you guys are right, she plays me like fiddle or

pawn or whatever, but i still like it. she got me to leave work early yesterday because her stomach hurt soooo terrribly. on way home i say kids are coming over later and she says hurry home because she is horny. I had to laugh at myself because my foot went down on the gas before I even thought about it.

so afterwards, she admits that she would have slept with that dude if they had met up. she thanks me for what i did and said no guy had ever protected her (from herself) like that ... girlfriends had, but no guy (to which I'm thinking, "you mean you've put other guys in the same position you just put me in?")

but, she still openly admits she's in love with other guy and over me. So, i start talking about is she going to have a problem with me seeing other girls .. she says fine whatever i don't care

i start getting a little more specific

...she starts laying guilt trip like ... you don't sound like you're heartbroken to me, you must not have really been in love with me ... why are you in such big hurry anyway?

i say, i want someone to hang with for holidays and my birthday

she says she will be there for me for my birthday

Then later in the evening she became this total dickwad ... my kids are there by then and i'm doing anything just to keep things toned down. omg, why can't people just fucking chill.

Now today she's on a text rampage, pissed at how broke she is, pissed she's trapped with me, pissed at the world.


Why can't she just focus on work for a while and just forget about everything else? That's what guys do when life sucks. Then she could fucking afford her own place. she is basket case

How his her being broke your problem? tell it to the judge

dude this is getting pathetic

She doesn't like you
She certainly does not love you
Kick her skank ass out already
Throw her fucking shit out the front door, and let the chips fall where they may
Do it now, or this will drag on forever

LOL I had missed this one.

Pretty bad! ...jru I'm adding myself again to the ... kick her ass out, team.

ok, well, she voted for me today (i'm running for a local office) ...and she advertised that to all her FB friends ... so, she kinda gets some points for that

...and i'm sorry, but the sex is fucking awesome ... and I actually like it better now that we're not pretending to be a couple. I love just fucking, without having to worry about being sensitive or caring ... it's just about enjoying the physical pleasure of it right now. i'm sure she's imagining that she's with that other guy, but i don't really care.

😄

Posted by Wynter
She doesn't like you
She certainly does not love you
Kick her skank ass out already
Throw her fucking shit out the front door, and let the chips fall where they may
Do it now, or this will drag on forever

+1

haha ... vids are down now ... besides, she already rode her bike through town yelling "J.. cheats on everybody!" once when we were fighting and I was following behind her on roller-blades. ...as-if kissing is cheating ...kissing is just heavy flirting

i don't know, she's really sick of being with me ... i'm just slightly amused wondering when she's going to get sick enough to actually start working a little harder and save up enough money to move out.

in a lot of ways i believe i deserve everything that is happening. I have done really bad things in past relationships all the while oblivious to how i might have been hurting the person i was with. I have hurt her on several occasions also, but then she does tend to blow things out of proportion.

who knows, maybe we are both still learning from all this. One thing i've noticed is that when i make a big fuss about something, she rebels -- you can't tell her what to do in the moment. But, a month later, she starts doing it ... the things i throw the biggest fits over.

i'm still just in whatever happens happens mode. ha, but she needs to be afraid that i'm gonna get pissed and throw her stuff out ... otherwise she would just walk all over me. that's my only credible threat to spurn her to action.

lol ^^ while we're dreaming, I'll have a harem, someone to cook, clean, and do laundry ... oh, and bigger house, nanny, enough money to take care of all that. lol, and oddly more kids. ...and no i'm not mormon .. though it must run in my genes with a wish list like that ... weird? just being honest though

Posted by Wynter
She doesn't like you
She certainly does not love you
Kick her skank ass out already
Throw her fucking shit out the front door, and let the chips fall where they may
Do it now, or this will drag on forever

aka
Wynter's seen a 12 year old break up better than you too!

Hahahahaha

^^^^ until you catch something from her when she DOES finally sleep with another man. Then you will have her cooking and cleaning with a side of nasty STD to boot!

I would cut your losses already....

@ nikki, yes, that is a concern ... it's another reason why i don't feel bad about going through her phone and/or spying.

jru2 omg....just kick her to the curb before the whole drama bites you back.

This is crazy... You both need to work on yourselfs....

Posted by brianafay

Posted by Wynter
She doesn't like you
She certainly does not love you
Kick her skank ass out already
Throw her fucking shit out the front door, and let the chips fall where they may
Do it now, or this will drag on forever

aka
Wynter's seen a 12 year old break up better than you too!

Hahahahaha

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word. kindergarteners have dating figured out better than most of us.

Smh...I'm speechless

Posted by jru2
@ nikki, yes, that is a concern ... it's another reason why i don't feel bad about going through her phone and/or spying.

Your looking for someone to justify your craziness and honestly it matches her craziness. This is only going to get worse-if it hasn't already. Stop with the petty mind games, fruitile man vs woman power struggle and act your age of 41!

Posted by NikkiMse1978

Posted by jru2
@ nikki, yes, that is a concern ... it's another reason why i don't feel bad about going through her phone and/or spying.

Your looking for someone to justify your craziness and honestly it matches her craziness. This is only going to get worse-if it hasn't already. Stop with the petty mind games, fruitile man vs woman power struggle and act your age of 41!

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Bingo! You just won an all expense paid trip to Maui!