@SilentGhost
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Formula on finding the ideal partner - males only
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I call bullshit and pigs balls. Also, I'm not a man. HA!
So if you're 24, you must be a pedo. If you're 42, you must be a legal pedo since it's the same thing but you won't be incarcerated for it.
Do give a credible argument.
Or debate it.
Or try to destroy the formula.
Whatever it is, open ur mind 2 possibilities.
I'll explain further.
OK, I disagree with the formula, but I doubt anyone choosing to practice the formula will be significantly harmed by doing so. It's all good.
I'm not saying that it can't ever work when there's that big of an age gap, but I generally find that too big of an age gap puts people in different places in life stages so that they have little understanding and commonalities (like having children).
Posted by djbuck1
Oh I can hardly wait to see the rationale of those advocating that a 50 year old take up with an 18 year old.Hold on while I get a barf bag.
Well, I have dated men significantly older than myself, but not quite to the extreme you've stated. I don't think age differences are a big hairy deal unless it's a problem for the people dating.
I just don't think people should exclude a love interest due to age. If you like each other and the chem's good, why not?
Come on guys.
Debate it rationally.
Don't put prejudices or emotions into it.
Sorry the delay in replying, I was having sex.
I'm done now.
Okay since there r woman here posting.
Lets see if they r honest.
Ever wonder why your past bf seems so incredibly childish ? At times it's like taking care of a kid ?
Posted by SilentGhost
Okay since there r woman here posting.Lets see if they r honest.
Ever wonder why your past bf seems so incredibly childish ? At times it's like taking care of a kid ?
Yes, because he still lives in his mother's vagina, isn't mature in numerous ways and is a complete asshole. It's hard to grow up, though, if you still live inside your mother at the ripe age of 42.
As for the man;
If u r married to woman within the same age group.
U r a great terrible liar if u say u r having a wonderful married life.
U wish you r single and maybe get a 2nd chance at life.
However there r exceptions to my formula, there r groups that needs not apply to this; gays or mama boys.
Rest of humanity will be better off.
As a triple Cancer I forbid you to give out any more of our secrets and reasons for us being so incredibly awesome, GC.
Posted by geminicandIe
Okay, this is totally my cancer Venus speaking. I like to spoil a man. Lol!But I mean which guy does not like a sweet, warm, caring woman?
You'd be lying if you say you don't want a man 2 dominate you.
And you'd be lying 2 say you enjoy being your lovers 2nd mom.
Emotions are a human thing, so they will always be involved. If you didn't know this at your age, then it is not in your place to put down people younger than you since you're accusing them of the same thing you are doing. Be honest; you're just saying this because it's convenient for you and other "men" who agree. If you are a heterosexul man, you should be wanting a woman, not a child. Even if a woman is an adult, there is a point in the age gap where she could be YOUR child or even grandchild.
The mental age of a person plays an important role.
The age of the body is physical.
In any relationship, it's the mind that needs to sync.
So if a woman who has a higher EQ then her mate, she will view him as a child, in the long run be irritated with him, thus the ensuing silences and fights.
While her man, is getting clueless to her frequent tantrums, tries to please her but the more he pleases her the more worse it becomes.
Sounds familiar ?
No?
Deep down you do, just ain't brave enough to admit it.
Brb in a few hours, do debate or even better give an alternative.
I'm sure many here has a bombastic solution.
Posted by geminicandIe
Okay, this is totally my cancer Venus speaking. I like to spoil a man. Lol!But I mean which guy does not like a sweet, warm, caring woman?
You'd be lying if you say you don't want a man 2 dominate you.
And you'd be lying 2 say you enjoy being your lovers 2nd mom.
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Eww, I'm sorry but any man that needs a mother figure ceases to be a man. Man child syndrome is unsexy, unmanly and entirely a turn off. I'm sure there's some woman with throbbing ovaries and some sort of weird complex who likes it, though.
Posted by geminicandIe
Okay, this is totally my cancer Venus speaking. I like to spoil a man. Lol!But I mean which guy does not like a sweet, warm, caring woman?
You'd be lying if you say you don't want a man 2 dominate you.
And you'd be lying 2 say you enjoy being your lovers 2nd mom.
Eww, I'm sorry but any man that needs a mother figure ceases to be a man. Man child syndrome is unsexy, unmanly and entirely a turn off. I'm sure there's some woman with throbbing ovaries and some sort of weird complex who likes it, though.
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YES ! U ppl know this.
