ok so I'm a virgo, he's scorp, we both enjoy long walks on the beach, yatta yatta.
i cant help but feel like there's this thing dividing us. It's completely irrational, but i feel disconnected with him somehow. its driving me nuts. i have no idea why, but i feel like hes hiding from me emotionally. but only with the bad things. he tells me he loves me and he tells me how awesome/(generic good adjective here) i am, but something just feels so off balance and out of place. im getting the feeling that theres something that really bothers him about us, but wont tell me what it is. im going out of my mind now trying to figure out whats wrong with us or me so i can fix it. insert feelings of complete inadequacy, stres, & mild depression here. i want to go with my intuition and think that im right, but im probably far off base with it all. is this just a virgoan paranoia? does the avoidance/detatchment sound like a scorp thing? or am I just crazy?
Probably a combo of both.Scorps can have "aloftness" or quiet moments which can lead insecure people to think negatively and yeah,virgos are usually always paranoid.
If he wants you to know, he will tell you. Till then figure it isn't your business and enjoy your time together. Who knows? It might be work or something else completely unrelated that he doesn't want to burden you with.
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i cant help but feel like there's this thing dividing us. It's completely irrational, but i feel disconnected with him somehow. its driving me nuts. i have no idea why, but i feel like hes hiding from me emotionally. but only with the bad things. he tells me he loves me and he tells me how awesome/(generic good adjective here) i am, but something just feels so off balance and out of place. im getting the feeling that theres something that really bothers him about us, but wont tell me what it is. im going out of my mind now trying to figure out whats wrong with us or me so i can fix it. insert feelings of complete inadequacy, stres, & mild depression here. i want to go with my intuition and think that im right, but im probably far off base with it all. is this just a virgoan paranoia? does the avoidance/detatchment sound like a scorp thing? or am I just crazy?