I am in lurve.... (Page 2)

Yes..Happy slapping craze is around these days anyway!..

LOL

He's just logged on...

**MM faints**

But he's groggy..and not very talkative..he's tired..didn't go sleep till 4am and now he's gone to dinner with his mates..No problem..

I told himh he's no good to me when he's like that!...lol..

only on the scorp board....slapping & loving coexist 🙂

LMAO @ Scorpt

Cap - Tis the season to be jolly..fa la la lalaaaaaaalalala

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So Cap who's the lucky fella?

i wanna be in lurve too 🙂

Luv thy neighbour Scorp

unfortunately my neighbour's fat and bald

he's rude and obnoxious - just bad inside & out
definitely not lurve material for me 🙂

lol @ bling..Don't worry she's in denial..The ones who hate each other usually love each other passionately..she's trying to stop herself from falling head over heels..

Oh the passion 😛

*my turn to faint*

i swear, i'm not in lurve with my fat bald rude obnoxious neighbour

ok, i may be in lust 😉
it's been awhile....sigh

Lol..I love fighting with my object of desire...I try to do it with the Virgo but to no avail..he just agrees with me..and then I reply..oh come on babes, your not meant to agree with me..and he replies, hun, I don't want to fight with you..your right..whatever you say is fine!...ARRRRRRRRRRGHHHH

Lol..its all good..

Tis defo the season to be happy...

Bling hows it going with your new girlfriend?..Rockchic..

😛

I wish you the best w/ your Virgo!!!!!!!!!

Aww thanks Shortyrock..

Bling 😛😛😛

"I love fighting with my object of desire"

MM... i would have to agree. though i wont admit it to my object of desire. i'm afraid he'll think i'm nuts. but i do find it quite invigorating 🙂 nothing like revealing my horns in a healthy toe to toe debate where i'll eventually end up laughing (hopefully he will too). the best evilgasm. *rubs her hands* ooooh, i cant wait. 😛

and having just read these last few pages of posts... you're killin me MM! SMILES for YOU!!!! these new and happy moments in love are always contagious. 😄!! best wishes, dear

Lol - You Cap females need to let go of your inhibitions every now and then. Just go with the flow. If I keep holding back from who I really am, then he doesn't get to see the real me..He's so serious and a man of a very few words, so I am the crazy one and that brings him out a little..Its a good combo..He works too hard though..but at least he has a soft centre and he's not afraid to show it.

A fight/debate invigorates my mind..Its so mentally stimulating..

I had one with my Cap friend yesterday. He makes my blood boil. He's like my evil twin..we will always be friends..I know that..cos we just can't stay away, regardless of how much we abuse each other verbally. This morning he sends me a msn message "hey, I think we need to discuss our constant arguments, its evident, we can't or don't get along"...**rolls eyes** I didn't think he took things to heart..obviously did..so now we are discussing it..and he's gone quiet..Of course I still care for him as a friend..but no emotional attachment anymore..which just feels great..

**MM dreams of Virgo guy**

Lol!..its only those worth praising Cap...and I will only ever disclose details of a guy that has really struck a chord...I am not one of these silly girls who just falls head over heels with anything that shows me a bit of attention...I talk to a lot of guys but only a very few get pass the ice cool demeanor..

If a guy is worth praising, then praising is what I will do...

Aww...yes..praise where its due..

So this new fella of yours..where did you guys meet?

Understandable.

Mines gone to spain 😢

He's back on Monday and then I see him on Friday hopefully. He has yet to confirm.

Via a friend.

MM,

I'm so happy for you about your Virgo guy. It seems like things really look positive for you and he.

Forgot to mention that I wish you all the best with your new guy.

Thanks Mystical. I hope so too cos I really do geniunely like him.

Hows things with you? Friday guy?

Friday guy? LOL. You are so funny.

