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Posted by OneKnightDon’t worry. I don’t take offense.Posted by Gemitati
And our kids are 23-27! They are an adults!
Ok. How much fun is that going home every day wishing it was someone else there who would be greeting you with a loving smile instead of hostility?
Well, not being mean to you, but being honest in general, I think you have a confession to make to yourself.
What were you thinking when you saw him the first time?
Were you thinking you can break up 2 marriages and everything is going to be easy?
Why do you think you have hostility at home?
Shouldn't you protect your first marriage?
Did you love him when you got married?
If not, why did you get married?
All that's happening to you now is the price you're paying for your own screw up. And I think you will keep paying it as long as you either divorce and come legit with your current husband, or you finally fix your marriage. There is no other way. Notice, you never left your husband even though he is suppose to be so bad.
to me: The Cancer's story seems full of shit.
The Scorpio's story seems full of shit.
One is single, "living life", "stuck" in the South (whatever that means), his wife is being banged by someone else.
The other one is a pathetic cheater who has no balls to leave his wife or tell her the truth.
Just look around you.
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And when I saw Scorp first I was already 17 years married 10 out of which were sexless. When I saw him - the first second I told my husband I would follow this man wherever he wants me to go.
For 5 years we were in business and I knew he was married but I’ve never heard word wife from him...
So no! For 5 years no one thought of anything. Well...he did in silence. I didn’t because I wasn’t match for him...
And yes I loved my husband very much. He graduately killed it with his lazy ass behavior.
And story about Cancer is true. He is on a business trip for 3 months almost now and getting more contracts over there. About to come back soon but I am not waiting though I will happily see him...
And what is bullshit about a Scorpio? I didn’t get that part...
Posted by OneKnightYou correct exactly 50% .
Well, I understand the details. They kind of make sense, but the story does not add up as a whole.
example: 10 years sexless life, why did not divorce? or something? sounds nuts.
Everything is bullshit in a way, including all 3 men in your life. That's why you're posting here. Marriage either works or it does not. People either want to be with each other, or don't. The inbetweens is what everyone is trying to avoid.
Why don't you take charge? Fix your own life first. Cut the cord, divorce and leave. Setup your own life. Live for yourself. Otherwise you are wasting your time. It took me 2 years after the breakup to do it, but now I'm happier. You are not, because you are stuck, but not because of the Scorpio guy, because of you.
Be logical for a second: if your bf says "Yes", you will fuck your husband over, but because he is saying "No", you don't want to fuck yourself over. That should give you a lot of answers. You got to make the move yourself. You made your life dependent of a man who is notorious for not being able to put anything together. Sure, women want him, but he always fails at the end.
I do feel bad for you in a way, cause I like you, but I'm trying to give you some logic to move forward.
I was in sexless marriage because of convenience. Small child. Demanding job. I actually didn’t need/want sex because I was busy, stressed out living life...
And it probably would continue if I haven’t met Scorpio and become one of the many many women who don’t ‘need’ sex...because they lost a spark and it’s ok. If no one ignited them...
No I won’t divorce! I am peacefully co-existing with my husband in my house. I don’t want to do like you and go be free! I’ve been coupled for too long to be single. Being married doesn’t bother me. If I’ll find someone who will worth divorce - I will.
So what else doesn’t fall together?
Just want to tell you that every word I wrote on Dxp for years - none of it is a bullshit. Some people lives just different from others.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by RooSagicornSo he loves you so much for sure. Why do you think he wouldn’t leave? Did you ever got the answer? Is it money?Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
You know sometimes it’s just best to walk away and heal your heart. You absolutely cannot make a choice for another. Some people live in fear of what could happen and are not willing to take the risk. Sometimes it’s not as bad as we think it will be. There is no way to have growth without the times we have to push through the crap. That goes for children too and spouses too.
Some people would rather stay stuck. But you get your choice of whether you want to be stuck in misery or move forward.
That’s what I said to him. That wallowing in a misery is a butterty was to live! I guess it was easier when we’ve seen each other every other day.
Then he was calling me every day!
Then a lot of crap happened and he went missing. Then he came back and told me that life is a hot mess! And now it’s a mess that he used to.
