Formula on finding the ideal partner - males only (Page 2)

Posted by GandalftheGrey
I am assuming you are a aquarius....

I don't think a persons line of thoughts has got 2 do with the stars.

Btw I'm a Scorpio.

Ain't gay.

Ain't metrosexual.

Just a man.

Oh, you haven't even touched the tip of the iceberg on "challenge". I'm the chaos maker and the pattern finder.

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Posted by SilentGhost
Bloody hard 2 type in an IPhone especially with big thumbs.

This is intended 4 the guy whom I've apologies earlier on..

Do a mental age test, let us know what is your mental age versus your age.

Normally a male will have a 10 year or something mental age gap.

http://mymentalage.com/results

The My Mental Age Test
Your mental age is
30


I'm 21, about a 10 year age gap, yes. But probably not in the direction you were leaning towards? Because this doesn't convince me to date an 11 year old, at all. Anyway, I don't see what this has to do with you offering debate, and then ignoring the 3 people who pointed out that your entire premise was based on you misunderstanding an old rule of thumb that was inherently flawed to begin with...

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Thank god for normal people! I think having a formula for age and dating is a bit backwards, especially since I'm seeing zero support in why this formula supposedly works.

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever

Posted by SilentGhost
Bloody hard 2 type in an IPhone especially with big thumbs.

This is intended 4 the guy whom I've apologies earlier on..

Do a mental age test, let us know what is your mental age versus your age.

Normally a male will have a 10 year or something mental age gap.

http://mymentalage.com/results

The My Mental Age Test
Your mental age is
30


I'm 21, about a 10 year age gap, yes. But probably not in the direction you were leaning towards? Because this doesn't convince me to date an 11 year old, at all. Anyway, I don't see what this has to do with you offering debate, and then ignoring the 3 people who pointed out that your entire premise was based on you misunderstanding an old rule of thumb that was inherently flawed to begin with...

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Again I'm right.

I repeat, my theory does not apply 2 mama boys or gays.

That was downright rude, SG. Who's to say he's gay or a mama's boy? And why does it not include them? I'm still calling bullshit and pigs balls on this formula.

@MoonArtist

I'm not looking for support.

It's debate, discussion etc that I want.

Everyone here is free to post anything or everything.

And I'm charming so it's also okay to whack my theory around.

It's a good thing you're not looking for support because so far you haven't got it and you have yet to give any evidence towards it. I'm not sure what "charming" has to do with people whacking the theory, though. But whack we shall!

Posted by GandalftheGrey


if you focus on finding the ideal partner you will never find her. You are sending the signal to your subconcious that you lack the ideal partner and your subconcious only returns that reality to you. you must find her within before you can get her without. your energy is vibrating "lack" "lack" "lack".

Gandalf, that raises an interesting thought: what if you've found your ideal partner and that ideal partner is currently taken?

Touche

Still, lets go with the thinking on this....energy, manifestation, etc....

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever

Posted by SilentGhost

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever

Posted by SilentGhost
Bloody hard 2 type in an IPhone especially with big thumbs.

This is intended 4 the guy whom I've apologies earlier on..

Do a mental age test, let us know what is your mental age versus your age.

Normally a male will have a 10 year or something mental age gap.

http://mymentalage.com/results

The My Mental Age Test
Your mental age is
30


I'm 21, about a 10 year age gap, yes. But probably not in the direction you were leaning towards? Because this doesn't convince me to date an 11 year old, at all. Anyway, I don't see what this has to do with you offering debate, and then ignoring the 3 people who pointed out that your entire premise was based on you misunderstanding an old rule of thumb that was inherently flawed to begin with...

Again I'm right.

I repeat, my theory does not apply 2 mama boys or gays.

LOL!!! You didn't tell me that your rules of debate included baseless personal attacks on people half your age +/- 0

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And this is pretty much what I pointed out in my first comment. Anyway, who cares at this point, he won't attempt to justify it because he obviously can't and neither can anyone else. If people are convinced that this bullshit is true, there'd be no need to post it. If it were true, there'd be no point in debate(which isn't happening here anyway). His insults which span the whole thread are typical of the adolescent boys he's trying to crush. It's interesting too how according to him, the men not in their forties or older are children but if you have a vagina, you're an adult. Convenient, no? He is one of those foolish "adults" who also conveniently forget that they were once the age they're ripping on.

Anger management phulease ...

I did say earlier on my theory does not apply 2 gays nor 2 mama boys.

But I'll figure a theory that does apply 2 ur grouping...eventually.

When I'm bored I'll think and ponder upon it.

