JBG
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Posted by ReincarnationPosted by PrettyQueenBee
Scorpios will ruin you. Run.
No one should ever date a Scorpio man. Ever.click to expand


Posted by JBGPosted by ReincarnationPosted by PrettyQueenBee
Scorpios will ruin you. Run.
No one should ever date a Scorpio man. Ever.
Why are y'all so hard on the scorpio men?! Queen bee I know your story, but reincarnation why do you feel this way?click to expand

Posted by Damnata
Maybe it was cold outside and he cared about you?
Maybe he said it because they were too short and you looked trashy? - not offending you just throwing a suggestion/idea
Maybe..
You've just started seeing him. See where it goes first.
That comment doesn't strike me as controlling. I would've laughed.


Posted by Damnata
Haven't dated nor am I one but I've run into men with controlling issues.
I gotcha.
Heed rocky's comment. It's too soon to tell.
Posted by kindness
I dated a Scorpio once, and will never do it again. He was too intense, had something to say about everything I did... what I ate, what I wore, what I drank... you name it. My mom is a Scorpio, and is super controlling, I won't ever cook a meal in her kitchen, not worth the headache. However, my dad is a Scorpio, just 3 days apart, and he isn't controlling at all.

Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Damnata
Haven't dated nor am I one but I've run into men with controlling issues.
I gotcha.
Heed rocky's comment. It's too soon to tell.
I started to see it when he'd try to buy me clothes so early on, or wrinkled his nose at me when he saw what I was wearing post workout/practice. It always stood out to me because I thought it was stupid and hypocritical considering his usual attire was a t-shirt, jeans, and flip flops. Wrinkling his nose at my tshirt, soccer shorts, and soccer sandals was a bit ridiculous.
I let it go, but it was definitely a sign of things to come. To this day, I still see him doing and saying uber hypocritical things about others when he refuses to look at himself in the same light.click to expand


Posted by ImpulsvPosted by JBGPosted by ReincarnationPosted by PrettyQueenBee
Scorpios will ruin you. Run.
No one should ever date a Scorpio man. Ever.
Why are y'all so hard on the scorpio men?! Queen bee I know your story, but reincarnation why do you feel this way?
I agree scorps are meant for monk hoodclick to expand

Posted by tiziani
I thought you were going to say wired it with explosives.


Posted by tiziani
If I had it my way, with all due respects to your friend and whoever else in the world, I'd have it so people could stop using jealousy or possessive as an excuse. I'd make it stigmatised and socially unacceptable to the point where you have to hide it like class A drugs.





Posted by Bobbo92
Im a double scorpio with a leo rising, so you can imagine how intense I can be. But to answer your question, us scorpios are assholes because we have no filter. We tell the truth and it sucks because when we do we say it "intensely" just because thats our nature. We don't mean usually what we say, but when it comes out its going to be true. and damn right they are going to stand by it, because scorpio's temper is worse then any other sign, you can look that up. And when they are completely happy, you wont find a person you'd rather be with. This is what my friends tell me, its not just me saying this. Hope I didn't offend anyone.
Best,
Bobbo

Posted by GetMistedPosted by PrettyQueenBee
Scorpios will ruin you.
For other men.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Posted by JBG
So I'm seeing a new scorpio guy. I met him awile ago, but we just started conversing more consistently recently. Any who, I know Scorpios can have a reputation for being posessive and sometimes controlling.
I saw him outside of a club, I had on shorts, they were kind of short. He immidiately tells me to "go out clothes on". He said it matter of factly, not mean or assertive. But I was wondering if this was an introduction of things to come. What do you all think?
It's more paternal. He's telling you to have some self respectclick to expand

Posted by JBG
He immidiately tells me to "go out clothes on". He said it matter of factly, not mean or assertive. But I was wondering if this was an introduction of things to come. What do you all think?

Posted by CreoleGeisha
On a more serious note, a Scorpio acquaintance I trust and respect once communicated to me his distaste for some of my more figure-conscious clothing. He was very subtle and gentlemanly about it, though, to the point that I DID start dressing more conservatively for his comfort. I felt more like I was doing him a favor than he was controlling me.

Posted by M143
JBG,
Scorpio are not that controlling. Maybe your shorts look like you are '' $ /ut'' and he was
trying to protect your dignity so you can earned respect from others.
Respect is a big deal to a Scorpio.
Posted by Whatu
Not very subtle, any Scorpio man worth his weight would tell you what to wear by making you feel amazing in the kind of clothing he wants you to wear, You would not even know that he was in control.
Don't date us.
Posted by GetMistedPosted by Bobbo92
Im a double scorpio with a leo rising, so you can imagine how intense I can be. But to answer your question, us scorpios are assholes because we have no filter. We tell the truth and it sucks because when we do we say it "intensely" just because thats our nature. We don't mean usually what we say, but when it comes out its going to be true. and damn right they are going to stand by it, because scorpio's temper is worse then any other sign, you can look that up. And when they are completely happy, you wont find a person you'd rather be with. This is what my friends tell me, its not just me saying this. Hope I didn't offend anyone.
Best,
Bobbo
I really dislike those who mistake disrespect and vulgarity for "intensity". And when I say "mistake", I mean a total disregard for and/or an excuse as to why they will not accept accountability for the things they do and/or say.
There is a difference between being:
-Honest
-Tactful
-Respectful
-Intense
-Opinionated
And..
Being an Asshole for the sake of being an asshole.click to expand

Posted by M143
JBG,
This is your word.
I saw him outside of a club, I had on shorts, they were kind of short.
and this....
I wish people would stop saying that my shorts were NOT that short!
So I don't know why you are mad. lmao

Posted by Damnata
rocky, was your Libra ex one of the 2 venus in scorpio?
I know one Libra, Scorpio Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Venus.
Awesome friend, batshit crazy in relationships. He also dated an Aries chick and his jealousy got to the point where he wired some tracking devices to her car. It went downhill from there fast.