I don’t know. This cowardness just very unappealing. My eyes are opening and filled with tears... click to expand
I understand completely I had to walk away from someone who was like this. He still is. I walked away 3 years ago and he still calls but I only allow friends now. Life goes on. It really does. ❤️ click to expand
Do you understand whybta heck is he calling? What’s the point? What is his business about how are you doing? Right? Is it form of control? Or it’s love that bothering him and doesn’t let him forget? click to expand
Oh it’s complicated lol. He has trouble letting go completely & so do I. So we adjusted to friendship mostly. I have been friends with him for 30 years and he cares a lot, says he always has, always will. He checks on me. He tries to be support for me if he can. When I ask why he still calls when I am planning on a life with someone else and will not be moving back ( before the Cap & I split). He says he wants to stay in touch. See there was a period of 18 years we weren’t in touch. I guess that’s hard to let that happen again. I allow it because he really is such a good friend & there aren’t many people who are unconditional in life like he is. I never initiate unless something bad has happened, which doesn’t happen much. I think he is still hoping for someday... it’s the second time in our lives the time wasn’t right. Once 3 years ago, and once 27 years ago. click to expand
It’s mindblowing! It’s like Scorp said your spell isn’t wearing off!
Are you both single? It’s apparently some crazy connection. What happened that you had done 27 and 3 years ago? click to expand
No, he’s married and miserable. 27 years ago I was separated from my first husband & in the middle of a divorce. He was total support to me then. We hung out a lot, but I refused to date him. He was such a baby too young, and I was separated from a total irresponsible ex husband. Not what I was looking for. ( he was friends with my first husband.. well kinda friends, they were in the same motorcycle club and raced together & friendly. ). He was crazy about me. Jumped at the chance to get close to me as friends. Anyway, he accidentally introduced me to my second husband. As he puts it, you dated him & were gone for 20 years. Well any way I’ve been divorced 5 years. About 3 1/2 years ago, he found out I was divorced and came flying at me. We live 700 miles away now cuz me & my ex moved away. Anyway, I didn’t know he was married at first but eventually I found out. Damn connection was still there & we had an affair for about a year. But really only saw him a few times cuz of the distance & well he’s married. I almost moved back 3 years ago & he was devastated when I didn’t. He was promising to leave then. He didn’t & I walked away, started dating others, and like I told him in December when I did a huge push away you still don’t know what you want, you still haven’t made changes, what was I supposed to do? I had to move on. I was trying to cut ties then. But hell the Cap screwed me over & who was there for support to pull me out of depression afterwards?? Yep you got it. Not even sure what to think about it... except he’s always there when I need him. Maybe there is a reason I didn’t cut ties.. crazy. He’s still married and I’m still living my life without him. It’s definitely a crazy connection. Perhaps I should’ve dated him 27 years ago.. he says he would’ve married me & we would’ve had a better life together. But it’s just the road untraveled.... click to expand
Can you believe it I am actually wiping tears— treetrunk this life!!!
So are you still hoping? click to expand
Lol I’m more detached now not hoping, I guess maybe because I fell in love with the Cap. But, deep down yeah. He still knows how to pull it out of me 😳 but I can’t hope because he didn’t do what he needed to do. But I can’t predict the future though so who knows what will happen. I may move in a year or so. If I do, that would be interesting to see what he’d do. But if I meet someone else that keeps me here, who knows maybe my path goes without him.
But really I don’t call or text cuz it pulls him closer & this is his decision on whether to leave or not. I think he should even if it doesn’t work between us, I think the emotional stress is just too much & damaging to him. But it’s not my call. But he knows I’m there for him, if he needs me too. My direction is elsewhere and concentrating on what’s healthiest for me. As it stands, I can’t just sit here and hope. click to expandclick to expand
Let me tell you...my friend who is in love with man for 36 years FINALLY been told that he is getting amount of his relashionships to be with her!
We both are 👀👀👀
I am dying to find out what finally made him decide to break up with his gf of 10 years. He just told her ‘I don’t want to lose you again’....
