AmberV
@AmberV
9 Years
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Posted by AmberV*massive eye roll*
Sorry I will rephrase, I never THOUGHT I would go for a married man, but I can't stop spending time with him............

Posted by AmberVLogic says nope.
Can we continue to have a friendship——??




Posted by cheekyfaerie😆 totally caught that. You funnny.Posted by Arielle83Was my way of jokingly asking if you'd helped her out with that. Not in any way saying you hafta fight for your fella, but you come off as hella scrappy. 😄Posted by cheekyfaerieYep. Looks like too much meth.Posted by Arielle83Ha. Wait a tic. She's missing them *now*?
I've got this feral single mom after my husband.
She's missing a few teeth.
He's a scorpio too.
3 kids different daddies.
Whenever my husband is out mowing the lawn he's got his shirt off.
She comes out and starts chatting.
Whenever i come out to work in my veggie patch, she walks away.
She's even made him cookies.
He threw them out in case they were laced with meth and cockroaches.
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Posted by GreenteaYep.
I just hate married people messing around and the sluts who accommodate that kind of behavior from men. I don't even give af about their feelings and their whorish ways.
She's nothing but a scandalous bitch to me.



Posted by beautifulsoul74nope. not this lady
Man, I'm sorry but at this stage in life I'm really starting to believe that men aren't valued or wanted by women unless they are attached to somebody...and that's really tragic

Posted by GreenteaMarried men need to held to a higher degree. always steppin out.
I just hate married people messing around and the sluts who accommodate that kind of behavior from men. I don't even give af about their feelings and their whorish ways.
She's nothing but a scandalous bitch to me.

Posted by AmberVQuit.
You are both right... What is happening here is very wrong. I should put an end to it but I don't know how. We have to work together and he is very high up in the company I work for. I feel I have already got too deep into it 😢

Posted by GreenteaTo which he is utterly complicit.Posted by ReincarnationPosted by GreenteaBecause Capricorns never cheat, right? -_-
I just hate married people messing around and the sluts who accommodate that kind of behavior from men. I don't even give af about their feelings and their whorish ways.
She's nothing but a scandalous bitch to me.
It has nothing to do with me being Capricorn. It just so happens this scandalous wench is a Cancer. Which she is, a cancer to this man and his marriage.click to expand

Posted by DMVOh I agree, that man isn't great either, but it's skanks like her that bring a motivation for these married men to step out on the loyal wife. They think they're better than the wife, which in reality they're just scandalous bitches knowingly messing with taken men. Skank = loyal wife...there is no competition.Posted by GreenteaMarried men need to held to a higher degree. always steppin out.
I just hate married people messing around and the sluts who accommodate that kind of behavior from men. I don't even give af about their feelings and their whorish ways.
She's nothing but a scandalous bitch to me.click to expand

Posted by beautifulsoul74No that's not true, it's just bitches like the OP think they're special, and better than the man's wife, when in reality the man is just getting a kick out of stupid kid that falls for their seductive bullshit because it's fun and new because it's a double life for them.
Man, I'm sorry but at this stage in life I'm really starting to believe that men aren't valued or wanted by women unless they are attached to somebody...and that's really tragic

Posted by Arielle83I need to Google that story.
Have you guys heard of Gerard Baden clay?
Sept 9, 1970
And how he had multiple affairs on his cancer wife July 1, 1969.
He eventually murdered her and tossed her in the creek.
His mistress Toni mchugh is one hideous muppet and his wife was a beauty queen.
Anyways the mistress thought they could all be together like a big happy family while the beauty queen succumbs to depression and murder by the man who brought her depression.
Ya good luck amber!

