Another Question for Scorpio

Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

I don't get this whole social media thing where people get all offended someone doesn't "like" something on facebook or any other social media platform. Don't take this as an offense to you directly, I just have found that people that put so much analysis into that overthinking stuff, and come off as immature. OH HE DOESN'T LIKE ME ANYMORE BECAUSE HE DIDN'T LIKE THE POST OF THE PICTURE OF PASTA I POSTED?! OH-EM-GEE. In theory, it just sounds stupid.

I will say this, if a Scorpio man or woman is truly interested in someone, they don't go days without texting the person. We are attentive to the needs of the one we romantically care for. So, as the saying goes, he's just not that into you. What you said to him, isn't enough to warrant him striking back, imo.

I could be wrong though.

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I don't get this whole social media thing where people get all offended someone doesn't "like" something on facebook or any other social media platform. Don't take this as an offense to you directly, I just have found that people that put so much analysis into that overthinking stuff, and come off as immature. OH HE DOESN'T LIKE ME ANYMORE BECAUSE HE DIDN'T LIKE THE POST OF THE PICTURE OF PASTA I POSTED?! OH-EM-GEE. In theory, it just sounds stupid.

I will say this, if a Scorpio man or woman is truly interested in someone, they don't go days without texting the person. We are attentive to the needs of the one we romantically care for. So, as the saying goes, he's just not that into you. What you said to him, isn't enough to warrant him striking back, imo.

I could be wrong though.

Thanks

Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

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Posted by nikkistar
I don't get this whole social media thing where people get all offended someone doesn't "like" something on facebook or any other social media platform. Don't take this as an offense to you directly, I just have found that people that put so much analysis into that overthinking stuff, and come off as immature. OH HE DOESN'T LIKE ME ANYMORE BECAUSE HE DIDN'T LIKE THE POST OF THE PICTURE OF PASTA I POSTED?! OH-EM-GEE. In theory, it just sounds stupid.

I will say this, if a Scorpio man or woman is truly interested in someone, they don't go days without texting the person. We are attentive to the needs of the one we romantically care for. So, as the saying goes, he's just not that into you. What you said to him, isn't enough to warrant him striking back, imo.

I could be wrong though.

Totally agree.

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We have only met once, so I wouldn't say there is a romantic involvement.

Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

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Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

Thank you, he is trying to build his empire right now. There isn't a romantic involvement. I'm glad I didn't see him more romantically prior to him getting so busy.

My gut is that he is putting his love life on hold.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

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lol yep that's why I don't want the op to get the wrong idea.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

Thank you, he is trying to build his empire right now. There isn't a romantic involvement. I'm glad I didn't see him more romantically prior to him getting so busy.

My gut is that he is putting his love life on hold.

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Then just leave it at that if he's interested he'll reach out there's gonna be actions for sure.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

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Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

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Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

Thank you, he is trying to build his empire right now. There isn't a romantic involvement. I'm glad I didn't see him more romantically prior to him getting so busy.

My gut is that he is putting his love life on hold.

Then just leave it at that if he's interested he'll reach out there's gonna be actions for sure.

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I am, but I have a little seasonal depression I'm a single libra. Holidays are hard for us. Also I really want to understand before I give my time to someone else.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

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Because a lot of scorps doesn't wanna look weak or he/she could be busy with work or other things.

I think he is so focused on his success, this might be a character flaw for him.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

Because a lot of scorps doesn't wanna look weak or he/she could be busy with work or other things.

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I love that about you guys. That's why I'm so interested. I sense he is powerful I like that.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

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Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

Because a lot of scorps doesn't wanna look weak or he/she could be busy with work or other things.

I love that about you guys. That's why I'm so interested. I sense he is powerful I like that.

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Just go with the flow patience key.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

Because a lot of scorps doesn't wanna look weak or he/she could be busy with work or other things.

I love that about you guys. That's why I'm so interested. I sense he is powerful I like that.

Just go with the flow patience key.

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Thank you 🙂

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

Because a lot of scorps doesn't wanna look weak or he/she could be busy with work or other things.

I love that about you guys. That's why I'm so interested. I sense he is powerful I like that.

Just go with the flow patience key.

Thank you 🙂

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Off course nothing's guaranteed but in order to understand a scorp patience is the only way.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

Because a lot of scorps doesn't wanna look weak or he/she could be busy with work or other things.

I love that about you guys. That's why I'm so interested. I sense he is powerful I like that.