So shit happens! Maybe we will get our cake as well? ❤️
class="bqexpand"> Posted by RooSagicornI understand every bit of this perfectly! However asking you to move back and not being able to be with you is kind of strange if him.Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
You know sometimes it’s just best to walk away and heal your heart. You absolutely cannot make a choice for another. Some people live in fear of what could happen and are not willing to take the risk. Sometimes it’s not as bad as we think it will be. There is no way to have growth without the times we have to push through the crap. That goes for children too and spouses too.
Some people would rather stay stuck. But you get your choice of whether you want to be stuck in misery or move forward.
That’s what I said to him. That wallowing in a misery is a butterty was to live! I guess it was easier when we’ve seen each other every other day.
Then he was calling me every day!
Then a lot of crap happened and he went missing. Then he came back and told me that life is a hot mess! And now it’s a mess that he used to.
I don’t know. This cowardness just very unappealing. My eyes are opening and filled with tears... click to expand
I understand completely I had to walk away from someone who was like this. He still is. I walked away 3 years ago and he still calls but I only allow friends now. Life goes on. It really does. ❤️ click to expand
Do you understand whybta heck is he calling? What’s the point? What is his business about how are you doing? Right? Is it form of control? Or it’s love that bothering him and doesn’t let him forget? click to expand
Oh it’s complicated lol. He has trouble letting go completely & so do I. So we adjusted to friendship mostly. I have been friends with him for 30 years and he cares a lot, says he always has, always will. He checks on me. He tries to be support for me if he can. When I ask why he still calls when I am planning on a life with someone else and will not be moving back ( before the Cap & I split). He says he wants to stay in touch. See there was a period of 18 years we weren’t in touch. I guess that’s hard to let that happen again. I allow it because he really is such a good friend & there aren’t many people who are unconditional in life like he is. I never initiate unless something bad has happened, which doesn’t happen much. I think he is still hoping for someday... it’s the second time in our lives the time wasn’t right. Once 3 years ago, and once 27 years ago. click to expand
It’s mindblowing! It’s like Scorp said your spell isn’t wearing off!
Are you both single? It’s apparently some crazy connection. What happened that you had done 27 and 3 years ago? click to expand
No, he’s married and miserable. 27 years ago I was separated from my first husband & in the middle of a divorce. He was total support to me then. We hung out a lot, but I refused to date him. He was such a baby too young, and I was separated from a total irresponsible ex husband. Not what I was looking for. ( he was friends with my first husband.. well kinda friends, they were in the same motorcycle club and raced together & friendly. ). He was crazy about me. Jumped at the chance to get close to me as friends. Anyway, he accidentally introduced me to my second husband. As he puts it, you dated him & were gone for 20 years. Well any way I’ve been divorced 5 years. About 3 1/2 years ago, he found out I was divorced and came flying at me. We live 700 miles away now cuz me & my ex moved away. Anyway, I didn’t know he was married at first but eventually I found out. Damn connection was still there & we had an affair for about a year. But really only saw him a few times cuz of the distance & well he’s married. I almost moved back 3 years ago & he was devastated when I didn’t. He was promising to leave then. He didn’t & I walked away, started dating others, and like I told him in December when I did a huge push away you still don’t know what you want, you still haven’t made changes, what was I supposed to do? I had to move on. I was trying to cut ties then. But hell the Cap screwed me over & who was there for support to pull me out of depression afterwards?? Yep you got it. Not even sure what to think about it... except he’s always there when I need him. Maybe there is a reason I didn’t cut ties.. crazy. He’s still married and I’m still living my life without him. It’s definitely a crazy connection. Perhaps I should’ve dated him 27 years ago.. he says he would’ve married me & we would’ve had a better life together. But it’s just the road untraveled.... click to expand
Can you believe it I am actually wiping tears— treetrunk this life!!!
So are you still hoping? click to expand
Lol I’m more detached now not hoping, I guess maybe because I fell in love with the Cap. But, deep down yeah. He still knows how to pull it out of me 😳 but I can’t hope because he didn’t do what he needed to do. But I can’t predict the future though so who knows what will happen. I may move in a year or so. If I do, that would be interesting to see what he’d do. But if I meet someone else that keeps me here, who knows maybe my path goes without him.