The fact that a formula doesn't exist for "mamaboys, ladyboys, gays" proves that it doesnt exist for anyone and the fact that you are so confident in calling everyone a gay calls your own sexuality and relation to your mother to question. After all, it takes one to know one. 😉

Alright despite the fact I hate to generalize the sexes.. I could sorta agree with you ghost.

Only because from very early on in life females tend to stay more open to their emotions and are thus much more familiar with them... while males are trained to sort of restrain there emotions to the extent that at some point your typical male likely would lose touch with his emotions... and typically not be on the same level as a female.

I can't speculate on your equation however or where you even got that from.

I do know this though... I'm only average looking I would say but as I've gotten older more and more younger women seem to be interested in me... I however find it kinda creepy though man ^.^

I have never dates anyone more than 4 years younger than me. Your equation gives me 22 as the upper limit... To me 22 is the lower limit lol!

That girl maaay be in tune with her emotions and all but can you speak for her maturity?

Posted by Impulsv
So if ur not really looking for an ideal what energy are u giving.

I guess that depends on the person. One not looking for an ideal might not even be looking or at least not manifesting anything in particular. And one who is would already have something in mind for what's wanted/needed.

Posted by SilentGhost
Anger management phulease ...

I did say earlier on my theory does not apply 2 gays nor 2 mama boys.

But I'll figure a theory that does apply 2 ur grouping...eventually.

When I'm bored I'll think and ponder upon it.

You still haven't answered WHY the bullshit formula doesn't apply to mama's boys and gays. Also, I find it offensive that gays are lumped in with mama's boys. Mama's boys are immature, have psychological issues and can be straight or gay. Gays, by the definition of being homosexual, are simply people attracted to the same sex. Their sexual preference has no bearing on other things.

A small gesture..

A small peek a boo if you like..

Pedo, asshole, bastard etc is actually the same as smart, handsome, charming etc.

It's all super.

But I already know I'm super.

How abt don't waste your energy and try to perhaps demolish my theory or even better it ?

Maybe you can be more super then me ?

Posted by GandalftheGrey
you should just command your subconscious mind to find you the perfect women and then focus on normal tasks. how do you think scientists get their breakthroughs? your best ideas come when you stop focusing and stressing about the partner. your energy should vibrate as if she is already yours.


remember every form has it is origin in thought or the mental world. There really is nothing outside which you didn't create inside. showing desperation for ideal partner makes the universe think you are lame as hell.

Not giving a flying fuck about whether you find her or not and just having that vibe that you have her makes the universe very impressed.

before you go to sleep give your subconcious mind a command and then doze off without worrying.

example: i tell my subconscious to wake me at 7am in the morning and it does that perfectly.

Why does everyone assume I'm a man? :p
Hmmmm.....I can see what you mean. It's a bit like dealing with horses. Frantic, nervous energy chases them away and calm/still energy draws them in.

Much as I like to debate....

I'll be back after I'm finished with Robocop..

Apologies everyone, couldn't resist the temptation of an invitation of a 23 yrs old woman who's paying for the food and movie xD

Posted by SilentGhost
Much as I like to debate....

I'll be back after I'm finished with Robocop..

Apologies everyone, couldn't resist the temptation of an invitation of a 23 yrs old woman who's paying for the food and movie xD

I'll spoil the movie for you: police officer gets fatally wounded and science saves his life by turning him into a cyborg/robot. He fights the bad guys and has minor flashbacks of memory. I hope you asked your mother for permission before you let your sugar mama take you out for a date.

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Posted by SilentGhost
Much as I like to debate....

I'll be back after I'm finished with Robocop..

Apologies everyone, couldn't resist the temptation of an invitation of a 23 yrs old woman who's paying for the food and movie xD

Lol u must be lacking somewhere to place more value on whom u can get n how man. How old n who's paying for what.

That doesn't make a real man.

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AMEN! You know what it smacks of? Over compensating. I see this with men who drive overly lifted trucks and who brag about how young their girlfriends are. The root of this insecurity is usually a very small penis. Over compensating is rather tragic.

Now where's all the hate gone 2 ?

Okay back 2 topic ppl..

As 4 being a man, no woman knows how, why or what's not towards being a man.

If she goes abt training a boy into a man he will in turn becomes a wuss.

Only a man can ever validate another.

Still, the only person here who has actually made a contribution towards humanity is Gandalf the Gray.

Now since many here has small minds and is insistent on being so, you hv my permission 2 proceed henceforth xD

@confuzzy4ever aka mama's boy or gay dude, I ain't sure, but I did hit my mark.