Posted by Arielle83Posted by GreenteaThey reduced his charge from murder to manslaughter. So he'll be out soon.Posted by Arielle83I need to Google that story.
Have you guys heard of Gerard Baden clay?
Sept 9, 1970
And how he had multiple affairs on his cancer wife July 1, 1969.
He eventually murdered her and tossed her in the creek.
His mistress Toni mchugh is one hideous muppet and his wife was a beauty queen.
Anyways the mistress thought they could all be together like a big happy family while the beauty queen succumbs to depression and murder by the man who brought her depression.
Ya good luck amber!
Some people are just pieces of work.
All cuz they couldn't prove intent or accident.
His multiple affairs prove intent. Plus the life insurance policy.click to expand


Posted by MiZLeoYa but this isn't about her, and she.could be sitting at home thinking the love of her life is a devoted husband. Stop making excuses for sluts.Posted by GreenteaWho says the wife is loyal? Sorry....love playing Devils advocate.....but...she could be cheating too.Posted by DMVOh I agree, that man isn't great either, but it's skanks like her that bring a motivation for these married men to step out on the loyal wife. They think they're better than the wife, which in reality they're just scandalous bitches knowingly messing with taken men. Skank = loyal wife...there is no competition.Posted by GreenteaMarried men need to held to a higher degree. always steppin out.
I just hate married people messing around and the sluts who accommodate that kind of behavior from men. I don't even give af about their feelings and their whorish ways.
She's nothing but a scandalous bitch to me.
Her character is flawed.
I feel bad for the wife, not these two hoes.click to expand

Posted by MiZLeoVery true! I don't condone affairs, but there's more to the story that we, as outsiders, aren't aware of.Posted by GreenteaWho says the wife is loyal? Sorry....love playing Devils advocate.....but...she could be cheating too.Posted by DMVOh I agree, that man isn't great either, but it's skanks like her that bring a motivation for these married men to step out on the loyal wife. They think they're better than the wife, which in reality they're just scandalous bitches knowingly messing with taken men. Skank = loyal wife...there is no competition.Posted by GreenteaMarried men need to held to a higher degree. always steppin out.
I just hate married people messing around and the sluts who accommodate that kind of behavior from men. I don't even give af about their feelings and their whorish ways.
She's nothing but a scandalous bitch to me.
Her character is flawed.
I feel bad for the wife, not these two hoes.click to expand

Posted by GreenteaAnd another thing for those of you that are that fecking glib...is that when a man wants to fuck you, they will make their wife look like the devil. That's how it works. It's not rocket science, but somehow women who get involved with these jackasses will make up any excuse.Posted by MiZLeoYa but this isn't about her, and she.could be sitting at home thinking the love of her life is a devoted husband. Stop making excuses for sluts.Posted by GreenteaWho says the wife is loyal? Sorry....love playing Devils advocate.....but...she could be cheating too.Posted by DMVOh I agree, that man isn't great either, but it's skanks like her that bring a motivation for these married men to step out on the loyal wife. They think they're better than the wife, which in reality they're just scandalous bitches knowingly messing with taken men. Skank = loyal wife...there is no competition.Posted by GreenteaMarried men need to held to a higher degree. always steppin out.
I just hate married people messing around and the sluts who accommodate that kind of behavior from men. I don't even give af about their feelings and their whorish ways.
She's nothing but a scandalous bitch to me.
Her character is flawed.
I feel bad for the wife, not these two hoes.
Are you one?click to expand

Posted by BlackMambaLOL! I knew it wouldn't take long for you to show up.Posted by GreenteaThat's fuked up why didn't he just divorce her? Was the ugly chick a Taurus?Posted by Arielle83Posted by GreenteaThey reduced his charge from murder to manslaughter. So he'll be out soon.Posted by Arielle83I need to Google that story.
Have you guys heard of Gerard Baden clay?
Sept 9, 1970
And how he had multiple affairs on his cancer wife July 1, 1969.
He eventually murdered her and tossed her in the creek.
His mistress Toni mchugh is one hideous muppet and his wife was a beauty queen.
Anyways the mistress thought they could all be together like a big happy family while the beauty queen succumbs to depression and murder by the man who brought her depression.
Ya good luck amber!
Some people are just pieces of work.
All cuz they couldn't prove intent or accident.
His multiple affairs prove intent. Plus the life insurance policy.
Poor wife. She got the shitty end of the deal.
I'm hoping CC doesn't find this out, I know she'd have.something to say bease he's virgo.
Lol Virgos are shady! I bet him married her because he could use her unfortunately he was trash and attracted to trash so he got his kicks in the side.
Virgo men are very good actors! Sociopaths reallyclick to expand