But really I don’t call or text cuz it pulls him closer & this is his decision on whether to leave or not. I think he should even if it doesn’t work between us, I think the emotional stress is just too much & damaging to him. But it’s not my call. But he knows I’m there for him, if he needs me too. My direction is elsewhere and concentrating on what’s healthiest for me. As it stands, I can’t just sit here and hope. click to expand
So he loves you so much for sure. Why do you think he wouldn’t leave? Did you ever got the answer? Is it money?
Let me tell you...my friend who is in love with man for 36 years FINALLY been told that he is getting amount of his relashionships to be with her!
We both are 👀👀👀
I am dying to find out what finally made him decide to break up with his gf of 10 years. He just told her ‘I don’t want to lose you again’....
So butter happens! Maybe we will get our cake as well? ❤️ click to expand
Kids, keeping the family unit together & not being alone. He has asked me a ton of times to move back. But I couldn’t leave my daughter. And he wasn’t going to leave his kids. She graduates from high school in s year& I do want to go back. But ya my plans always seem to blow up in my face so I’m taking it day by day. click to expandclick to expand
If you said ok, I am coming but what are you going to offer?
Would that be like mine...’I don’t know’? Or he does have an answer but you’ve never asked?
That’s why I respect Cancer so much for being a man! And taking his life in his hands...
Posted by RooSagicornWe are like sisters in stupid love with spineless creatures who for some reason living in our heads and bodies!
@Gemitati - no promises which I s why I won’t make any either. Sometime he asks if he promised to marry me or live with me would I move in a week. I just figured he was screwing with me. He was jealous of the Cap so yeah.. whatever. Truth is he would have to get comfortable with this could replace what he has and be better. Like I wouldn’t leave him. How can you know that unless you spend quality time together? He needs to just leave and start going through the process. I don’t believe he will leave. He would need to show me. He doesn’t believe I’ll move. I have to show him. So we are stuck & he loses me. So there ya are.
All abunch of words.. show me your god damn actions. Until then, I’m dating!! 🔥🔥 haha he’s a fire sign too so he does this 🔥🔥🔥🔥 omg. But yet we can’t cut the cord 😮
I know you are younger than me and have some time to think and play and change your life around.
I am so fucked up right now so...I don’t know what to do yet...I need a few days to figure it out.
So...yours is not a Scorpio but he has this stupid Scorpio treat to love living in hell! Interesting...
How do they living in hell knowing that they can get out but won’t because of...really...no reason!
Maybe because they don’t believe life can be different? And they will end up in a same shit!
I am losing respect for cowardly men. I am just starting. Are you with me? Lol
class="bqexpand"> Posted by RooSagicornI am 51! And you just lifted my spirit!Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
@Gemitati - no promises which I s why I won’t make any either. Sometime he asks if he promised to marry me or live with me would I move in a week. I just figured he was screwing with me. He was jealous of the Cap so yeah.. whatever. Truth is he would have to get comfortable with this could replace what he has and be better. Like I wouldn’t leave him. How can you know that unless you spend quality time together? He needs to just leave and start going through the process. I don’t believe he will leave. He would need to show me. He doesn’t believe I’ll move. I have to show him. So we are stuck & he loses me. So there ya are.
All abunch of words.. show me your sparkle motion actions. Until then, I’m dating!! 🔥🔥 haha he’s a fire sign too so he does this 🔥🔥🔥🔥 omg. But yet we can’t cut the cord 😮
We are like sisters in stupid love with spineless creatures who for some reason living in our heads and bodies!
I know you are younger than me and have some time to think and play and change your life around.
I am so treetrunked up right now so...I don’t know what to do yet...I need a few days to figure it out.
So...yours is not a Scorpio but he has this stupid Scorpio treat to love living in hell! Interesting...
How do they living in hell knowing that they can get out but won’t because of...really...no reason!
Maybe because they don’t believe life can be different? And they will end up in a same butter!
