confront a scorpio

C??ncer girl. Early states with Scorpio guy.

Things go great.... Then you get the 'silent treatment' an blown off. You confront him tell him how you feel an he doesnt say anything, then a few days later he talks to you like normal. What does that mean? Is it a bad sign that he ignored what you said? Does that mean he doesnt like you/care anymore?

C??ncer girl. Early states with Scorpio guy.

Things go great.... Then you get the 'silent treatment' an blown off. You confront him tell him how you feel an he doesnt say anything, then a few days later he talks to you like normal. What does that mean? Is it a bad sign that he ignored what you said? Does that mean he doesnt like you/care anymore?

He does seem a bit sensitive. Which id never tell him, but his face says it all. But does it mean hes lost interest? Ignore, blowing you off, not answering when confronted, hasnt asked to see you in idk 2weeks lol? Im just so darn confused an he has me wrapped around his lil finger its horrible 😢 haha. Im needy an sensitive sometimes, but i can put up with mood swings no prob my moms a scorp an geeze. Lol but how do u know if hes nott interested anymore?

Well im ready to try anything if it means ill get any kind of respose! An yes he does need a lil kick, i just wasnt sure how to give it to him. But i shall try this. Thanks!!

Posted by Stinger Baby
reoccurring themes here....silence and disappearing acts.


anyone ever stop to think that maybe that's just who we are? when scorp is busy, scorp is busy. i think some ppl get upset because they have this idea of how we're 'supposed' to be, instead of accepting and trying to understand who we are and why we do what we do. every one that knows a scorp more than likely knows we go silent. we disappear for a little. it's not to shun, hurt, or annoy. we need self time a little bit and nothing is wrong with that.

This is so hard for me to understand. Being a sagg i fill my life with tons of things to do but I make time that doesnt really exhist for one i love. I really im trying to understand this.

Posted by ers713
C??ncer girl. Early states with Scorpio guy.

Things go great.... Then you get the 'silent treatment' an blown off. You confront him tell him how you feel an he doesnt say anything, then a few days later he talks to you like normal. What does that mean? Is it a bad sign that he ignored what you said? Does that mean he doesnt like you/care anymore?

True, this is an astrology site, but lets take signs out of it for just a second. If a person ignores what you say to them or tries to avoid a discussion about their piss poor behaviour (e.g. silent treatment, blows you off), would you think that was a good thing?

You already know the answer.

Posted by ers713
C??ncer girl. Early states with Scorpio guy.

Things go great.... Then you get the 'silent treatment' an blown off. You confront him tell him how you feel an he doesnt say anything, then a few days later he talks to you like normal. What does that mean? Is it a bad sign that he ignored what you said? Does that mean he doesnt like you/care anymore?

How long were you dating before you told him how you felt about him?

Posted by ers713
C??ncer girl. Early states with Scorpio guy.

Things go great.... Then you get the 'silent treatment' an blown off. You confront him tell him how you feel an he doesnt say anything, then a few days later he talks to you like normal. What does that mean? Is it a bad sign that he ignored what you said? Does that mean he doesnt like you/care anymore?

Curiously, Cancer woman, do you want to know the truth from a REAL Scorpio man, himself, or a string of replies
from NON-Scorpio men and women and Scorpio women who know nothing of what it is to be a REAL Scorpio Man and
the likely reasons why we do what we do?

I ask as it never fails that I find a ton of replies to this age old generic question of "Why Is My Scorpio Man....(fill in the blank)" by the know-nothings.

Posted by ers713
Well im ready to try anything if it means ill get any kind of respose! An yes he does need a lil kick, i just wasnt sure how to give it to him. But i shall try this. Thanks!!

Posted by ers713
C??ncer girl. Early states with Scorpio guy.

Things go great.... Then you get the 'silent treatment' an blown off. You confront him tell him how you feel an he doesnt say anything, then a few days later he talks to you like normal. What does that mean? Is it a bad sign that he ignored what you said? Does that mean he doesnt like you/care anymore?

Usually this means he needed time to process whatever negative emotions he was feeling in order to save you the drama of him unleashing them on you. Just accept it, it doesn't mean he no longer cares for you. The only way we can make others happy is if we check up on our mental state, and process our sadness, or anger until we're at a peaceful place again.
Also, he probably wasn't ignoring you. Chances are he heard what you said, and couldn't think of anything to say back to you at that moment. Personally, when it comes to those I care about, whether or not I have a reply does not have any correlation to me taking in what someone had to say.

Posted by IntriguedScorp

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Posted by ers713
Well im ready to try anything if it means ill get any kind of respose! An yes he does need a lil kick, i just wasnt sure how to give it to him. But i shall try this. Thanks!!

I'm going to go with this means a Scorpio man has a 101 things on his mind and SOMETIMES its not you. Deal with it.