Posted by BlackMambaBut I thought virgos were supposed to be the pure ones doe.Posted by GreenteaIt doesn't matter it scares me and is a warning! Virgos really take advantage of crabs purityPosted by BlackMambaLOL! I knew it wouldn't take long for you to show up.Posted by GreenteaThat's fuked up why didn't he just divorce her? Was the ugly chick a Taurus?Posted by Arielle83Posted by GreenteaThey reduced his charge from murder to manslaughter. So he'll be out soon.Posted by Arielle83I need to Google that story.
Have you guys heard of Gerard Baden clay?
Sept 9, 1970
And how he had multiple affairs on his cancer wife July 1, 1969.
He eventually murdered her and tossed her in the creek.
His mistress Toni mchugh is one hideous muppet and his wife was a beauty queen.
Anyways the mistress thought they could all be together like a big happy family while the beauty queen succumbs to depression and murder by the man who brought her depression.
Ya good luck amber!
Some people are just pieces of work.
All cuz they couldn't prove intent or accident.
His multiple affairs prove intent. Plus the life insurance policy.
Poor wife. She got the shitty end of the deal.
I'm hoping CC doesn't find this out, I know she'd have.something to say bease he's virgo.
Lol Virgos are shady! I bet him married her because he could use her unfortunately he was trash and attracted to trash so he got his kicks in the side.
Virgo men are very good actors! Sociopaths really
I dont know the woman he was having an affair with bday, tried looking for it.click to expand

Posted by AlphaDo you think she's the only one who's felt attraction for a taken man?... no, however you have a choice to do what's right or to do what's wrong. What prize do you get in the end...an unfaithful man no doubt, amd what does he get, a woman who's brazen enough to get in between a marriage. What does that say about them...
It's very easy to be judgemental and on the other hand, extremely difficult to understand emotions. But this is an online thread, so who cares, eh?

Posted by BlackMambaPosted by AmberVYou're 29 years old? And you're asking yourself if he leaves his wife for you it might not work cause you're a commitment phobe? Do you live in Neverland?
I am a 29 year old Cancerian woman who works with a married Scorpio man. We have become quite friendly of late and have developed what some might call an 'emotional affair' as we text each other quite a lot out of work (but nothing sordid), and he has taken me out for lunch a few times too. We are a bit flirtatious but nothing over the top. Nothing physical has happened between us, it is more like we have developed a close connection/friendship, however I know he finds me attractive as he has made the comment quite a few times.
I am a bit confused as to what is going on in the Scorpio's man mind and what he wants from the situation, but obviously I am not going to ask him.
I have never been in this situation before, and would never go for a married man, but from the moment I met Scorpio three years ago there has been heaps of chemistry between us and I just can't ignore it. I haven't had this type of connection with anyone before and I almost feel like I am falling in LOVE with him! He even said that we probably shouldn't be hanging out outside of work, but he can't seem to help himself as it hasnt stopped him contacting me and wanting to see me.
What is going on in Scorpios mind? Is it possible he is developing strong feelings for me too or is it purely sexual? What will happen if this continues?
I don't want him to leave his wife for me as I am actually a bit of a commitment phobic and find it hard to see anything long term, but I can never seen us ending this 'flirtation' either as we both seem to be a bit attached.
You can't be this delusional and call yourself a crab!
I'm officially taking away your crab card!
You're not welcome. You can't sit with us!
Forget the homewrecking your planning, what's worse is how stupid and delusional you are and you're 29. Wtf! You can't be this dumb! You're old!click to expand

Posted by backtokemet
I believe that chemistry is called forbidden fruit chemistry !
don't be a CANCER to his marriage (even if many people don't really take marriage seriously these days)

Posted by AlphaI don't agree with being nice to women who try or are strategically trying to get themselves involved with married men...I don't think she's naive at all, she's just fucked up.Posted by DonnaElvira77Agreed. But can't we politely explain it to her so that she can actually understand where she is wrong and the msg we're trying to convey?Posted by AlphaJust in the one place. It doesn't really matter anyway. But it's what most people are thinking.Posted by DonnaElvira77As far as I can tell, she definitely doesn't expect you to post another comment in this thread. You're all over the place.
Why is the OP posting this what exactly does she expect people to say?
She is naive and throwing herself onto a knife in a house that's on fire. She shouldn't even be there. She doesn't have to be there. She is being selfish and self destructive. This a mess.
It's not going to bring her happiness even.
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Posted by WhiteChocolateHe is in no way a good, loyal husband, however she has the vagina that he wants to access, she dictates where this relationship goes, not him.
Let's not absolve him of responsibility either.