I am losing respect for cowardly men. I am just starting. Are you with me? Lol click to expand
Actually I believe I’m older than you... and we still have time!! My stepmom is 75 and super happy after my dad died with a new bf and a great life. Yes that’s what I’m looking for, someone with balls. click to expandclick to expand
Lol
Let’s find balls! I mean with body attached to it...ofcoutse! Lol
Btw I know a woman who had her first orgasm at 70! Still alive!!! Lol
Thanks for this sunshine attitude of yours. That’s why I am trying to meet people...so far nothing even close except that awesome Cancer man! Well...he still didn’t come close except having balls!!! Like 4 at least!
Lmao! Oh, thanks. You made me feel better. Let’s stay in touch. ❤️
class="bqexpand"> Posted by RooSagicornHe doesn’t bother me. I live in a separate room. He needs to be catered to which my mom does.Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
@Gemitati - no promises which I s why I won’t make any either. Sometime he asks if he promised to marry me or live with me would I move in a week. I just figured he was screwing with me. He was jealous of the Cap so yeah.. whatever. Truth is he would have to get comfortable with this could replace what he has and be better. Like I wouldn’t leave him. How can you know that unless you spend quality time together? He needs to just leave and start going through the process. I don’t believe he will leave. He would need to show me. He doesn’t believe I’ll move. I have to show him. So we are stuck & he loses me. So there ya are.
All abunch of words.. show me your sparkle motion actions. Until then, I’m dating!! 🔥🔥 haha he’s a fire sign too so he does this 🔥🔥🔥🔥 omg. But yet we can’t cut the cord 😮
We are like sisters in stupid love with spineless creatures who for some reason living in our heads and bodies!
I know you are younger than me and have some time to think and play and change your life around.
I am so treetrunked up right now so...I don’t know what to do yet...I need a few days to figure it out.
So...yours is not a Scorpio but he has this stupid Scorpio treat to love living in hell! Interesting...
How do they living in hell knowing that they can get out but won’t because of...really...no reason!
Maybe because they don’t believe life can be different? And they will end up in a same butter!
I am losing respect for cowardly men. I am just starting. Are you with me? Lol click to expand
Actually I believe I’m older than you... and we still have time!! My stepmom is 75 and super happy after my dad died with a new bf and a great life. Yes that’s what I’m looking for, someone with balls. click to expand
I am 51! And you just lifted my spirit!
Lol
Let’s find balls! I mean with body attached to it...ofcoutse! Lol
Btw I know a woman who had her first orgasm at 70! Still alive!!! Lol
Thanks for this sunshine attitude of yours. That’s why I am trying to meet people...so far nothing even close except that awesome Cancer man! Well...he still didn’t come close except having balls!!! Like 4 at least!
Lmao! Oh, thanks. You made me feel better. Let’s stay in touch. ❤️ click to expand
I’m 54!! ❤️ Life is just beginning. Just leave your husband already & go find it!! I left mine when I was 48 and am so much happier!! click to expandclick to expand
When child come home - she has 2 parents. We acting civil though she knows my shit! Still she is having home with 3 parents. Why would I ruin all that and make one lawyer richer? We’ve talked about none of us wants to leave the house. It’s like why would I stir the pot and pay for it? We all are ok. I am not going to find an apartment cheaper than my mortgage now including taxes and insurance. And we live in a best place of a country. Like...why now when all is calm and cozy?
class="bqexpand"> Posted by RooSagicornPlease elaborate...I am confused. But maybe you know something I don’t...Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
@Gemitati - no promises which I s why I won’t make any either. Sometime he asks if he promised to marry me or live with me would I move in a week. I just figured he was screwing with me. He was jealous of the Cap so yeah.. whatever. Truth is he would have to get comfortable with this could replace what he has and be better. Like I wouldn’t leave him. How can you know that unless you spend quality time together? He needs to just leave and start going through the process. I don’t believe he will leave. He would need to show me. He doesn’t believe I’ll move. I have to show him. So we are stuck & he loses me. So there ya are.
All abunch of words.. show me your sparkle motion actions. Until then, I’m dating!! 🔥🔥 haha he’s a fire sign too so he does this 🔥🔥🔥🔥 omg. But yet we can’t cut the cord 😮
We are like sisters in stupid love with spineless creatures who for some reason living in our heads and bodies!
I know you are younger than me and have some time to think and play and change your life around.
