Do Scorpio Men Like to Be Dominated in Bed? (Page 2)

BEAT 'DAT SEXY MAN!

LOL That's great!!

I love that I got y'alls approval on my plan. (Did I spell Y'all right?? I'm not really southern) Hehe!!

The only approval you should be thinking about cuz it's the only one that counts...is his

I know!! I hope I have been taking his hints the right way. Hmmm! Let's add them up here.

1. He wants to see me with Red Lipstick and smokey eyes.

2.He got all excited when he saw my riding crop that I used for Halloween that was hanging on my closet doorknob.

3. He asked me to pull his hair really hard during sex. He also wanted me to squeeze another part of his anatomy really hard. (When I told him I didn't want to hurt him he said that I could never do it so hard that it would hurt)

4. He has said quite a few times that he likes to be dominated in the bedroom. (I guess this could have just meant that he's lazy and wants me to be on top and do all of the work all the time)

5. He told me that he loves role playing and sexy costumes.

6. He loves when I pretend that I'm going to kiss him and then I pull away and tease him.

7. He was making me pancakes one day and he asked what he was going to get for cooking for me and I said that I should kiss his feet for spoiling me and he looked completely appalled and said that he would hate that and he wants to be the one that's kissing MY feet.

Now on the other side. I did smack his ass one time and got no reaction. :-)

"I hope I have been taking his hints the right way"

From that list you gave sounds like he's gone well past the hinting stage lol.

Just enjoy it and don't overthink it, above all else sex should be fun - that includes YOURS as well as his remember.

The bisexual note on scorp men. I would think they would be the least sign to be bisexual or gay they are so MACHO! You know such alpha men. which turns women on tremendously.

"Those macho men are the one's you gotta look out for!"

lol Very true. I know several gay men who are more macho than the most alpha straight guy. I've also met some Scorpio men in my life who do not fit the "macho" stereotype at all. Very soft-spoken, kind and even a bit effeminate, although they were straight.

Just another example that Sun Sign means very, very little.

FuckinA,

Thanks for the advice, but I think I will work my way up to all that. hahaha!! Sounds fun though.

You can start by playfighting in bed this should be fun since you are a Scorp but if your sex life becomes too depraved don't know what to say hon.

You know if there is blood, scratches, bruises > this no doubt boders on emotional and physical depravation in the sense that a sexual relationship has gotten to the point of extreme perversion and hurt but I don't think ordinary Sun in Scorpios are like this > do you know Max Hardcore? He's a Libra! Probably a Pluto/Scorpio "affliction" in his chart makes him behave sadistically with the starlets > but here it is from Starsky and Cox but since they describe the Sun/Star sign I don't think its really extreme at all just mild fetishes mostly such as playfighting and biting y'knpw? bu its just erotic nibbling,. etc

Scorpio Man Straigt Turn Ons

blondes
salt-of-the earth types
big breasts
ample asses
innocence
body odor
body hair
body fluid
(dominant) s+m
(dominant)b+d
teasing, tickling, torture
probing, fingering
mutual analingus
(active) anal penetration
maids, secretaries
mind games
leashes, collars
latex, leather
water sports
dungeons, vault, caults
ob/gyn equipment
pimping role play
kink

For instance mutual analingus is mostly erotic without any hurt this is what the authors are uhhhh trying to imply instead of down right sadism which I don't think most Scorpios are like, they are not Sadistic > certainly stimulating your partner's anus can be very erotically stimulating and is not an ordinary "sadistic" act unless the practice truly boders on really trying to hurt the person concern which would then bodern on a sadistic act.

Scorpio Woman straight Turn ons

swarthy looks
body hair
(active) ass play
(passive) anal penetration
m-f-f threesomes
voyeurism
watersports
underarms, body odor
humiliation/cuckolding
(active) oral
(mutual) masturbation
mirrors
toys, gadgets
lesbian and bi-porn
(active) b+d
(active) lite s+m
strangers
clothed sex
erotica
lite pain
biting, fighting
foreskin
swapping underwear

Do you guys remember our conversation about this thread that I started?? Well, I finally figured out what he meant when he said he likes to be dominated in bed and it has absolutely nothing to do with sex or handcuffs or spanking. LOL!! In fact every time I try to do anything even a little kinky in bed he gets all embarrassed.


This is what he really meant...

He so thrives on being adored and for me to urgently want him in every way. He constantly wants me to stroke his ego and also stroke his you know what. He wants me to make the first move and He loves it when I pretend like I just can't stand it when I'm not touching him constantly. He is like a dog that needs constant attention. LOL!! The couple of times that we have not had sex is because I didn't initiate it. He usually starts the sniffing around and initiating the affection just like a dog would but then he just sits back and waits for me to take over the sexual part and if I stop for even a minute he is nudging at my hand again.

