Hot then cold Scorpio Man

I am a Leo woman and I have been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months and our sex life is amazing and our connection is good. He has been so hot and cold with me though, he has days where he texts me all day, ask me to come over and come see him at his job and even FaceTimes me for hours but some days I won’t even get a text message from him or he’ll respond to me hours later. He even went to the point that he told me he wanted to be just friends with me and when I said ok, he got upset that I did not ask why he wanted to be friends and then the next day, he texted me like he never asked to be just friends. I’m so confused dealing with him, I don’t know if he likes me or not, it’s so confusing.

Posted by peachy06

He isn't serious, and wants to test you.

I dont agree. She talks only about him. What about her movements..if she complaints a lot? If the man is busy with his job/jobs.. 3 months mean nothing or can be everything, depends of the situation. Its hard to give an answer with yes is a good boy or is not but is playing with you! Are people s lives here, lets not forget it..

Sounds similar to my guy. Scorpios will test you for a while (actually idk if it even stops) to really make sure you’re the one before they waste time on you and get too attached. They’re really afraid of getting too attached only to be hurt in the end.

Ive dealt with so many scorpios relationship and friends.

As dark as it sounds

Your best bet is to start pulling back and not being as interested. Don't do it to the point where you show no interest whatsoever or he'll drop you to gain power back. Give him what he gives out.

Scorpios (insecure ones) do not know how to handle push and pull when you are the one in resistance.

Posted by Briastamper

I am a Leo woman and I have been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months and our sex life is amazing and our connection is good. He has been so hot and cold with me though, he has days where he texts me all day, ask me to come over and come see him at his job and even FaceTimes me for hours but some days I won’t even get a text message from him or he’ll respond to me hours later. He even went to the point that he told me he wanted to be just friends with me and when I said ok, he got upset that I did not ask why he wanted to be friends and then the next day, he texted me like he never asked to be just friends. I’m so confused dealing with him, I don’t know if he likes me or not, it’s so confusing.

Well, I think it is fair to say that he likes you enough to stick his dick in to you.

Other than that, who knows?

Personally, I think you're looking at it from a skewed angle. You're concerned about whether he likes you or not. I think you should give more thought as to whether you're happy having a FWB situation wih him which appears to be on his terms and with you at his beck and call.

As a Leo, I'm surprised that's enough for you but perhaps it suited or suits what you're currently looking for.

His feeble manipulative attempt to gauge your interest levels by pretending to break up with you massively back fired for him. He may have been expecting you to have some kind of melt down and beg him never to leave you thus giving him his emotional drama fix he was craving to fill his hole. However, you seemed to be unphased by this (although inside you may have found it confusing) and on the outside you didn't bat an eyelid. He scuttled away and now he's simply ignoring his own behaviour by pretending it never happened in the first place. Typical scorpio.

Young Scorpios, male and female (and those somewhere inbetween) can often struggle with their emotions especially if their venus or moon is in scorpio too. They tend to equate drama and emotional displays as some kind of declaration of love and if they feel insecure they tend to whip up drama with tactics such as manipulation to get the response they think they desire.

I recall reading a line in an astrology book many years ago which said that Scorpios would manipulate their own mother for a glass of milk because they didn't think to simply ask for one.