Any chance of winning her back

So I met this amazing Girl on Twitter and just had to message her, I flirted my way to securing her telephone number and we have gone on a few dates. Now I'm an Aquarius and although I'm not too interested in astrology, having briefly researched character traits of my star sign and hers its amazing how similar we are to what our signs state.

She was obsessed with me in the beginning, messages every hour of every day, hints on Twitter, deep poems and gave all the signs she was in love with me

One week I'm away on holiday and I don't contact her as much and now she's gone completey cold. I've now found out she's back in touch with her ex and giving off the same hints to him on Twitter and leading some other guy along who happens to be her friend

She is beautiful, the most beautiful Girl I've ever seen, her eyes just seem to look right through you and pierce your soul, she's intelligent and classy but she is a complete and utter bitch.

I don't know whether she was leading me along from the beginning to get back at her ex or whether it was genuine. She's blocked me on Twitter and she won't respond to my messages

She's changed my personality 😢 I'm like her now obsessed, with her. Where I could just forget a Girl and move on, with her I can't. She has broken me to the point where I think about her everyday, "stalk" her Twitter and can't seem to get any work done and have refused interest from other Girls because I can't forget this Scorpio Girl

My cool carefree attitude has gone and I'm like putting it on the line to her that I love her but she is having none of it

I'm thinking of following all her "fiends" on Twitter and openly flirting with all them to the point I make her jealous and maybe win her back? Crazy I know, but a part of me wants to stick a middle finger to her and say f you but I also don't want to her, she's turned my Alpha personality into a straight Beta one and idk how I got here

I want her but if not want to forget her, but I can't. So now I just want to get her back for treating me like sh1t

She is pretty immature, tbh maybe I am too, she's 19 and I'm 20. But yeah she is definitely doing it to make me jealous as she wasn't like this before. I'm blocked on her Twitter, my phone calls are ignored and also texts. But then when I message her by text she'll tweet some crazy poem relevant to me or some quote from a movie where the main character just happens to have my name, she's fcking insane but a part of me likes this intensity about her and that's why I can't forget her and unfortunately she knows it. She's giving me just enough of a sign that she still wants me but I know she's back in touch with her ex. So I'm left trying to win her back or trying to hurt her so that she notices.

you don't love her she bruised your ego. If you got her back you will only do it just to return the cold favor. It is a game and she played you pretty hard. If a scorpio woman likes you we would be shy and carry a cold exterior. I can flirt with someone that hard when I know any feelings are there. She just used you to get back at her ex and she is immature. I'm much older than her and I would just drop you without all the extra games if I felt like you were wasting my time.

that's just how it works nowadays.

*feelings aren't there

It is much easier to flirt with a guy like that when I have no interest it's just a game.

I wasn't wasting her time, I was really into her and still am, she didn't bruise my ego she's destroyed it lol And yes she played me very well and the fact that her ex is now on the scene p1sses me off even further.

But she's also playing some other guy at the same time as her ex, so that strokes my ego just a bit there, I'm not the only fool that was played

She made a fool out of me, yeah I want to have her back if not, I want to make her so jealous that she rues the day that she decided to play me like that, basically

So I'm organising some charity gig, and I'm going to invite all her mates and exclude her, good idea ??

lol I have to be honest Aquarius guys are easy for a scorpio to play. In my mature days I have done the same thing. A guy I was seeing was being an ass so to get him back I flirted with a aquarius guy who liked me a lot. I hurt his feelings it was obvious but I apologized and we were cool again. aquarius men are attracted to us but I don't like air signs not deep enough for me but I enjoyed the flirting. You guys are handsome though.

yeah we are known to destroy a few egos thats what we do we destroy 😉

no don't be immature with her just ignore her existence she will come back just let her sting herself that hurts 10x worse.

move on try dating a earth or a fire sign.

Also it could be your karma for a girl to break your heart. Men break a lot of women hearts but it takes one woman to return that favor and you guys go nuts lol fragile egos but you get what you give.

that can be another lesson.

