I met a cute Scorpio girl... I'm really nervous

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Mark David
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So I met this really cute Scorpio girl at school, she's really nice really sweet and she seems very shy.

The problem is that I'm an Aries with an Aries moon and I think my rising is also an Aries.

I don't know if she has any fire signs in her chart I hope she has both fire and earth In her chart.

So I introduced myself last week to her, as I've seen her around a few times at school. I didn't ask for her number or anything because I really want to be smooth and I want to keep things on a comfortable level because I know I can come on strong and I won't even realize it.

But I want to ask her for her number and I would like to take her out on a date and get to know her on a deeper level.

I would like some advice from the fellow Scorpios on this forum
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I can't speak for myself, but based off what other scorpio women have said on here, don't be a beta. Scorpios seem to like a chase and if you ask her out too soon she won't take you seriously. Just instill yourself into her life and if she dun't ask you out (Scorpio women are impatient and will ask you out themselves if you take too long) then you should ask her out to dinner.
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Mark David
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But your princess is a lioness.
My princess is my lioness your damn right....

But I can't wait for ever and continue fighting when she is blind for my efforts. She doesn't know what she has till she loses me, the day I fall in love with another woman is the day my Leo will realize what she lost.

You want what you can't have in life, but how could you even know you wanted it if its always there?

This scorpio girl, in her for some reason I see potential. Potential to fall in love and start new.
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i love aries but i have a libra ascendant so i love anything aries. that's my descendant.

i have 6 close aries friends. i haven't really crushed on an aries man except for celebrity crushes and James Franco and the guy...Nick Robinson maybe...who starred in the new Jurassic Park movie and was the older brother. now they're hot af. but that's besides the point. i love aries moon or venus men. i also like the ascendants.

i will say...i would never chase a man or initiate any form of an official date with him out of sheer fear of rejection. i'm the girl who tells herself "no, he's not flirting with you, he's just being nice."

i once had an aries venus man make a joke about us wrestling in bed. i blew it off. completely denied the fact that he was coming on to me. i definitely liked him. we ended up getting together for about a year...ish. it was not a committed relationship though.

i admired his chase. i would never be the chaser. i just love the fact that aries will tell you like it is and that they're willing to chase you. however, it has to be subtle yet direct. i think asking a girl out on a date is the best way to do it. i did go on one date with an aries sun/ascendant and virgo moon once merely because he was bold and just asked me out on a date. i thought it was admirable and told myself "what the heck, nobody else has asked me out like this before." we're still friends to this day.

however it also depends on determination. if you're willing to give up easily, i won't waste my time. plus i'll still be convincing myself that said person wasn't that interested anyways and i must've imagined any moves he may have made.

i have a virgo moon and some hard saturn aspects. that alone has a lot to do with my fear of rejection. i prefer to be 100% positive that a person is interested before anything is done. then when they ask me to hang out or go out, i say yes. then i'm mindblown over it for awhile and think of all the events where he must have been flirting with me.

i'm a bundle of mental activity. this all goes on silently in my head, the caution, the doubt, and then the amazement/mesmerizarion. but i'm always friendly. i always make friends with the people i crush on mainly because i'm curious about them.
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But your princess is a lioness.
My princess is my lioness your damn right....

But I can't wait for ever and continue fighting when she is blind for my efforts. She doesn't know what she has till she loses me, the day I fall in love with another woman is the day my Leo will realize what she lost.

You want what you can't have in life, but how could you even know you wanted it if its always there?

This scorpio girl, in her for some reason I see potential. Potential to fall in love and start new.
If you are....

1. Not over your ex

2. Trying to make your ex jealous

Please don't bother this scorpio woman. We really hate when someone wastes our time.
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1.) no im partially over her... not fully

2.) i know she will get jealous when she sees what she lost... but if the Scorpio commits to me, then I won't even look back, make sense?

3.) I'm looking for a serious relationship; she's part of my culture speaks the native language as well, unlike my ex who was a complete outsider. I'm not there to waste her time, that's why I'm here asking for f $ &king advice!

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Mark David
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by -elle-
But your princess is a lioness.
My princess is my lioness your damn right....

But I can't wait for ever and continue fighting when she is blind for my efforts. She doesn't know what she has till she loses me, the day I fall in love with another woman is the day my Leo will realize what she lost.

You want what you can't have in life, but how could you even know you wanted it if its always there?

This scorpio girl, in her for some reason I see potential. Potential to fall in love and start new.
If you are....

1. Not over your ex

2. Trying to make your ex jealous

Please don't bother this scorpio woman. We really hate when someone wastes our time.


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Ya she's got a BF.... not gonna go after someone with a BF ever again!!

But then again why do all the single girls have a bitchy attitude? What happened to good girls?