doubleleo
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Is my Scorpio lover compatible to me?
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The first time my Scorpio said 'I love you', I felt really awkward and said thank you.
You probably should have waited for the sex, however as Elle pointed out with 'fwb'. If that factor had been paused then you'd be in a different situation. In this sense you have devalued yourself for something easily attainable. And if you're easily attainable, then your Scorpio probably won't think you are cemented as 'his' in a sense of monogamy - if that is his forte.
You probably should have waited for the sex, however as Elle pointed out with 'fwb'. If that factor had been paused then you'd be in a different situation. In this sense you have devalued yourself for something easily attainable. And if you're easily attainable, then your Scorpio probably won't think you are cemented as 'his' in a sense of monogamy - if that is his forte.
You got her whole sceptical/analytic look down pretty good in your avi 😉
Lmao - and you have the class 😉
yeah sheathed...i said that too....there's something very 50s glamour about you 🙂
love how you said 'thanks' to your scorp.....how did he respond?
love how you said 'thanks' to your scorp.....how did he respond?
Posted by doubleleo
My Scorpio is in love with me but I feel like he is just saying that because he sometimes goes MIA, than he comes back like nothing happened tells me he misses me and than shows me affection. I heard scorpios are known for getting moody and going MIA for a few days. I find this to be very confusing but to be honest I feel very attractive to this Scorpio guy because we have a great connection and I enjoy the sex. He also asked me to be hes gf but I told him and I wasnt ready but would love to continue seeing him and he understood. We still see eachother but only twice and once a week, he is a very busy guy.
Me: Leo Sun, Leo Moon and Scorpio Rising
Him: Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon and Scorpio Rising
Are we compatible ?
I'm confused as to what it is you really want. Because it sounds like you are getting what you want, sex and a great connection. So what else do you want? More of his time? More sex? What's missing for you? Because you don't want to be his girlfriend? He's not your boyfriend so why do you expect him to be around like he is one? Sounds like you want the benefits of a girlfriend without actually having to be one.
And seeing him once or twice a week is not MIA. For a busy person he sure does find time to see you. I read about the games Leo's and Scorpio's play with each other. I think it's a matter of playing this one out. Fire and water is such a tricky combination but there is a strong attraction. I sense a power struggle in this combination.
Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by DazedScorp
How is stepping back from an emotional situation immature?
If I tell you that I love you, and you don't feel the same way... Why wouldn't I step back? I see no need to torture myself emotionally if there is no chance.
"Like I said before, would you like it if someone you're involved with takes off for days at a time, with no explanation?"
Did you even read what I said?
If they expressed their love for me and I didn't feel the same way, I would fully expect them to take a step back.
Becoming an obsessive love maniac for someone who doesn't love you back, is the immature thing to do.
She states, he tell her he loves her after he comes back!!!! Thats what she finds disturbing, that she feels he only says this to cover his ass!click to expand
What is he covering his ass for?
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by LunarMaidenPosted by DeadRingerrPosted by DazedScorp
How is stepping back from an emotional situation immature?
If I tell you that I love you, and you don't feel the same way... Why wouldn't I step back? I see no need to torture myself emotionally if there is no chance.
"Like I said before, would you like it if someone you're involved with takes off for days at a time, with no explanation?"
Did you even read what I said?
If they expressed their love for me and I didn't feel the same way, I would fully expect them to take a step back.
Becoming an obsessive love maniac for someone who doesn't love you back, is the immature thing to do.
She states, he tell her he loves her after he comes back!!!! Thats what she finds disturbing, that she feels he only says this to cover his ass!
What is he covering his ass for?
Holiday romance ?click to expand
Well maybe that holiday romance didn't match up to what he wants with OP. Remember there is no contract between these two. She did not except the terms of his offer so, no ties to bind them except the emotions and expectations. Even after all that, she wants to continue as a sexual partner not as a girlfriend.
Posted by DeadRingerr
Forget it Scorpio's, hence the reason why I dont't date you people.....its all double-talk,,...yeah, its all her fault, shame on you Leo for second guessing his MIA self!! You had you're chance girl, now take this as a lesson learned when someone goes MIA on you, you better just except it and suck his dick!!
LMAO at an air sign sticking up for a fire sign and trying to tell a water sign how to be. Then Air sign turns on and abandons fire sign when water signs drown her out. CLASSIC!
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
yeah sheathed...i said that too....there's something very 50s glamour about you 🙂
love how you said 'thanks' to your scorp.....how did he respond?
