Getting over a Taurus

I had been involved with a male taurus for nearly 4 years. He was/is abusive controlling and possessive I finally had to get a restraining order against him. I have to say I believe he was the love of my life and I find myself missing him. Sounds crazy but our relationship was just that crazy we both have been unwilling to let go,when it was good it was great when it was bad it was like hell on earth. I believe I am finally over him but find it hard to heal and I am definately not ready to date anyone new.Just can't believe all the craziness of the last 4 years.
Scorpio Lady

That's what happen's hon when Scorpio and Taurus collide. When it's good....it's great! When it's bad....it's worse! Sometimes it's the scorpio that has to get the restraining order but sometimes it's Taurus too. I'm sorry and I understand why you feel this way. Taurus and Scorpio have a deep conection. They can be the greatest of lovers or the worst of enemies. Good luck to you!

Taurus Lady

let go... don't grip too hard. its not worth it to worry about that... you already answered why you should leave, why should you still look back when the past is dark and horrid? people don't often don't know what is best for them until someone sees what really is. i feel that you have to let go, simply because its the best option for you.

don't you worry you will find someone that will treat you like a queen and the only queen.

you are still thinking about him because what you had with him was the only thing you ever had. the four years of your devotion with him should not be rewarded with the abuse he has inflicted.

search around and you will find, stay and you will never go anywhere.

Thank you i-sun for your input. My feelings exactly,goo,bad and definately indifferent he has been ll I have know for 4 years. I have disassociated from him emotionally about a year ago and have absolutely no trust in him. Thank you for listening.
Scorpio Lady

Yes, I would agree with i-sun. (He is brilliant, so listen to him! lol)

I think one of the biggest challenges (at least for us Scorps) is the whole "letting go" thing. It can be extremely hard. We are good at APPEARING as though we have "let go", but on the inside we struggle to emotionally disassociate ourselves from almost everything. Especially when we have already formed a bond with that person.

I wish you well,
Heather

Thank you for your input Heather, I seem to be going through much life changes right now this relationship is one of them let the healing continue!
Scorp Lady