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Posted by Hamburgers
I say "Get Even"


Nahhh

He lost all accountability, I thought he was a good guy. Not anymore...and he knows it. I have to have a really good man. He failed.

And this girl was not even close to me, sorry have to toot my own horn, but really turned off by the whole thing. I'm going to delete him soon. I'm truly uninterested and we are not friends.

In fact I'm going to delete him now.
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Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.
I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.
Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding
Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.
This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.


No ... It's not the people usually. Even if they're the reason , giving me space would do. Do me that favor n I ALWAYS will be back. If I'm suffocated, I just leave without warning.
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Don't you think that if you respected that person and their feelings you would just let them know you need some space. I think it's rather selfish to leave the person wondering and suffering emotionally, waiting for you or any Scorp in this position to "check back in"...
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Posted by Walkergrl
Posted by Teena
Posted by Ponyhaly
Posted by Teena
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.
I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.
Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding
Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.
This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.


No ... It's not the people usually. Even if they're the reason , giving me space would do. Do me that favor n I ALWAYS will be back. If I'm suffocated, I just leave without warning.


Don't you think that if you respected that person and their feelings you would just let them know you need some space. I think it's rather selfish to leave the person wondering and suffering emotionally, waiting for you or any Scorp in this position to "check back in"...
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@Walkergrl

But I never said I won't tell 'em. Where did I mention that? Leaving without warning is something which happens after I'm suffocated already. Giving space is long gone by then.
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Posted by Librajean
Posted by Hamburgers
I say "Get Even"


Nahhh

He lost all accountability, I thought he was a good guy. Not anymore...and he knows it. I have to have a really good man. He failed.

And this girl was not even close to me, sorry have to toot my own horn, but really turned off by the whole thing. I'm going to delete him soon. I'm truly uninterested and we are not friends.

In fact I'm going to delete him now.




I've reached the same point myself, this morning. Of all mornings... Christmas Eve. Whatever. I'm sick and tired of it. Not exactly the same situation as yours, but tired of the whole back and forth thing. Always feeling like I've done something wrong.



AgentP911 said this ----> The guy is barely making himself available to you for whatever reason. Does that suit what you want?

What do you want? Relationship, dating, friends, FWB, single life?

There's so many guys out there to choose from who are likely to match with you far better than this guy.

You can either forget about him or continue waiting about for this guy.

Life is too short. If it's not working out for you then change it.

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Wish I knew how to BOLD some of the things said here... But the bottom line is, it really hit me when I read this ^^^ and influenced my decision to stop the madness this morning. One of the biggest things I HATE is passive/aggressiveness.

I'm wishing you the best year ever in 2017 Librajean!!! 🙂
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Posted by Teena
Posted by Walkergrl
Posted by Teena
Posted by Ponyhaly
Posted by Teena
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.
I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.
Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding
Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.
This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.


No ... It's not the people usually. Even if they're the reason , giving me space would do. Do me that favor n I ALWAYS will be back. If I'm suffocated, I just leave without warning.


Don't you think that if you respected that person and their feelings you would just let them know you need some space. I think it's rather selfish to leave the person wondering and suffering emotionally, waiting for you or any Scorp in this position to "check back in"...




But I never said I won't tell 'em. Where did I mention that? Leaving without warning is something which happens after I'm suffocated already. Giving space is long gone by then.

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You didn't and I didn't mean to sound accusatory.
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@Walkergrl I get it. Sometimes I needed to get selfish too tbh. The drama gets overwhelming often times.When I talk to people , I talk to them like they're my best friends. That's not pretence. Never pretence.What I show then is what I feel then.I love associating with people.But I hate when people take it as an opportunity to get clingy or ask for more. You just need to cut people off sometimes to save yourself. I do that after being too nice for too long though.So this will be very unexpected n there will be emotions from the other end..but by then I might have already reached a point where I wouldn't look back.

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Posted by nikkistar
I don't get this whole social media thing where people get all offended someone doesn't "like" something on facebook or any other social media platform. Don't take this as an offense to you directly, I just have found that people that put so much analysis into that overthinking stuff, and come off as immature. OH HE DOESN'T LIKE ME ANYMORE BECAUSE HE DIDN'T LIKE THE POST OF THE PICTURE OF PASTA I POSTED?! OH-EM-GEE. In theory, it just sounds stupid.