Just go with the flow patience key.

Thank you 🙂

Off course nothing's guaranteed but in order to understand a scorp patience is the only way.

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Ok patience is a virtue😉

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Posted by Librajean
Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

Seasonal depression is a serious mental illness...if you're aware that overthinking about this man's actions or lack thereof is not helping your mental health, then I advise that you do something else to help you cope with your depression in a healthy way (like doing something creative for the holidays) rather than make your condition worse by overthinking futile matters...

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It's not a mental illness it's a condition but I agree with u on everything else. Well except futile matters. You sound married with no problems...good for you. Try to be less judgmental on people whose lives are less perfect in the romance dept.

What is your sign?

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Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

Seasonal depression is a serious mental illness...if you're aware that overthinking about this man's actions or lack thereof is not helping your mental health, then I advise that you do something else to help you cope with your depression in a healthy way (like doing something creative for the holidays) rather than make your condition worse by overthinking futile matters...

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Never mind I see Scorpio with Aries moon.

Well I hope your life stays perfect

I'm a scorpio man ... if I'm not answering texts, I'm not that interested. If someone I'm really into hits me up, I'm gonna answer asap, no matter how busy I am. And to be honest, I think that's how it is with most people ... "busy" is an excuse, and a shitty one. How hard or time consuming is it to answer a text? Think about that. People make time for who/what they want to make time for.

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Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

Seasonal depression is a serious mental illness...if you're aware that overthinking about this man's actions or lack thereof is not helping your mental health, then I advise that you do something else to help you cope with your depression in a healthy way (like doing something creative for the holidays) rather than make your condition worse by overthinking futile matters...

Never mind I see Scorpio with Aries moon.

Well I hope your life stays perfect

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Lol

to add to that, I know how disappointing this is. A Leo ghosted me like that recently and it hurts so bad ... rejection sucks, but when someone starts off liking you and then suddenly changes their mind, it sucks even worse. We just have to remind ourselves that we deserve someone who wants us. Being alone is better than being with someone who just isn't interested. Relationships should feel good and natural and bring out the best of both people ... it shouldn't make you feel like crap or cause you to lose sleep.

We are gonna find someone someday worthy of our greatness.

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Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Okay what is ffs? It's going to be hard to stay off ugh. I was kind of thinking I should disappear and make him wonder..

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Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

Seasonal depression is a serious mental illness...if you're aware that overthinking about this man's actions or lack thereof is not helping your mental health, then I advise that you do something else to help you cope with your depression in a healthy way (like doing something creative for the holidays) rather than make your condition worse by overthinking futile matters...

It's not a mental illness it's a condition but I agree with u on everything else. Well except futile matters. You sound married with no problems...good for you. Try to be less judgmental on people whose lives are less perfect in the romance dept.

What is your sign?

Seasonal Affective Disorder or Seasonal Depression is a disorder that is a subtype of depression (which is still a mental illness under mood disorders), so it is referred to as an illness rather than just a condition.

I'm in a relationship, not married.

I didn't intend to sound offensive when I stated "overthinking futile matters" since it's pointless figuring out a person whom you don't fully know well and just disappeared on you because what good did it bring you overthinking about him?...it just put you in a detrimental state given your already existing disorder...

Virgo is my sun sign...

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Ok thank you very much. 🙂

Posted by dolluxe
Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Are they overly sensitive where my comment/ teasing that I almost unfriended him really put him off?? I'm going to take your advice. I'm letting him lead...

I'm just going to leave it alone 😢 boo hoo I guess he is busy. So Next time he asks me out for wine, I'm going to make it work because he has very little free time. I didn't realize this.

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Posted by Librajean
Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

Seasonal depression is a serious mental illness...if you're aware that overthinking about this man's actions or lack thereof is not helping your mental health, then I advise that you do something else to help you cope with your depression in a healthy way (like doing something creative for the holidays) rather than make your condition worse by overthinking futile matters...

It's not a mental illness it's a condition but I agree with u on everything else. Well except futile matters. You sound married with no problems...good for you. Try to be less judgmental on people whose lives are less perfect in the romance dept.

What is your sign?

Seasonal Affective Disorder or Seasonal Depression is a disorder that is a subtype of depression (which is still a mental illness under mood disorders), so it is referred to as an illness rather than just a condition.

I'm in a relationship, not married.