Problem is I let my guard down and let her know I cared about her and she acted like I never existed, from going to writing me poetry to acting like I never existed, that hurts. I don't like that and wouldn't treat someone like that

But she is that beautiful, that intelligent, that I would look past all her flaws and happily be with her

But I know if that can't be, I would rather hurt her feelings so bad so that I can move on, so that I can feel that I wasn't played for a fool, because my intentions with her were completely sincere, I loved her and still do

Posted by ScorpiosHarmony
You only want her because she's unattainable and therefore you don't deserve her time (like most immature men today)

Do her a favour and let her be with whomever she chooses.

so the answer to your problem stands you just want her to regain your ego. You both are immature. Move on people get played everyday you will be alright. Sounds like some past karma that bit you in the ass.

When you see a Girl who you think defines perfection, intellectually and physically, it's hard to move on. So little Mrs Perfect, who is playing two guys to win the attention of her bum ex needs to be taught a lesson. So I will do that in such a way that she never plays another guy for a fool again

Ugh! Why do people have to act like this? What are they accomplishing (besides, becoming a worse person).

Sickening!!

her lessons that she needs to learn are taught by the universe not by you. She will get her karma in do time but it sounds like your karma was served and now you are bitter. I took notice you never answered my question about breaking another woman heart. This is all for ego and you wonder why you guys didn't work out. Immature behavior will never get you anywhere but repeating the same karmic lessons.

Posted by e11e
dude, you ignored her for a week.

you don't even know if she's with her ex, I believe you are assuming.

you are looking at actions done online and assuming the worst possible scenario.

the only way to truly end this stupid game you've created in your head is to step back and regain a little self control and come at her like a normal human being.

how about trying to tell her exactly how you feel with absolutely no expectations attached to it?

I was away on holiday for a week for a friends wedding, told her in advance. I've told her how I feel about her and all I get it stupid hints on Twitter, like poems on how a man should treat a lady and the like after I message her

A situation Im not proud of, but I know her exes @ and can see what he is posting up and she is responding to that, yeah loving her has driven me insane

All I know is I like her, I can't move on from her so I either make her jealous to win her back and/or regain my ego and least that way I won't be behaving like some love sick puppy and can move on

I went from a guy not giving any Girl any emotions to giving her all my emotions and she liked it at first now she's brutally cold and acts like she doesn't give a fcuk

Posted by Octoberbaby91
her lessons that she needs to learn are taught by the universe not by you. She will get her karma in do time but it sounds like your karma was served and now you are bitter. I took notice you never answered my question about breaking another woman heart. This is all for ego and you wonder why you guys didn't work out. Immature behavior will never get you anywhere but repeating the same karmic lessons.

In any relationship I've been in, when I have had to end it, I've always been honest and ended the relationship in a way that would least hurt her. Anything I've done to hurt anyone I've ever dated, would be unintentional, but I've done some other bad things so idk it could be karma

she doesn't give a f*ck because she never did.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
she doesn't give a f*ck because she never did.

Mmm maybe, but why does she continue to drop hints on her Twitter and indirect me lol I'm not crazy and am not imagining these things she's great at psychological mind games!

If she didn't give a fcuk why the poetry why the message after message and then from hot to ice cold in a week for no reason

Posted by e11e
do you even see each other in person?

She won't respond to my messages or calls and I don't want to go to her apartment as I'll know she won't open the door

The thing is I know she doesn't like losing ppl that have been involved in her life, so I just get the vibe that she is putting on this cold front to punish me for ignoring her and she'll be back to normal if I let her know I'm moving on then maybe she'll take notice

Posted by e11e
you said she blocked you, so how are you seeing what you are seeing?

She's blocked me on Twitter but she still gets the texts I've sent her

Posted by Zakafc
If she didn't give a fcuk why the poetry why the message after message and then from hot to ice cold in a week for no reason

because it's a game! there is no rule on how far people go to lead another person on.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Ask yourself this: why are you only listening to the advice that is agreeing with your perception of this Scorpio? There are others that are advising for you to ASK HER AND DONT ASSUME. This tells me that you already have your mind up that you have been played. Good luck with that.

I don't get any responses to my texts apart from a "response" on her Twitter after I've messaged her lol she is crazy and its less of a response more like a fucking riddle

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Posted by Octoberbaby91
she doesn't give a f*ck because she never did.

Not sure how you know this. :/

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because if she did she wouldn't have walked away so easily. I know when I'm interested in someone a 100% I don't lead someone on and it's harder for me to just walk away. It's basic common sense when someone cares and doesn't.

let it go what's meant for you will be yours.

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she doesn't give a f*ck because she never did.

