are you a random hater?

i very rarely feel hatred for someone. if i do, it alerts me to the possibility that in fact, i rather like them because in my mind, to have the capacity to hate someone, you have to care enough to do so.

if i don't like someone, i ignore them and remain indifferent to their existence. why bother hurling insults at someone just to show them, albeit with little panache, that they got to you enough to start the hating? it's all rather pathetic and sad and a complete waste of time especially when the target couldn't give a flying crap about you.

🙂

I don't hate people, I hate behaviors and certain situations.

yum: i can appreciate that. you prefer a tangible reason to hate stuff. nevertheless, you hate things because you care about the behaviours/situations, would you agree?

the kind of hatred i'm talking about is specifically the kind that manifests itself with insults.

"yum: i can appreciate that. you prefer a tangible reason to hate stuff. nevertheless, you hate things because you care about the behaviours/situations, would you agree?"

Sure.

All the Scorpios I know tend to be critics who say crude things to insult other people with no regard.

"You're full of shyt,"

What makes you think I hate anyone?

" and you're hypocrite because you act out and behave the same behaviors you claim to hate.""

What behaviors did I claim I hate? When did I claim that?

cajunspirit: i'm not that kind of scorpio. i don't like insulting for no reason cos it gives the impression i care. i always respond to insults though and usually win as well but again, getting into slanging matches is so beneath me and i don't go looking for confrontation.

it just amuses me when people throw insults. you can tell from the nature of them if they are based on something tangible or not. when insults are ridiculous and gratuitous, it reveals much more about how the person dishing them out feels about the subject of them.

which makes me SMILE 🙂

"All the Scorpios I know tend to be critics who say crude things to insult other people with no regard"

I have lots of Scorp friends, the ones I know have this seriousness about them at first that make people not want to mess with them. However I've never known any Scorps who would say crude things just to insult others. They are just very honest and speak what they think, good or bad.

FA

I really like Scorpio women because they are easy to talk to and these sharp comments are always amusing, no matter how ludicrous.

The girl would be possessive of me, which is a turn on.

Abbeyness
They are always nice until you get them angry THEN the nuclear bomb goes off and all the vile things that could be said come out.

I know Scorpios so well, I enjoy manipulating them.

fuckinga: in his dreams he is LOL!!

fuckinga: in his dreams he is LOL!!

No Roxi,i am not like you..
If i hate someone then i hate him without any other mixed emotions, i am capable of knowing when i like someone or not, and probably if i like someone i never insult him, i just argue with him and if anything i would leave him till he calms down.
The difference probably is that i can't ignore anyone i meet, i instantly have some kind of image about him/her whether it's positive or negative.

Typical Scorpios, always think they are in charge.

Yet at the end of the day, I hold all the cards and pull all the strings.

You all RARELY admit to when you are wrong or have been played.
So I don't expect you to believe me, but it's not important.

separate the person from the action. then you can love them in spite of...

hate is love turned bitter. a reflection of the individual expressing it.

indifference is more hurtful than both, when it's coming from someone of importance.

hate is fear.

i'll tell ya what i do hate. how these ppl take this astrology sh!t straight to the head.

...sippin' on astro juice. talk about OD.

if you hate it, then why are you here?

cajunperson: que?

DXP is more of a relationship board more than an astrology board. People usually just use the sings as either a point of reference or an excuse for people's behaviour. It's actually really funny. Cheese is delicious.

"DXP is more of a relationship board"

yep.

""DXP is more of a relationship board more than an astrology board. People usually just use the sings as either a point of reference or an excuse for people's behaviour. It's actually really funny.""

That's what I just said, silly.

""Sometimes I wonder if DK and I were separated at birth..""

Doubtful

Anyone else love cheese?

only on pizza

if lurve/relationship topics & questions were banned from DXP, 99.9% of all the females here would be gone. As would 70% of the men.

Come on man, cheese strings are great too and cheese in lasagna is fuckin' amazing.

"if lurve/relationship topics & questions were banned from DXP, 99.9% of all the females here would be gone. As would 70% of the men."

I don't think so. The conversations would still gear towards relationships somehow. Astrology is just another accepted method for studying human behavior.

Er, i should clarify. I meant romantic relationships.

Without those topics, people here would fizzle out.

Of course, you'll still have some creepy female posters talking about their special relationship with their Capricorn dog and what not.

Hahaha! I know what you meant. It's just 99.9% and 70% seemed a little too high on the decline.

Why randomly hate? I say if you're going to hate, hate with purpose, pure evil, and absolute vengeance. Hate until you absolutely destroy the object of your hatred. **

** WARNING. Such hatred is bad for your health. Please consult with your doctor if you're feeling nauseous or experience other side effects from hatred.

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

DK: i loooooooooove cheese. particularly blue cheeses. i once saw cheese moving on my plate in france - propelled by little worms which the french think shows it's a fine cheese. i passed on that experience.

people come here to talk about relationships cos they don't have them probably and the ones that do have 'issues' with them.

perhaps we should talk about american politics a little more?

buenas noches.

blimey blingy, you've overdone the steroids a little.

Next time just eat it lol. Wormy cheese sounds delicious. You get your dairy and your protein hahahahaha!

i love fish fingers too. in sandwiches is best. i like 'em with hp brown sauce.

or should i say braaaaaaaaaaan sauce.

tara choock.

this week, i am mostly eating emmental cheese 🙂

what is with the fish fingers then bling. have you skinted yourself with your travels?

is liking cheese a black thing then? if i put cheese on everything from now, will i grow me a fine black ass that you can park a bicycle in? i want one 😢

I guess that makes me black too then?

I'm the color of a BANANA!!!!!!!!!!!

Sure, I mean there are a bunch of races mixed in the country so there's bound to be some yellow people here and there.

Maybe if they wore a yellow jump suit or a banana outfit too.

fuckina: i'm considering a butt cheek implant jobbie. i want one of those mutha's before i die no matter how bizaare it looks on a whitey. just for the duration of one self-gratifying booty shake if nothing else.

perhaps a small ride on the washer in full spin cycle.

oh the hours of fun i would have with a big black ass.

i have to go to bed. night all 🙂

"People usually just use the sings as either a point of reference or an excuse for people's behaviour."

Yeah, I originally came here because I was interested in it and had read pretty much everything I could get my hands on about it. Too many people here twist it into whatever they want to validate themselves and diminish others. Too bad...an actual discussion based on the published works sometime would be far more interesting.

FA, nobody reads anymore...come on.

Christ, at least acknowledge that the complaint is not about being "ignored" by a Scorpio for once. 😛

NAW....I'm going to make you all participate so we might all *gasp* LEARN SOMETHING! 🙂

Sure, I mean there are a bunch of races mixed in the country so there's bound to be some yellow people here and there.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That laugh was for DK, dude you are awesome 😄

I don't hate people, I hate behaviors and certain situations.

I agree with Yum 🙂 In addition, I can't stand people who just throw negativity left and right. Its like they enjoy getting under someone's skin.