I am so treetrunked up right now so...I don’t know what to do yet...I need a few days to figure it out.
So...yours is not a Scorpio but he has this stupid Scorpio treat to love living in hell! Interesting...
How do they living in hell knowing that they can get out but won’t because of...really...no reason!
Maybe because they don’t believe life can be different? And they will end up in a same butter!
I am losing respect for cowardly men. I am just starting. Are you with me? Lol click to expand
Actually I believe I’m older than you... and we still have time!! My stepmom is 75 and super happy after my dad died with a new bf and a great life. Yes that’s what I’m looking for, someone with balls. click to expand
I am 51! And you just lifted my spirit!
Lol
Let’s find balls! I mean with body attached to it...ofcoutse! Lol
Btw I know a woman who had her first orgasm at 70! Still alive!!! Lol
Thanks for this sunshine attitude of yours. That’s why I am trying to meet people...so far nothing even close except that awesome Cancer man! Well...he still didn’t come close except having balls!!! Like 4 at least!
Lmao! Oh, thanks. You made me feel better. Let’s stay in touch. ❤️ click to expand
I’m 54!! ❤️ Life is just beginning. Just leave your husband already & go find it!! I left mine when I was 48 and am so much happier!! click to expand
He doesn’t bother me. I live in a separate room. He needs to be catered to which my mom does.
When child come home - she has 2 parents. We acting civil though she knows my butter! Still she is having home with 3 parents. Why would I ruin all that and make one lawyer richer? We’ve talked about none of us wants to leave the house. It’s like why would I stir the pot and pay for it? We all are ok. I am not going to find an apartment cheaper than my mortgage now including taxes and insurance. And we live in a best place of a country. Like...why now when all is calm and cozy?
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Seems to me you want more out of life than calm and cozy. Or else there would not be the Scorpio, Cancer or others. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicornAdmirable. Your ex must had been horrible...mine isn’t and I can co-exist. I am not so strong for drastic changes. I need someone to pull me out. I can’t do it myself.
Oh just when you open yourself to a new life, it opens lots of possibilities and opportunities. Rather than being in a comfortable and easy - calm and cozy life. Its about going outside your comfort zone. Growth. Searching for the real things in life. Some people are happy in the comfort, others not so much. You are searching but you want to do that in the comfort. It’s not how you grow. You have to take a risk to get rewards it’s not about the right now but what it might lead to.
My first apartment was a little dumpy apartment but it was mine alone & now I own a townhouse. And that cozy, comfy house on 8 acres my ex lives in? No body wants to be there with him. As in my kids or me. I walked away from the material things, in search of the real things. But you have to let go first. It’s a process.
Posted by RooSagicornI know me. I am not going to do it! If my husband started to get on my nerves - I would. So far - no reason.Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
Oh just when you open yourself to a new life, it opens lots of possibilities and opportunities. Rather than being in a comfortable and easy - calm and cozy life. Its about going outside your comfort zone. Growth. Searching for the real things in life. Some people are happy in the comfort, others not so much. You are searching but you want to do that in the comfort. It’s not how you grow. You have to take a risk to get rewards it’s not about the right now but what it might lead to.
My first apartment was a little dumpy apartment but it was mine alone & now I own a townhouse. And that cozy, comfy house on 8 acres my ex lives in? No body wants to be there with him. As in my kids or me. I walked away from the material things, in search of the real things. But you have to let go first. It’s a process.
Admirable. Your ex must had been horrible...mine isn’t and I can co-exist. I am not so strong for drastic changes. I need someone to pull me out. I can’t do it myself. click to expand
I went through a big change idk midlife crisis or nervous breakdown & he was not supportive and became very controlling. My dad was dying & I could no longer live like I was living. It’s not that he’s horrible, but he’s selfish and he tried to force me into a dependent life and be enabled by his parents. I’m a Sag. That is like killing me. He tried to stop my growth process also.. he wanted me not to get healthier.,, just be the same person who took care of him. He just didn’t care about me anymore. He can be cold & refuses to look at others POV. The kids gravitate the to the caring understanding one.