Not sure how you know this. :/

because if she did she wouldn't have walked away so easily. I know when I'm interested in someone a 100% I don't lead someone on and it's harder for me to just walk away. It's basic common sense when someone cares and doesn't.

Its only been a week or two. We have NO idea if she walked away.

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when someone is leading another person on and engaging in mind games for immature reasons it is only right to tell the person to have some dignity to walk away. Encouraging someone to stick around and keep analyzing someone else's behavior is not good advice. I would tell anybody to walk away and find someone who shows 100% interest. As a fellow scorpio if I play games I know I'm not interested especially if I block the guy I would hope they have moved on.

OP I will not tell you what you want to here this girl isn't worth the trouble there are beautiful, smart women all over the world. Find one who won't play childish games and you don't have to play games with either. It's easy for people to get caught up in pointless challenges. You were just a convience for her so let her chase her loser ex. A loss is sometimes a blessing.

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Posted by Octoberbaby91
she doesn't give a f*ck because she never did.

Not sure how you know this. :/

because if she did she wouldn't have walked away so easily. I know when I'm interested in someone a 100% I don't lead someone on and it's harder for me to just walk away. It's basic common sense when someone cares and doesn't.

Its only been a week or two. We have NO idea if she walked away.

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She's given me the cold shoulder for two weeks and now her ex is on the front. You know I wouldn't be so confused If I got a response, from her talking about what type of engagement ring she would like to completely ignoring me, I can't forget that or forgive that. I got carried away with her crazy ways that I fell for her and when she knew it she chewed me up and spat me out. She thought maybe I was playing her when I wasn't, so idk maybe she thought she'd save me the trouble

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she doesn't give a f*ck because she never did.

Not sure how you know this. :/

because if she did she wouldn't have walked away so easily. I know when I'm interested in someone a 100% I don't lead someone on and it's harder for me to just walk away. It's basic common sense when someone cares and doesn't.

Its only been a week or two. We have NO idea if she walked away.

when someone is leading another person on and engaging in mind games for immature reasons it is only right to tell the person to have some dignity to walk away. Encouraging someone to stick around and keep analyzing someone else's behavior is not good advice. I would tell anybody to walk away and find someone who shows 100% interest. As a fellow scorpio if I play games I know I'm not interested especially if I block the guy I would hope they have moved on.

OP I will not tell you what you want to here this girl isn't worth the trouble there are beautiful, smart women all over the world. Find one who won't play childish games and you don't have to play games with either. It's easy for people to get caught up in pointless challenges. You were just a convience for her so let her chase her loser ex. A loss is sometimes a blessing.

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You know I'm not like this in any other relationship, I'm like looking at myself and thinking what has this Girl done to you man like she has me under her spell :/

That's why I want her or if not want to get her back, she did hurt my ego to the point it's non existent and I can't be bothered with any other Girl until I move on from her, this would be a way for me, honestly she's like the female version of Al Pacino in the Devils Advocate

You're gonna fail hard. Scorps don't give a shit about jealousy. She's probably just hanging out with the ex and with no feelings whatsoever and actually pursuing the other guy. And if she's putting shit like that on Twitter than most likely she is going through the deep emotional process of feeling the burn and the sting of losing you and what she posts is probably more about that process of getting over you and not trying to make you jealous. Ex is there for comfort and entertainment. New guy she'll take it slow with him and try to get it right with him. Scorps will notice your childish revenge game and you will fuck up any chances you had of getting back with her cuz she will look at you like a weakling and then turn around and sting your ass 5xs as harder for stinging her (if she doesn't see her posts as something to make you jealous). And yea you'll piss her off for about a day or two but then she'll just love the feel and intensity of the hate you gave and then use it as fuel to better herself and her relationship with new guy. That's probably what she's doing now with her posts she's using the bad she got from you as fuel to have a better relationship with the next guy.Don't do it. You will lose. And if you think your ego is broke now just wait till she's done with you.

To get her back be blunt about it. Scorps admire strength. Fight for her and talk it out. Don't fight in a bitchy way. Just call her up (no texting) and speak from the heart. And it can't be lite convo it got to be releasing deep feelings.

And you had no commitment? I'm just reading all your post. You can't expect a Scorp to be loyal with no commitment. Anybody really not the sign.

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Posted by Octoberbaby91
she doesn't give a f*ck because she never did.