He was actually quite understanding with it. At that point in our romance I had made it very clear that I had a frozen heart encased within steel with a padlock. I told him upfront that it would not be easy to gain any sort of trust or even vulnerability from me. I refused to allow him to take me out on an actual date - let alone PAY for anything. Even then, many of our dates in the beginning involved adventuring, nature, and having my golden retriever (who is very jealous of any creature I interact with) as a chaperone.
He just held my hand tighter and said he knew I'd love him and that he understood that I had a tumultuous past that I could barely recount aloud - and that my love would be worth the wait.
I have no idea how I became lucky enough to keep a handsome and patient gentleman that still opens every door for me 🙂
Dear Scorpios,
And since I said no to him, why does he keeps coming back? I mean when he comes back we dont always have sex, we go out to eat and hang out. Explain that.
It seems like your all going against me but why ? You Scorpios drive me insane but in a good way 😉 I do enjoy this guys company but the reason I did not day yes to this guy is because he disappears on me, and gets jealous when men flirt at me on Facebook. I mean I do understand you Scorpios like to go MIA once in a while but how would you like it when someone goes MIA on you?
Few months ago I was mad at him and decided to go MIA, this drove him insane. Yes this is very inmature of me but I was pissed off. Now I do not do this anymore but should I?
And since I said no to him, why does he keeps coming back? I mean when he comes back we dont always have sex, we go out to eat and hang out. Explain that.
It seems like your all going against me but why ? You Scorpios drive me insane but in a good way 😉 I do enjoy this guys company but the reason I did not day yes to this guy is because he disappears on me, and gets jealous when men flirt at me on Facebook. I mean I do understand you Scorpios like to go MIA once in a while but how would you like it when someone goes MIA on you?
Few months ago I was mad at him and decided to go MIA, this drove him insane. Yes this is very inmature of me but I was pissed off. Now I do not do this anymore but should I?
Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DeadRingerr
From what she states this is not a FWB's situation, it seems to go deeper than that!
She's having sex with him, but doesn't want a relationship... What would you call it?
Why doesn't she want the relationship? cus he goes MIA...so she is skeptical(square one)click to expand
EXACTLY ! =)
Posted by enfant_terrible
This is how I felt when he first told me he loves me lol I'm stealing this !
Posted by ellessquePosted by doubleleo
Dear Scorpios,
And since I said no to him, why does he keeps coming back? I mean when he comes back we dont always have sex, we go out to eat and hang out. Explain that.
It seems like your all going against me but why ? You Scorpios drive me insane but in a good way 😉 I do enjoy this guys company but the reason I did not day yes to this guy is because he disappears on me, and gets jealous when men flirt at me on Facebook. I mean I do understand you Scorpios like to go MIA once in a while but how would you like it when someone goes MIA on you?
Few months ago I was mad at him and decided to go MIA, this drove him insane. Yes this is very inmature of me but I was pissed off. Now I do not do this anymore but should I?
who proclaimed feelings first? You or him?
....and what happened at that VERY MOMENT.
that will explain everything from THAT point forward.click to expand
He did first. He did told me that he understood that I said no to him. He also enjoys how I am very honest and calm with him when he does something that bothers me. Maybe I should have a talk with him of how I feel about him. I am developing feelings for him now... 😢
Maybe I did fuck up... I said no to him because he goes MIA for about a week and I'm afraid that he will do if we become a couple. I dated a Scorpio before and during the relationship my ex will go MIA for weeks and come back like nothing happened and wont tell be honest or tell me " hey, babe Im going MIA'. That bothered me and if a guy keeps doing that to me I get bored... Maybe its best if I just stay lovers or friends with this guy and just live life.
Posted by ellessquePosted by doubleleo
Dear Scorpios,
And since I said no to him, why does he keeps coming back? I mean when he comes back we dont always have sex, we go out to eat and hang out. Explain that.
It seems like your all going against me but why ? You Scorpios drive me insane but in a good way 😉 I do enjoy this guys company but the reason I did not day yes to this guy is because he disappears on me, and gets jealous when men flirt at me on Facebook. I mean I do understand you Scorpios like to go MIA once in a while but how would you like it when someone goes MIA on you?
Few months ago I was mad at him and decided to go MIA, this drove him insane. Yes this is very inmature of me but I was pissed off. Now I do not do this anymore but should I?
who proclaimed feelings first? You or him?