I didn't intend to sound offensive when I stated "overthinking futile matters" since it's pointless figuring out a person whom you don't fully know well and just disappeared on you because what good did it bring you overthinking about him?...it just put you in a detrimental state given your already existing disorder...

Virgo is my sun sign...

Ok thank you very much. 🙂

No prob. Sorry if I sounded rude at my first post, I didn't mean for the tone of my post to sound that way.

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No your fine..you did sound a lil condescending but it's all good. I'm truly trying to figure out the situation not what's wrong with me. I already know what's wrong with me 🙂 but I appreciate the apology thank you.

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Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Okay what is ffs? It's going to be hard to stay off ugh. I was kind of thinking I should disappear and make him wonder..

Trust me those games won't work on a Scorpio lol

Be your own Libra self before he pursued you. Fun, outgoing and busy with her own life.

Try to date other people. You're too invested in this emotionally already.

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I have a date lined up for Tuesday. With a Capricorn man. He is taking me to Mastros 🙂 that will be fun.

Yes I like this Scorpio man. But I'm really trying to chill. He probably feels me intuitively he has Pidces moon.

Okay I'm going to move along...

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Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Are they overly sensitive where my comment/ teasing that I almost unfriended him really put him off?? I'm going to take your advice. I'm letting him lead...

I'm just going to leave it alone 😢 boo hoo I guess he is busy. So Next time he asks me out for wine, I'm going to make it work because he has very little free time. I didn't realize this.

It's possible you sounded high maintenance and needy to him.

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Compared to women he knows I'm very low maintenance and I have a sense of humor.

That is a good point. About sounding needy, I can see that but I was joking.

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Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Are they overly sensitive where my comment/ teasing that I almost unfriended him really put him off?? I'm going to take your advice. I'm letting him lead...

I'm just going to leave it alone 😢 boo hoo I guess he is busy. So Next time he asks me out for wine, I'm going to make it work because he has very little free time. I didn't realize this.

It's possible you sounded high maintenance and needy to him.

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Yeah I think your right, drats

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Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Are they overly sensitive where my comment/ teasing that I almost unfriended him really put him off?? I'm going to take your advice. I'm letting him lead...

I'm just going to leave it alone 😢 boo hoo I guess he is busy. So Next time he asks me out for wine, I'm going to make it work because he has very little free time. I didn't realize this.

It's possible you sounded high maintenance and needy to him.

Compared to women he knows I'm very low maintenance and I have a sense of humor.

That is a good point. About sounding needy, I can see that but I was joking.

Well good thing you've another date lined up. But if I were to choose between Scorps and Cappies, I'd choose Scorps. If your Scorp is busy now wait til you see your Cap's life.

Lmao this coming from someone who flirted with a Cappie.

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Lol ?

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Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Are they overly sensitive where my comment/ teasing that I almost unfriended him really put him off?? I'm going to take your advice. I'm letting him lead...

I'm just going to leave it alone 😢 boo hoo I guess he is busy. So Next time he asks me out for wine, I'm going to make it work because he has very little free time. I didn't realize this.

It's possible you sounded high maintenance and needy to him.

Compared to women he knows I'm very low maintenance and I have a sense of humor.

That is a good point. About sounding needy, I can see that but I was joking.

Well good thing you've another date lined up. But if I were to choose between Scorps and Cappies, I'd choose Scorps. If your Scorp is busy now wait til you see your Cap's life.

Lmao this coming from someone who flirted with a Cappie.

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I'm definitely interested in the Scorpio by far but it will be a fun night Caps are funny

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Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Are they overly sensitive where my comment/ teasing that I almost unfriended him really put him off?? I'm going to take your advice. I'm letting him lead...

I'm just going to leave it alone 😢 boo hoo I guess he is busy. So Next time he asks me out for wine, I'm going to make it work because he has very little free time. I didn't realize this.

It's possible you sounded high maintenance and needy to him.

Compared to women he knows I'm very low maintenance and I have a sense of humor.

That is a good point. About sounding needy, I can see that but I was joking.

Well good thing you've another date lined up. But if I were to choose between Scorps and Cappies, I'd choose Scorps. If your Scorp is busy now wait til you see your Cap's life.

Lmao this coming from someone who flirted with a Cappie.

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I'm definitely interested in the Scorpio by far but it will be a fun night Caps are funny

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Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.

Are they overly sensitive where my comment/ teasing that I almost unfriended him really put him off?? I'm going to take your advice. I'm letting him lead...

