I need Help AYUDAR!

I am in love with a scorpio and am afraid to tell them. I don't want to get hurt and i dont want to push them away. How do i know when i should tell them or if for that matter. I want them to know that i am here for them no matter what. He has so many negative people around him and i think he is afraid of me. I truly love him and would never admit it damn, this is even the first time i've ever said it. I recently gave him a key to my new apt. I don't know if i should have done that. i feel uncomfortable with giving my power up to someone who i don't even know what their intentions are. I'm at such a vulnerable state and don't like someone having that much power without me knowing how they truly feel. I am monogamous in the relationship.

I am a taurus-gemini ascendant cap moon gemini

i'm a taurus gem to..hi =) and honesrly the only way to know would be to ask him straight out if you don't feel like telling him, thats what i've done & either way i always knew an answer, Or else your going to drive your self mad

I forgot to mention I DONT LIKE REJECTION!!!!!!!! so to hear anything other than what i want to hear is treacherous i've been involved with my "friend" for a year now and the sex is immaculate cus a diva has to do what a diva has to do. I tears it up ya heard. Extreme sensualist. I don't want to spoil what we have cus i don't like to man hop and will feel guilt if i deal with anyone else even though we are just friends i know cus i tried and felt like i was cheating(mind u someone i am not in a committed relationship with. so i stopped trying cus i'd be fooling myself nd whoever i try to get involve with because the level of e motions that developed against my will i might add. i fought these feelings for about 6 months and they are truly overwhelming and the more he tries to gain more control that totally turns me on. I know my natural sex appeal and flirtatious nature turn him o ff. all he had to do is ask for a committment and all the flirting and extra behavior will cease cus i would no longer be on the field i'd be in the locker room lathering up. When i find someone i can trust like i do him i'd give it all up cus my deepest desire is to be in a committed relationship that is my nature to want to have someone there for me and i for them with the same intensity. He seems very cheap i don't know if its just with me or if that is a scorp thing. I give him whatever he ask for which isnt much and whatever i can coax him to take. i really care for him and i get things he needs.