Not sure how you know this. :/

because if she did she wouldn't have walked away so easily. I know when I'm interested in someone a 100% I don't lead someone on and it's harder for me to just walk away. It's basic common sense when someone cares and doesn't.

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I don't think your advice it valid at all. Your missing key things. She wrote deep poetry for him. Scorps DONT do that shit unless they are in that burning desire, twin flame/soulmate kinda love. Silence and ignoring and diss appearing out of thin air is actually a good sign for Scorp lovers. Scorps don't really do that unless the really don't like you or they need to cut u off to stay stable and free from the emotions that hurt. If she openeded up and wrote poetry she was definately into you. Seems like she could still be hurt but finding her way out of the hurt now. And Scorps don't act like that unless the hurt is deep. Are u being honest? What you do to that girl?

Posted by greenlight
You're gonna fail hard. Scorps don't give a shit about jealousy. She's probably just hanging out with the ex and with no feelings whatsoever and actually pursuing the other guy. And if she's putting shit like that on Twitter than most likely she is going through the deep emotional process of feeling the burn and the sting of losing you and what she posts is probably more about that process of getting over you and not trying to make you jealous. Ex is there for comfort and entertainment. New guy she'll take it slow with him and try to get it right with him. Scorps will notice your childish revenge game and you will fuck up any chances you had of getting back with her cuz she will look at you like a weakling and then turn around and sting your ass 5xs as harder for stinging her (if she doesn't see her posts as something to make you jealous). And yea you'll piss her off for about a day or two but then she'll just love the feel and intensity of the hate you gave and then use it as fuel to better herself and her relationship with new guy. That's probably what she's doing now with her posts she's using the bad she got from you as fuel to have a better relationship with the next guy.Don't do it. You will lose. And if you think your ego is broke now just wait till she's done with you.

Thanks for the advice, anyway they say revenge is a dish best served cold, I'm still hot atm so I'll wait a bit jk I just want her to know that I know she played me and give her a taste of her own medicine to teach her a lesson and tbh feel a bit better lol but that is childish and stupid I know but if you knew this Girl and how manipulative she is it would blow you remind away and you would think my actions justified.
But I'll probably let it go as I don't want to remember her

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Posted by Octoberbaby91
she doesn't give a f*ck because she never did.

Not sure how you know this. :/

because if she did she wouldn't have walked away so easily. I know when I'm interested in someone a 100% I don't lead someone on and it's harder for me to just walk away. It's basic common sense when someone cares and doesn't.

Its only been a week or two. We have NO idea if she walked away.

when someone is leading another person on and engaging in mind games for immature reasons it is only right to tell the person to have some dignity to walk away. Encouraging someone to stick around and keep analyzing someone else's behavior is not good advice. I would tell anybody to walk away and find someone who shows 100% interest. As a fellow scorpio if I play games I know I'm not interested especially if I block the guy I would hope they have moved on.

OP I will not tell you what you want to here this girl isn't worth the trouble there are beautiful, smart women all over the world. Find one who won't play childish games and you don't have to play games with either. It's easy for people to get caught up in pointless challenges. You were just a convience for her so let her chase her loser ex. A loss is sometimes a blessing.

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People also play games because of fear and doubt and scared of love bad communication in the relationship lots of reasons. People who are deep down great mates with loads of potential. All they need is growth and guidance. Doesn't mean they will always be this way. She's young too so she probably never really loved like this.

Posted by e11e
she's holding up a mirror and what makes you so uncomfortable is that you are seeing yourself looking back at you.

sounds like she gave you a dose of your own medicine.

the only way to stop the cycle is to just STOP the games.

as long as you are hell bent on getting back AT her or back WITH her....this will continue.

humble your damn self.

It's like a game of chess with her, btw she got some of the best grades in her entire City so she is extremely intelligent and a part of me doesn't like being played for a fool so if I know it's over I would like her to taste her own medicine but if it's pointless to her as some have suggested il probably leave it or still maybe try to feel better lol

Posted by e11e
the OP is not innocent in this mess. he played the typical aqua card by being all "I'm not all that interested in you.....but you are more than welcome to fawn over me, obsess over me, loveeeeeee me....it phases me not one bit and I will show you it doesn't" bullshit.

then when the tables were turned he realised what he did and now is trying to backpeddle.

should have been real from the get go. when you aren't....this is usually what happens.

