How and Why did you Break up with your Exes ? (Page 2)

Ive never had a break up or an ex but when im getting to know someone and i see lack of effort from there side, no spark in communication or they say something that im not agreeing, i distant myself from them.

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If you're ever wondering why a romance with Scorpio isn't going smoothly, it's because Scorpio has picked up that you can't be a good match for them, nor them for you.They picked that up on the first date; Scorpios have perfectly clear sight when it comes to love. They know right away if your relationship won't last, even if they continue to see you.

I wouldn't say this is exclusive to Scorpios. I believe my marriage failed because my groom wasn't right for me. And I knew it. Knew when we were friends and when we dated. I truly am guilty of marrying a very nice boy because he loved me and really wanted me to do it. We were happy for a time, but when things soured, he ALWAYS reproached me for "not loving him enough." There was nothing I could say because it was true.

Oddly like my ex and I, only he's the one who didn't really love me.

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Not exactly. I loved my husband very much, enough to try and build a happy life together for several years. In the end, though, I didn't love him as much as he loved me. He knew it and resented it.

The worst day's work I've ever done was accept his proposal. We were terrific as friends. If we hadn't married we'd probably still be friends.

Aries ex-husband.....got the courage to ask for a divorce...with the help of a Gemini friend....my ex was controlling,verbally/emotionally/physically abusive.

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Posted by IrresistableScorp


If you're ever wondering why a romance with Scorpio isn't going smoothly, it's because Scorpio has picked up that you can't be a good match for them, nor them for you.They picked that up on the first date; Scorpios have perfectly clear sight when it comes to love. They know right away if your relationship won't last, even if they continue to see you.

I wouldn't say this is exclusive to Scorpios. I believe my marriage failed because my groom wasn't right for me. And I knew it. Knew when we were friends and when we dated. I truly am guilty of marrying a very nice boy because he loved me and really wanted me to do it. We were happy for a time, but when things soured, he ALWAYS reproached me for "not loving him enough." There was nothing I could say because it was true.

Oddly like my ex and I, only he's the one who didn't really love me.

Not exactly. I loved my husband very much, enough to try and build a happy life together for several years. In the end, though, I didn't love him as much as he loved me. He knew it and resented it.

The worst day's work I've ever done was accept his proposal. We were terrific as friends. If we hadn't married we'd probably still be friends.

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I asked my ex a little over a year ago what he loved about me and he was dead silent. I asked if there was anything he ever loved about me. Still silent. I rattled off a list of everything I loved about him, all while we had been in a heated fight, and he finally came up with "I love that you're loyal to your friends." Just under a year ago he told me that when we first met he loved that I really liked him, that it felt good to have someone love him and that's what he loved about me. I was just his ego boost and nothing more.

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@MoonArtist... thankyou for your kind words and that strength is power, and powerful.

The purging Fire is a blast and you will really enjoy it. I also played the songs that related to the relationship that I loved but was having a hard time listening to. This way, it gave them a new memory too. Worked like a charm... 🙂 Oh and I also had a left over sweatshirt that I ran over with my quad a few dozen times. Haha

Funny enough we never had a song or songs that were special to us as a couple. I didn't take any of his clothes, etc. so I really have nothing of his to destroy. But damn I bet that felt good running over his sweatshirt! 😄

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Oh Moon... you can't even imagine how much fun I had. Lmao Too bad you don't have anything to burn, but in all reality it's such a good thing that none of his negative energy has been around you. I never realized how that can effect a person until I got rid of it.

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Something just isn't working today making me have to type and re-type and re-type .... groan

@MoonArtist... thankyou for your kind words and that strength is power, and powerful.

The purging Fire is a blast and you will really enjoy it. I also played the songs that related to the relationship that I loved but was having a hard time listening to. This way, it gave them a new memory too. Worked like a charm... 🙂 Oh and I also had a left over sweatshirt that I ran over with my quad a few dozen times. Haha

Funny enough we never had a song or songs that were special to us as a couple. I didn't take any of his clothes, etc. so I really have nothing of his to destroy. But damn I bet that felt good running over his sweatshirt! 😄

Oh Moon... you can't even imagine how much fun I had. Lmao Too bad you don't have anything to burn, but in all reality it's such a good thing that none of his negative energy has been around you. I never realized how that can effect a person until I got rid of it.

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I completely agree! I had court today to deal with more custody stuff and had way too much fun with my sister using energy to completely mind fuck the bastard and his brother, father and lawyer, by the way. It was most satisfying. My inner cat was all a-glee.

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Posted by FixedWater
Something just isn't working today making me have to type and re-type and re-type .... groan

@MoonArtist... thankyou for your kind words and that strength is power, and powerful.

The purging Fire is a blast and you will really enjoy it. I also played the songs that related to the relationship that I loved but was having a hard time listening to. This way, it gave them a new memory too. Worked like a charm... 🙂 Oh and I also had a left over sweatshirt that I ran over with my quad a few dozen times. Haha

Funny enough we never had a song or songs that were special to us as a couple. I didn't take any of his clothes, etc. so I really have nothing of his to destroy. But damn I bet that felt good running over his sweatshirt! 😄

Oh Moon... you can't even imagine how much fun I had. Lmao Too bad you don't have anything to burn, but in all reality it's such a good thing that none of his negative energy has been around you. I never realized how that can effect a person until I got rid of it.

I completely agree! I had court today to deal with more custody stuff and had way too much fun with my sister using energy to completely mind fuck the bastard and his brother, father and lawyer, by the way. It was most satisfying. My inner cat was all a-glee.

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That is the BEST feeling, isn't it!!?

It sounds like court is going well? Having your sister there with you is so awesome! A couple of mischievous troublemakers 😉
Yup, that will throw him off!! Lol
Love to hear this ....

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Posted by IrresistableScorp


If you're ever wondering why a romance with Scorpio isn't going smoothly, it's because Scorpio has picked up that you can't be a good match for them, nor them for you.They picked that up on the first date; Scorpios have perfectly clear sight when it comes to love. They know right away if your relationship won't last, even if they continue to see you.

I wouldn't say this is exclusive to Scorpios. I believe my marriage failed because my groom wasn't right for me. And I knew it. Knew when we were friends and when we dated. I truly am guilty of marrying a very nice boy because he loved me and really wanted me to do it. We were happy for a time, but when things soured, he ALWAYS reproached me for "not loving him enough." There was nothing I could say because it was true.

Oddly like my ex and I, only he's the one who didn't really love me.

Not exactly. I loved my husband very much, enough to try and build a happy life together for several years. In the end, though, I didn't love him as much as he loved me. He knew it and resented it.

The worst day's work I've ever done was accept his proposal. We were terrific as friends. If we hadn't married we'd probably still be friends.

I asked my ex a little over a year ago what he loved about me and he was dead silent. I asked if there was anything he ever loved about me. Still silent. I rattled off a list of everything I loved about him, all while we had been in a heated fight, and he finally came up with "I love that you're loyal to your friends." Just under a year ago he told me that when we first met he loved that I really liked him, that it felt good to have someone love him and that's what he loved about me. I was just his ego boost and nothing more.

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Actually, it sounds to me like he may lack ability to give, receive, and express love in the ways needed to sustain healthy relationships. That is no reflection on you.