
WateryGem
@WateryGem
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Posted by WhatuPosted by ReincarnationPosted by Whatu
Not very subtle, any Scorpio man worth his weight would tell you what to wear by making you feel amazing in the kind of clothing he wants you to wear, You would not even know that he was in control.
Don't date us.
Not sure about that, bud. I don't hint ever.
I told my woman "Cover up" and she did.
Sorted.
Hinting is more of a Cancerian thing.
Mars in cancer here, maybe you are right that. I'm not talking about 'hinting', I'm talking about reinforcing habits using a positive reward system.click to expand

Posted by Rabbit
I see as intensity as caring about something more than someone else and it being obvious about it.
I know people who are satisfied if dinner is somewhat palatable and doesn't make them sick with salmonella.
That's not acceptable to me. I am intensely focused on putting my finest work on the plate each and every time.

Posted by Whatu
plus the all consuming frown usually does the job instead of actually saying anything.
Posted by munchkinPosted by Rabbit
I see as intensity as caring about something more than someone else and it being obvious about it.
I know people who are satisfied if dinner is somewhat palatable and doesn't make them sick with salmonella.
That's not acceptable to me. I am intensely focused on putting my finest work on the plate each and every time.
I can see maybe the "making it obvious" part (though still, that only shows intensity of reaction),, but how can one really know how much other people care about something?
Outward intensity of reaction isn't a reliable measure because people have different threshold ratios of reaction to feeling. Some people will scream and throw things just because they're a little irritated, others can be dying of anger inside and merely furrow their brows.
Plus, you may be a Gordon Ramsay about cooking, but what about with designer handbags? Veganism? 😛click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by munchkinPosted by Rabbit
I see as intensity as caring about something more than someone else and it being obvious about it.
I know people who are satisfied if dinner is somewhat palatable and doesn't make them sick with salmonella.
That's not acceptable to me. I am intensely focused on putting my finest work on the plate each and every time.
I can see maybe the "making it obvious" part (though still, that only shows intensity of reaction),, but how can one really know how much other people care about something?
Outward intensity of reaction isn't a reliable measure because people have different threshold ratios of reaction to feeling. Some people will scream and throw things just because they're a little irritated, others can be dying of anger inside and merely furrow their brows.
Plus, you may be a Gordon Ramsay about cooking, but what about with designer handbags? Veganism? 😛
now you're going into mercury territory, particularly ...jack of all trades. You can't focus on many things and be excellent at it. that'd be MASTER OF NONE.click to expand

Posted by Rabbit
Yeah I think you've missed the point Munchie.
Intensity may indeed be relative from person to person.
But I've yet to meet a person who isn't intense about the things they care about.


Posted by JBG
I'm a leo so if I like a man I do like a bit of extra adoration if you will. Maybe a slight obsession, but I don't want to be told how to run my life.

Posted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeisha
On a more serious note, a Scorpio acquaintance I trust and respect once communicated to me his distaste for some of my more figure-conscious clothing. He was very subtle and gentlemanly about it, though, to the point that I DID start dressing more conservatively for his comfort. I felt more like I was doing him a favor than he was controlling me.
See, I think I'm an appropriate dresser for whatever occasion. I was at the club in NOLA I might add. (Not the most conservative city. Howewer, if I was on a date with him or going to meet his mom, my attire would def be more conservative. That's why I didn't understand his concern. Short shorts, mini skirts & crop tops are regular nightlife attire. It wasn't like I wore something out inappropriate for where I was.click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationPosted by LetltBPosted by JBG
I'm a leo so if I like a man I do like a bit of extra adoration if you will. Maybe a slight obsession, but I don't want to be told how to run my life.
smh..go find another Leo
Yes - do not date a Scorpio. Leo and Scorpio do not get along.click to expand

