I can not understand this Scorpio!!!!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Baby340 on Sunday, October 22, 2017 and has 20 replies.

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So lately we have both been abit distant both off and off with our feelings one min were in this relationship then the next were not. He told me because it's been a month since we last had sex and because we don't meet as much that he can't see it working and he was going to go out and sleep with someone else? He is hardly talking now can anyone help I'm so confused I'm a Pisces sun Aries moon and libra rising

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Because it's not the first time he has said this.... He gives little away and it leaves me confused he hasent blocked me only removed me?

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Posted by peachy06
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No chase means it’s over.

What do you mean? He said to me earlier "let's see what happens" and he also agreed to meet me but has not replied since?

Lol he’s just after sex is that what you want?

Well I want that aswell but not just that:/

What do you want then ?

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Obviously a relationship but I kind of see why he's kept me around i got paid today and he wanted to borrow money haha suppose that's why he kept a tiny bit of contact?

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Posted by peachy06
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
Posted by Baby340
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
No chase means it’s over.

What do you mean? He said to me earlier "let's see what happens" and he also agreed to meet me but has not replied since?

Lol he’s just after sex is that what you want?

Well I want that aswell but not just that:/

What do you want then ?

Obviously a relationship but I kind of see why he's kept me around i got paid today and he wanted to borrow money haha suppose that's why he kept a tiny bit of contact?

You'll never have a real relationship with him. Like a fellow scorp said, he stopped the chase. Clearly he's bored now.

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Yeh I get that now so I have left him alone but he's watching me bet he unblocked me on what'sapp to say "enjoying ya new bloke" then blocked me again he previously rung me through the day and offered me a deal on something but i didn't have the money... Why would he do that I don't understand

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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
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Because it's not the first time he has said this.... He gives little away and it leaves me confused he hasent blocked me only removed me?

I don’t understood what you’re saying here. Is this to do with social media?

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Yes but I stopped talking then he argued with me and blocked me. He unblocked me to message then blocked straight after so I couldn't reply. Things like this have happend with us before and we have gotten back on track. He has a Virgo moon and I have Aries I looked into it abit and I think that's abit of the problem.

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I already said I get what's being said hence why I stopped messaging him. But he rung and messaged me so he is still making contact. Did not ask where I Stand I asked why he would still be contacting me if you had read my message properly.

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Posted by Gob_Shite
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I already said I get what's being said hence why I stopped messaging him. But he rung and messaged me so he is still making contact. Did not ask where I Stand I asked why he would still be contacting me if you had read my message properly.

Who gives a shit! He's being manipulative and emotionally abusive.

Just cut him out of your life...

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I know what he's like yeh it's done I know that. we both said some nasty things yeh it's dead now cool I'm over it but why would he feel the need to do the extra things after everything was cut off is what I wanna know.

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Posted by Gob_Shite
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Posted by Baby340

I already said I get what's being said hence why I stopped messaging him. But he rung and messaged me so he is still making contact. Did not ask where I Stand I asked why he would still be contacting me if you had read my message properly.

Who gives a shit! He's being manipulative and emotionally abusive.

Just cut him out of your life...

I know what he's like yeh it's done I know that. we both said some nasty things yeh it's dead now cool I'm over it but why would he feel the need to do the extra things after everything was cut off is what I wanna know.

Sometimes, in life, you'll never find out the answers to other people's behaviour. Just move on and, hopefully, the power of hindsight will eventually fill in the gaps...

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Yeh I know your right time to take control://

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Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by Baby340
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by Baby340

I already said I get what's being said hence why I stopped messaging him. But he rung and messaged me so he is still making contact. Did not ask where I Stand I asked why he would still be contacting me if you had read my message properly.

Who gives a shit! He's being manipulative and emotionally abusive.

Just cut him out of your life...

I know what he's like yeh it's done I know that. we both said some nasty things yeh it's dead now cool I'm over it but why would he feel the need to do the extra things after everything was cut off is what I wanna know.

Sometimes, in life, you'll never find out the answers to other people's behaviour. Just move on and, hopefully, the power of hindsight will eventually fill in the gaps...

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He's been ringing on a no caller ID and leaving me voicemails with no words... Am I supposed to just ignore him

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Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by Baby340
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Posted by Baby340
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by Baby340

I already said I get what's being said hence why I stopped messaging him. But he rung and messaged me so he is still making contact. Did not ask where I Stand I asked why he would still be contacting me if you had read my message properly.

Who gives a shit! He's being manipulative and emotionally abusive.

Just cut him out of your life...

I know what he's like yeh it's done I know that. we both said some nasty things yeh it's dead now cool I'm over it but why would he feel the need to do the extra things after everything was cut off is what I wanna know.

Sometimes, in life, you'll never find out the answers to other people's behaviour. Just move on and, hopefully, the power of hindsight will eventually fill in the gaps...

He's been ringing on a no caller ID and leaving me voicemails with no words... Am I supposed to just ignore him

Why do you need to ask? Can't you just employ some common sense and a little self-restraint?

Does your life depend on replying? No

Are other people's lives at stake? No

Will a nail bomb suddenly go off, if you don't reply? No

So, what exactly is the problem here? What are you unable to comprehend?

Anyway, I'm done with this thread...

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Excuse me gobshite he's not someone I have just dated I lived with this person nearly had a baby with this person marriage was spoken about he's my first in many things inside bedroom and out. So if it takes me abit more time to realise he's a prick then so be it mate your just putting irrelevant stuff trying to make me look stupid jog on mate.