Well, I'm going to use a term that is used a lot on the cap board. The Virgo guy in my case is MIA. Over a week ago (last Friday), I was really frustrated again as I hadn't heard from him (Virgo guy) since around the ending of July. Therefore I sent him last Friday 3 text messages, ending it all. I wrote that I was done with his mind games. I wrote I felt he was playing a game with me. I still have faith in him even though he doesn't in himself. I also wished him a happy birthday even though it isn't until September. I wrote he will never hear from me again and that was something I meant and still do. Only thing I feel bad about is I really want to wish him a happy birthday on the day of his birthday and I can't do that because I told him he wouldn't ever be hearing from me again. I thought for sure I'd hear from him during this past week. Nothing. It's so rude. However, I do wonder if he'll pop up again down the road when I've cooled off.

As for Friday guy, I found out he's a Cancer but he's younger than me. I was so sad about that. Boy, if he and I were the same age, I'd have nothing against getting with him. Anyway, I've started my internship at the hospital. Some doctor student started to flirt with me yesterday and I was totally amazed. I've been so wrapped up with the Virgo guy and sad that I haven't really been looking at other guys for a long while. I hope to see the doctor student on Monday. He seems really nice. I noticed he was staring at me. Also he would mirror me. Like when I was looking at something, he'd look in the same direction. He laughed also at things I said. I'm very shy but it felt good I still can attract other guys. Besides, I've been opening up more. However, I'm still annoyed with that Virgo guy. How dare he ignore me. What nerve he has. I've never ignored him ever. He'll get his as the circle goes around in life.

I wouldn't bother torturing yourself over him..he's a lost cause..Ignore it and move on..you've said your bit now and its been going on for a very long time..Its time to close that chapter and buy yourself a new book love!

All the best..keep me updated..

Of course I'll keep you updated. You are right though, I can't keep torturing myself over him anymore. I have moved on but it hasn't been easy because I feel like I don't understand what happened which is more than likely what he wants since it seems like he is into mind games. Well, I gave up. I told him I'm gone and he doesn't react which speaks volumes to me. I really did give him too much credit in thinking he was smart. The way I'm trying to look at it is, I'm being saved from a horrible situation if it continued. There is only so much I can take before I've reached my limit. Anyway, I'm looking forward to meeting further medical students in the hospital where I am now. Some of the doctors are really hot.

Lol @ hot doctors...Good for you. Grab yourself a man in a white coat..lol..He'll mend your heart 😉

You've given the other enough chances and you made your decision to ask for the ultimatum. He has responded indirectly if you think about it so now time to accept that decision and move on. I know it must be difficult as theres no real closure but there was from your side..

All the best..

🙂

Mystical,

How much younger was that guy? Did you have a lot in common despite the age difference?

HP74,

Well, I work part-time in a food store as I'm a full time student also. He usually comes into the store every Friday and he is absolutely adorable. He always smiles at me and 9 times out of 10 he comes on my line as I only sit at the register. I've been so down regarding a Virgo guy that I know who has been emotionally draining. Anyway, I kept seeing that this Cancer guy (I didn't know he was a Cancer until recently) came to me and would do small chit chat. He would tell me he was going away and recently he was going to an amusement park on the other side of the country. I didn't think before I spoke and said I'd love to go too. After I realized what I said I started to blush. He then said: "Next time then". I geniunely think he was being polite. I've been curious about him and was trying to think of a way to find out how old he is. I came up with the idea the next time he was in the store and was going to pay with his mini bank card, I was going to ask him if I could see his picture. I know it's a little sly but how else was I going to find out quick. Therefore when I saw the opportunity, I asked to see the picture on his mini bank card and he said sure. Turns out he's 9 years younger than me. My heart sank. I look younger than my age so I look around his age than my own. If only things could be different I said to myself.

I don't know if the Cancer guy and I have a lot in common at all. He is really adorable. I'm sure he has no trouble getting girls at all. I don't have trouble with guys either but when I really like a guy, I only like the guy and don't look at others ever. This has been my problem with Virgo guy. I've only liked him for a while and not looking at others when in reality I should have. I've come to the conclusion that Virgo guy got scared and decided to run because I think I was getting too close. Virgo guy is really screwing up on a good thing. However, I'm being saved from my heartache regarding him. My summer has been miserable regarding this Virgo guy. I have nothing against Virgos at all as I still find them very fascinating but the one in my case must be a one off and not the norm at all.

