Have I just been dumped?

Oh no, guys I don’t know what just happened. Been seeing my Scorpio for five months, we went away together and then we were apart for three weeks. She came back and I had a bit of an outburst asking her why she wasn’t happy to see me. She broke up with me, but the next day we talked it through. She said let’s just see how it goes. Then things got back to normal, kinda. We saw each other twice a week and maybe just sex once a week. It was going good I think. The sex is great but not sure if we were connecting on a deep level or anything. Anyway we went on vacation together and had a good time. And since then things have been good, she messages me like six times a day and calls me. I never message first but it’s because I don’t have chance. Anyway tonight we were going to go out, she messaged me like four times today saying see you later with kisses. Then she called and asked if we could meet later, and she asked if I could pick her up instead of meeting at the bar. I said yes. We ended the call. One minute later, she messaged me saying “let’s leave it for today”, “I’m starting to feel weird things” and “I’m confused”, “ok?” ... I said “ok”, and then “take your time”..

Any ideas? Maybe I haven’t kept things interesting enough? Maybe I didn’t seem too interested in seeing her? I dunno.. like I think things have been slow but she was the one that said go with the flow.. which I wasn’t sure what it meant, I dunno.

Of all things dear Ram Gent, do not rush a head and try to initiate a response or reaction from her.

I know with all your cardinal energy, you want to do something about the situation.

However, sometimes the best course of action is to do nothing.

Let her come to you, in that way not only will she be of a clearer mindset, but you will also know you will not have affected whatever she would wish to speak or share with you. Otherwise, you may influence her thoughts or decision making, which in the end would be to your detriment.

After all, you would only want the truth. Whether this will turn out to be something, or nothing.

A storm is coming, she's getting an itch that things are going too well 😄 Yes she may break up with you, but it won't be for long. Scorpios love creating drama and breaking up, just to make up. 😆

The makeup sex is worth the headache!

I’ve learnt from last time, to be cautious. I’ve been slightly hesitant to talk about things because I don’t want to cause upset. They say Aries and Scorpio argue a lot, but I don’t think we do.

Like you say, I do just want to know what’s right and I’d rather wait and see what she thinks.. because I’ve sort of been left for a while wondering where “go with the flow” ends. I just want to know what’s right. Actually now that she’s said this, well, I don’t want to be with someone who isn’t sure about me, I think I’m a good guy, and if she doesn’t think that, then I don’t want to force things. I’m a little sad for sure though.

Based on this and your previous thread I think she's using you. You sound like a decent fella who would be far happier with a more stable, appreciative person who knows what she's looking for and what she wants.

If it's like this after only about five months then what will the next 40 years together be like?

It doesn't sound like you're a good match at all. Sure, perhaps the sex was great initially but it's not enough on its own to sustain a long term relationship.

If this is the same Scorpio woman from your other thread, maaaaan after reading about how she made you pay for all of that shit and then kept asking you for money after that on a whim, she's a piece of work to break up with you. As an outsider looking in, it is a limited view I understand, but it is a very negative limited view let me tell you. You should leave her sorry tush and find someone who cherishes you. Not someone who wants to just 'see how things go' or 'go with the flow' when you're the only one providing for and making the relationship work, constantly stressing because you know that things are just not the way that they should be! Find someone better. She doesn't deserve you.