You see, I'm a Scorpio man, as such according to astrology, just by being me, I'll mightily offend persons whom falls into the category of wuss etc.

I doubt you r able to win me in a physical match but you see, much 2 my dismay I don't ever fight someone so much weaker then me. You see there's no profit in it 4 me.

However, u do hv my permission 2 howl at the stars tonight and of course with you tail tuck neatly between your legs.

As the bringer of life into the world I'm still calling bullshit and pig balls on the formula. I still haven't seen any evidence that would convince me it has any validity. BUT, if men with small penis problems feel justified in using it so they can catch little girls who might find a small penis to be impressive due to not knowing any better then more power to the formula and to the small penised man.

I prefer mine thick and long.

@MoonArtist

The mere mention of a 23 yrs old sexy bitch has gotten u in a frenzy huh...

I wonder why..

U hv made me curious xD

Congratulations !

Not many chicks r able 2 do that.

However, attempts 2 seduce me will not work.

I simply refuse.

You see, I'm here to test this hypothesis and nothing else.

However if it makes you feel all tingly inside, by all means go ahead, u r of course entitled to some fun.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Alright despite the fact I hate to generalize the sexes.. I could sorta agree with you ghost.

Only because from very early on in life females tend to stay more open to their emotions and are thus much more familiar with them... while males are trained to sort of restrain there emotions to the extent that at some point your typical male likely would lose touch with his emotions... and typically not be on the same level as a female.

I can't speculate on your equation however or where you even got that from.

I do know this though... I'm only average looking I would say but as I've gotten older more and more younger women seem to be interested in me... I however find it kinda creepy though man ^.^

I have never dates anyone more than 4 years younger than me. Your equation gives me 22 as the upper limit... To me 22 is the lower limit lol!

That girl maaay be in tune with her emotions and all but can you speak for her maturity?

Hello there my erstwhile one sided opponent.

It's been awhile huh..

And you've grown up some.

That's good.

And because you did good I shall respond in kind.

A 22 year old woman might NOT be matured enough for you HOWEVER you will be matured enough for her correct ?

So in essence she will look up 2 you ?

By doing so, it would make you wanna be better almost all the time since there's a benchmark, makes sense ?

Does she lose out being with you ? Or do you think she will gain valuable insights or experiences ?

All in all she gains and so do you.

BUT if she's of a higher EQ then you, she gains nothing, well almost nothing while you will be mostly confused basically all the time.

Care 2 discuss this ?

Somehow you seem braver as compared 2 before and a mind more open.

Lets dual once more in a more constructive manner.

@Onedaywonder

I did not say he's incorrect nor say he is correct.

I merely pointed out my suspicion and manuavered him 2 answer something which I suspect; a highly intelligent mind.

I'm here merely to test this hypothesis out, seeking insights from normal everyday people.

Most people aren't brave to test the boundaries of social norms, it's the herd mentality being played out.

A woman regardless of age or intelligence will have daddy's or husband issues.

The chemical in their bodies does wreck havoc at different days in a month.

Hence my post - man only.

Man r born 2 be leaders, either at the home, workplace, marriage or in anything.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
I don't know-- sounds like post rationalizing bollocks to me. Carry on.

Hahaha

Orait my fellow scorpie..

Bollocks or not, I'm sure you'd be interested 2 see how this plays out.

And all those people unknowingly leaking out secrets of how their mind work must be exciting.

It is 2 me..

@Onedaywonder

A ship cannot hv 2 captains..

If there is, constant fights will be the result.

No man alive can tell what's better for women, as they themselves r mostly confused even with their own feelings.

A woman can hv a zillion opinions to give her mate, it then falls on her mate to accept or not, basically decide; leadership.

If u fail in your leadership, you fail your marriage or relationship.

I've always hold the view of man being in-charge in his marriage/relationship. If it fails, then it's his leadership that fails.

It is and always is never a woman's problem.

It is the weakness of the man.

She merely mirrors him.

But then this is for another time and day.

A question within a question.

A conundrum of sorts..

But I'm feeling magnanimous today..

Lets play..

my ascendant digs this formula

Yeah, a child asking a geezer out to a movie and dinner which she is going to pay for is a fantastic display of manly leadership, and by manly leadership, I mean her since she's the only one contributing something beyond just her presence. She had the idea, she had the balls to ask some old fart out, and she's paying for it all.

WAIT A MINUTE!! SHE MUST BE ONE OF HIS RELATIVES, LULZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kids, he won't write about going off to do something else(this is what he means by debating) at other sites because when he Googled about this, he saw that everyone disagrees so he came here to troll. Best thing to do is let this pointless thread die since there is clearly no purpose to it.

