Agree or disagree (Page 2)

Posted by ashley1734
My Scorpio was constantly spilling his emotions to me. When he would drink he would announce to whoever would listen to him how much he loved me, how beautiful I was, etc. Sometimes he would even get teary eyed talking about it. So in my experience, this isn't the case at all.

Awww my sappy Scorpio...minus his raging drinking problem, I quite miss that son of a bitch.

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I like this.

Posted by magma
In my case I always knew what was on their minds, they have ways of letting you know that haven't even been invented yet, lol.

ok, that's a thing. but OP was about verbosity.

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In my case I always knew what was on their minds, they have ways of letting you know that haven't even been invented yet, lol.

ok, that's a thing. but OP was about verbosity.

Actually, my take on the OP was that it was about a lack of verbosity, hence my comment.

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ok, I get that to you it is more common that sc is not verbose on love.

in my case i have to agree with you anyway.
still frostandbyte had an interesting list on aspects too. my sc has 7 oppositions/squares vs. 12 positive aspects. He has Mercury Opposition Saturn.

It was just from some website lol. Just curious as to if you guys agreed lol

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Agree...I don't tell you how much you mean to me or how much I love you blah blah blah. It's difficult for me to talk about and seems superficial to a certain extent. I'd much prefer to show you with my actions. If you mean the world to me you will know it because I'll cook for you, buy you gifts, do something nice for you, send you cards or letters for no reason at all etc. But verbally telling you? Not so much.

If they asked, would you admit it?

If they asked, yes, I would tell them.

Quick to fall or built up wall?

Well I believe I'm both. I'm very quick to fall. Within the first few hours of meeting someone, I already have the wedding planned out, how many kids we'll have, their names etc....the whole nine yards. But I know that's the dreamer side of me talking and not the logical side. I do build up walls upon walls upon walls though too. Even though I may fall hard for someone, they will never know this unless they give me some kind of signal or green light. I'm very closed off and have a very difficult time letting people in. I have to trust you 100% . Even if/when I finally get to this point, if you do me wrong I just end up adding another wall for the next person to try and get through. This is probably why I haven't had very many relationships or at least successful ones for that matter. I've been told I need to learn to open up and express my feelings and emotions more. Easier said than done.

It is easier said than done. It took me years to even finally get to a point where I have no guard or, shall I say limited, and in reality, probably the only time in my life.

How did you get to that point?

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Honestly, I don't know. It just happened with this person....never had it happen right away.

If I were to guess than it would be that I stopped dating for a on time and got to know myself better. I still thing I have a ways to go. Plus, I figure I may be scared to get hurt, but how am I ever going to have a chance to find what I hope to eventually have if I don't let it down? I have walked away from a few good men, but

thats true for me.

which is probably one of the main issues in my relationship now :-
the more I love someone, the more I DO for them, in my head that is how I show my love and commitment, actions speak louder than words type-a-thing.
but i have the incredible fortune of dating a LEO 🙂 who really just wants to be told how wonderful he is and to be mushed and gushed all over.
its hard for me because it seems so superficial. why take a silly long-drawn out compliment (that i probably don't mean, cuz ur great but not THAT great)
when you can have my actual heart.

I suck at expressing my emotions but very adept at showing you. Unfortunately it doesn't go down well with most fire or air signs that value words over actions. ”

I'm learning now to express myself with words as well... Slowly but surely

Posted by Scorpico
thats true for me.

which is probably one of the main issues in my relationship now :-
the more I love someone, the more I DO for them, in my head that is how I show my love and commitment, actions speak louder than words type-a-thing.
but i have the incredible fortune of dating a LEO 🙂 who really just wants to be told how wonderful he is and to be mushed and gushed all over.
its hard for me because it seems so superficial. why take a silly long-drawn out compliment (that i probably don't mean, cuz ur great but not THAT great)
when you can have my actual heart.

I can totally relate!