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I have recently hired a Scorp friend! I am in love with him, but he says he loves me as a sibling, and I get it. When a Scorpio defines love for you, there is no "read between the lines". His love for me is familial. Cool. Okay, whatever.

But...

My love for him is a dream. He is romance. He is mystical and magical. He is amazing!

Let me say now that I wish he were just playing games and playing me, but something inside me tells me that he is uncomfortable with my infatuation with him.

He recently started chatting me up about the "hot girls" at work. so and so has a body and do and so has a bootee.

ugh. how do I tell him this hurts me?

I don't do it, do I?

I am his sibling, his best friend... I must endure for him right?

Tell him he's fired

Problem solved

Lol

Well, he's told you what he feels for ya !

Now you have choice of

A)loose him as a familial friend

B) keep BS-ing about your infatuation but a scorp is never gonna change the way he feels for ya.

Moral of the story, you would either look like a fool OR hurt yourself real bad.

Posted by feel2exposed

I have recently hired a Scorp friend! I am in love with him, but he says he loves me as a sibling, and I get it. When a Scorpio defines love for you, there is no "read between the lines". His love for me is familial. Cool. Okay, whatever.

But...

My love for him is a dream. He is romance. He is mystical and magical. He is amazing!

Let me say now that I wish he were just playing games and playing me, but something inside me tells me that he is uncomfortable with my infatuation with him.

He recently started chatting me up about the "hot girls" at work. so and so has a body and do and so has a bootee.

ugh. how do I tell him this hurts me?

I don't do it, do I?

I am his sibling, his best friend... I must endure for him right?

From what I understand about Scorpios, they has strong ESP. So he probably already "knows" you hired him based off romantic feelings--especially after he already clearly clarified how he feels for you. This show your logic is weak in Scorpio's eyes. Also, it shows you can be manipulated into giving things to people--like paying jobs at your company--that they don't justifiably deserve based off credentials. A scorpio would see this as weak. They wouldn't invite you closer into their lives because you'd just be a liability to them. Now, if you fire him, you're taking something away from him that he rightfully claimed--his job al on his own, one way or another. So you're up sh*t's creek. You probably shouldn't tell him the talk about other girls is making you uncomfortable. He's been legit with you from the start. He's just following through being a friend who talks about how he feels. You should probably keep it professional/friendly. Listen to his stories about other girls and be a good friend. Show him the value of your friendship and be prepared to have it go somewhere or not.

I really want to know what kinda of interview questions you asked him? Lol

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Posted by MikeNYNYC

Posted by feel2exposed

I have recently hired a Scorp friend! I am in love with him, but he says he loves me as a sibling, and I get it. When a Scorpio defines love for you, there is no "read between the lines". His love for me is familial. Cool. Okay, whatever.

But...

My love for him is a dream. He is romance. He is mystical and magical. He is amazing!

Let me say now that I wish he were just playing games and playing me, but something inside me tells me that he is uncomfortable with my infatuation with him.

He recently started chatting me up about the "hot girls" at work. so and so has a body and do and so has a bootee.

ugh. how do I tell him this hurts me?

I don't do it, do I?

I am his sibling, his best friend... I must endure for him right?

From what I understand about Scorpios, they has strong ESP. So he probably already "knows" you hired him based off romantic feelings--especially after he already clearly clarified how he feels for you. This show your logic is weak in Scorpio's eyes. Also, it shows you can be manipulated into giving things to people--like paying jobs at your company--that they don't justifiably deserve based off credentials. A scorpio would see this as weak. They wouldn't invite you closer into their lives because you'd just be a liability to them. Now, if you fire him, you're taking something away from him that he rightfully claimed--his job al on his own, one way or another. So you're up sh*t's creek. You probably shouldn't tell him the talk about other girls is making you uncomfortable. He's been legit with you from the start. He's just following through being a friend who talks about how he feels. You should probably keep it professional/friendly. Listen to his stories about other girls and be a good friend. Show him the value of your friendship and be prepared to have it go somewhere or not.

It's normal to give jobs and get jobs for your friends, that's just the way of the world. It's not about what you know, it's about who you know.

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I promise you I'm not trying to beat a dead horse over the matter, but your hiring of him had an ulterior motive; to get closer to him romantically. Scorpios want to manipulate, but they don't like those who try to manipulate, especially those that give them things with expectations. Understand what I'm saying.