I'm just going to leave it alone 😢 boo hoo I guess he is busy. So Next time he asks me out for wine, I'm going to make it work because he has very little free time. I didn't realize this.

It's possible you sounded high maintenance and needy to him.

Compared to women he knows I'm very low maintenance and I have a sense of humor.

That is a good point. About sounding needy, I can see that but I was joking.

Well good thing you've another date lined up. But if I were to choose between Scorps and Cappies, I'd choose Scorps. If your Scorp is busy now wait til you see your Cap's life.

Lmao this coming from someone who flirted with a Cappie.

I'm definitely interested in the Scorpio by far but it will be a fun night Caps are funny

They are but from my experience, I mesh well with scorps. My male bestfriend is one and I'm surrounded by them.

Just chill

Good luck and have fun 🙂

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Chilling...

And accepting I probably scared him off lol

Libra, I understand how you feel: I experienced this with a Scorpio. It doesn't take a rocket science to understand rejection, it does however, take good mental health to accept it. I understand the analysis stage; but the cold hard fact remains; when a man is feeling you, nothing will stop him from contacting you - not death, birth, business, nothing. This Scorpio sounds rude and cold. We guys know the consequence of ghosting, if we do it, we simply don't care. I think you dodged a bullet. Good for you for going out with someone new.

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Libra, I understand how you feel: I experienced this with a Scorpio. It doesn't take a rocket science to understand rejection, it does however, take good mental health to accept it. I understand the analysis stage; but the cold hard fact remains; when a man is feeling you, nothing will stop him from contacting you - not death, birth, business, nothing. This Scorpio sounds rude and cold. We guys know the consequence of ghosting, if we do it, we simply don't care. I think you dodged a bullet. Good for you for going out with someone new.

Yes I dodged a bullet big time! This morning I saw a picture of him on Facebook with a girl at his company xmas party. Thank God I did not get romantically involved. I would be so devastated, instead I'm just grateful now I hope he leaves me alone.

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Posted by communicator
Libra, I understand how you feel: I experienced this with a Scorpio. It doesn't take a rocket science to understand rejection, it does however, take good mental health to accept it. I understand the analysis stage; but the cold hard fact remains; when a man is feeling you, nothing will stop him from contacting you - not death, birth, business, nothing. This Scorpio sounds rude and cold. We guys know the consequence of ghosting, if we do it, we simply don't care. I think you dodged a bullet. Good for you for going out with someone new.

Yes I dodged a bullet big time! This morning I saw a picture of him on Facebook with a girl at his company xmas party. Thank God I did not get romantically involved. I would be so devastated, instead I'm just grateful now I hope he leaves me alone.

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I'm sure a lot of girls are broken hearted this morning with this playboy. I do not date players..

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Posted by Librajean

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Libra, I understand how you feel: I experienced this with a Scorpio. It doesn't take a rocket science to understand rejection, it does however, take good mental health to accept it. I understand the analysis stage; but the cold hard fact remains; when a man is feeling you, nothing will stop him from contacting you - not death, birth, business, nothing. This Scorpio sounds rude and cold. We guys know the consequence of ghosting, if we do it, we simply don't care. I think you dodged a bullet. Good for you for going out with someone new.

Yes I dodged a bullet big time! This morning I saw a picture of him on Facebook with a girl at his company xmas party. Thank God I did not get romantically involved. I would be so devastated, instead I'm just grateful now I hope he leaves me alone.

Libras are usually able to dismiss and blow some where else. What you may be experiencing is the effects of Pluto magnetism It sounds like he stung you. Distance is how you heal from the sting; looking at his Facebook page is not going to help you. He's so indifferent he's posting pictures of other women. In regards to him leaving you alone...it sounds like he already has. It may be in your best interest to block his social media page and phone number, and text. But from what you are describing it doesn't sound like he is that concerned about getting in contact with you, and if so, you will get your feelings hurt. Scorpios know what they want and they don't vacillate. They know it immediately and are fixed! I wish you well, but I think you should have a good cry, back up and direct your attention elsewhere. He seems extremely crude.

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No he doesn't, I'm not going to block him right away seems to emotional for me. I already had a cry because I knew deep in my soul something was wrong a few days ago, I'm glad I know now. I don't feed his ego enough, I didn't drop everything to make my self available maybe that hurt his ego. Maybe my joke hurt his ego. I don't know how insecure he is deep down. Anyhoo, I'm glad I know.