I think I'm on to how to get him trained. Did anyone see that old classic movie where this woman got a dog training book to get her man?? Does anyone remember the name of that movie??

Haha!! Elena, even though he was embarrassed he really did love when I blindfolded him and went through each and every body part stroking it and telling him that his body all belonged to me now. Definitely a good thing that I didn't bring out the whip though.

The only reason I didn't want to discuss it with him beforehand is that I didn't want to ruin the surprise of it which is why I started out really lightly with him to see how he would react. Even though he really liked what I did I could see the relief on his face when he realized that I wasn't going to hurt him. We did have a discussion afterwards and I asked him if he liked what I did and how much more he would have liked me to do to him. He basically told me that he would have liked the handcuffs and he liked my "Your my possesion" kind of talk with him, but that he wasn't into pain.

Hi Sagigoat,

You know, even though I wouldn't mind him inititating a little more often, strangely enough I don't feel that rejected by him or anything. I guess it is because he is so touchy feely with me in all other ways. I think it's more that he just wants to make sure that I'm in the mood because he doesn't want to get rejected. First he starts to kiss on me and rub on me, but goes no where near any of my private parts, but the minute that I start touching him he starts going crazy and almost always stops me and then pleases me first. I just actually think it's kind of funny. I actually tested him a couple of times and did not start touching him and waited for him to start touching me first(sexually I mean), but he never did. He is constantly asking me to scratch his back and play with his hair and tickle him. He just can't stand for me not to be constantly craving him or something.

Yes Sagigoat,

The couch potato thing bugs me way more than the other thing definitely. He does compromise and we go out, but he is so funny because he has fun when we go out but then he just seems so wiped out afterwards. LOL!! Like I made him go on 10 K run or something.

No Sweetie, You will just roll over and wait for your belly to be rubbed!! 😉

Yes I'm working on getting him healthier. He does want to be more energetic. I think it's just his job that mentally drains him. He is a physical therapist and he works all day long with a lot of people that will probably never walk again and they cry to him and there is not much he can do to help them. That has to be very draining after 20 years of that.

"i'm now proud to say, that i am completely 100% CANCER FREE and i will never suffer from a re-occurence again."

Stay out of the sun, avoid cigarette-smoke and cellphones, and hope./i>

Er, I'm not telling you to avoid hope, just so we're clear.

What the hell did you guys do to my thread while I was gone. LOL!!!

"Plus, most of my experiences with dating or semi-dating these guys were very, very bad experiences! Lots of guys are assholes..."

Well, you do live in Vegas.

"such as Pisces and Cancers can become suddenly very dominating and demanding in the bedroom."

Now where would you have seen that...*blink*blink* 🙂

The Scorpio men I have been with have all been a mix. Dominant AND submissive depending on mood. Which, I like. Except when you're not both in the same mood. That's irritating sometimes. 😛

I mean *when you're both in the SAME mood. Whatever! You know what I mean, and if not, FAKE IT! 😛

"~growls @ SS and stalks towards her in measured steps, eyes turning to slits, ready to pounce~ Come ere you minx! I've missed you and once again, you leave me to own devices and without the pleasure of your lovely company...~her voice a soft throaty purr~"

Now you just stop it now...*giggle* I said stop stalking me...or you'll be mistaken for one of your Scorpionic NEMESES! *tickles FA's nose with feather then tackles her to the floor*

HEY! WHERE'S MY EFFIN' PIC?!! 🙂

"And you'll get your picture when you ask me nicely ~murmers closely against her ear, nipping the lobe~"

REBELLION! *calls in other slaves to remove F-A to the dungeon*

Right, I think it shall be the Cat-O-Nines tonight, for you have been VERY naughty indeed! How dare you disrespect your Mistress this way?! I am very, disappointed in you. *shakes head with a sigh and raises whip* This will hurt me more than it hurts you...

*caresses F-A's hair* Now, luv, you know I can't allow you to give me an order in front of the other slaves. What kind of Mistress would I be if I didn't punish you? *whispers* But after I'll kiss all the boo-boos better and rub you down with lotion and oils. You'll like that, won't you?

*Stares aghast and agog as her favorite slave is AT LAST unmasked*

Darling, DARLING! How lovely you are!

*tosses whip aside, orders the other slaves out of the room and pulls her favorite close*

Whaddya say we skip right to the smooching and the scented oils? 😉

Seriously, woman! You are DE GORGEOUS! *drool*

Do Scorpio Men Like to Be Dominated in Bed?

I'd say they like to be dominated and like to dominate a bit 😉