Scorpio Women

If a Scorpio woman is in love (she says that she loves you), what would cause her to then cheat on you? Particularly if you haven't violated her trust? I keep reading about how loyal this sign is in love, so this situation seems a bit odd.

Her moon was in Taurus and Sagittarius rising

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I would rather die than cheat.

oh really, literally?

😐 Why do you ask? Are you a willing participant to do the killing? Since according to you, I'm already cheating by responding to you...lol

Under my standards of what I call cheating, yes. I couldn't deal with myself... It would destroy any self-pride and I would feel like such a phony. It's just... NO. I couldn't live such a lie. I'm quite honest and I like myself. I'm all in or all out.

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Maybe thats why she wanted out of the relaationship so bad afterwards? Maybe she didnt want to be around a constant reminder of something she wasnt proud of? What do you think?

Scorpios will move against you if they truly believe that you have betrayed them in some way. It may or may not be true but they must believe it to be true.

Venus in Virgo

Well she didnt breakup with me right after. we were together for 7months before she cheated. We tried to make it work, but after a few months of trying she kept saying she wasn't feeling a good connection. Then she really started pulling away. We eventually broke up a couple of months after that. She has been really cold towards me even though I told her how much I cared for her and wanted her. She just couldnt see how we could work- according to her.

I know many Scorpio girls that are in a long relationship, I met most of them online, and I can tell you, every one of them was willing to cheat their bf/husband. Like, five chicks. Ok, on some of them, They were attracted to my pictures from the start, except one of them, who said that I am not her type physically, but she was still willing to sleep with me, and even told me that she was dreaming about me and her having sex, and even though I am not her type, she really wants me, and don't know why...lol. Ok, she was very young, but still...they don't want to leave their bf, even though they're not completely satisfied lately in a relationship.

And if they are living together with her bf, they are doing everything online, before their bf come home from work, and then they remove all the traces, and it's like nothing happened. Ok, maybe it is because of the lack of attention on their part, but that is not the reason for cheating. Those girls also told me that they were already meeting for a coffee with a guy, and if there is chemistry, they were sleeping with him while their bf was working. I am not bashing Scorpio girls now, even it may seem so, I am just telling my experience, and what I did noticed.

This just sux but I honestly think you dodged a bullet here. She clearly doesn't know what she wants and you can honestly say you tried and put forth the effort but it just didn't work. I don't think this is a Scorpio woman problem, I think it's a personality/self esteem issue. Good luck moving forward!

I would rather state that im not happy in the relationship and break it off rather than cheat.

It may hurt if the other person is not ready to give up on the relationship but at least i would move on knowing that ive been honest and thats the best way to go about it if the relationship is no longer fullfilling.

That to me is self respect and respect for the other party. Nobody deserves to be cheated on imo.

Sex really matters. But there's more to it with a Scorpio woman. She needs to feel the depth of your soul- this connection rare to find in a man and it cause frustration and gonna look elsewhere than miserable.

Yeah brandyp，you told me that u hate my pic.

But that is what I want.

If a Scorpio woman loves you and cheats, what could be the reason for her cheating?

The fact she doesn't love you.

I spoke with too much assurance and everyone is different, but this is something i could never see myself doing unless I totally just didn't love the person and felt trapped.

But I don't even think I'd let myself get into a situation like that. It's much better to leave it all cleanly.

they're evil

Posted by daron76
If a Scorpio woman is in love (she says that she loves you), what would cause her to then cheat on you? Particularly if you haven't violated her trust? I keep reading about how loyal this sign is in love, so this situation seems a bit odd.

I'm late to the party, but I'll throw in my two cents anyway. Loving someone and being "in love" are two different things. The latter suggest "all eyes on you and no one else" very much the center of someone's life. The former sounds comfortable, safe...Absolutely nothing wrong with comfortable and safe all depends on the Scorp you're with. In some cases, it just isn't enough.

As well, I'm not sure why violating one's trust (or not violating it in your case) means one will be loyal. People cheat for a number of reasons and it isn't always out of revenge (e.g. payback for violating her trust), which your post seems to be implying. Did you ask her why she cheated?