Thanks for your advice ??

I mean, not to be mean, but if I had someone social media stalking me (and I have had someone do that) it would freak me the hell out. I stopped talking to someone I had been dating for 8 months cold turkey, blocked and everything, for calling me ranting about some obscure reddit post that he thought was mine. That crap weirds me out, and I in no way want a partner that sits there and watches my every move on social media. And from your posts, you are checking up on him on facebook, sitting there watching for the minute he reads a message, and overthinking his every action. That shows me, you are probably actively searching what he is doing. This leads me to believe that you are probably emotionally needy as well. What it sounds like to me is, he didn't find your role in his life important enough to warrant him continuing to pursue you in a romantic sense. And although he's a jerk for doing so, he probably didn't want to deal with your response had he have told you instead of ghosting you. I have a feeling, you would be asking him "why" he felt that way, and needing to know every minute detail for his decision to do so. He could give you a reason, and you would probably think "there's more" to it, when it is just a simple answer. It's juvenile to ghost people, but sometimes for selfish reasons, people do it.

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I mean, not to be mean, but if I had someone social media stalking me (and I have had someone do that) it would freak me the hell out. I stopped talking to someone I had been dating for 8 months cold turkey, blocked and everything, for calling me ranting about some obscure reddit post that he thought was mine. That crap weirds me out, and I in no way want a partner that sits there and watches my every move on social media. And from your posts, you are checking up on him on facebook, sitting there watching for the minute he reads a message, and overthinking his every action. That shows me, you are probably actively searching what he is doing. This leads me to believe that you are probably emotionally needy as well. What it sounds like to me is, he didn't find your role in his life important enough to warrant him continuing to pursue you in a romantic sense. And although he's a jerk for doing so, he probably didn't want to deal with your response had he have told you instead of ghosting you. I have a feeling, you would be asking him "why" he felt that way, and needing to know every minute detail for his decision to do so. He could give you a reason, and you would probably think "there's more" to it, when it is just a simple answer. It's juvenile to ghost people, but sometimes for selfish reasons, people do it.

We are Facebook friends so I see his posts and other Facebook friends I wouldn't say I was stalking. Actually quite the opposite, I should have been more attentive he is a very eligible man and I'm he has a lot of women after him. Maybe I showed no interest in his eyes and he moved on.

To bad for him.

Posted by Librajean
Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

You know how your wrote, Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings? This one doesn't share your same feelings. It happens to everybody. I think he will call you one day, but It will be a "check in" call nothing that will lead to anything special. Sounds like he has a woman who is really preoccupying his mind. Trust me, if we really liked a woman, nothing would stop us taking 10 seconds to send a text. He lost interest. But one day out of the blue he may send you a check in text talk for a minute. Nothing serious at all.

Ok I have been following this conversation and do you know what I think ? This is not the place to solve relationship issue with astrology . It's not divine .

That being said , that guy is a jerk , he does not know what he is missing . If guys had more balls to actually say what they mean and be honest and straightforward no one would loose time .

Point is , saying " stalking social media " is bad is plain stupid . In 2016 EVERYONE stalks on social media the person they like or their exes . It's not healthy , but it happens that's what social media are here for . To know exactly what someone is doing at every hour of the day .

What I have learned is - if you have to question yourself , if you have to " change " who you are for them to accept you . There are not the right person for you . It should not be this difficult or complicated .

There are billions of men out there , and maybe it saved you from a sure failure .

You will get over it . Maybe not today , maybe not in a week or two but eventually with time you will . Life goes on and you are young it's far from being over yet .

However - Scorpios , I hate when they turn cold and indifferent and the passive-agressive vibe is very rude . Especially when they used to be so warm and loving . I have learned that some of them tend to come back once they realised what they have lost . But don't fall for it

I also agree with the fact that if a scorpio likes you - you will know it . You won't have to second guess it . HOWEVER , I find them quite selfish and sometimes life just gets in the way they get distracted , but I doubt they ever forget about you if you really mattered to them . They might not tell you that tho . Especially if it's a text relationship .

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Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

You know how your wrote, Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings? This one doesn't share your same feelings. It happens to everybody. I think he will call you one day, but It will be a "check in" call nothing that will lead to anything special. Sounds like he has a woman who is really preoccupying his mind. Trust me, if we really liked a woman, nothing would stop us taking 10 seconds to send a text. He lost interest. But one day out of the blue he may send you a check in text talk for a minute. Nothing serious at all.

