Would you be content with a marriage .....

of the highest quality in all respects but one - it completely lacked sex?

is it 😢

does that really matter?? i wanna noh wat u feel about it... so wat if itz redundant 🙂

Well, maybe if I wasn't a very passionate person, but for me, NO.

'...If you want to continue to have sex, you probably shouldn't get married....'

that doesnt make sense at all... so u tellin me u gonna deprive ur wife of sex— poor thang ..i feel sorry 4 her...

NO KIDDING!!!

'...NO KIDDING!!!..'

so u'll consider it—

NoooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooo!

i NEED sex, I was agreeing with "so u tellin me u gonna deprive ur wife of sex— poor thang ..i feel sorry 4 her..."

Hmmmmm, in order to keep a marriage together a certain level of intimacy must be present. If not, then the husband and wife are just buddies. That's just as bad as a wife feeling more like a "mother" to her husband than his "wife".

That's is why I never understood infedelity in a marriage. You are suppose to get married to someone who is compatible with you mentally (mental connects count above al else because they last longer than mere physical attraction), emotionally, and ... physically -- sexually compatiblity is a huge deal! Jeezz, I wouldn't want to be married to someone who "hurts" me everytime we have sex! NO WAY, that would be bad, it would be horrible for him too because he couldn't fully enjoy himself.

Your right about one thing branh, it's NOT about sex.

Marriage scares me at the best of times..feels like a prison sentence..

Marriage scares me at the best of times..feels like a prison sentence"

a scorpio affraid of commitment? I am not understanding this outrage

your 28, you should have a big family and be a grama by now

yea i guess your right brahn. *sigh* I want my big family now

I hope you're not talking to ME, with that comment! I'll have to spank you, boy!!

lol, no that was for missmorals but you can spank me anyway

That's some fancy talkin' Branh.

No sex within a marriage. It would be hard, but I could survive. Just do it yourself.

I guess its the Sag in me...get bored easily..one day perhaps..but not in the immediate future got too many things i want to accomplish before i need to start worrying about 2 sulking babies!

yea babies are a mess, if i was my own mom, i woud have gotten an abortion all the crap i put 'er through

Yeah that could be it too Branh...
Scorpius - when I said two sulking babies..one of them was the husband!..lol

Well her hole would be the size of china but yeah whatever floats your boat I guess!

ahh, she tells it like it is girl

*snaps fingers like a fat black lady*

well, i'll see you all in a couple of hours, been nice talkin

Hey GL, if you were told you would make a good wife and mother by people who know you ... would it be offensive or would you take it as a compliment —?

if someone said i was a good wife and mom, i would love it

"I couldn't imagine having that many kids. I'd hate to be her husband and have to pay all of that money to take care of them."

I understand your thinking ... children equal tons of money! My limit is two ... just two. Hahaha, one of my employeers predicted that I'd give birth to four ... out of the blue !!!

"Why, did someone tell you that? Wouldn't you think it's a compliment? Better than being told you'll be a CRAP mom and wife!!"

Yes ... I've been called "wife material" quite frequently within the last few monthes. I don't know if it's a way to say that I'm just too unattractive to be a girlfriend or what. So, I just don't know how to take statements like that ...

cappysweetie, dont say stuff like that, i like short girls 🙂
your fun and energetic so knock off this im too uglee crap. Everyone here likes you too 🙂🙂

ok you people are being addictive, gotta go now 🙂

Thank you Scorpius!!!! 🙂🙂🙂

Byebye For Now

*****GRASPS*****

OOOOOOOHHHH THANK YOU BRAHN 🙂🙂 ****hugs **** hugs **** That's wonderful to hear!!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU. Hopefully, I'll improve with age.

Spec wise, what does this mean? I'm alittle slow on abbrv.

"Body build on a woman, can help with child-bearing, but it'll take its toll, just the same. Pregnancy on my little bod, is quite difficult, and cause I'm so short, the baby pushes on my lungs, and it's hard to breathe, towards the end! (Make me short of breath, just thinking about it!)"

What's your body build, you seem slim to me. You bodyshape is on the slim side then?

"Specs, meaning measurments Cappysweetie."