He is a good guy too. It’s just all complicated. But you at this age probably starting mid 40’s have a choice to make. Can you live like this the rest of your life? If the answer is no. Than something has to change. If your answer was yes, then you would not be searching outside the marriage. You are looking for a shortcut. Same as the guy I was talking about. But truth is there is no shortcut here. You just have to believe in yourself is all and then take it a step at a time. It a tough position to be in, I know. click to expandclick to expand
I’ve learned from a long time ago that bad peace better than good war. My expectations here - Scorpio breaks down and comes for me OR I will find someone who will offer me something I wouldn’t be able to resist. Until then - search is continuing...
Posted by NelsonSacramentoI was just mad! You know I can’t hate Scorpios...the only sign I was never fan of was Gem man but now I have a great friend Gem so I don’t hate anybody as well...except my Scorpio...lmao
I hate nobody, better this way big sister gemini.
Well...last 2 weeks he is communicating with me like nothing ever happened.
And I am continuing to be a bitch! Telling him all that’s on my mind staring up!
Today on his second (!) call he said I have to stop and find middle ground with him. I said I’ll be the judge of that because ass kissing didn’t work so middle ground is almost the same shit and his ass needs to be whooped until it’s red!
He kept silent for a second. Then he said well...ok. Let’s see how is that going to go. He said he will call me back! It’ll be 3rd time in one day.
If so...
Now my dilemma...should I try and go to middle ground? Or still giving him 9degree because it seems working. Will he rebound or will I tame the bloodsucker?
And yessss! I just had my 3rd call!!!
Kill me someone!
And I am continuing to be a bitch! Telling him all that’s on my mind staring up!
Today on his second (!) call he said I have to stop and find middle ground with him. I said I’ll be the judge of that because ass kissing didn’t work so middle ground is almost the same shit and his ass needs to be whooped until it’s red!
He kept silent for a second. Then he said well...ok. Let’s see how is that going to go. He said he will call me back! It’ll be 3rd time in one day.
If so...
Now my dilemma...should I try and go to middle ground? Or still giving him 9degree because it seems working. Will he rebound or will I tame the bloodsucker?
And yessss! I just had my 3rd call!!!
Kill me someone!
I have an idea, it might sound crazy, but it might just be why it will work
Why don't you ask your husband to seduce his wife
Why don't you ask your husband to seduce his wife
Posted by hydorahI was actually told by a psychic once that they are very compatible. Lol
I have an idea, it might sound crazy, but it might just be why it will work
Why don't you ask your husband to seduce his wife
Except my husband can’t DO IT! And he is not a wealthy and she used to be rolled in a dough...
Well...good morning call and question about my...mother—
What ta fuck is wrong with this man—
What ta fuck is wrong with this man—
Posted by NelsonSacramentoI had been an angel to him until a few months ago when I had gotten sick and tired!Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShineThe thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
God he is becoming boring
Same ol, same ol
Blah blah blah
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿 click to expand
Starting to think there is more negative energy than you might know being thrown at him, this is a guess. click to expandclick to expand
He went quiet.
Now it’s all like we’ve just met!
Posted by GemitatiThanks babe! Dxp does have a few mature normal people and that’s why it’s worth it to scroll trough crap to find one diamond in a rough...❤️Posted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
@Gemitati - no promises which I s why I won’t make any either. Sometime he asks if he promised to marry me or live with me would I move in a week. I just figured he was screwing with me. He was jealous of the Cap so yeah.. whatever. Truth is he would have to get comfortable with this could replace what he has and be better. Like I wouldn’t leave him. How can you know that unless you spend quality time together? He needs to just leave and start going through the process. I don’t believe he will leave. He would need to show me. He doesn’t believe I’ll move. I have to show him. So we are stuck & he loses me. So there ya are.
All abunch of words.. show me your sparkle motion actions. Until then, I’m dating!! 🔥🔥 haha he’s a fire sign too so he does this 🔥🔥🔥🔥 omg. But yet we can’t cut the cord 😮
We are like sisters in stupid love with spineless creatures who for some reason living in our heads and bodies!
I know you are younger than me and have some time to think and play and change your life around.
I am so treetrunked up right now so...I don’t know what to do yet...I need a few days to figure it out.
So...yours is not a Scorpio but he has this stupid Scorpio treat to love living in hell! Interesting...
