Cheated with a Taurus Man

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by jk95 on Wednesday, December 24, 2014 and has 17 replies.

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@jk95
11 Years

So, for a while there was this Taurus man with an aquarius moon that I used to hang out with. I thought we were just friends, but eventually there was a slip up and we had sexual relations. It was a one time thing, and it was a massive mistake.I mean, I never really thought he liked me to begin with because he would always disappear for 2 weeks and then pop up again, and then he would barely text me. He would also try to go out to dinner with me and not call it a date.

Yesterday he saw a pisces guy on my snapchat story and tried to contact me, and talk to me, but I ignored him. Last night I posted a video saying I love you to the same pisces guy on snapchat. He put two and two together and realized I obviously had a bf. He asked me if I had been in a relationship when we had sexual relations, told me I had ruined his night, wished me well in life, and then said bye forever. But, he's still my friend on facebook, he's still my friend on snapchat, and I'm pretty sure my number is still saved t his phone.

But why is he acting this way if he was never really interested in me to begin with?

Of course pisces guy was aware of what was going on, I never keep anything from him.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

How would you feel if you were hanging out with a man, started to build something with him, had sex with him and then found out he had a girlfriend the whole time?

You'd think he was an ass wouldn't you?

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@warmwaters
11 Years1,000+ Posts

why is this a big deal?

it was his fault for not locking it down sooner if he felt strongly for her.

typical weak male unable to be direct while another more confident male could lock it down.
what else is new, next.

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@warmwaters
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Impulsv
But wait op is making it sound like it was an open relationship. Or more like oops guess what I cheated but he's ok with it he knew.

she was born in 95 (hence username) maybe this was before she started dating her bf. things move fast at that age.

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@seezythescorpion
11 Years500+ Posts

Why no self control/respect?

If ur in a relationship why even talk to/ flirt with another male let alone sleeping with him?

I wouldnt be able to respect myself at all if i went there. Then again, not everyone is the same!

Were u not on another thread the other day saying Taurus usually has a few fwb around? But you are in a relationship yourself?

What did u expect from him? Why even wonder?

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@jk95
11 Years

Posted by seezythescorpion
Why no self control/respect?

If ur in a relationship why even talk to/ flirt with another male let alone sleeping with him?

I wouldnt be able to respect myself at all if i went there. Then again, not everyone is the same!

Were u not on another thread the other day saying Taurus usually has a few fwb around? But you are in a relationship yourself?

What did u expect from him? Why even wonder?

The taurus in question is bipolar and I have borderline personality disorder.

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@SirHorns
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Lesson: Lock your lover in a dungeon and castrate any and all who dare to breath their air and still have genitals. (For women you might just have to cut them in half, no lower half of the body...)

Actually...they still have mouths and arms.
Clearly those need to be broken and sown shut.

Otherwise you're weak and your lover will hop on anything that moves.
PFFT.

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@slonce5
16 Years

I'm a Taurus. As a sign we are playing too safe sometimes. I'm guilty of this. I have been ignoring a Scorpio man now, because he mentioned something that a few years ago he was wild. A red flag! There are other reasons , but him being wild stuck in my head.
Love is always risk anyway, so we do not want to get involved with "high- risk people."

On he other hand, If this Taurus really really like you and/or is strongly infatuated he may take you back.

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@slonce5
16 Years

Yesterday he saw a pisces guy on my snapchat story and tried to contact me, and talk to me, but I ignored him. Last night I posted a video saying I love you to the same pisces guy on snapchat. He put two and two together and realized I obviously had a bf. He asked me if I had been in a relationship when we had sexual relations, told me I had ruined his night, wished me well in life, and then said bye forever. But, he's still my friend on facebook, he's still my friend on snapchat, and I'm pretty sure my number is still saved t his phone.

But why is he acting this way if he was never really interested in me to begin with?

Of course pisces guy was aware of what was going on, I never keep anything from him.

Ask your Taurus friend why he acts like this. He may not understand why would you sleep with him while you are deeply in love with Pisces boyfriend. He may think you are too complicated or too wild for him. I thought Scorpios are loyal when in love.

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@jk95
11 Years

Posted by slonce5
I'm a Taurus. As a sign we are playing too safe sometimes. I'm guilty of this. I have been ignoring a Scorpio man now, because he mentioned something that a few years ago he was wild. A red flag! There are other reasons , but him being wild stuck in my head.
Love is always risk anyway, so we do not want to get involved with "high- risk people."

On he other hand, If this Taurus really really like you and/or is strongly infatuated he may take you back.

That's funny because this Taurus is a very high-risk person. He's a functioning alcoholic and has a serious drug problem that I just found out about from a mutual friend. He also sent me a message a few days later claiming that he was quitting cocaine.