detriment. It doesnt fit my sag sun nor does it aspect anything in my chart.
People, men and women alike, DXP has showed me that, tend to think of me as naive, pushover, too nice, softee, nurturing, good cook, agreeable.
Alas when i open my mouth, the sag and sarcastic no nonsense mercury in scorpio comes out, you know the real me and their taken for a loop.
The opposite is true to. If i come in all sag like, theyre all turn it down, calm down, dont do that, etc etc.
Idk your wife's chart but mine just irks me alot
http://www.survivingtherapistabuse.com/2011/10/sex-with-the-therapist-the-need-to-feel-whol/
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Posted by DMVThey think they have a chance you will say yes... lol
Why do men keep asking if they can piss on me?



Posted by Gob_ShiteThe entire major city? Filled with almost a million people?
Have you ever considered that you've developed a reputation for yourself? Like it or not, people talk and gossip...

Posted by Gob_ShiteI dont think so. People know me for more than that. If so, really goes to show that men gossip more than women.Posted by DMVPosted by Gob_ShiteThe entire major city? Filled with almost a million people?
Have you ever considered that you've developed a reputation for yourself? Like it or not, people talk and gossip...
You'd be surprised, especially with modern technology and social media. Just something to consider.
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Posted by DMVWell yeah.Posted by Gob_ShiteI dont think so. People know me for more than that. If so, really goes to show that men gossip more than women.Posted by DMVPosted by Gob_ShiteThe entire major city? Filled with almost a million people?
Have you ever considered that you've developed a reputation for yourself? Like it or not, people talk and gossip...
You'd be surprised, especially with modern technology and social media. Just something to consider.
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Posted by notsosureYou are a breathe of fresh air. You totally get what im saying.Posted by DMVI totally get, what you´re saying! And men know this too: they know, that most women are not superior physically, so if we comment back, they always have the physicle power. And when a person has already crossed lines, you start thinking "okay, so probably he won´t mind crossing other lines, such as maybe get physicle with me".Posted by notsosureOmg. Can i hug you! I really thank you for understanding and its even better you relate cause now i dont sound crazy.1Posted by DMVThat´s so disrespectful!!!!Posted by WiseOwlYou know i have a neighbor, sign who knows, he lives with his gf and a couple of kids.
Because those men have no respect for you or maybe it's has to do with how you carry yourself.
I only know him in the capacity of saying hello to all of them when i see them. I dont even give eye.contact. i go to work in a dress that falls to my knees or below. I worked in finance. Professional.
Im leaving to go to work one day and he is sitting outside. He asks me for a cup of water. I say sure and head back inside. As im walking in, i notice he gets up and asks me "can i come in and watch you walk around naked." obviously i said no.
But this is the type of interaction with men that i get. Ive never spoke more than hello to him.
Seems like you and me have a lot in common with this, but guys take it even further with you.
How did you respond to this? What did you do? Were you polite and quiet about it, got angry, got loud? And what has happened after? Did you say anything to his wife?
Personally I believe guys go after me, because they know it has an effect on me. I take it to heart way more than I should, start to think there is something wrong with me and I behave like a slut and am somehow asking for it. They know and want to do something for themselves to boost their ego. Just like a lot of people here. They don´t care about you really, they´re selfish and just do what will make them feel good for a few seconds.
I respond politely. It takes quite a bit to make me go off the deep end. I just dont feel like getting all mean about my response is....
1. Safe. Some men dont take rejection well and they will call you all sorts of names and even shoot you.
2. Theyre not worth my breathe. He's already scum for what he said and ive already wasted 5 mins even entertaining him.
I do nothing to warrant these type of advances. I said nothing to homeboys gf. I often hear them fight so nah, i wants no part.
I also take it personally. Im not an emotionless person. Im actually very emotional only i am selective to whom i give a reaction to. So may be they think they have to do the most to get my attention.
I have struggled with this for a long time in my life too, and it has made me actually be and act very asexually, as a defense mechanism. And still guys approach me in a very inappropriate way. It has taken me 30 years to meet a man, I could actually relax with sexually and not feel judged or used with, if I have to be honest. I can tell other women have a hard time understanding what exactly it is I´m talking about. Actually I felt like I could talk better with a gay guy who dresses very feminine. The way - especially - guys treat him was similar in some ways, and I really felt understood, that somebody else knows what it feels like to get attacked/humiliated/violated because of your sexuality and being.
As is obvious here in your topic, some people, and I think especially men, have a very hard time accepting something or someone they don´t agree with or understand, so they try to overpower it. And as you can see here, they don´t see anything wrong with that. That´s the way many men are socialized. I don´t think i is natural to men, but they have just learned in life, that it is okay to be like this towards other people. And if other people object, they just overrule or overpower. There is no dialoge or understanding. It is a reflection of them and society. Neither me or you are doing anything wrong.click to expand

Posted by Gob_ShiteYou know its okay that people wont always agree with you right?Posted by DMVPosted by Gob_ShiteI dont think so. People know me for more than that. If so, really goes to show that men gossip more than women.Posted by DMVPosted by Gob_ShiteThe entire major city? Filled with almost a million people?
Have you ever considered that you've developed a reputation for yourself? Like it or not, people talk and gossip...
You'd be surprised, especially with modern technology and social media. Just something to consider.
And there you go again, with your fixed and narrow-minded demeanour...
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Posted by cheekyfaerieAgree, too. Leos are treetrunking porn stars (want to be, imagine to be, etc.). They treetrunk you up the arse and spank your ass until it's beet red. 😱 I closed my "doors" to that rude, crude, dude!
Only one person has ever brought this up. A Leo. It was something he was curious about and felt safe asking me. But we weren't serious and the Boy and I happened so Leo got the talk and I walked.

Posted by brianafayWasnt there just a thread on penis sucking competitions and vagina eating competitions?
What a buncha slut shamers! I'm calling Amber Rose
She likes sex, she's not a deviant ... She's enjoying her youth and celebrating her womanhood. It's not like she's having sex with children or animals for fucks sake.
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