Problem is, for example if you both r 24years old, he's still a kid while u r a woman, correct ?
Hence my formula.
Posted by MoonArtist
As a triple Cancer I forbid you to give out any more of our secrets and
reasons for us being so incredibly awesome, GC.All men can only wish to end up with a cancer. Their every wish and desire will be met in that relationship!
Okay, okay ...no more secrets😛
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rofl...ACK!! Stop and desist! It's hard enough beating them back as it is. If they know WHY they should want a Cancer there will be a huge demand and little supply! Wait, that drives the market up and thus I can set my price....hmmmm.....
Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
and the likelihood of me inheriting her late husband's fortune when she too passes away 😈
Deep down, you are deluded as you have convinced yourself that you are correct and willfully blind to those who refute your false accusations. It is attitudes like this that explain why the birthrate in a certain other east Asian country are low and continue to drop. This is the disconnect in age gaps that you refuse to see. You don't know everything and you are wrong, son.
Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
and the likelihood of me inheriting her late husband's fortune when she too passes away 😈
Do we need to discuss you on Crime and Astrology soon?
Posted by Rabbit
This makes me want to drink
Me too, and I'm a teetotaler. How sick is that?
Posted by geminicandIe
Okay, this is totally my cancer Venus speaking. I like to spoil a man. Lol!But I mean which guy does not like a sweet, warm, caring woman?
You'd be lying if you say you don't want a man 2 dominate you.
And you'd be lying 2 say you enjoy being your lovers 2nd mom.
Eww, I'm sorry but any man that needs a mother figure ceases to be a man. Man child syndrome is unsexy, unmanly and entirely a turn off. I'm sure there's some woman with throbbing ovaries and some sort of weird complex who likes it, though.
YES ! U ppl know this.
Problem is, for example if you both r 24years old, he's still a kid while u r a woman, correct ?
Hence my formula.
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I like men who are older than me. I also want them to be on the same playing field as me, the same sort of place in life. No, I don't think all men the same age as me are less mature. Depends on the person. I've seen people in their 70's who are less wise and less mature than some 20 yr. olds.
a vamp-kid? maybe you forgot where i'm from.
i take offense to that.
Posted by SilentGhost
Okay since there r woman here posting.Lets see if they r honest.
Ever wonder why your past bf seems so incredibly childish ? At times it's like taking care of a kid ?
OK, I don't give a fuck but just curious: which studies support the idea that all men are mentally and emotionally retarded??
Posted by SilentGhost
Long have I pondered my relationships and of others.What kind of woman would be more suited to us men ?
Conclusion; follow this formula when seeking a mate - 1/2 + 7 and Below.
Example;
If u r 42 then ur mate should ideally be 42 x 1/2 + 7 = 28 years old and below. Anything more then it's not viable or will be too rocky.
Example 2;
If u r 24 then 24 x 1/2 + 7 = 19 yrs old and below.
It's an EQ thingy..
Women has higher EQ's then man, that's a fact.
Actually, that's the minimum cutoff calculation.
And really doesn't count IMHO if you're under 30.
Consider a 22 year old and an 18 year old.
There is a BIG difference in maturity level in that 4 year span.
There's a big maturity difference between 30 and 21 for that matter.
hypothetically? hmmm...
A Pisces schooling me on logic..I'm probably approaching the end of my days,
Posted by SilentGhost
Okay since there r woman here posting.Lets see if they r honest.
Ever wonder why your past bf seems so incredibly childish ? At times it's like taking care of a kid ?
OK, I don't give a fuck but just curious: which studies support the idea that all men are mentally and emotionally retarded??
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We could save time and intelligence and just poll the women. 😉
Posted by geminicandIe
Okay, this is totally my cancer Venus speaking. I like to spoil a man. Lol!But I mean which guy does not like a sweet, warm, caring woman?
You'd be lying if you say you don't want a man 2 dominate you.
And you'd be lying 2 say you enjoy being your lovers 2nd mom.
Eww, I'm sorry but any man that needs a mother figure ceases to be a man. Man child syndrome is unsexy, unmanly and entirely a turn off. I'm sure there's some woman with throbbing ovaries and some sort of weird complex who likes it, though.
YES ! U ppl know this.
Problem is, for example if you both r 24years old, he's still a kid while u r a woman, correct ?
Hence my formula.
I like men who are older than me. I also want them to be on the same playing field as me, the same sort of place in life. No, I don't think all men the same age as me are less mature. Depends on the person. I've seen people in their 70's who are less wise and less mature than some 20 yr. olds.