Since I have my intership at the hospital, I have my sights on medical students (male) as I wouldn't mind getting involved with one of them. One caught my eye on Friday so I'm going to see how things go. I hope to see him again tomorrow. I'm trying to cleanse myself of that Virgo guy and not think of him anymore.

A good cleaning is good! I wish you all the best and luck with your internship and I'm sure you'll have a buffet of men from which to choose! 🙂

HP74,

Thanks for the best wishes. I need my luck to change as I haven't had much in the recent. I can't believe how down I've been for months over this Virgo guy. It's been 3 months of sadness and I who is a jolly person to begin with. Unfortunately, I'll never be able to forget about this Virgo guy. No matter how much I try to forget about him, he pops up at different times of the day. It drives me nuts. Although it's been over a month since I last spoke to him. I've attempted to take contact with him but he ignores me which I don't understand at all. It's rude and selfish. You see I've asked him in one of my text messages if we are still friends and if we weren't I'd like to know. Not an answer what so ever. I've asked what is going on and he doesn't respond. Finally, I had enough of the silent treatment and ended it all. Again, he doesn't react. The craziest thing is I don't even know what happened as he won't talk to me. Therefore I've had to let it all go and move on. I just wonder how I'll react he decides to reappear again in the future. I'm still annoyed with him but with time my anger towards him has subsided.

Yes, I'm looking forward to all the men to chose from. It should be great. My interest is now in the medical student I talked to on Friday. I've got to find out in time how old he is and if he has a girlfriend. Not sure yet how to do that but I'll figure something out. It was really great to see I still have the magic as I thought I lost it since things have gone so bad regarding the Virgo guy.

I've been reading your situation regarding Scorpio guy. I wish you also all the best and luck. At least your Scorpio guy is responding to you which is much more than I can say about Virgo guy.

Mystical,


I dated a Virgo sometime back and he was very emotionally detached. It was almost like pulling teeth to get him to express himself. I'm not sure of your entire situation with this VirGuy, but no man is worth a heartache. If he can't see what he's missing, you can't force it on him. He has to see it for himself and the little I've read about it, he isn't worth your energy.

Now is the time to turn a new leaf and concentrate on your internship and possibly even a fabulous friendship/relationship with someone new!

HP74,

You are absolutely right. I have moved on although it's difficult not understanding what went wrong at all. If he and I had argued or something, then I could understand. We didn't do anything of a sort. This is what makes no sense. The last time he and I talked he said there were a lot of things that were sick about him. This, of course, made no sense to me at all. When I asked him if I'd be hearing from him again, he told me: "Maybe, when he's better". What kind of answer is that? I've never heard of such nonsense. This is what I don't understand. Hopefully, one day, I'll understand things better.

Its very easy Mystical. You just stop thinking about him. But I guess everyones different.

"Unfortunately, I'll never be able to forget about this Virgo guy. No matter how much I try to forget about him, he pops up at different times of the day. It drives me nuts"..

Thats what you think now. In a few months time, you'll look back and laugh at the whole situation..Your hurting cos because your constantly thinking, analysing, seeking answers about him..You'll never get them so why beat yourself about it.

MM,

Yeah, I totally agree with you that I should just stop thinking of him. Sometimes it's easier said than done. However, I truly do look forward to laughing at the whole situation in a few months. It's about time to laugh as it's been tough. Also very true about me constantly thinking, analysing and seeking answers. I can't stand not finding out the answers to things and when I can't find the answers my mind goes into overdrive. It's something I've always done with things that have gotten my attention. I've curbed it though as I can't always find the answers to everything. However, I find the behavior of this Virgo guy to be rude and very disrespectful. Yes, I know time heals all wounds. Maybe I'm wrong with thinking I won't be able to forget this Virgo guy. It could very well be when someone new comes into my life, this Virgo guy will just be history to me.

Pluto's Muse:
Yes, the age difference is such a pain. The Cancer guy is a real looker. I'm sure he has no problems with girls at all. I was a little sad to think he was 9 years younger than me. I never would have thought that. It's great that your Scorp guy is 7 years older than you. For some reason it's more acceptable for the guy to be older than the girl. I know I wouldn't be comfortable in a relationship if I was the older one. I've always been that way for some reason. I have no problem with the guy being older than me or the same age at all. Now I just have to find that guy.