Was it physical or emotional cheating?

Probably not giving her exactly what she needs to sustain her passion.

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Well she didnt breakup with me right after. we were together for 7months before she cheated. We tried to make it work, but after a few months of trying she kept saying she wasn't feeling a good connection. Then she really started pulling away. We eventually broke up a couple of months after that. She has been really cold towards me even though I told her how much I cared for her and wanted her. She just couldnt see how we could work- according to her.

Okay, well that answers my question as to why she cheated. She's basically a coward.

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Well she didnt breakup with me right after. we were together for 7months before she cheated. We tried to make it work, but after a few months of trying she kept saying she wasn't feeling a good connection. Then she really started pulling away. We eventually broke up a couple of months after that. She has been really cold towards me even though I told her how much I cared for her and wanted her. She just couldnt see how we could work- according to her.

Okay, well that answers my question as to why she cheated. She's basically a coward.

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Care to elaborate? The situation is clearer in hindsight but it was very confusing going through it. We were (I thought) great majority of the time. The only time this lack of connection thing came up is when I would want to talk about taking the relationship to the next level.

I think, I will only cheat on my bf if I don't want him around me anymore.

I would never cheat if i didnt have a reason.

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Well she didnt breakup with me right after. we were together for 7months before she cheated. We tried to make it work, but after a few months of trying she kept saying she wasn't feeling a good connection. Then she really started pulling away. We eventually broke up a couple of months after that. She has been really cold towards me even though I told her how much I cared for her and wanted her. She just couldnt see how we could work- according to her.

Okay, well that answers my question as to why she cheated. She's basically a coward.

Care to elaborate?

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It sounds like she wanted out and rather than state so clearly and end things, she slowly began to withdraw hoping you would get the hint. The confession of cheating sounds more like she hoped you would pull the plug. You didn't, so she became an ice queen. Again, hoping you would end things.

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Care to elaborate? The situation is clearer in hindsight but it was very confusing going through it. We were (I thought) great majority of the time. The only time this lack of connection thing came up is when I would want to talk about taking the relationship to the next level.

I begin to question if you were really paying attention the the relationship. Meaning, it's very hard to not pick up when a Scorp isn't feeling something or someone. To write you were great "majority of the time" while she wasn't feeling a connection sounds off to me. You two either had different expectations for the relationship (e.g. "great" to you was "mediocre" for her), she was a people pleaser and pretended to be happy or you were just oblivious to what was going on or perhaps it was a combination of two or all three.

My point is, for the most part you know when a Scorp is feeling you and only you. You know when a Scorp is not feeling you. It doesn't require them to cheat on you to make that clear. They tend to leave before cheating even enters the equation, unless there is a lack of respect. Whether it be for you or the relationship.

She may love you, but this is not the same thing that will make a Scorp move mountains for you or stay loyal to you in the romantic sense. That requires passion, desire and a deep connection. Whenever someone speaks of a Scorp cheating, trust those three ingredients are missing.

Anyway, sorry this happened.

Posted by daron76
If a Scorpio woman is in love (she says that she loves you), what would cause her to then cheat on you? Particularly if you haven't violated her trust? I keep reading about how loyal this sign is in love, so this situation seems a bit odd.

why did she cheat?

start asking yourself, did you do something that made her cheat on you? is there somewhere between the line that she's not satisfied/happy being with you? the communication etc..reflect on that. Because its very logic if one person had done something wrong with or without his/her conscious of course the other would sense it and will do the same.

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Posted by daron76
If a Scorpio woman is in love (she says that she loves you), what would cause her to then cheat on you? Particularly if you haven't violated her trust? I keep reading about how loyal this sign is in love, so this situation seems a bit odd.

why did she cheat?

start asking yourself, did you do something that made her cheat on you? is there somewhere between the line that she's not satisfied/happy being with you? the communication etc..reflect on that. Because its very logical if one person had done something wrong with or without his/her conscious of course the other would sense it and will do the same without telling you the reason.

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