OhhhhHoooo Got ya 😉

So you like pear-shapes too I'm assuming ... not just the hourglass?

Wow, you ar five monthes pregnant ... CONGRADULATIONS!!!!! Wow, you usually weigh around 95-100 lb. Whoa, yes your hourglass shape definately shows at that size LOL!!!

Hey it's cool being short 🙂 HEY remember what I said a few posts ago (when I was talking to Brahn) That if I were to ever get picked up by a man bigger than me I CAN WIGGLE AND SQUIRM LIKE MAD!!!! LOL!!! By that time ... HE'LL BE DYING TO GET RID OF ME ... all that movement (the wiggling and the squirming) will get on his nerves LOL!!! SO I WOULD BE FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!

So the same applies to you ... WE ARE FLEXIBLE. An average height woman would have more difficulity slipping away from a man with big arms and huge muscles ...BUT NOT US!!!! 😉

SHORT WOMEN ARE THE STUFF!!!

HAHAHAHAHA

HAHHAHAHA, really probably more fun for the woman instead of the guy LOL

Hey this was fun! Now I must retire into the world of school and work.

Bye Bye For Now 🙂

I don't think I want to get married.. ever.. People separate quicker than they get married. They start to feel locked up and so they run off. One should admit another person space to grow instead of critising and limiting their partner.

Having that many kids is unfair on the actual children..Many are going to be neglected and you won't be able to give them a fair start in life..So be wise and have 2..Gosh I sound like a family planning advert!

haha hi gl, i didn't know you are pregnant..AWW!! how are you feeling today??

Congratulations Geminilover..whatever you feel comfortable with I guess!..Just get your man the snip!..lol..Jase..what a nice name that is..sounds so exotic and gawgeous!..lol..

Thank god for that..for a minute then I just read Jason and thought oh no..poor sod!..lol..thank god its just Jase..yeah a pic would be good..

awww, well then i am here to provide you with lots of laughter!! =) i like that beautiful name to!

Absolutely..get your groove on girlfwend!..lol

Yes thats true Aprilbaby..if it was good at home, why look elsewhere..

'..branh, my sis-in-law wants 10 kids, and so does her (Virgo) hubby. But they'll be able to afford them; he has his own mortgage business. But good grief; HAVING the kids! She's insane....'

o ya i know alot of americanz who want big families.. n hey they r not of mexican or cuban or wateva culture... itz more of a personal choice... i noh this english guy( n hes white) who wantz like 8 kidz... so there u go again

i want a huge family BUT hey all da kidz will b ADopted.. i wud only want 1 of my own n adopt like 9 more from every race 🙂

'..who do they think is going to pay for these kids?..'

if u want a big family then ur gonna deff. choose a gud career 2 b able 2 give ur kidz all they want...

'...if someone said i was a good wife and mom, i would love it....'

i agree wid ya scorpius... in my opinion wat makes a woman complete is a gud career but also being a SUPER wife n a GR8 mom.. i mean raisin' kidz up righteously is da greatest accomplishment eva 🙂

'...Having that many kids is unfair on the actual children..Many are going to be neglected and you won't be able to give them a fair start in life..So be wise and have 2..Gosh I sound like a family planning advert!....'

well missmoralz i know people who only have 1 kid... damn it ONLY ONE n they neglect him like hell.. n then there r people who have like 6 or 7 or thy have like 2 of their own n adopt more n give 'em soo much love n r betta than parentz wid only 1 kid.....

every 1 has their own choice... havin kidz is a BIG responsibility coz not only do kidz need temporal support ( money wise.. gud education.. clothes.. wateva) but they also NEED emotional, spiritual n mental support n love...

'...5'2" and 106, but I'm also 5 months pregnant, right now...'

awwwww i juz missed that... CONGRATZ GL 🙂

ur welcum 🙂

hmmm so da baby will b a virgo or a libra— wat wud u prefer 2 have GL?? a virgo kid or a libra one??

'....Virgo is more likely, though. I'd prefer a Leo, but I'm not holding my breath, or I'll pass out!.....'

LOL

that waz hilarious: 'holdin' ur breath or u'll pass out'..

good luck.. hope ur wish comes true 🙂

who knows? maybe.