Posted by SilentGhost
@Onedaywonder





A woman regardless of age or intelligence will have daddy's or husband issues.

OK, I'll bite. Please explain yourself. I grew up in a large family of men. A doting grandfather I love more than anything, a great dad, brother, cousins, and uncles. They aren't perfect men, but they are exceptional men worthy of any sensible woman's love and respect.

The only "Daddy's issue" I've ever had is that few, if any, men I've ever met could hope to reasonably compete with the examples of manhood with which I've been raised. I don't need a GREATER man than my men relatives, just an EQUAL, to be happy. That's a tougher find than you might imagine.

Husbands are not meant to be the "cure" to women's past "issues" with other men. I'm astonished you suggest this. If I'm reading your post wrong, please explain it to me.

There is no such thing as equal..

Like I said before, there can only be 1 captain in a ship.

If you think there can be 2 captains in a ship, then u r delusional and thus living a lie, of which you will fail miserably.

That future is certain if you take that path.

A feminine woman is an equal glory to a manly man. Ponder at this sentence.

Posted by SilentGhost
There is no such thing as equal..

Like I said before, there can only be 1 captain in a ship.

If you think there can be 2 captains in a ship, then u r delusional and thus living a lie, of which you will fail miserably.

That future is certain if you take that path.

A feminine woman is an equal glory to a manly man. Ponder at this sentence.

Thank you very much for proclaiming the flaw within your own argument. Equality is very real. And femininity isn't "weakness." It's a power all its own.

I get it. You're no team player. You believe you're the one in charge. Trust me, the right lady will frost you like angel food cake and you'll never know any better.

U still don't get it do you..

Pity.

I'll play along with your questions as you interest me.

Brb in 1.5 hours

Posted by SilentGhost
U still don't get it do you..

Pity.

I'm sure I get it just fine. Thanks. I just disagree with you.

I'll play along with your questions as you interest me.

Oh. Lucky me.

Brb in 1.5 hours

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No rush.

Posted by SilentGhost


"There is no such thing as equal.."

"A feminine woman is an equal glory to a manly man. Ponder at this sentence."

After pondering your sentence, I noticed that your outro sentence contradicts your intro sentence.
I also noticed your use of the word "manly" to contrast the word "feminine".

If I may make a suggestion, your audience may find your sentence to be more precisely written by using the word "masculine" in the place of the word "manly".

Now, here is wisdom. Rain falls from above to sustain the inhabitants of the whole earth. Which is
greater? The rain drops or the rain cloud that delivers the rain?

Posted by SilentGhost
@MoonArtist

The mere mention of a 23 yrs old sexy bitch has gotten u in a frenzy huh...

I wonder why..

U hv made me curious xD

Congratulations !

Not many chicks r able 2 do that.

However, attempts 2 seduce me will not work.

I simply refuse.

You see, I'm here to test this hypothesis and nothing else.

However if it makes you feel all tingly inside, by all means go ahead, u r of course entitled to some fun.

Oh, sweety, you really didn't interpret my post the right way at all. I'm rather disappointed. Where's the famous Scorpio insightfulness? I do believe you've been trumped by a Cancer! I'm not in a frenzy, I merely called you out on your obvious attempt at over compensating and bragging. Attempting to seduce you? Please, I'm probably 5 inches taller than you and I'll at least be polite enough not to post the study on average penis size in correlation to country and my own guess on your penis size. I'm sorry, but braggy adult boys aren't my taste. As for having my fun, believe me, I am! You're fun to bait. ~cheshire cat grin~

Posted by CreoleGeisha

Posted by SilentGhost
There is no such thing as equal..

Like I said before, there can only be 1 captain in a ship.

If you think there can be 2 captains in a ship, then u r delusional and thus living a lie, of which you will fail miserably.

That future is certain if you take that path.

A feminine woman is an equal glory to a manly man. Ponder at this sentence.

Thank you very much for proclaiming the flaw within your own argument. Equality is very real. And femininity isn't "weakness." It's a power all its own.

I get it. You're no team player. You believe you're the one in charge. Trust me, the right lady will frost you like angel food cake and you'll never know any better.

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I think there's about 4 or 5 of us who already have frosted him on here and he still doesn't know any better. lol And I'm with you, Creole, it's about partnership among equals.

