@Rays Heart
17 Years1,000+ Posts
we all give out pieces/glimpses of urselves to people, but is the other person actually noticing what is being done right before there very eyes......
people will always pose as they think they should because thats the norm for them...
externally is the card face.....go deep inside to see the other/better half of them, i hope they have one...we are 2 sided individuals.
Just because you may catch someone on a bad day doesn't make them a bad person.
People can be great poker players...they'll show you what they wish..fold when they like..human nature..
Do what I do:
Absolutely Be Yourself no matter who youre talking too 🙂
But until i know the person really well, I can talk but say "Nothing"
if you know what i mean ??
ray's heart: the key is in WHEN people show you who they are, believe them. from personal experience, quite a few people showed me who they really were when i needed them most. up until that time, i totally believed they were honest and genuine friends.
so i agree totally with that statement 🙂
When people show you who they are, believe them." - ? Maya Angelou
My boss said this one day a while ago. I've come to believe in this as I grow older.
Whether its a good day, bad day or an ugly day -- you are who you are and all that should be taken into consideration. Is not the "real" you if you are hiding your flaws.
I have times when I'm cool but I can also be a pistol 😉 It depends really on my mood but thats put of my personality. Same with anyone, its impossible to be one way all the time.
You can always maintain the same temperment but everyone's mood changes. Some people are so transparent, it doesn't take too much to figure them out.
hahaha, I can be a bit of a mood-swinger but thats a totally different story.
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"When people show you who they are, believe them." - ? Maya Angelou
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