I suspect it's more on this side and she got fed up and bounced

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Posted by e11e
the OP is not innocent in this mess. he played the typical aqua card by being all "I'm not all that interested in you.....but you are more than welcome to fawn over me, obsess over me, loveeeeeee me....it phases me not one bit and I will show you it doesn't" bullshit.

then when the tables were turned he realised what he did and now is trying to backpeddle.

should have been real from the get go. when you aren't....this is usually what happens.

Hmmm....I was thinking along the same lines here. The OPs remarks sure sound like the Aqua aloofness gone bad to me. Not saying this Scorpio is innocent because she's obviously playing some game. Then again, she has an EX which could mean she just went through all the bullshit that happens when you end a relationship. So I'm feeling this Scorpio nuked it all when she found herself feeling vulnerable during that week "off" while Aqua played with his other friends. Immaturity coupled with too much too soon perhaps?

+1000 for Elle.

Yes, IS.... It's definitely immaturity coupled with too much too soon. When he left, she probably had a chance to realize how his words just sound like fluff since his actions (leaving without communicating) showed the reality. He really doesn't care. That was probably enough to just end it for her. I'm leaning towards her flat out ending it. I highly doubt she is playing games to win him back. I've never done something like that before...

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I'm glad I know she isn't giving me the hard shoulder for me to try and win her back as I thought it would be the case

I have shown her my emotions when she wanted them, like telling me to be honest how I felt about her, I told her I loved her

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Posted by e11e
the OP is not innocent in this mess. he played the typical aqua card by being all "I'm not all that interested in you.....but you are more than welcome to fawn over me, obsess over me, loveeeeeee me....it phases me not one bit and I will show you it doesn't" bullshit.

then when the tables were turned he realised what he did and now is trying to backpeddle.

should have been real from the get go. when you aren't....this is usually what happens.

Hmmm....I was thinking along the same lines here. The OPs remarks sure sound like the Aqua aloofness gone bad to me. Not saying this Scorpio is innocent because she's obviously playing some game. Then again, she has an EX which could mean she just went through all the bullshit that happens when you end a relationship. So I'm feeling this Scorpio nuked it all when she found herself feeling vulnerable during that week "off" while Aqua played with his other friends. Immaturity coupled with too much too soon perhaps?

I agree.

Neither party is innocent. Unfortunately, this is how aqua and scorp usually ends up (if we are only speaking on sun signs).

Aqua basks in the lovin, brags about how much this person is into them.....until Scorpio is tired of no reciprocation or emotion....walking away feeling unloved and foolish.

Aqua comes back with a vengeance because their ego is all busted....trying to pull back all the goodies.

by that time, it's just too damn late.

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ON 1,000!

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Posted by greenlight
To get her back be blunt about it. Scorps admire strength. Fight for her and talk it out. Don't fight in a bitchy way. Just call her up (no texting) and speak from the heart. And it can't be lite convo it got to be releasing deep feelings.

he can't do that.

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I bet. That's why he's trying to be manipulative instead of being plain and upfront. Also probably has something to do with Scorp leaving.

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Posted by e11e
she's holding up a mirror and what makes you so uncomfortable is that you are seeing yourself looking back at you.

sounds like she gave you a dose of your own medicine.

the only way to stop the cycle is to just STOP the games.

as long as you are hell bent on getting back AT her or back WITH her....this will continue.

humble your damn self.

It's like a game of chess with her, btw she got some of the best grades in her entire City so she is extremely intelligent and a part of me doesn't like being played for a fool so if I know it's over I would like her to taste her own medicine but if it's pointless to her as some have suggested il probably leave it or still maybe try to feel better lol

WOW its all about YOU feeling better here. You don't give a shit about this woman you LOVE so much you are obssessed with. She was right to do whatever she did. She saw right through you and all she saw was EGO. No one wants to be in a relationship with an EGO. Move along. Leave her alone. Take a good, hard look at yourself in the mirror and don't be an ass next time.

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I didn't have some arrogant persona when I was with her you know, we had a great time together, it was electric. I just can't handle being used for a fool, nothing wrong with that, so if someone does wrong to me I'll feel the need to retaliate

Making her feel jealous is to try and win her back, but listening to ppl on here I'm told that's useless as more than likely she's not interested. It was only partially to make myself feel better lol more to do with wanting her back :/

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Posted by e11e
she's holding up a mirror and what makes you so uncomfortable is that you are seeing yourself looking back at you.

sounds like she gave you a dose of your own medicine.

the only way to stop the cycle is to just STOP the games.

as long as you are hell bent on getting back AT her or back WITH her....this will continue.

humble your damn self.