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Merely a general rule.
A general guideline.
You already prefer older man.
Hence ur instincts kicks in whilst not knowing why.
Perhaps it's biology or perhaps as nature intended.
Take a good look around, a vast majority of married couples within the same age grouping r generally very unhappy, sometimes you just wonder that a couple of years ago they were lovingly holding hands.
But you might see a 70 yrs old man with his 50 years old wife still so ever loving, it can be seen just by observing how they look at each other or hold each other.
Posted by geminicandIe
Okay, this is totally my cancer Venus speaking. I like to spoil a man. Lol!But I mean which guy does not like a sweet, warm, caring woman?
You'd be lying if you say you don't want a man 2 dominate you.
And you'd be lying 2 say you enjoy being your lovers 2nd mom.
Eww, I'm sorry but any man that needs a mother figure ceases to be a man. Man child syndrome is unsexy, unmanly and entirely a turn off. I'm sure there's some woman with throbbing ovaries and some sort of weird complex who likes it, though.
YES ! U ppl know this.
Problem is, for example if you both r 24years old, he's still a kid while u r a woman, correct ?
Hence my formula.
I like men who are older than me. I also want them to be on the same playing field as me, the same sort of place in life. No, I don't think all men the same age as me are less mature. Depends on the person. I've seen people in their 70's who are less wise and less mature than some 20 yr. olds.
Merely a general rule.
A general guideline.
You already prefer older man.
Hence ur instincts kicks in whilst not knowing why.
Perhaps it's biology or perhaps as nature intended.
Take a good look around, a vast majority of married couples within the same age grouping r generally very unhappy, sometimes you just wonder that a couple of years ago they were lovingly holding hands.
But you might see a 70 yrs old man with his 50 years old wife still so ever loving, it can be seen just by observing how they look at each other or hold each other.
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Untrue. I know exactly why I like men a little older than me and it's the same reason I always ALWAYS go for men who are taller than me: I'm girly girl enough to admit I like manly men and like that they make me feel safe, protected and cherished. If for one second I think a man is treating me in a condescending or less than equal way
Untrue. I know exactly why I like men a little older than me and it's the same reason I always ALWAYS go for men who are taller than me: I'm girly girl enough to admit I like manly men and like that they make me feel safe, protected and cherished. If for one second I think a man is treating me in a condescending or less than equal way I'll cut him off cold and possibly viciously. Also, I know plenty of people in many age groups who are happily married to someone close to their own age. Every marriage has ups and downs no matter what the ages are.
Posted by SilentGhost
Okay since there r woman here posting.Lets see if they r honest.
Ever wonder why your past bf seems so incredibly childish ? At times it's like taking care of a kid ?
OK, I don't give a fuck but just curious: which studies support the idea that all men are mentally and emotionally retarded??
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This is simple.
Go to any kindergarten or play school, look at those small kids.
Whose taking what toys always from who ?
The boys r mostly innocents whilst the girls r already training their mental mind - manipulation techniques.
SMH 😆
Posted by MoonArtist
Untrue. I know exactly why I like men a little older than me and it's the same reason I always ALWAYS go for men who are taller than me: I'm girly girl enough to admit I like manly men and like that they make me feel safe, protected and cherished. If for one second I think a man is treating me in a condescending or less than equal way I'll cut him off cold and possibly viciously. Also, I know plenty of people in many age groups who are happily married to someone close to their own age. Every marriage has ups and downs no matter what the ages are.
YES !
There's the answer xD
Posted by MoonArtist
Untrue. I know exactly why I like men a little older than me and it's the same reason I always ALWAYS go for men who are taller than me: I'm girly girl enough to admit I like manly men and like that they make me feel safe, protected and cherished. If for one second I think a man is treating me in a condescending or less than equal way I'll cut him off cold and possibly viciously. Also, I know plenty of people in many age groups who are happily married to someone close to their own age. Every marriage has ups and downs no matter what the ages are.YES !
There's the answer xD
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Of course it is. It's my answer and I'm almost always right. ~smug smile~
Posted by SilentGhost
Brb in a few hours, do debate or even better give an alternative.I'm sure many here has a bombastic solution.
