Confused and How

I am a Librian and met this Scorpio guy on an online dating site. We have chatted for over a month now and then finally we decided to meet up. I would not initiate a conversation. He was the one who would text each day and then we would chat up. If he was
I am a Librian and met this Scorpio guy on an online dating site. We have chatted for over a month now and then finally we decided to meet up. I would not initiate a conversation. He was the one who would text each day and then we would chat up. If he was busy during the day he would msg before he went to bed.

We chatted over the phone and text for weeks now. He made plans for us to catch up twice. First time around he cancelled the date in the morning itself saying he has a and hangover and doesn't feel like meeting up . The second time we were to meet for lunch but in the morning he wanted me make changes to the plan that pissed me off. I said lets meet another day to which he agreed. As he showed little respect for my time i said let not meet at all. I was very annoyed.

After awhile i got settled down and texted him told him that his attitude annoyed me and i dont like my time to be disrespected. he apologised. but since then he has been distant.

He hasn't messaged me. When i initiated contact he wasn't as responsive. I really do like this guy. i think we had something special. Now i am not sure of i should keep my distance with him and let him cool down or start a conversation or ask him upfront if he is still interested Any suggestion are welcomed
28 years old male from Hell born 17.11.1989
Wrong move
22 years old female from The Deep South, USA
Sluttitarius dominant
Have you ever met in person?
Fake ♏ - Aphrodite the Women Hater
I honestly wanna know what changes in the plan for lunch he suggested.
Ascendant in Clumsy, Sun/Mercury/Venus in Scary, Moon in Comfort, Mars in Giddy
Best shot is to send one final message saying you want a redo and feel like it got off on the wrong foot. That would take swallowing some pride tho and being secure in letting it go.

Honestly it just sounds like you two don't vibe since it's only the beginning and it's already this confusing. Drop him and allow something easier with someone who is excited to make plans with you.
22 years old female from The Deep South, USA
Sluttitarius dominant
Posted by Ellygant
Best shot is to send one final message saying you want a redo and feel like it got off on the wrong foot. That would take swallowing some pride tho and being secure in letting it go.

Honestly it just sounds like you two don't vibe since it's only the beginning and it's already this confusing. Drop him and allow something easier with someone who is excited to make plans with you.
Maybe it’s different for Scorpio males, but if someone asks me for a redo because “we got off on the wrong foot” I take them less seriously and it gives me more of a reason to give them the boot.
Ascendant in Clumsy, Sun/Mercury/Venus in Scary, Moon in Comfort, Mars in Giddy
Posted by Whorpio
Posted by Ellygant
Best shot is to send one final message saying you want a redo and feel like it got off on the wrong foot. That would take swallowing some pride tho and being secure in letting it go.

Honestly it just sounds like you two don't vibe since it's only the beginning and it's already this confusing. Drop him and allow something easier with someone who is excited to make plans with you.
Maybe it’s different for Scorpio males, but if someone asks me for a redo because “we got off on the wrong foot” I take them less seriously and it gives me more of a reason to give them the boot.
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Idk. I've never had this problem with Scorp dudes. Everyone I dated was hot on it from the start. I never had one cancel plans or not follow through. I did run into that with other signs tho. And when they apologized and went above and beyond and said they wanted a do over I felt inclined to. It was sweet.

This guy doesn't sound too into it though. Even when I had casual interest from a Scorpio male if he made plans he was following through.
@Meg123

You need to chill and understand that Scorpio do what they want and whenever they want it.
You basically killed it when he offered to change time and you refused.
If you are going to be throwing fits before he is head over heals with you - better stop it now. It's not going to work.

Here is very useful link. And it's all true!

http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-scorpio-bastard

And remember:
Scorpios-Gods gift to God!
...and should be treated as such! Lol
Lol he’s not that serious.
female
scorpio
i agree w/ both @ellygant & @whorpio


i have never had a scorp male change plans with me, repeatedly. they have always been pretty reliable, in terms of following thru. this dude either 1) doesnt have his butter together or 2) isnt that interested & is why he disregards your time.

i get really bothered when people constantly switch up plans on me. i think it shows selfishness & a lack of respect for the other persons time.

if someone asks me for a 2nd chance, my response will be based off of how much i liked them initially. but usually, i dont give 2nd chances.

i say, follow what ellygant said, ask for one more shot & if he doesnt respond well then get rid of him.

52 years old female from TX, USA
Pisces: Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Saturn
Posted by Meg123
I am a Librian and met this Scorpio guy on an online dating site. We have chatted for over a month now and then finally we decided to meet up. I would not initiate a conversation. He was the one who would text each day and then we would chat up. If he was busy during the day he would msg before he went to bed.

We chatted over the phone and text for weeks now. He made plans for us to catch up twice. First time around he cancelled the date in the morning itself saying he has a and hangover and doesn't feel like meeting up . The second time we were to meet for lunch but in the morning he wanted me make changes to the plan that pissed me off. I said lets meet another day to which he agreed. As he showed little respect for my time i said let not meet at all. I was very annoyed.

After awhile i got settled down and texted him told him that his attitude annoyed me and i dont like my time to be disrespected. he apologised. but since then he has been distant.

He hasn't messaged me. When i initiated contact he wasn't as responsive. I really do like this guy. i think we had something special. Now i am not sure of i should keep my distance with him and let him cool down or start a conversation or ask him upfront if he is still interested Any suggestion are welcomed


Girl, the old saying is, "One shame on you, second time shame on me" Do you want a third time's a charm? I'd be EMBARRASSED and/or pissed if a guy did this to me. When I made an on-line date, we were to meet at a Sports bar; but fist, he was to come pick me up at my home (I live across the street from the police station He never showed up! I texted him, "It's almost 12:00; when the Cowboys start. Are you coming?" He never responded and I saw he was on line!! Jerk! I blocked him on my phone AND POF!

cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I drove like a bat outta hell to buy lunch AND a six pack of Lone Star light; mind you, here in town we have to wait until 12:00 to buy alcohol. I was PISSED #2
Cancer 💕
I think it’s over. I think you screwed up the most when you told him his attitude annoyed you. If that were me, I’d say screw you
Posted by Ellygant
Best shot is to send one final message saying you want a redo and feel like it got off on the wrong foot. That would take swallowing some pride tho and being secure in letting it go.

Honestly it just sounds like you two don't vibe since it's only the beginning and it's already this confusing. Drop him and allow something easier with someone who is excited to make plans with you.


I didnt ask him for a redo but i did mention that i dont act pricey and haven't been rude or anything to him. As much as i respect his time i want mine to be respected as well, and i do believe in it. I like this guy but i like my self respect more. If he cant show any respect now i don expect it to change later on. He said he apologies for it and he truly means its.

i let a day pass and then asked him if he was still upset over the argument and would he not like to keep in touch to which he replied that he has been busy at work. I replied with and ok and since then havent been in touch.
Posted by Neno2
Wrong move


Why ? i respect his time and i expect the same in return.
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