Dont know what to do with this scorp need advice!

So this scorp we were together for 10yrs and yes half my life,i broke up with her since i felt that our relationship is becoming toxic with her possessiveness and me being independent and a rebel she doesnt understand what i want with my life sometimes she talks about this so called plan and dreams but i cant see her doing something about it as if she is just waiting for it to happen like if its meant to be it will come to her and that is our problem im a realistic person if you want something in your life then do it with action and determination dont wait for it to happen but we clash everytime i open

it up,she tells me that she has a condition that she cant help and because of that she cant do anything but i always lift up her spirit by saying that she is lucky enough unlike others that dont have an arm or a feet but she is fixed and stubborn,i have recently discovered coming from her that she is manipulating me in to coming back with her but my guts is telling me dont get back with her but i dont know if it is because im just scared to lose her or if i still have feelings for her its confusing but she manipulated me enough to maybe have a second chance,ugh i dont know know pls give me advice i accept blunt response

Posted by Aquarius3189
So this scorp we were together for 10yrs and yes half my life,i broke up with her since i felt that our relationship is becoming toxic with her possessiveness and me being independent and a rebel she doesnt understand what i want with my life sometimes she talks about this so called plan and dreams but i cant see her doing something about it as if she is just waiting for it to happen like if its meant to be it will come to her and that is our problem im a realistic person if you want something in your life then do it with action and determination dont wait for it to happen but we clash everytime i open

it up,she tells me that she has a condition that she cant help and because of that she cant do anything but i always lift up her spirit by saying that she is lucky enough unlike others that dont have an arm or a feet but she is fixed and stubborn,i have recently discovered coming from her that she is manipulating me in to coming back with her but my guts is telling me dont get back with her but i dont know if it is because im just scared to lose her or if i still have feelings for her its confusing but she manipulated me enough to maybe have a second chance,ugh i dont know know pls give me advice i accept blunt response

Take a breath. Put a period break and restate your actual question or the issue you need help with. All you've done is ramble on.

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Posted by Aquarius3189
So this scorp we were together for 10yrs and yes half my life,i broke up with her since i felt that our relationship is becoming toxic with her possessiveness and me being independent and a rebel she doesnt understand what i want with my life sometimes she talks about this so called plan and dreams but i cant see her doing something about it as if she is just waiting for it to happen like if its meant to be it will come to her and that is our problem im a realistic person if you want something in your life then do it with action and determination dont wait for it to happen but we clash everytime i open

it up,she tells me that she has a condition that she cant help and because of that she cant do anything but i always lift up her spirit by saying that she is lucky enough unlike others that dont have an arm or a feet but she is fixed and stubborn,i have recently discovered coming from her that she is manipulating me in to coming back with her but my guts is telling me dont get back with her but i dont know if it is because im just scared to lose her or if i still have feelings for her its confusing but she manipulated me enough to maybe have a second chance,ugh i dont know know pls give me advice i accept blunt response

Take a breath. Put a period break and restate your actual question or the issue you need help with. All you've done is ramble on.

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I was going to say that in all of that there's only three commas and zero full stops!

she cant make her full left arm go upward she cant grab on things with her left,but fine i really dont know if i should get back to her or not

Posted by Aquarius3189
she cant make her full left arm go upward she cant grab on things with her left,but fine i really dont know if i should get back to her or not

Wow. Given what you've written here and in the OP I would suggest you not get back into a relationship with her.

You'll be doing her a favour even if she doesn't realize it now. She will at some point.