How do they living in hell knowing that they can get out but won’t because of...really...no reason!
Maybe because they don’t believe life can be different? And they will end up in a same butter!
I am losing respect for cowardly men. I am just starting. Are you with me? Lol click to expand
Actually I believe I’m older than you... and we still have time!! My stepmom is 75 and super happy after my dad died with a new bf and a great life. Yes that’s what I’m looking for, someone with balls. click to expand
I am 51! And you just lifted my spirit!
Lol
Let’s find balls! I mean with body attached to it...ofcoutse! Lol
Btw I know a woman who had her first orgasm at 70! Still alive!!! Lol
Thanks for this sunshine attitude of yours. That’s why I am trying to meet people...so far nothing even close except that awesome Cancer man! Well...he still didn’t come close except having balls!!! Like 4 at least!
Lmao! Oh, thanks. You made me feel better. Let’s stay in touch. ❤️ click to expand
I’m 54!! ❤️ Life is just beginning. Just leave your husband already & go find it!! I left mine when I was 48 and am so much happier!! click to expand
He doesn’t bother me. I live in a separate room. He needs to be catered to which my mom does.
When child come home - she has 2 parents. We acting civil though she knows my shit! Still she is having home with 3 parents. Why would I ruin all that and make one lawyer richer? We’ve talked about none of us wants to leave the house. It’s like why would I stir the pot and pay for it? We all are ok. I am not going to find an apartment cheaper than my mortgage now including taxes and insurance. And we live in a best place of a country. Like...why now when all is calm and cozy?
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I cant believe this is the same woman who told me I would beg for my man to come back to me just cause I am a Cancer woman.
But I am reading all this.
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
Karma issss a total bish 😂😂
But I am reading all this.
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
Karma issss a total bish 😂😂
Posted by EchoYou mistaken or I was drunk!
I cant believe this is the same woman who told me I would beg for my man to come back to me just cause I am a Cancer woman.
But I am reading all this.
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
Karma issss a total bish 😂😂
I have no idea who you are and don’t have lots of knowledge of Cancers. Except my Mom who is a woman. So...find another excuse for your failure. And fuck Karma! Jews don’t believe in this shit! 👅
Posted by RooSagicornJust tell me WHY!!!
Interesting Leo & I had an Argument /discussion last week about us. Nothing’s changed, but it’s funny how he adjusts to stay in touch. Some connections are very very strong...
Like I’ve been a bitch! Forget me! I am bad bitch!
No! He calling me to tell me I need to cut in half! I said NO! He said ok!
Are you fucking Scorpio or...pussy cat? Lmao...no...actually bawling my eyes out...
Posted by GemitatiWhat failure? You and your assumptions like alwaysPosted by Echo
I cant believe this is the same woman who told me I would beg for my man to come back to me just cause I am a Cancer woman.
But I am reading all this.
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
Karma issss a total bish 😂😂
You mistaken or I was drunk!
I have no idea who you are and don’t have lots of knowledge of Cancers. Except my Mom who is a woman. So...find another excuse for your failure. And treetrunk Karma! Jews don’t believe in this butter! 👅 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicornI can’t walk away. Just can’t not to pick up the phone because each time is so special!Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornJust tell me WHY!!!
Interesting Leo & I had an Argument /discussion last week about us. Nothing’s changed, but it’s funny how he adjusts to stay in touch. Some connections are very very strong...
Like I’ve been a cookiemonster! Forget me! I am bad cookiemonster!
No! He calling me to tell me I need to cut in half! I said NO! He said ok!
Are you treetrunking Scorpio or...kitty cat? Lmao...no...actually bawling my eyes out... click to expand
its not about you. He’s a pussy. I don’t get why the Leo adjusts just so I will allow him to talk to me.. why not go away? Or actually do something about your life? Something must be in the air lol click to expandclick to expand
And I started to look at his ‘pusiness’ from another perspective.
I’ve met a Gemini who is a powerhouse man. Kids 23-27. Living in open marriage for the same reason. If he doesn’t fall in love yet - why to stir the pot and feed the lawyers? Not everything has to be ‘divorce’...
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