Falling for a married Scorpio man, and he is interested in me too (Page 2)

Posted by AmberV
Wow this post has sure attracted many responses....

I value all your feedback which is why I have posted on a public forum (well not so much the people trying to cast spells on me)
Please remember that we have not done any cheating, and he has been the one pursuing me.

I am trying to take stock of the situation. This has happened as we have worked closely together and got along well, it was a natural occurence and not something I pursued. As I said, I never thought I would have an affair, and I still don't believe I would, although now I can see how they can happy. I have realised that this has gone into dangerous territory as it could lead somewhere, and will try and absolve myself of the situation as delicately and maturely as I can.

Posted by BlackMamba
Virgos really take advantage of crabs purity

Posted by frostey91

Posted by backtokemet
I believe that chemistry is called forbidden fruit chemistry !
don't be a CANCER to his marriage (even if many people don't really take marriage seriously these days)

Don't be a CANCER to his marriage awwww refreshingly Punny. Yeah Punny.

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Posted by frostey91
Well this certainly cost me 30 mins + of sleep reading basically every one's post. I'll just give an overview.

1. No one really mentioned the fact that he is the boss or higher up in the company much. That just goes to show even more that you are an obvious side piece or as we say in 2015 a side dish.

2. You are 29 use your brain and have some professional and moral integrity.

3. OP u got slaughtered in this thread. This is shit is fun to read. Almost everyone who uses DXP is married or knows people who are.

4. Like I tell everyone who seeks help or asks what to do. You have to force the issue and say hey we shouldn't be doing this and I think I am getting to close to you. I might even have feelings and that is not right.

5. If you have/ had sex with him it will be ugly. You said you two spend time together outside of work. Doing what? Is his wife really that lame come on? I feel like this is an example of an accomplished man who wants to "enjoy new fruits of his labor." Unfortunately you are just s fruit in front of his face. There are other fruit and he will pursue them too, probably while he is having an emotional bond with you. Isn't that cute two water signs having an emotional relationship?

Be a grown up and professional. He has too much power(Don't Scorpios enjoy power more than most?) This will only ruin everyone's life who is involved and make your company look bad--think of that.

Be a professional adult and fix this shit. Don't let him over power or manipulate you. I would make the bastard lose his job. I love with others get their "proper" justice.
Cap City.

Well, I highlighted #1 to her but she can't bluntly ask him to leave her alone. It can backfire and he might try to get her out of the organization. She has to act slowly and smartly to get herself out without causing any profession related issues.

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Posted by Arielle83
Have you guys heard of Gerard Baden clay?

Sept 9, 1970

And how he had multiple affairs on his cancer wife July 1, 1969.

He eventually murdered her and tossed her in the creek.

His mistress Toni mchugh is one hideous muppet and his wife was a beauty queen.

Anyways the mistress thought they could all be together like a big happy family while the beauty queen succumbs to depression and murder by the man who brought her depression.

Ya good luck amber!