How to make Scorp relax

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My bubbler seems to do the trick

However on a more serious note, I think this is more ruled by your moon sign! Here's why, my moon is in libra and because of that I desire partnership and being around my friends above all else. And for me when I'm with my friends I relax and calm down, but when I'm alone I just can't do it. Can't shut my mind off unless I'm socializing. It's something to think about.
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My bubbler seems to do the trick

However on a more serious note, I think this is more ruled by your moon sign! Here's why, my moon is in libra and because of that I desire partnership and being around my friends above all else. And for me when I'm with my friends I relax and calm down, but when I'm alone I just can't do it. Can't shut my mind off unless I'm socializing. It's something to think about.
Hi 🙂

Our son has the same placements as you Sun, Moon, Rising...he finds it very hard to relax. I am teaching him breathing techniques and work as a healer so it helps a little, i hope. I tend to be very calm but wonder what it would have been like for him if i was the same? Do you find when you are talking to people you walk around rather than sit down?
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My bubbler seems to do the trick

However on a more serious note, I think this is more ruled by your moon sign! Here's why, my moon is in libra and because of that I desire partnership and being around my friends above all else. And for me when I'm with my friends I relax and calm down, but when I'm alone I just can't do it. Can't shut my mind off unless I'm socializing. It's something to think about.
Hi 🙂

Our son has the same placements as you Sun, Moon, Rising...he finds it very hard to relax. I am teaching him breathing techniques and work as a healer so it helps a little, i hope. I tend to be very calm but wonder what it would have been like for him if i was the same? Do you find when you are talking to people you walk around rather than sit down?
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No he sits at work a lot. No problem.

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Is there something that can make Scorpio man relax for at Least a while?

Sex is not the thing. Before sex. To get his

mind stop running 100 mi per minute?

Thanks
Dimmed lights, lavender oil back, neck and head massage, hot tub with Epsom salt and Ylang Ylang oil.

Then sex.

You keep quiet and try to be a calming force to him.

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See between 2 of us me being a crazy Gemini

Who also can't relax...walk in a park would

drive us crazy!!!!
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Is there something that can make Scorpio man relax for at Least a while?

Sex is not the thing. Before sex. To get his

mind stop running 100 mi per minute?

Thanks
Dimmed lights, lavender oil back, neck and head massage, hot tub with Epsom salt and Ylang Ylang oil.

Then sex.

You keep quiet and try to be a calming force to him.

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You don't truly believe that Scorpio can be

fooled out of crazy by Epsom salts?
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Is there something that can make Scorpio man relax for at Least a while?

Sex is not the thing. Before sex. To get his

mind stop running 100 mi per minute?

Thanks
Dimmed lights, lavender oil back, neck and head massage, hot tub with Epsom salt and Ylang Ylang oil.

Then sex.

You keep quiet and try to be a calming force to him.



See between 2 of us me being a crazy Gemini

Who also can't relax...walk in a park would

drive us crazy!!!!


?Yeah... You bring out the chattiness in him!

I'm the same way with my Libra & Gem friends - we can talk for hours non stop and always going off on tangents. You guys ignite my air bits... And expanded thoughts... Not my calm, sensual and sexual bits, sorry ?

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Yes and no. He is great chatter himself.

We hit it of from day 1st and can't shut up

for 8! years. Lol

But his passion is driving me up a wall!

I like to take it slow. I am sure he needs

some calming tea before I come.

Massage when I am there won't do the trick

Lol
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Is there something that can make Scorpio man relax for at Least a while?

Sex is not the thing. Before sex. To get his

mind stop running 100 mi per minute?

Thanks
Dimmed lights, lavender oil back, neck and head massage, hot tub with Epsom salt and Ylang Ylang oil.

Then sex.

You keep quiet and try to be a calming force to him.



You don't truly believe that Scorpio can be

fooled out of crazy by Epsom salts?


It's not just one thing, it's the environment that goes with it as well. But, hot tub with essential oils and Epsom salt to pull out nervous energy does work for me...