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Tips hat to the lady possessing an astute observation.
Very good Intrigued, VERY GOOD! 🙂

We are actually plagued by a million thoughts. And each day, those million thoughts multiply a million times.
Then, we must process those million-million thoughts into a coherent structure, then we have to analyze those
thoughts and filter the facts from fiction, then we must test every theory and hypothesis known to man, then
proof-read and double-triple check each of those theories and hypothesis. Then we put them in combat against
each other, to observe which probability rises, stands and which falls and collapses.
Not unlike gladiators in the Colosseum.
Instigating the Challenging and Observing the Testing of Time against Time, itself, for the sake of making Time.
It seems, we are the big black steam locomotives, themselves, pulling the commodity of existence all that existence
defines, to it's final destination. IF we don't do our jobs, then....., Time has come to an end.

In light of the persistent repetitions of that familiar question "Why?" it seems some of us Scorpio Men ARE the
"Runaway Trains" of the Zodiac.

Sorry everyone for abandoning my topic here. Have been busy.

Thank you all for opinions/advice and what not.

I guess im here because i do want to understand scorpio men. My fustration comes from not knowing where he and i stand. I dont mind him needing space and time i can handle that as i do have my own life. I just like upfront people and honesty. i dont like knowing where i stand with someone whom im 'dating'/'seeing'.

After a month i told him a liked him. I told his this while he and i werent talking.

Posted by ers713
Sorry everyone for abandoning my topic here. Have been busy.

Thank you all for opinions/advice and what not.

I guess im here because i do want to understand scorpio men. My fustration comes from not knowing where he and i stand. I dont mind him needing space and time i can handle that as i do have my own life. I just like upfront people and honesty. i dont like knowing where i stand with someone whom im 'dating'/'seeing'.

After a month i told him a liked him. I told his this while he and i werent talking.

ers,
The person you want to ask your question, concerning your Scorpio Man, IS, in fact, the Scorpio Man, himself.
He's the one doing what he does, if and when he is able, he will explain himself, but only when he is ready and able.
Anyway, HE is the one you need to confide in and if he found out you were asking everyone from around the world about
him, he might not take it too kindly and think that you don't trust him at his word. This could be a bad thing to do
if he is caught off guard at a bad time. - refer to my prior reply.

Posted by ellessque
finally!!!!

a REAL answer 😛

good job, Mr. Firebird, good job! *tips hat*

*snickers*

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Posted by ers713
Well im ready to try anything if it means ill get any kind of respose! An yes he does need a lil kick, i just wasnt sure how to give it to him. But i shall try this. Thanks!!

I'm going to go with this means a Scorpio man has a 101 things on his mind and SOMETIMES its not you. Deal with it.

Tips hat to the lady possessing an astute observation.
Very good Intrigued, VERY GOOD! 🙂

Thanks. 🙂

Gee I'm sorry people dating Scorp men. Sometimes you have to go out and, you know, do things instead trying to disect every little thing about why a Scorp man goes missing for three days. Its tough I know. *rolls eyes*

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But, but... What about those of us who have gone missing for 22 years??
What happens to us?

Posted by IntriguedScorp
You are a lost cause. Or maybe not? lol

Maybe you are just waiting for the perfect moment to come back. Think about it for another 10 years and you might figure out when that is. LOL

I am a cause without a rebel.

10 years.... wow. Sounds exciting.
Only problem is, I might forget what it was I was waiting for.

Posted by IntriguedScorp

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by IntriguedScorp
You are a lost cause. Or maybe not? lol

Maybe you are just waiting for the perfect moment to come back. Think about it for another 10 years and you might figure out when that is. LOL

I am a cause without a rebel.

10 years.... wow. Sounds exciting.
Only problem is, I might forget what it was I was waiting for.

Common Scorpio problem. 😛

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Maybe they could put me in suspended animation and I wake up in 10 years. That way, I won't forget.... and, I will
be able to catch up on my sleep.

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Posted by ers713
Well im ready to try anything if it means ill get any kind of respose! An yes he does need a lil kick, i just wasnt sure how to give it to him. But i shall try this. Thanks!!

I'm going to go with this means a Scorpio man has a 101 things on his mind and SOMETIMES its not you. Deal with it.

Tips hat to the lady possessing an astute observation.
Very good Intrigued, VERY GOOD! 🙂

We are actually plagued by a million thoughts. And each day, those million thoughts multiply a million times.
Then, we must process those million-million thoughts into a coherent structure, then we have to analyze those
thoughts and filter the facts from fiction, then we must test every theory and hypothesis known to man, then
proof-read and double-triple check each of those theories and hypothesis. Then we put them in combat against
each other, to observe which probability rises, stands and which falls and collapses.
Not unlike gladiators in the Colosseum.

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So basically the typical Scorpio unnecessary strategizing, irrationalizing, over thinking and over analyzing.