I will say this, if a Scorpio man or woman is truly interested in someone, they don't go days without texting the person. We are attentive to the needs of the one we romantically care for. So, as the saying goes, he's just not that into you. What you said to him, isn't enough to warrant him striking back, imo.

I could be wrong though.
Oh money you are wrong!

They CAN go days and even months.

That's why in here it's called famous Scoepio dissapearing act.

Lol

To OP the wrong thing is to assume you will have an easy life dating a Scorpio.

Just don't hang over his ass! Remind him of yourself once in a while and in a mean time while he is MIA and read up all you can heee on Scorpios
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Posted by Walkergrl
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Hamburgers
I say "Get Even"


Nahhh

He lost all accountability, I thought he was a good guy. Not anymore...and he knows it. I have to have a really good man. He failed.

And this girl was not even close to me, sorry have to toot my own horn, but really turned off by the whole thing. I'm going to delete him soon. I'm truly uninterested and we are not friends.

In fact I'm going to delete him now.

I've reached the same point myself, this morning. Of all mornings... Christmas Eve. Whatever. I'm sick and tired of it. Not exactly the same situation as yours, but tired of the whole back and forth thing. Always feeling like I've done something wrong.



AgentP911 said this ----> The guy is barely making himself available to you for whatever reason. Does that suit what you want?

What do you want? Relationship, dating, friends, FWB, single life?

There's so many guys out there to choose from who are likely to match with you far better than this guy.

You can either forget about him or continue waiting about for this guy.

Life is too short. If it's not working out for you then change it.





Wish I knew how to BOLD some of the things said here... But the bottom line is, it really hit me when I read this ^^^ and influenced my decision to stop the madness this morning. One of the biggest things I HATE is passive/aggressiveness.

I'm wishing you the best year ever in 2017 Librajean!!! 🙂
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Awww thank you, I wish you the absolute best in 2017 too!! ? Congrats on moving on, when you hold onto something that brings negative feeling you are blocking good things to come your way. ?

AgentP91 always roots for the guy... I didn't make myself more available and he moved on. He is a very sexy, popular and successful man. Women are chomping at the bit. Not me. It hurt his ego. I didn't do it to play games, I was truly busy.

At any rate, I deleted him. It feels good to say f you to him ?

What to I want? I want the best relationship of my life. It's going to happen this year because I put in the work..

Merry Christmas ?? ?

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Posted by Teena
Posted by Walkergrl
Posted by Teena
Posted by Ponyhaly
Posted by Teena
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.
I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.
Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding
Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.
This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.


No ... It's not the people usually. Even if they're the reason , giving me space would do. Do me that favor n I ALWAYS will be back. If I'm suffocated, I just leave without warning.


Don't you think that if you respected that person and their feelings you would just let them know you need some space. I think it's rather selfish to leave the person wondering and suffering emotionally, waiting for you or any Scorp in this position to "check back in"...


@Walkergrl

But I never said I won't tell 'em. Where did I mention that? Leaving without warning is something which happens after I'm suffocated already. Giving space is long gone by then.
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We only met once so technically he doesn't owe me anything but if he was a considerate man he would have been more open and honest. But I agree selfish to the core. Azz
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@Walkergrl I get it. Sometimes I needed to get selfish too tbh. The drama gets overwhelming often times.When I talk to people , I talk to them like they're my best friends. That's not pretence. Never pretence.What I show then is what I feel then.I love associating with people.But I hate when people take it as an opportunity to get clingy or ask for more. You just need to cut people off sometimes to save yourself. I do that after being too nice for too long though.So this will be very unexpected n there will be emotions from the other end..but by then I might have already reached a point where I wouldn't look back.

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I understand. I'm not a Scorpio and I have reached this point. Thank you to the guy that kept doing it to me. Each time it would kill off some of my feelings for him. And now... I'm done.

I wanted more and he was too immature to handle it or be honest about it. IMO
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Posted by dolluxe
Lol @ a Libra overthinking

I'm a Libra who dated a Scorp

Only thing I can say is... Let him lead. Now do your thing and stay off social media ffs. If a man really wants you, he WILL make plans to see you.
Definitely.