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He is not nervous. He is just crazy! Boy I love

this nut! Lol
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Is there something that can make Scorpio man relax for at Least a while?

Sex is not the thing. Before sex. To get his

mind stop running 100 mi per minute?

Thanks
Dimmed lights, lavender oil back, neck and head massage, hot tub with Epsom salt and Ylang Ylang oil.

Then sex.

You keep quiet and try to be a calming force to him.



You don't truly believe that Scorpio can be

fooled out of crazy by Epsom salts?


It's not just one thing, it's the environment that goes with it as well. But, hot tub with essential oils and Epsom salt to pull out nervous energy does work for me...



He is not nervous. He is just crazy! Boy I love

this nut! Lol



Huh... Interesting?. I see incessant talking as a sign of nervousness which leads to craziness. But roots from uncontrolled nervousness... Scattered thoughts and endless talking - no filter. Nervous.

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I didn't say uncontrollable or endless. Lol

Just enough to keep it interesting and engaging
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Is there something that can make Scorpio man relax for at Least a while?

Sex is not the thing. Before sex. To get his

mind stop running 100 mi per minute?

Thanks
Dimmed lights, lavender oil back, neck and head massage, hot tub with Epsom salt and Ylang Ylang oil.

Then sex.

You keep quiet and try to be a calming force to him.



You don't truly believe that Scorpio can be

fooled out of crazy by Epsom salts?


It's not just one thing, it's the environment that goes with it as well. But, hot tub with essential oils and Epsom salt to pull out nervous energy does work for me...



He is not nervous. He is just crazy! Boy I love

this nut! Lol



Huh... Interesting?. I see incessant talking as a sign of nervousness which leads to craziness. But roots from uncontrolled nervousness... Scattered thoughts and endless talking - no filter. Nervous.



I didn't say uncontrollable or endless. Lol

Just enough to keep it interesting and engaging


? But you refer to him as crazy and you say that what I have offered as calmin solutions are not enough. You gave me the impression that his issue is uncontrollable. Anyway, I don't know him... I just know your description of him. I'm defining it and you seem to not like the definitions... Let's just say we see things differently ?

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Ok Mr. Literal. Lol

We see things waaaay different.

I am looking for the remedy to take inside.

So by the time I am there he is stopped being overhyped.

Massage is not even close. But thanks

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Is there something that can make Scorpio man relax for at Least a while?

Sex is not the thing. Before sex. To get his

mind stop running 100 mi per minute?

Thanks
Dimmed lights, lavender oil back, neck and head massage, hot tub with Epsom salt and Ylang Ylang oil.

Then sex.

You keep quiet and try to be a calming force to him.



You don't truly believe that Scorpio can be

fooled out of crazy by Epsom salts?


It's not just one thing, it's the environment that goes with it as well. But, hot tub with essential oils and Epsom salt to pull out nervous energy does work for me...



He is not nervous. He is just crazy! Boy I love

this nut! Lol



Huh... Interesting?. I see incessant talking as a sign of nervousness which leads to craziness. But roots from uncontrolled nervousness... Scattered thoughts and endless talking - no filter. Nervous.



I didn't say uncontrollable or endless. Lol

Just enough to keep it interesting and engaging


? But you refer to him as crazy and you say that what I have offered as calmin solutions are not enough. You gave me the impression that his issue is uncontrollable. Anyway, I don't know him... I just know your description of him. I'm defining it and you seem to not like the definitions... Let's just say we see things differently ?


Ok Mr. Literal. Lol

We see things waaaay different.

I am looking for the remedy to take inside.

So by the time I am there he is stopped being overhyped.

Massage is not even close. But thanks


Oh I see... Sorry I didn't catch that! I was just reading your op message and what you responded... I didn't read the whole thread. So sorry I missed that!

Well... Where there is a will, there is a way! Is this something he is interested in changing? If not, your efforts will be futile.

If so, I would still say: hot bath, lavender oil, calming tea (chamomile), and intense workout and some meditation!

I'm a Mrs. Btw ?



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If I tell him to take something - it goes.

This is why I am asking so I can administer,

Mizz. Lol