While I'm calling you out on bullshit and pigs balls, SilentGhost, I'm going to call you out on a few more things. whenever you wish to appear that you have better things to do you post that you're leaving for such and such and coming back in X amount of time. So far your timing has been terrible and not true to what you posted, and that smacks of a lie. If you're lying about going and coming on here then I'm willing to bet you're lying about what activities you're supposedly doing while you're away. The sex and the 23 yr old probably never happened. But that's just my gut feeling on the matter.

Uh huh..

Frosted, etc etc..

Perhaps you think it makes a difference ?

Maybe it does.

Maybe it doesn't.

Those details, is it important ?

So keen on details..

I'm a detail person. Details usually are important. If I wasn't a detail person then I wouldn't be so good at what I do.

You can ignore what I said but I know I'm right. I hit the nail on the head.

You must have waited for me MoonArtist.

Please accept my apology.

Why don't you use that incredible mind of yours and perhaps offer a better solution ?

It relatively easy 2 ridicule a person...

Even a small kid can do that..

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Posted by SilentGhost
There is no such thing as equal..

Like I said before, there can only be 1 captain in a ship.

If you think there can be 2 captains in a ship, then u r delusional and thus living a lie, of which you will fail miserably.

That future is certain if you take that path.

A feminine woman is an equal glory to a manly man. Ponder at this sentence.

Thank you very much for proclaiming the flaw within your own argument. Equality is very real. And femininity isn't "weakness." It's a power all its own.

I get it. You're no team player. You believe you're the one in charge. Trust me, the right lady will frost you like angel food cake and you'll never know any better.

I think there's about 4 or 5 of us who already have frosted him on here and he still doesn't know any better. lol And I'm with you, Creole, it's about partnership among equals.

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The most successful marriages I've witnessed have couples working as a team. HOWEVER, one partner is usually more deferrential than the other. I've seen it where the wife defers and I've seen it where the husband defers.

I don't think the OP understands concepts of good leadership. Effective leaders know how to listen and to admit their own deficiencies. A "leader" isn't a leader because he's male; he's a leader because he LEADS and people trust in him and follow him. It takes guts, intelligence, and extensive self-knowledge and confidence to lead well. Also, you have to know how to follow before you can lead.

Posted by SilentGhost
Uh huh..


Those details, is it important ?

So keen on details..

Yes, details matter. Details make up the big picture.

Waited for you? Don't flatter yourself. It was terribly simple to notice you saying you'll be gone for 3 hrs and then see you post in 30 min....and that was just one of several examples.
I'm not sure I'd consider what I'm doing to you as ridicule, exactly. Toying with and systematically picking apart your theory and the miniscule attempts at proving it would be a more appropriate definition. I'm also calling you out on the other bullshit details. Remember, I'm a detail person of the highest order. So, where is this evidence for your theory, and why haven't you answered the question asked numerous times about why gays and mama boys are left out off this theory/formula?

Details r a means towards a desired result.

Desired result = constant

Details = changes

Concepts of good leadership ?

Roflmao !

This certainly gonna take a long time 2 explain.

I've been in that role for so long that's it's imbedded into my psyche.

These details r boring..

Lets hear abt your alternative solution, I'm keen 2 hear it .

Just because thing changes doesn't make it irrelevant.

If that were so, EVERYTHING would be irrelevant. EVERYTHING CHANGES.

Including desired results.

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Posted by SilentGhost
There is no such thing as equal..

Like I said before, there can only be 1 captain in a ship.

If you think there can be 2 captains in a ship, then u r delusional and thus living a lie, of which you will fail miserably.

That future is certain if you take that path.

A feminine woman is an equal glory to a manly man. Ponder at this sentence.

Thank you very much for proclaiming the flaw within your own argument. Equality is very real. And femininity isn't "weakness." It's a power all its own.

I get it. You're no team player. You believe you're the one in charge. Trust me, the right lady will frost you like angel food cake and you'll never know any better.

I think there's about 4 or 5 of us who already have frosted him on here and he still doesn't know any better. lol And I'm with you, Creole, it's about partnership among equals.

The most successful marriages I've witnessed have couples working as a team. HOWEVER, one partner is usually more deferrential than the other. I've seen it where the wife defers and I've seen it where the husband defers.

I don't think the OP understands concepts of good leadership. Effective leaders know how to listen and to admit their own deficiencies. A "leader" isn't a leader because he's male; he's a leader because he LEADS and people trust in him and follow him. It takes guts, intelligence, and extensive self-knowledge and confidence to lead well. Also, you have to know how to follow before you can lead.

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Exactly, or there is a sharing and splitting of the leadership so that each uses their own unique skills and strengths for a different aspect of being a team. One might be better with finances than the other. The other might be better at diplomacy, organization and scheduling, for example.