Age Gaps and Dating

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by taurusgoddess on Wednesday, January 4, 2017 and has 17 replies.

What Is Considered a Large Age Gap in Dating

A large age gap varies by individual preferences but generally over 10 years is seen as significant. Compatibility depends on maturity, life goals, and values. Some people date with much larger gaps successfully, while others prefer smaller differences for shared experiences. Understanding personal comfort and mutual understanding is key to healthy relationships.

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

But where does the gap become too much? I think once they could of been your parent, perhaps? I dated a guy 14 years older and didn't seem too much. hmmmmmmmm

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@DecFemCap
9 Years

20 years didn't last long we are still friends. I just didn't like the fact that he always kept saying you'll learn.

Like..shut up. I will learn and be better than you. So I couldn't take it anymore. But like I said we are still friends.

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@DecFemCap
9 Years

I think it depends on your age.. if you are in your early 20's 8 is max for me. If you are your 30's maybe more like 15. It all depends on what you can handle. Screw everyone else's opinion as long as you are happy age seems so irrelevant tbh.

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@umisaid
10 Years500+ Posts

4 years is enough for me. i like to comfortably stay in the 1-3 year range, for both over and under.

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@justagirl
12 Years10,000+ Posts

As long as you can connect, enjoy each other and everyone involved is legal, who gives a flying fuck.

besides, if you don't go around speaking about stuff to others, then they won't be all up in your business anyway,,,

Keep it secret, keep is safe.

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@TaurusVenusGirl
10 Years

I was seeing someone 15 years older than me. He was 53, but he looked younger than some 40 y/o I know. Age wasnt a factor, our connection was. Age had nothing to do with it for me. When you have a soul connection, numbers dont mean sh!t.

Lots of twinsouls are years apart in age. You know its love when things that seem big make no difference to you at all.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by taurusgoddess
What is the largest age gap you guys have had? What gap do you think is too much?

At least 5 -6 years. I remember a 26 yrs old and 45 yrs old males. The 45 yrs old had 5 kids the oldest been 18 and then youngest of his was 7 I think. That didn't pan out.

The younger one had fun but both busy bees and had to go with the flow alot do to our schedules. And not really compatible and just have fun with every so often. He was the first one after my 6 yr long term relationship. Totally different.

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@kdee53
9 Years

I've always been into guys older than me 2-5yrs. Used to avoid dating guys younger than me.

Now in my early 30s, "sort of" talking to a guy who is 6 years younger than me lol.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm a wait another five years to hell with all. It will come eventually when least looking. It comes to me whether it's karmic or meant to be. I used to look like online that's the ages group I would meet 26-45. Now I don't care just be decent friends, and take it from there slowly.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

7 y younger

12 older

I don't think gap matters if it doesn't affect performance!

Always thought what is Heff doing with his bunnies?

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@Aquarius3189
10 Years1,000+ Posts

5 years older than me a virgo male

And 2years older than me a scorp female i like older partners but i seem to attract younger ones this days