However sometimes you can put your foot down and throw a fit and he'll laugh and run back to you! Lol

But don't try it more than once! Lol

It's true...and hilarious
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Posted by nikkistar
I don't get this whole social media thing where people get all offended someone doesn't "like" something on facebook or any other social media platform. Don't take this as an offense to you directly, I just have found that people that put so much analysis into that overthinking stuff, and come off as immature. OH HE DOESN'T LIKE ME ANYMORE BECAUSE HE DIDN'T LIKE THE POST OF THE PICTURE OF PASTA I POSTED?! OH-EM-GEE. In theory, it just sounds stupid.

I will say this, if a Scorpio man or woman is truly interested in someone, they don't go days without texting the person. We are attentive to the needs of the one we romantically care for. So, as the saying goes, he's just not that into you. What you said to him, isn't enough to warrant him striking back, imo.

I could be wrong though.
Oh money you are wrong!

They CAN go days and even months.

That's why in here it's called famous Scoepio dissapearing act.

Lol

To OP the wrong thing is to assume you will have an easy life dating a Scorpio.

Just don't hang over his ass! Remind him of yourself once in a while and in a mean time while he is MIA and read up all you can heee on Scorpios
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I deleted him from Facebook I'm not interested in dating him. He was asking me to hang out while he has a girlfriend... that's gross. No thanks.

I've never dated a Scorpio and don't think I will. I don't have good luck with water signs. I like Earth.
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Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Walkergrl
Posted by Teena
Posted by Ponyhaly
Posted by Teena
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.
I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.
Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding
Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.
This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.


No ... It's not the people usually. Even if they're the reason , giving me space would do. Do me that favor n I ALWAYS will be back. If I'm suffocated, I just leave without warning.


Don't you think that if you respected that person and their feelings you would just let them know you need some space. I think it's rather selfish to leave the person wondering and suffering emotionally, waiting for you or any Scorp in this position to "check back in"...


@Walkergrl

But I never said I won't tell 'em. Where did I mention that? Leaving without warning is something which happens after I'm suffocated already. Giving space is long gone by then.
We only met once so technically he doesn't owe me anything but if he was a considerate man he would have been more open and honest. But I agree selfish to the core. Azz

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@Librajean

Maybe he thought it would be more rude to be honest ? I feel so too sometimes... I remember times when I walked away thinking that would be less mean that just throwing straight forward s**t at people's faces you know
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@Walkergrl I get it. Sometimes I needed to get selfish too tbh. The drama gets overwhelming often times.When I talk to people , I talk to them like they're my best friends. That's not pretence. Never pretence.What I show then is what I feel then.I love associating with people.But I hate when people take it as an opportunity to get clingy or ask for more. You just need to cut people off sometimes to save yourself. I do that after being too nice for too long though.So this will be very unexpected n there will be emotions from the other end..but by then I might have already reached a point where I wouldn't look back.

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I understand. I'm not a Scorpio and I have reached this point. Thank you to the guy that kept doing it to me. Each time it would kill off some of my feelings for him. And now... I'm done.

I wanted more and he was too immature to handle it or be honest about it. IMO
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I saw you are Virgo. I love Virgos btw 🙂

That's right!! The more they take your space, the more they'd kill our feelings for them.But all this happens to me with friends too. I think I need to take blame some where.Maybe I let them get too comfortable or something.I don't draw the borders too clearly thinking it would be rude.N then I just had to be rude which I can't do to their faces.So I just leave.
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Posted by Teena
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Walkergrl
Posted by Teena
Posted by Ponyhaly
Posted by Teena
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.
I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.
Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding
Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.
This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.


No ... It's not the people usually. Even if they're the reason , giving me space would do. Do me that favor n I ALWAYS will be back. If I'm suffocated, I just leave without warning.


Don't you think that if you respected that person and their feelings you would just let them know you need some space. I think it's rather selfish to leave the person wondering and suffering emotionally, waiting for you or any Scorp in this position to "check back in"...


@Walkergrl

But I never said I won't tell 'em. Where did I mention that? Leaving without warning is something which happens after I'm suffocated already. Giving space is long gone by then.
We only met once so technically he doesn't owe me anything but if he was a considerate man he would have been more open and honest. But I agree selfish to the core. Azz


@Librajean

Maybe he thought it would be more rude to be honest ? I feel so too sometimes... I remember times when I walked away thinking that would be less mean that just throwing straight forward s**t at people's faces you know

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True, that's possible.