I did debate AND gave you and alternative! 😢
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Yes, but you're not a sassy Cancer gal. 😉
Posted by MoonArtist
Untrue. I know exactly why I like men a little older than me and it's the same reason I always ALWAYS go for men who are taller than me: I'm girly girl enough to admit I like manly men and like that they make me feel safe, protected and cherished. If for one second I think a man is treating me in a condescending or less than equal way I'll cut him off cold and possibly viciously. Also, I know plenty of people in many age groups who are happily married to someone close to their own age. Every marriage has ups and downs no matter what the ages are.YES !
There's the answer xD
Of course it is. It's my answer and I'm almost always right. ~smug smile~
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Which proves I'm correct with the formula.
Ain't no kid is gonna give you that.
And a man only becomes a man AFTER he has become a Devil, decides its bad and learns compassion in the process.
2 be a man, it's a series of mistake, he had 2 be trained or nurtured by an older man.
A woman has the benefit of having womanly genes imbedded in their DNA.
Posted by SilentGhost
Brb in a few hours, do debate or even better give an alternative.I'm sure many here has a bombastic solution.
I did debate AND gave you and alternative! 😢
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Please accept my sincere apologies, I'll answer after my breakfast of beer, boiled eggs and bacon done !
Brb..
No, your formula is still flawed. Here's why:
1) Because I said so.
2) Because a man that much older than me won't be in the same place in life as me and we won't have much in common so it's doubtful I'll be interested in him.
3) Because I'm always right.
4) Not everyone has to make mistakes to learn.
5) Because I'm right, dammit.
6) The womanly genes thing makes no sense whatsoever, nor does it pertain to this discussion.
Posted by SilentGhost
Okay since there r woman here posting.Lets see if they r honest.
Ever wonder why your past bf seems so incredibly childish ? At times it's like taking care of a kid ?
OK, I don't give a fuck but just curious: which studies support the idea that all men are mentally and emotionally retarded??
This is simple.
Go to any kindergarten or play school, look at those small kids.
Whose taking what toys always from who ?
The boys r mostly innocents whilst the girls r already training their mental mind - manipulation techniques.
LMAO
You hanging around playgrounds observing children?This is just getting creepier.
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Next thing is pictures of "the van"
Posted by SilentGhost
Okay since there r woman here posting.Lets see if they r honest.
Ever wonder why your past bf seems so incredibly childish ? At times it's like taking care of a kid ?
OK, I don't give a fuck but just curious: which studies support the idea that all men are mentally and emotionally retarded??
This is simple.
Go to any kindergarten or play school, look at those small kids.
Whose taking what toys always from who ?
The boys r mostly innocents whilst the girls r already training their mental mind - manipulation techniques.
LMAO
You hanging around playgrounds observing children?This is just getting creepier.
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I have nieces and nephews..
Try 2 open your mind to endless possibilities, if its close you won't ever stumble into something good will you ?
So lets stumble along this thread, if one gets hurt or offended, that's normal right ?
But if you stumble into something good ?
No one will stumble if their minds aren't open to possibilities.
If I'm wrong then I'm wrong but if I right, wouldn't it be good for you that just maybe this is a good guideline ?
Funny how the only person he responds to is the one he perceives is agreeing with his stupidity and ignorance.
Bloody hard 2 type in an IPhone especially with big thumbs.
This is intended 4 the guy whom I've apologies earlier on..
Do a mental age test, let us know what is your mental age versus your age.
Normally a male will have a 10 year or something mental age gap.
Posted by 2N3R
Funny how the only person he responds to is the one he perceives is agreeing with his stupidity and ignorance.
Shhhhh, I'm having fun getting him all twisted around and he doesn't realize it yet. You'll blow my cover!
Posted by SilentGhost
Bloody hard 2 type in an IPhone especially with big thumbs.This is intended 4 the guy whom I've apologies earlier on..
Do a mental age test, let us know what is your mental age versus your age.
Normally a male will have a 10 year or something mental age gap.
My mental age is 23 and my real age is 40. I REFUSE to get any older. Won't happen. Can't. I won't allow it.
Hahaha I'm only answering the latest posting.
Don't dwell 2 much into other possibilities.
Stick with the topic, maybe an answer will unravel ?
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Long have I pondered my relationships and of others.
What kind of woman would be more suited to us men ?
Conclusion; follow this formula when seeking a mate - 1/2 + 7 and Below.
Example;
If u r 42 then ur mate should ideally be 42 x 1/2 + 7 = 28 years old and below. Anything more then it's not viable or will be too rocky.
Example 2;
If u r 24 then 24 x 1/2 + 7 = 19 yrs old and below.
It's an EQ thingy..
Women has higher EQ's then man, that's a fact.