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ok, ive found out my ex scorpio whom at the time has been the only person that i have seriously wanted to marry has one hell of a fire sign influence in her. leo rising, a aries moon, and venus in libra. was i even dating a real water sign? i can see why it didnt work, but it still felt really good though. one thing i did notice was that her mars was 1 degree into cancer, which is what i am. my mars is in aries which connects too i guess. relationships are so confusing. she still tells me she loves me when we talk, but i usually chaulk it up to her just playing games to see if im still hooked on the line. sorry..... i just thought that was interesting and unexpected.

Scorpio sun and Leo rising? Two fixed signs with the greatest influence, she must have been extremely stubborn.

its been about six years since the relationship so ive had time to get over it, but yeah very stubborn, selfish, and stuck up. i had dinner with her last week, i think shes getting worse. i had a ok time but im in no hurry to do it again anytime soon. i dont think i like the person she is now. shes too full of herself for my taste. i like confidence, not arrogance(sp?). oh well.....

My ex was Leo sun, Scorpio rising. Very selfish. Not so much stuck-up, as stuck on himself...and himself only. And very stubborn. Very "me, me me me me" for hours on end - all he did was talk about himself.

I've found that I do much better with fire sign people as friends, not lovers. Emotionally, we're just on completely different wavelengths. Even with all the air in my chart, fire tends to grate on me, and quickly, in a romantic situation. I can have fun with them, sure, but to get deep, I need a fellow water sign.

Also the confidence vs. arrogance thing - there is such a fine line there, and all too often it's crossed, and I hate that. I think arrogance is for people who are too lazy to exhibit self control in social situations. It's a lack of social grace, etiquette. And the bottom line is, it really treetrunking bugs me. lol.

Yeah, these days I feel like asking for a guy's time of birth, date of birth, longitude and latitude, etc etc before anything even begins. (But I won't, because that will scare them...? lol)