Posted by ReincarnationPosted by MoonArtistPosted by Reincarnation
My mind is a lesbian? In a man's body?
Why is my mind lesbian?
Something to do with the moody feels and a keen interest in pussy.
I suppose I do have a tendency to be in a bad mood with people.click to expand
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeisha
On a more serious note, a Scorpio acquaintance I trust and respect once communicated to me his distaste for some of my more figure-conscious clothing. He was very subtle and gentlemanly about it, though, to the point that I DID start dressing more conservatively for his comfort. I felt more like I was doing him a favor than he was controlling me.
See, I think I'm an appropriate dresser for whatever occasion. I was at the club in NOLA I might add. (Not the most conservative city. Howewer, if I was on a date with him or going to meet his mom, my attire would def be more conservative. That's why I didn't understand his concern. Short shorts, mini skirts & crop tops are regular nightlife attire. It wasn't like I wore something out inappropriate for where I was.
1) I'm glad you think you're an appropriate dresser. Obviously, Scorp did not.
2) You don't know NOLA. Bourbon Street and Tchoupitoulas are not the whole of NOLA.
Regarding the clothing "issue," in my experience with Scorpios, the males like a bit more coverage on females. I think it intrigues their sense of mystery and their "prey drive." The more covered you are, the more they can imagine what you'd look like uncovered (or partially uncovered) and they can anticipate "uncovering" you. They like discovering (and rediscovering) stuff.
Scorpio nature is sometimes possessive, selfish, and jealous. They covet beauty for their own pleasure and prefer not to share that pleasure. He might think you've got killer legs, but he doesn't want everyone else in the world coveting your killer legs.click to expand

Posted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeisha
On a more serious note, a Scorpio acquaintance I trust and respect once communicated to me his distaste for some of my more figure-conscious clothing. He was very subtle and gentlemanly about it, though, to the point that I DID start dressing more conservatively for his comfort. I felt more like I was doing him a favor than he was controlling me.
See, I think I'm an appropriate dresser for whatever occasion. I was at the club in NOLA I might add. (Not the most conservative city. Howewer, if I was on a date with him or going to meet his mom, my attire would def be more conservative. That's why I didn't understand his concern. Short shorts, mini skirts & crop tops are regular nightlife attire. It wasn't like I wore something out inappropriate for where I was.
1) I'm glad you think you're an appropriate dresser. Obviously, Scorp did not.
2) You don't know NOLA. Bourbon Street and Tchoupitoulas are not the whole of NOLA.
Regarding the clothing "issue," in my experience with Scorpios, the males like a bit more coverage on females. I think it intrigues their sense of mystery and their "prey drive." The more covered you are, the more they can imagine what you'd look like uncovered (or partially uncovered) and they can anticipate "uncovering" you. They like discovering (and rediscovering) stuff.
Scorpio nature is sometimes possessive, selfish, and jealous. They covet beauty for their own pleasure and prefer not to share that pleasure. He might think you've got killer legs, but he doesn't want everyone else in the world coveting your killer legs.
1. BITCH get your life, I'm from NOLA BORN AND RAISED!!!
THAT IS ALL.click to expand

Posted by JBG
I bet you're from some little stupid town in louisiana no one knows and is trying to tell me I don't know NOLA. Have several seats. I haven't been on Bourbon for fun since I was 16. Both my parents are from NOLA and 2 grandparents and 1 great grandparent. 7th ward ALL DAY. My dad's family migrated to NOLA in the late 1800's. Sit your ass down.
I bought my first house here at 25. Been all over the world and have never met a city quite like it.
I really don't play when it comes to my city!!

Posted by CreoleGeisha
P.S. -- Just FYI, I'm fully aware the Gentilly area and Chalmette are two entirely different places. I just cannot imagine any of the nice Gentilly folks I've ever met tolerating silliness you've exhibited here.

Posted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeisha
P.S. -- Just FYI, I'm fully aware the Gentilly area and Chalmette are two entirely different places. I just cannot imagine any of the nice Gentilly folks I've ever met tolerating silliness you've exhibited here.
Well well 😉 know you know I know NOLA.click to expand
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeisha
P.S. -- Just FYI, I'm fully aware the Gentilly area and Chalmette are two entirely different places. I just cannot imagine any of the nice Gentilly folks I've ever met tolerating silliness you've exhibited here.
Well well 😉 know you know I know NOLA.
I know nothing of the sort.
Just FYI, is this self-indulgent drama an effort on your part to steer clear of the actual topic?click to expand