I will give him that..
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Posted by Librajean
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by nikkistar
I don't get this whole social media thing where people get all offended someone doesn't "like" something on facebook or any other social media platform. Don't take this as an offense to you directly, I just have found that people that put so much analysis into that overthinking stuff, and come off as immature. OH HE DOESN'T LIKE ME ANYMORE BECAUSE HE DIDN'T LIKE THE POST OF THE PICTURE OF PASTA I POSTED?! OH-EM-GEE. In theory, it just sounds stupid.

I will say this, if a Scorpio man or woman is truly interested in someone, they don't go days without texting the person. We are attentive to the needs of the one we romantically care for. So, as the saying goes, he's just not that into you. What you said to him, isn't enough to warrant him striking back, imo.

I could be wrong though.
Oh money you are wrong!

They CAN go days and even months.

That's why in here it's called famous Scoepio dissapearing act.

Lol

To OP the wrong thing is to assume you will have an easy life dating a Scorpio.

Just don't hang over his ass! Remind him of yourself once in a while and in a mean time while he is MIA and read up all you can heee on Scorpios
I deleted him from Facebook I'm not interested in dating him. He was asking me to hang out while he has a girlfriend... that's gross. No thanks.

I've never dated a Scorpio and don't think I will. I don't have good luck with water signs. I like Earth.

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Wait a minute.

Weren't you just asking if he will be back?
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Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Walkergrl
Posted by Teena
Posted by Ponyhaly
Posted by Teena
Posted by Librajean
Posted by Teena
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Not all scorps are the same I could go not texting someone I like for days or even weeks watch for other signs.
I do this too... I need not necessarily be busy to do that either.
Why do you do this? I'm just trying to gain understanding
Lol!! For no reason at all trust me. I might say I'm busy . But what exactly is busy to me? I can be talking to you on dxp here n tell my best friend that I'm busy. Or I might just sit somewhere doing nothing but be lost in thoughts n still ask someone not to disturb me. I just need space sometimes. Give me that n I'll be the same person when we meet / talk again. Does that mean I don't care for the person?? Not at all! I might love the person to death n still do this unless of course I absolutely need to attend to him/her.
This is exactly what my scorpio friend did. I told him that i feel like i did somethings wrong. It might has no reason at all! I did notice this once i gave him space. He will come back when hes ready.


No ... It's not the people usually. Even if they're the reason , giving me space would do. Do me that favor n I ALWAYS will be back. If I'm suffocated, I just leave without warning.


Don't you think that if you respected that person and their feelings you would just let them know you need some space. I think it's rather selfish to leave the person wondering and suffering emotionally, waiting for you or any Scorp in this position to "check back in"...


@Walkergrl

But I never said I won't tell 'em. Where did I mention that? Leaving without warning is something which happens after I'm suffocated already. Giving space is long gone by then.
We only met once so technically he doesn't owe me anything but if he was a considerate man he would have been more open and honest. But I agree selfish to the core. Azz


@Librajean

Maybe he thought it would be more rude to be honest ? I feel so too sometimes... I remember times when I walked away thinking that would be less mean that just throwing straight forward s**t at people's faces you know


True, that's possible.

I will give him that..

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@Librajean

Yes, I think you should... Though people might not agree, in my head..just walking away is less mean.Maybe he works that way too
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Posted by Teena
@Walkergrl I get it. Sometimes I needed to get selfish too tbh. The drama gets overwhelming often times.When I talk to people , I talk to them like they're my best friends. That's not pretence. Never pretence.What I show then is what I feel then.I love associating with people.But I hate when people take it as an opportunity to get clingy or ask for more. You just need to cut people off sometimes to save yourself. I do that after being too nice for too long though.So this will be very unexpected n there will be emotions from the other end..but by then I might have already reached a point where I wouldn't look back.

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I understand. I'm not a Scorpio and I have reached this point. Thank you to the guy that kept doing it to me. Each time it would kill off some of my feelings for him. And now... I'm done.

I wanted more and he was too immature to handle it or be honest about it. IMO
I saw you are Virgo. I love Virgos btw 🙂

That's right!! The more they take your space, the more they'd kill our feelings for them.But all this happens to me with friends too. I think I need to take blame some where.Maybe I let them get too comfortable or something.I don't draw the borders too clearly thinking it would be rude.N then I just had to be rude which I can't do to their faces.So I just leave.





Obviously, I set the bar too low by being understanding and forgiving.

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