It's like a game of chess with her, btw she got some of the best grades in her entire City so she is extremely intelligent and a part of me doesn't like being played for a fool so if I know it's over I would like her to taste her own medicine but if it's pointless to her as some have suggested il probably leave it or still maybe try to feel better lol

WOW its all about YOU feeling better here. You don't give a shit about this woman you LOVE so much you are obssessed with. She was right to do whatever she did. She saw right through you and all she saw was EGO. No one wants to be in a relationship with an EGO. Move along. Leave her alone. Take a good, hard look at yourself in the mirror and don't be an ass next time.

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And I dont want to post my texts here as they are cringeworthy but I put it on the line before I went in holiday, telling her I loved her, that she's the most beautiful Girl in my eyes and that I only have eyes for her

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Posted by greenlight
You're gonna fail hard. Scorps don't give a shit about jealousy. She's probably just hanging out with the ex and with no feelings whatsoever and actually pursuing the other guy. And if she's putting shit like that on Twitter than most likely she is going through the deep emotional process of feeling the burn and the sting of losing you and what she posts is probably more about that process of getting over you and not trying to make you jealous. Ex is there for comfort and entertainment. New guy she'll take it slow with him and try to get it right with him. Scorps will notice your childish revenge game and you will fuck up any chances you had of getting back with her cuz she will look at you like a weakling and then turn around and sting your ass 5xs as harder for stinging her (if she doesn't see her posts as something to make you jealous). And yea you'll piss her off for about a day or two but then she'll just love the feel and intensity of the hate you gave and then use it as fuel to better herself and her relationship with new guy. That's probably what she's doing now with her posts she's using the bad she got from you as fuel to have a better relationship with the next guy.Don't do it. You will lose. And if you think your ego is broke now just wait till she's done with you.

Thanks for the advice, anyway they say revenge is a dish best served cold, I'm still hot atm so I'll wait a bit jk I just want her to know that I know she played me and give her a taste of her own medicine to teach her a lesson and tbh feel a bit better lol but that is childish and stupid I know but if you knew this Girl and how manipulative she is it would blow you remind away and you would think my actions justified.
But I'll probably let it go as I don't want to remember her

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I do kno how manipulative Scorps are bit thing is YOU DONT KNOW IF SHE PLAYED YOU AND WHEN YOUR STORY UNFOLDS I BELIEVE MORE AND MORE THAT SHE DIDNT AND ISNT PLAYING YOU! Why do you keep thinking like that? That's your ego gone out of control. If you treat a Scorp with disrespect they will bounce with no explanation. They give what they get from people. Know the difference. She didn't play you she stood up for herself and her heart and stopped believing in you or you and her. Don't try t

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Posted by Impulsv
Don't take for granted the attention a Scorpio woman gives you.

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I didn't, it's quite normal for ppl to go on Holiday and not expect their relationship to be over because they didn't hear from their partner for a few days.

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Posted by e11e
she's holding up a mirror and what makes you so uncomfortable is that you are seeing yourself looking back at you.

sounds like she gave you a dose of your own medicine.

the only way to stop the cycle is to just STOP the games.

as long as you are hell bent on getting back AT her or back WITH her....this will continue.

humble your damn self.

It's like a game of chess with her, btw she got some of the best grades in her entire City so she is extremely intelligent and a part of me doesn't like being played for a fool so if I know it's over I would like her to taste her own medicine but if it's pointless to her as some have suggested il probably leave it or still maybe try to feel better lol

WOW its all about YOU feeling better here. You don't give a shit about this woman you LOVE so much you are obssessed with. She was right to do whatever she did. She saw right through you and all she saw was EGO. No one wants to be in a relationship with an EGO. Move along. Leave her alone. Take a good, hard look at yourself in the mirror and don't be an ass next time.

I didn't have some arrogant persona when I was with her you know, we had a great time together, it was electric. I just can't handle being used for a fool, nothing wrong with that, so if someone does wrong to me I'll feel the need to retaliate

Making her feel jealous is to try and win her back, but listening to ppl on here I'm told that's useless as more than likely she's not interested. It was only partially to make myself feel better lol more to do with wanting her back :/

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Lies! YOU CANT FOOL US! For you to even think of doing some petty revengeful shit like that instead of just knowing you fucked up and moving on tells me this isn't the first time you behaved like this or the first time you got this darkness to you.

