First I must say a few things. I'm a 30yrs old male Sagittarious and no newbie in relationships , girls etc. I had a lot of girlfriends from almost every sign, and until recently I thought I really had seen it all. Never thought something like this would ever happen to me. I've been in love before a couple of times but it trully cannot compare to the way way I feel about this scorpio girl or should I say woman as she is 2 years older than me. I'm literally torn apart and the fact that she's a work colleague which I have to see everyday just makes things worse.
While she surely has shown some signs of interest and we communicate well (maybe because we're closer at age than with rest of the co-workers?)other times she seems distant and cold as if she wants to taunt me or test me, and I'm not sure if she really means all this so-called interest.
Just by a look at her you can say she's done it all in life and that she's a femme fatale. She's awesome in every aspect: beauty, brains, wit, humour, personality, simply I never thought I would ever meet such a person in my life. She has strong built and character and penetrating smart eyes that seem aware of all that's happening. She's also mean and cruel with those she doesn't like often humiliating them with irony and jokes. Initially I tried to cool it off and distance my self from her because I was new at the job, I was somewhat afraid of her and thought she's not the kind of woman I can handle and hoped it will just pass with time. It only got 10 times more intense and I think in the effort to detach myself I became cruel (while I'm not like that at all) and said things that hurt her a couple of times in front of other colleagues in more than one occassion (not very wise with a scorpio I know, but don't forget I'm a careless and tactless Sag who doesn't learn from mistakes).
Things seem to be pretty much ok now but I'm so desperate that I think the only way out is too quit job and never see her again.
Thanks for reading, any advice is welcome especially from Scorpio women or from guys that fell for a Scorpio and know what I'm talking about.
Tough situation. If things are getting better why do you feel like you need to quit your job? Are things still that uncomfortable or do you feel like things might get worse?
Since it's very unlikely to reveal myself to her being a co-worker and all and the consequenses at work if she rejects me and since it is unlikely that see does anything even if she's interested in me cause she's thinking probably the same the only thing that is left is a routine seeing her everyday and not being able to a thing. And I can't stand this, that's why I'm thinking of quiting from job.
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First I must say a few things. I'm a 30yrs old male Sagittarious and no newbie in relationships , girls etc. I had a lot of girlfriends from almost every sign, and until recently I thought I really had seen it all. Never thought something like this would ever happen to me. I've been in love before a couple of times but it trully cannot compare to the way way I feel about this scorpio girl or should I say woman as she is 2 years older than me. I'm literally torn apart and the fact that she's a work colleague which I have to see everyday just makes things worse.
While she surely has shown some signs of interest and we communicate well (maybe because we're closer at age than with rest of the co-workers?)other times she seems distant and cold as if she wants to taunt me or test me, and I'm not sure if she really means all this so-called interest.
Just by a look at her you can say she's done it all in life and that she's a femme fatale. She's awesome in every aspect: beauty, brains, wit, humour, personality, simply I never thought I would ever meet such a person in my life. She has strong built and character and penetrating smart eyes that seem aware of all that's happening. She's also mean and cruel with those she doesn't like often humiliating them with irony and jokes. Initially I tried to cool it off and distance my self from her because I was new at the job, I was somewhat afraid of her and thought she's not the kind of woman I can handle and hoped it will just pass with time. It only got 10 times more intense and I think in the effort to detach myself I became cruel (while I'm not like that at all) and said things that hurt her a couple of times in front of other colleagues in more than one occassion (not very wise with a scorpio I know, but don't forget I'm a careless and tactless Sag who doesn't learn from mistakes).
Things seem to be pretty much ok now but I'm so desperate that I think the only way out is too quit job and never see her again.
Thanks for reading, any advice is welcome especially from Scorpio women or from guys that fell for a Scorpio and know what I'm talking about.