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Yes I even asked him if he had a girlfriend? He didn't answer he said hey sorry Ive been busy a military friend in town work and city stuff.

He lost interest it's probably for the better this was a sinking ship. He wanted to have sex. I didn't, he moved on. And to be clear I wasn't playing games I was busy too.

I'm not worried about it anymore I know the truth.

Thank you 🙂

Posted by Already-use
Ok I have been following this conversation and do you know what I think ? This is not the place to solve relationship issue with astrology . It's not divine .

That being said , that guy is a jerk , he does not know what he is missing . If guys had more balls to actually say what they mean and be honest and straightforward no one would loose time .

Point is , saying " stalking social media " is bad is plain stupid . In 2016 EVERYONE stalks on social media the person they like or their exes . It's not healthy , but it happens that's what social media are here for . To know exactly what someone is doing at every hour of the day .

What I have learned is - if you have to question yourself , if you have to " change " who you are for them to accept you . There are not the right person for you . It should not be this difficult or complicated .

There are billions of men out there , and maybe it saved you from a sure failure .

You will get over it . Maybe not today , maybe not in a week or two but eventually with time you will . Life goes on and you are young it's far from being over yet .

However - Scorpios , I hate when they turn cold and indifferent and the passive-agressive vibe is very rude . Especially when they used to be so warm and loving . I have learned that some of them tend to come back once they realised what they have lost . But don't fall for it

I also agree with the fact that if a scorpio likes you - you will know it . You won't have to second guess it . HOWEVER , I find them quite selfish and sometimes life just gets in the way they get distracted , but I doubt they ever forget about you if you really mattered to them . They might not tell you that tho . Especially if it's a text relationship .

He may contact me again?? I don't care about him anymore. I don't know what made him disappear like he did except that he found someone else. She seems like a nice girl too. Younger than me so maybe better for him. He is looking for a life mate and maybe saw me as just someone to fool around with. I'm a few years older.

Anyway everything happens for a reason. I really feel I dodged a bullet.

I say "Get Even"

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In 2016 EVERYONE stalks on social media the person they like or their exes . It's not healthy , but it happens that's what social media are here for . To know exactly what someone is doing at every hour of the day .

Says who? You? I don't have most social media, nor do I care to. And what I do have is strictly reserved for friends and family, not publicly shared. And I don't need to stalk social media for my exes, because exes are exes for a reason. Why the hell would I care what they are doing? That bridge is over and done with. And stalking the person I like? No thanks, because if I can't trust you then there is no point in being with you. Cause you know, adults in adult relationships usually tell each other what they are doing and with whom, rather than just letting their SO find out via social media.

It's asinine and dumb. So yes, social media stalking is dumb. Social media all together is dumb to me. I don't care if you are sitting on a toilet drinking a latte from starbucks, while picking your nose. I think the newer generation of people overshare way too much. You guys need to learn decorum.

Posted by Librajean
Okay I don't have a lot of experience with Scorpio men but I have had a few that really like me but I didn't share the same feelings. Until recently I met a Scorpio man that I like. We have a lot in common, we were texting a fair amount. But, he is really busy with his job social engagements and God only knows what else. He sent me a message last week that he was sorry he has been busy with work a friend in town and city event things. I told it was ok that I understand. Then teasing him I said I did almost unfriend you on Facebook tho he he xo. Then I told him I was teasing him. Now he doesn't like my pictures or anything. I asked him how he was doing... no response however it does show he didn't open my message.

So maybe he hasn't seen it?

I'm so depressed and disappointed I also have seasonal depression but so bummed out he just forgot about me.

Is this typical of Scorpio? Is he trying to teach me a lesson? Or is he so overwhelmed he can't think about his love life?

Anyone? Will I hear from him again?

if he took offence then it is because he doesn't know you and know that you didn't mean that and if he's not going to or not able to take the time to get to know you then it's not worth all the drama anyway - it just leaves the door open for another to step through

pamper yourself and be strong and sweet and you'll pick up another at the next dock "so to speak" ... just make sure it's a good one ...

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Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.

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This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.

I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.

Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding

Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.

This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.

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No ... It's not the people usually. Even if they're the reason , giving me space would do. Do me that favor n I ALWAYS will be back. If I'm suffocated, I just leave without warning.