
M143
@M143
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Posted by M143Thank you xxxPosted by Angie35scorpBecause he just realize you are not a fool OR he just realize you don't react on what he says and and thinking you are still cool. I know that calm exterior of a scorpio there lies the raging volcano going to erupt. An angry Scorpio willing to die and die with honor. We don't know the word defeat. We keep fighting till we get the victory. The battle is real for us. And we rarely forgive of betrayal.
Another update this man is screwing with me he sent me a simple txt ...love you... what on earth— I think I need to just cut him off my mental health is at stake if I entertain him
We get even. We don't want that disrespect and betrayal just pass by. Revenge will takes place but takes time planning to make it succeed.and I am sure he will be wounded and you're gonna be satisfied after that. Omg. I did that as well during my 20's to 30's. But Angie, if you can overcome that madness, do it lady. The Eagle scorp will rise above of that hatred, anger, revenge thing. They soar high and heal themselves with forgiveness and compassion. That dark energy will only hurt your soul even if you succeed the revenge.click to expand

Posted by Angie35scorpSo who is taking care of your cat while he is away?
He said he wont be around hes in a different state to so dont want to waste the airfare
Posted by cosmicaHis son. Hes 17.Posted by Angie35scorpSo who is taking care of your cat while he is away?
He said he wont be around hes in a different state to so dont want to waste the airfare
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Posted by cosmicaYes your right ...I don't know why I'm so unsure of what to do.
Go get your cat back then

Posted by cosmicaHes now.ignoring me everytime I txt about collecting my things. I thought when men don't want to be with you they cant wait to get rid of you im really getting annoyed. Good thing out of this is that love cloud is lifting.
You love(d) him and he played you. I would feel very insecure myself.
Don't let him get away with this any longer. Get your stuff together and move on to better things. You've got this!

Posted by Angie35scorpthere are definitely bad men out there who cause this "emotional blur" to confuse and cover up what's REALLY going on at the time... the constant pleas to believe him LOL sounds aaaaaaall too familiar... my ex looked directly into my eyes and told me a lie, which I knew was one, and kept telling me, "look at my eyes... you believe me right?!" so i swallowed my better judgement, and chose to believe him. this only prolonged the mess that was my own emotional blur. he had me so confused geezus... it ended up VERY badly for me... i dont want the same for you. find a healthier man.
You guys have really helped me to see things clearly. Like I said I was in an emotional blur. Now having to find somewhere to live etc. I just couldn't figure out what actually happened it all happened so quickly and sometimes when your going through it you cant tell what the hell is going on.

Posted by Angie35scorpyou are doing the right thing for you and your fur baby... your responses to the videos are perfect. just hope he really does stop contact for your own sake. they like to try to swim back every now and then to test the waters. just keep your distance in every way from now on.
Just a quick update: He has agreed I can collect my cat in a couple if weeks or whenever I want. It was like pulling teeth he was ignoring me for a long time. Now hes agreed I no longer contact him. I've realised he loves being the one to ignore me so I just don't give him the opportunity to. When he sends me pics and videos of my cat I just say....she looks well thank you. Thats it.
Right now I have to focus on finding somewhere to live. As like I said I'm sharing with a friend as the plan was to move to his state in a couple of months. I'm looking forward to being on my own and concentrating on me.
I'm still hurt but not in the fog.
Thank you all for helping me.
Xxx


Posted by Angie35scorphe sounds like an okay guy.
UPDATE: So it turns out he has been in a relationship with a woman for the past 12yrs. They split 2yrs ago but as far as the woman was concerned they were trying to work things out. She has 1 child for him and shes pregnant again. She told him she was pregnant a few days before he finished with me.
Found this out this weekend. His daughter called me asking sooo many questions eventually she told me what was going on shes so upset he's having another child he has quite a few.
I don't feel upset. I feel vindicated if you like. He really tried to make out that I was a bad person. Coming on here some people said it was my fault and my character that caused what happened to happen.
In fact he's just a lying cheat. Nothing to do with me.
I'm guilty of just being naïve.
I don't know if his behaviour is typical of a Pisces man.

Posted by Infinite8
Wow. You really know how to pick-um?
Posted by Infinite8When I look back it all makes sense I'm so grateful Im not as invested as the other woman she has 12yrs with him on and off and she said every time there has been other women. I had a lucky escape she has alot more to sort out she's been moving her things into his home she's got another little child. She also explained the reason why he was reluctant to give me my stuff back. She says he always keeps his ex's close and him holding on was to make sure I would have to communicate with him regardless. She seems nice enough but after it all really sunk in she was very upset. I'm just pleased I'm out of it!!Posted by Angie35scorpWow. You really know how to pick-um?
Update: so the woman that he's been having a relationship with called me today! She found me on Facebook apparently she found something with my name on it left in the house she didn't go into details. Sooooooo here comes the good part!! He was literally telling us exactly the same things about moving buying a house etc. The difference was he dumped me before it came into reality and she was about to move in with him!! When I was staying with him he was picking fights with her so she wouldn't call or talk to him. We spoke about time lines and it turned out he did a great job hiding us from each other ...I was even impressed at his organizational skills!!
So I think this concludes my question of what happened. Oh I almost forgot there is a 3rd woman that the first woman met I'm just unsure how far he went with her.
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Posted by Infinite8Like I said I came on here to find out abPosted by P-AngelI don't see the need for an update either. Most of us just cared about the safety of the CATPosted by Infinite8
Wow. You really know how to pick-um?
It's doubtful that any of this is even real.
She seems to get off on getting attention from the drama she sends out.
For example: a mature adult would just walk away, whereas, she appears to be bathing in the drama of it
There's no need for updates .. unless you're a drama queen
All these updates are just a rehash of something that should be insignificant in her life right now.
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Yeah cat favorite pet of most Scorpios.
I have that too when I was young.