Posted by JBG
I'm a leo so if I like a man I do like a bit of extra adoration if you will. Maybe a slight obsession, but I don't want to be told how to run my life.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by JBG
I'm a leo so if I like a man I do like a bit of extra adoration if you will. Maybe a slight obsession, but I don't want to be told how to run my life.
"I'm going to stick to this guy because he makes my lady bits tingle with his weirdo jealousy/possessiveness."
You know he was coming from a place of control freak, but your lady bits loved the fact that he reacted the way he did. You guys gotta get that stupid ego under control. You'd lead a much happier life in the long haul.
Leo + Scorp?
I take back what I said earlier. I have no idea how you two will fare with all that fixed craziness going on. :/ You're going to love his possessiveness because it makes you feel some sort of self worth, and eventually will grow tired of it when it becomes overkill. You start the stick poking and he starts the vindictive Scorp bs, and voil??, here comes the threads about how terrible things are.
...overall I hope things really do go well for you. No, really.
But from your responses here... Fingers crossed. :/click to expand
Posted by JBGPosted by Whatu
Not very subtle, any Scorpio man worth his weight would tell you what to wear by making you feel amazing in the kind of clothing he wants you to wear, You would not even know that he was in control.
Don't date us.
WOW! Everyone says the same thing. Don't date scorpio men. Should I heed this warning? You all can't be that bad. Plenty of scorpio men have long lasting happy relationships with women. My daddy is a scorpio, we get along great for the most part, but I've never dated him either. Hehe. He wasn't controlling with my mom, but he was a compulsive cheater & still cheats on his new wife. & from the noises I heard from my parents bedroom when I was a child...I'm guessing he was good in the sack. Lol he's extremely handsome & VERY charming. I don't think he's ever met a stranger, he must have some fire in his chart. I've never noticed any scorpio intensity, although he does have a little temper, but I've never seen that displayed towards my mama or stepmom. EVER. He doesn't even like to argue with women.
I don't think scorpio men are that bad, minus the cheating part.click to expand

Posted by Bobbo92
Im a double scorpio with a leo rising, so you can imagine how intense I can be. But to answer your question, us scorpios are assholes because we have no filter....We don't mean usually what we say, but when it comes out its going to be true. and damn right they are going to stand by it,...Hope I didn't offend anyone.

Posted by ReincarnationPosted by RabbitPosted by ReincarnationPosted by PrettyQueenBee
Scorpios will ruin you. Run.
No one should ever date a Scorpio man. Ever.
Indeed.
Rabbit was the first to say this. I should give credit where credit is due.click to expand

Posted by Bobbo92
Im a double scorpio with a leo rising, so you can imagine how intense I can be. But to answer your question, us scorpios are assholes because we have no filter. We tell the truth and it sucks because when we do we say it "intensely" just because thats our nature. We don't mean usually what we say, but when it comes out its going to be true. and damn right they are going to stand by it, because scorpio's temper is worse then any other sign, you can look that up. And when they are completely happy, you wont find a person you'd rather be with. This is what my friends tell me, its not just me saying this. Hope I didn't offend anyone.
Best,
Bobbo

Posted by RabbitPosted by GetMistedPosted by PrettyQueenBee
Scorpios will ruin you.
For other men.
Possibly other women as well.click to expand



Posted by Reincarnation
My mind is a lesbian? In a man's body?
Why is my mind lesbian?
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by JynjaPosted by Juicysbaby214
I have one scorpio male friend, hes an attirney. Bald head, thick beard, and a father. Hes not controling but he is a MAN and when I'm around him I def tighten up LOL but really hes a softie underneath i call him Paddington bear!
This.
one more time for good measure.
Posted by ReincarnationPosted by Whatu
Not very subtle, any Scorpio man worth his weight would tell you what to wear by making you feel amazing in the kind of clothing he wants you to wear, You would not even know that he was in control.
Don't date us.
Not sure about that, bud. I don't hint ever.
I told my woman "Cover up" and she did.
Sorted.
Hinting is more of a Cancerian thing.click to expand

Posted by Bobbo92
Im a double scorpio with a leo rising, so you can imagine how intense I can be. But to answer your question, us scorpios are assholes because we have no filter. We tell the truth and it sucks because when we do we say it "intensely" just because thats our nature. We don't mean usually what we say, but when it comes out its going to be true. and damn right they are going to stand by it, because scorpio's temper is worse then any other sign, you can look that up. And when they are completely happy, you wont find a person you'd rather be with. This is what my friends tell me, its not just me saying this. Hope I didn't offend anyone.
Best,
Bobbo

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I saw him outside of a club, I had on shorts, they were kind of short. He immidiately tells me to "go out clothes on". He said it matter of factly, not mean or assertive. But I was wondering if this was an introduction of things to come. What do you all think?