Curious

I love my Scorpio; he is the best! We have a very sound, committed and exclusive relationship. One question, though regarding the ?jealousy? trait I keep reading about. My Scorpio shows no signs of jealousy that I can pick up on. Not that I want him to but I've been on the look out so I know what to do should the need arise. He made a comment once that he couldn't believe I haven't a jealous bone in my body. which I don't.

Not to sound full of myself but I definitely turn heads and have had men stare and come up to me while we are in a bar when my Scorpio has excused himself to the bathroom, etc. When he returns he just smiles at me. I do not flirt or look at other men while in his presence.

Does this mean anything? I know it sounds silly and I should be thankful but basically I am just curious.

He could be too sure of yourself or himself.
Or maybe he is jealous,but he is hiding that,being aware that is a inferior feeling,one that makes him vulnerable.
How long have you been toghether?

We've been together 10 mos.

I think that I would trust each other and only bring it up if there is a real reason to!!! or if you feel uncomfortable about something. I would always tell him your feelings and not hold anything back. If you have a problem, always try and talk about it and work it out! Jealousy is very destructive and needs to be kept in check. Being honest with each other should make all the difference.

Okay here's what I think.

You may not be seeing a lot of (or any) signs of jealousy in your partner, but let me tell you, if he is a Scorpio, he is feeling at least traces of it. Here's what's strange about us Scorps: it's as if the stronger we feel about something, the harder we work to conceal it (particularly if the emotion we're feeling would put us in a very vulnerable position, i.e. jealousy). However, he may be that highly evolved that regardless of the tendencies of his sign, he is one of those people who won't submit to such emotions as jealousy. Remember that either way, we are very good at concealing our true feelings. That doesn't mean we'll lie about it if we're asked though. So if I were you I would just say, "I'm suprised and relieved that you show no signs of jealousy like some guys do in relationships." You know, something that will likely prompt a discussion on the issue without making him feel interrogated. Feel him out. Watch the *way* he talks about jealousy to find out what the real deal is. Because even if he says something like, "Oh yeah, I can't be bothered with jealousy, it's a negative emotion" or whatever, his body language may say something else.

Very helpful. Thank you everyone.