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she's holding up a mirror and what makes you so uncomfortable is that you are seeing yourself looking back at you.

sounds like she gave you a dose of your own medicine.

the only way to stop the cycle is to just STOP the games.

as long as you are hell bent on getting back AT her or back WITH her....this will continue.

humble your damn self.

It's like a game of chess with her, btw she got some of the best grades in her entire City so she is extremely intelligent and a part of me doesn't like being played for a fool so if I know it's over I would like her to taste her own medicine but if it's pointless to her as some have suggested il probably leave it or still maybe try to feel better lol

WOW its all about YOU feeling better here. You don't give a shit about this woman you LOVE so much you are obssessed with. She was right to do whatever she did. She saw right through you and all she saw was EGO. No one wants to be in a relationship with an EGO. Move along. Leave her alone. Take a good, hard look at yourself in the mirror and don't be an ass next time.

I didn't have some arrogant persona when I was with her you know, we had a great time together, it was electric. I just can't handle being used for a fool, nothing wrong with that, so if someone does wrong to me I'll feel the need to retaliate

Making her feel jealous is to try and win her back, but listening to ppl on here I'm told that's useless as more than likely she's not interested. It was only partially to make myself feel better lol more to do with wanting her back :/

Lies! YOU CANT FOOL US! For you to even think of doing some petty revengeful shit like that instead of just knowing you fucked up and moving on tells me this isn't the first time you behaved like this or the first time you got this darkness to you.

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Are you related to her by any chance? It's the truth. Chill out, I'm on good terms with a few of me exes but this

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If you treat a Scorp with disrespect they will bounce with no explanation. They give what they get from people. Know the difference. She didn't play you she stood up for herself and her heart and stopped believing in you or you and her.

this too ^^^^

who are you, greenlight?

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I'm "new" but not really cuz I've been reading these things for 3 weeks now. Finally got the courage to just post something

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you also didn't answer how you are seeing what you are seeing after the text messages if she blocked you on twitter.

She has not not blocked my phone number, she gets my texts and posts a response not to me but on her Twitter which is an indirect to me

Thanks for the responses, I appreciate them all. I love her, she hurt me, I basically want to hurt her back, I know I'll achieve nothing from it but I don't really want to hurt her just get her to take notice but I can see that is pointless from the responses here because "you don't win scorps back" so I'll try and move on and make sure I avoid scorps in future as I can see we're not well matched at all and astrology does have some truth to it

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you also didn't answer how you are seeing what you are seeing after the text messages if she blocked you on twitter.

She has not not blocked my phone number, she gets my texts and posts a response not to me but on her Twitter which is an indirect to me

that doesn't make any sense.

if she blocked you from twitter...you can't see her posts or any posts she puts on other's feeds.

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You can see them, you just search their @ won't be on your tl though but can still see them if you search their name

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you also didn't answer how you are seeing what you are seeing after the text messages if she blocked you on twitter.

She has not not blocked my phone number, she gets my texts and posts a response not to me but on her Twitter which is an indirect to me

Oh yeah, this weird behaviour.


Just use the 2:1 rule that Scorpio women on here taught me. Put in twice the amount of effort over the one period of time she felt slighted. I.e. in your case put in two weeks of hard time.


They come back around. The Scorpio that didn't speak to me for years this year asked me for my number and we are all good again.

Honestly all the other stuff about "regret the day you ignored a Scorpio woman!" is just aggro talk here, it's baloney. Everyone comes back around eventually. You just have to both be in the right frame of mind to be ready for it.

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I'm willing to put in the effort but you know if you put in the effort and the other person is not interested you'll just end up feeling worse

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I don't know how someone can go straight to...."I must avenge myself and hurt her because she hurt me! I must do it NOW!!"....unless they've done something themselves and they are trying defend their own actions.

It doesn't make sense.

He probably posted pics of him having a great time with friends and his arm around another woman or three. LOL

She saw this and looked at her text messages from him which there were none and she decided to pull the plug...and now he's in the "I can do whatever I want to and don't have to explain myself to anyone" mode AKA fixed stubborn pride..meanwhile she nuked the whole thing and is back talking to ex and moving on albeit with a bruised heart for trusting him.

My guess anyway.

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lol no.