@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus
A large age gap varies by individual preferences but generally over 10 years is seen as significant. Compatibility depends on maturity, life goals, and values. Some people date with much larger gaps successfully, while others prefer smaller differences for shared experiences. Understanding personal comfort and mutual understanding is key to healthy relationships.
But where does the gap become too much? I think once they could of been your parent, perhaps? I dated a guy 14 years older and didn't seem too much. hmmmmmmmm
20 years didn't last long we are still friends. I just didn't like the fact that he always kept saying you'll learn.
Like..shut up. I will learn and be better than you. So I couldn't take it anymore. But like I said we are still friends.
I think it depends on your age.. if you are in your early 20's 8 is max for me. If you are your 30's maybe more like 15. It all depends on what you can handle. Screw everyone else's opinion as long as you are happy age seems so irrelevant tbh.
4 years is enough for me. i like to comfortably stay in the 1-3 year range, for both over and under.
As long as you can connect, enjoy each other and everyone involved is legal, who gives a flying fuck.
besides, if you don't go around speaking about stuff to others, then they won't be all up in your business anyway,,,
Keep it secret, keep is safe.
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Older man 22 years. It didn't work out good experience but won't try it again.
I was seeing someone 15 years older than me. He was 53, but he looked younger than some 40 y/o I know. Age wasnt a factor, our connection was. Age had nothing to do with it for me. When you have a soul connection, numbers dont mean sh!t.
Lots of twinsouls are years apart in age. You know its love when things that seem big make no difference to you at all.
Posted by taurusgoddess
What is the largest age gap you guys have had? What gap do you think is too much?
At least 5 -6 years. I remember a 26 yrs old and 45 yrs old males. The 45 yrs old had 5 kids the oldest been 18 and then youngest of his was 7 I think. That didn't pan out.
The younger one had fun but both busy bees and had to go with the flow alot do to our schedules. And not really compatible and just have fun with every so often. He was the first one after my 6 yr long term relationship. Totally different.
Youngest was 11 years. Oldest was someone my age.
Posted by exo
oh, y'all are taurs.
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I've always been into guys older than me 2-5yrs. Used to avoid dating guys younger than me.
Now in my early 30s, "sort of" talking to a guy who is 6 years younger than me lol.
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Eww
I'm a wait another five years to hell with all. It will come eventually when least looking. It comes to me whether it's karmic or meant to be. I used to look like online that's the ages group I would meet 26-45. Now I don't care just be decent friends, and take it from there slowly.
7 y younger
12 older
I don't think gap matters if it doesn't affect performance!
Always thought what is Heff doing with his bunnies?
5 years older than me a virgo male
And 2years older than me a scorp female i like older partners but i seem to attract younger ones this days
Posted by Aquarius3189
5 years older than me a virgo maleAnd 2years older than me a scorp female i like older partners but i seem to attract younger ones this days
U r bisexual?
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Yes i am,doesnt matter what your gender is if you caught my attention,i pursue if its a woman and if its a man i let him pursue me
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What is the largest age gap you guys have had? What gap do you think is too much?