Posted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeisha
P.S. -- Just FYI, I'm fully aware the Gentilly area and Chalmette are two entirely different places. I just cannot imagine any of the nice Gentilly folks I've ever met tolerating silliness you've exhibited here.
Well well 😉 know you know I know NOLA.
I know nothing of the sort.
Just FYI, is this self-indulgent drama an effort on your part to steer clear of the actual topic?
Nope, your stupid comment about me not knowing my own city just pissed me off. I'm ok with the topic. I created it didn't I?click to expand
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by JBGPosted by CreoleGeisha
P.S. -- Just FYI, I'm fully aware the Gentilly area and Chalmette are two entirely different places. I just cannot imagine any of the nice Gentilly folks I've ever met tolerating silliness you've exhibited here.
Well well 😉 know you know I know NOLA.
I know nothing of the sort.
Just FYI, is this self-indulgent drama an effort on your part to steer clear of the actual topic?
Nope, your stupid comment about me not knowing my own city just pissed me off. I'm ok with the topic. I created it didn't I?
Regarding your comment: "I was at the club in NOLA I might add. (Not the most conservative city." it's not stupid. It's woefully ill-informed and suggests to me you haven't experienced much of the actual city beyond the clubs (which, of course, are intended to attract tourist dollars).
Returning to the topic:
1) I'm glad you think you're an appropriate dresser. Obviously, Scorp did not.
2) You don't know NOLA. Bourbon Street and Tchoupitoulas are not the whole of NOLA.
Regarding the clothing "issue," in my experience with Scorpios, the males like a bit more coverage on females. I think it intrigues their sense of mystery and their "prey drive." The more covered you are, the more they can imagine what you'd look like uncovered (or partially uncovered) and they can anticipate "uncovering" you. They like discovering (and rediscovering) stuff.
Scorpio nature is sometimes possessive, selfish, and jealous. They covet beauty for their own pleasure and prefer not to share that pleasure. He might think you've got killer legs, but he doesn't want everyone else in the world coveting your killer legs.click to expand
Posted by JBG
So I'm seeing a new scorpio guy. I met him awile ago, but we just started conversing more consistently recently. Any who, I know Scorpios can have a reputation for being posessive and sometimes controlling.
I saw him outside of a club, I had on shorts, they were kind of short. He immidiately tells me to "go out clothes on". He said it matter of factly, not mean or assertive. But I was wondering if this was an introduction of things to come. What do you all think?
Posted by Arielle83Posted by JBG
I bet you're from some little stupid town in louisiana no one knows and is trying to tell me I don't know NOLA. Have several seats. I haven't been on Bourbon for fun since I was 16. Both my parents are from NOLA and 2 grandparents and 1 great grandparent. 7th ward ALL DAY. My dad's family migrated to NOLA in the late 1800's. Sit your ass down.
I bought my first house here at 25. Been all over the world and have never met a city quite like it.
I really don't play when it comes to my city!!
If you're so damn classy and full of self respect, why do you talk like a piece of trash to random strangers? No one gives a shit about who has my street cred than the other. I hate one-uppers...get a life.click to expand

Posted by JBG
My close friend (who happens to be a scorpio) parents are leo and scorpio. Moms a leo dads a scorpio. Been together 28 years...and counting.

Posted by JBG
I bet you're from some little stupid town in louisiana no one knows and is trying to tell me I don't know NOLA. Have several seats. I haven't been on Bourbon for fun since I was 16. Both my parents are from NOLA and 2 grandparents and 1 great grandparent. 7th ward ALL DAY. My dad's family migrated to NOLA in the late 1800's. Sit your ass down.
I bought my first house here at 25. Been all over the world and have never met a city quite like it.
I really don't play when it comes to my city!!
Posted by LetltBPosted by JBG
My close friend (who happens to be a scorpio) parents are leo and scorpio. Moms a leo dads a scorpio. Been together 28 years...and counting.
Maybe this is a Leo who isn't needy of attention or demands "adoration" and knows how to dress in public? I'm telling you just from what you write...you aren't suitable for a Scorp. Everyone is different. You are getting many responses here, I suggest you heed the advice/opinions you came here to seek.click to expand

Posted by JBGPosted by LetltBPosted by JBG
My close friend (who happens to be a scorpio) parents are leo and scorpio. Moms a leo dads a scorpio. Been together 28 years...and counting.
Maybe this is a Leo who isn't needy of attention or demands "adoration" and knows how to dress in public? I'm telling you just from what you write...you aren't suitable for a Scorp. Everyone is different. You are getting many responses here, I suggest you heed the advice/opinions you came here to seek.
Dress in public? You've got to be kidding me...click to expand


Posted by Shruikan
I think I'm the only Scorpio not really worried about clothes. I mean, as long as you're not falling out of your clothes when we're out, I'm fine. For me it's more of how you act. If you're not flaunting yourself, I don't mind something a little more revealing. If you're in a short skirt shooting pool, I'll have a problem with it. If I have a problem with something my girl is wearing, I tell her before we leave home or I'm not going. Period.