Posted by DonnaElvira77She doesn't want a friendship....what she meant is can I continue sticking my tits and vag in his face, I still want to make his dick hard with our "emotional" affair. I just want to feck his mind, if i.can't feck his dik.Posted by AmberVOh good lord you are so so naive. Why would you want to be friends with such a bastard?
Can we continue to have a friendship——??click to expand


Posted by Arielle83He's telling her they shouldn't hang out outside of work, but he can't help himself and contacts her to see her. Friends or coworkers that just want to flirt don't say that stuff if they're just "innocently flirting. I've seen that kind of flirting and it's usually just in jest. This is different, guy is looking to get in amd she's enjoying it to the point that she's considering having an affair with this guy because she's getting emotionally involved, when she shouldn't have.Posted by GreenteaWell what is he even doing?Posted by WhiteChocolateHe is in no way a good, loyal husband, however she has the vagina that he wants to access, she dictates where this relationship goes, not him.
Let's not absolve him of responsibility either.
He chats to her and goes out to lunch.
She reckons they are both flirting.
He's a scorpio, they flirt. Maybe it's all in her head.click to expand

Posted by FrostAndBiteActually has a lot of truth to it from my experience
He most likely won't leave his wife. Fixed signs rarely do over having affairs because a rush of temporary new love or new sex just can't trump the consistency and stability they have with their partner. So count that out.
You say your commitment phobic anyways so that probably makes him more attractive to you, since you know he won't want anything more than a subsidized relationship.
But you're already starting to have feelings and you two haven't kissed or had sex. So don't do that.
You can shut this down early and prevent (anymore) damage or a terrible fallout. Just tell him you think it's best to only communicate at work. Decline any offers for lunch unless it's with other coworkers. Just continually say you prefer to work at work. Don't talk about why or feelings of anything cause that'll just turn into emotional baiting. Keep it short and to the point and he'll get the picture.

Posted by GreenteaIn fairness slutty man had intentions to go elsewhere for whatever reason.Posted by DMVOh I agree, that man isn't great either, but it's skanks like her that bring a motivation for these married men to step out on the loyal wife. They think they're better than the wife, which in reality they're just scandalous bitches knowingly messing with taken men. Skank = loyal wife...there is no competition.Posted by GreenteaMarried men need to held to a higher degree. always steppin out.
I just hate married people messing around and the sluts who accommodate that kind of behavior from men. I don't even give af about their feelings and their whorish ways.
She's nothing but a scandalous bitch to me.
Her character is flawed.
I feel bad for the wife, not these two hoes.click to expand

Posted by BlackMambaIf his wife is a Virgo she will go crazy af . Honestly if she is any sign including Libra she will go crazy AF.
If his wife a Virgo if so go for it

Posted by backtokemetDon't be a CANCER to his marriage awwww refreshingly Punny. Yeah Punny.
I believe that chemistry is called forbidden fruit chemistry !
don't be a CANCER to his marriage (even if many people don't really take marriage seriously these days)

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I am a bit confused as to what is going on in the Scorpio's man mind and what he wants from the situation, but obviously I am not going to ask him.
I have never been in this situation before, and would never go for a married man, but from the moment I met Scorpio three years ago there has been heaps of chemistry between us and I just can't ignore it. I haven't had this type of connection with anyone before and I almost feel like I am falling in LOVE with him! He even said that we probably shouldn't be hanging out outside of work, but he can't seem to help himself as it hasnt stopped him contacting me and wanting to see me.
What is going on in Scorpios mind? Is it possible he is developing strong feelings for me too or is it purely sexual? What will happen if this continues?
I don't want him to leave his wife for me as I am actually a bit of a commitment phobic and find it hard to see anything long term, but I can never seen us ending this 'flirtation' either as we both seem to be a bit attached.