Posted by JBG
There are plenty is scorpion men in the entertainment industry. Leo DiCaprio being my personal fav. He always has a model on his arm & guess what? They are never modes dressers. I've seen them in everything from mini skirts to daisy dukes, while they are with him. So I'm not sure why you all think this is a big deal for EVERY scorpio.
Posted by AndalusiaPosted by JBG
There are plenty is scorpion men in the entertainment industry. Leo DiCaprio being my personal fav. He always has a model on his arm & guess what? They are never modes dressers. I've seen them in everything from mini skirts to daisy dukes, while they are with him. So I'm not sure why you all think this is a big deal for EVERY scorpio.
Hollywood is not normal life.
I thought you were asking about your Scorp? Leonardo DiCaprio is not your Scorp. And you are not a high-fashion wearing model.
Leo probably doesn't complain about what his women wear. And the women Leo dates probably don't complain about him being off on location filming movies for 8 months out of the year..
Tell me though - would YOU be okay with your man being gone for 3/4ths of the year? If the answer is anything other than "yes, that wouldn't bother me at all", then I fail to see how the example above applies to the point you're trying to make, or to your relationship.click to expand



Posted by Rabbit
As a Scorpio with significant Libra influence...
You better be dressed well when we're out together.
That is all. Thank you.

Posted by Andalusia
Leonardo DiCaprio is not your Scorp..

Posted by RabbitPosted by munchkinPosted by Rabbit
As a Scorpio with significant Libra influence...
You better be dressed well when we're out together.
That is all. Thank you.
This plus your Coldplay thread....you metro. 😛
I buy skin care products from the Body Shop. Is that wrong?click to expand

Posted by ReincarnationPosted by MoonArtistPosted by ReincarnationPosted by MoonArtistPosted by Reincarnation
My mind is a lesbian? In a man's body?
Why is my mind lesbian?
Something to do with the moody feels and a keen interest in pussy.
I suppose I do have a tendency to be in a bad mood with people.
You hussy bitch, you. 😉
Quiet.click to expand

Posted by Reincarnation
I don't understand why women like DiCaprio so much? = /

Posted by RabbitPosted by munchkinPosted by RabbitPosted by munchkinPosted by Rabbit
As a Scorpio with significant Libra influence...
You better be dressed well when we're out together.
That is all. Thank you.
This plus your Coldplay thread....you metro. 😛
I buy skin care products from the Body Shop. Is that wrong?
If they're the sugar cookie body butters, yes...if eucalyptus, you can claim it's anti-dandruff...
Tea tree oil...
Plus their men's fragrance stuff for everyday casual kind of situations.click to expand
Posted by Reincarnation
I don't understand why women like DiCaprio so much? = /

Posted by ReincarnationPosted by MoonArtistPosted by ReincarnationPosted by MoonArtistPosted by ReincarnationPosted by MoonArtistPosted by Reincarnation
My mind is a lesbian? In a man's body?
Why is my mind lesbian?
Something to do with the moody feels and a keen interest in pussy.
I suppose I do have a tendency to be in a bad mood with people.
You hussy bitch, you. 😉
Quiet.
NO!! TRA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA !!!
You have a lot of courage.click to expand
Posted by RabbitPosted by JBGPosted by Reincarnation
I don't understand why women like DiCaprio so much? = /
He's GORG & if you even mildly resemble him I'm on te next flight to wherever you are! 🙂
Well based on this statement, I can see why your current Scorpio might be a little controlling...
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Posted by ReincarnationPosted by munchkinPosted by Reincarnation
I don't understand why women like DiCaprio so much? = /
i don't get it either. He always looks sweaty and creepy. ew. 😢
Sweaty? Lol.
And creepy? He's a Scorp. Really? = /click to expand
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I love the intensity Rabbit!! I put my all into something otherwise why do it?? lol