....and what happened at that VERY MOMENT.
that will explain everything from THAT point forward.click to expand
He did first. He did told me that he understood that I said no to him. He also enjoys how I am very honest and calm with him when he does something that bothers me. Maybe I should have a talk with him of how I feel about him. I am developing feelings for him now... 😢
Maybe I did fuck up... I said no to him because he goes MIA for about a week and I'm afraid that he will do if we become a couple. I dated a Scorpio before and during the relationship my ex will go MIA for weeks and come back like nothing happened and wont tell be honest or tell me " hey, babe Im going MIA'. That bothered me and if a guy keeps doing that to me I get bored... Maybe its best if I just stay lovers or friends with this guy and just live life.
Posted by DeadRingerr
See, MIA for a week?! HELL NO!!! YOu should have told him that it bothers you and the reason why u don't take him seriously...that he does exactly what the last guy did to you!!!
Amen! lol Yeah your right I should have a talk with him. =)
Posted by ellessquePosted by doubleleo
Dear Scorpios,
And since I said no to him, why does he keeps coming back? I mean when he comes back we dont always have sex, we go out to eat and hang out. Explain that.
It seems like your all going against me but why ? You Scorpios drive me insane but in a good way 😉 I do enjoy this guys company but the reason I did not day yes to this guy is because he disappears on me, and gets jealous when men flirt at me on Facebook. I mean I do understand you Scorpios like to go MIA once in a while but how would you like it when someone goes MIA on you?
Few months ago I was mad at him and decided to go MIA, this drove him insane. Yes this is very inmature of me but I was pissed off. Now I do not do this anymore but should I?
who proclaimed feelings first? You or him?
....and what happened at that VERY MOMENT.
that will explain everything from THAT point forward.click to expand
He did first. He did told me that he understood that I said no to him. He also enjoys how I am very honest and calm with him when he does something that bothers me. Maybe I should have a talk with him of how I feel about him. I am developing feelings for him now... 😢
Maybe I did fuck up... I said no to him because he goes MIA for about a week and I'm afraid that he will do if we become a couple. I dated a Scorpio before and during the relationship my ex will go MIA for weeks and come back like nothing happened and wont tell be honest or tell me " hey, babe Im going MIA'. That bothered me and if a guy keeps doing that to me I get bored... Maybe its best if I just stay lovers or friends with this guy and just live life.
Posted by DazedScorp
How about a personal experience from A scorp male who's been in this situation with a Leo woman, eh?
I at one time, confessed my love to a Lioness.
We had a great connection (and still do to this day) and were having great sex at the time. But she rejected me. Why? Because I was the man on the side. Twice.
She was getting the sex that she wanted, and the emotional connection that she was lacking. But the day came when the light bulb in my head switched on.
There was never going to be a relationship with this woman. She would never be able to commit to me and return what I had offered her.
But I kept coming back. And that is because Scorpio men are Masochists. Learn that term and engrave it into your brain if you ever want to understand Scorpio men.
Still, to this day, if she ever confessed her love to me, I would never accept. She had her chance. I would still come back of course, but she would never recieve my emotional openess that I offered once before.
If you reject us once (emotionally), it'll never happen again. But we will take you for what you have to offer, and that is sex, and nothing more.
Thanks this helped makes me think alot of my issue. Maybe I was an asshole but I was being honest. Sucks I cant change that oh well... I should tell him how I feel and if not just enjoy the sex & friendship or move on.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by doubleleo
He did first. He did told me that he understood that I said no to him. He also enjoys how I am very honest and calm with him when he does something that bothers me. Maybe I should have a talk with him of how I feel about him. I am developing feelings for him now... 😢
Maybe I did fuck up... I said no to him because he goes MIA for about a week and I'm afraid that he will do if we become a couple. I dated a Scorpio before and during the relationship my ex will go MIA for weeks and come back like nothing happened and wont tell be honest or tell me " hey, babe Im going MIA'. That bothered me and if a guy keeps doing that to me I get bored... Maybe its best if I just stay lovers or friends with this guy and just live life.
Remember that not all Scorpio men are created equal.
A few questions...
1. How old is he?
2. What's his profession?
3. How often is he MIA due to work?click to expand
1. 26
2. Drummer for Music Studio.
3. 1 - 2 weeks.
I would like to thank everyone for your advices and for sharing your experiences. ^_^
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by doubleleoPosted by DazedScorp
How about a personal experience from A scorp male who's been in this situation with a Leo woman, eh?
I at one time, confessed my love to a Lioness.
We had a great connection (and still do to this day) and were having great sex at the time. But she rejected me. Why? Because I was the man on the side. Twice.
She was getting the sex that she wanted, and the emotional connection that she was lacking. But the day came when the light bulb in my head switched on.
There was never going to be a relationship with this woman. She would never be able to commit to me and return what I had offered her.
But I kept coming back. And that is because Scorpio men are Masochists. Learn that term and engrave it into your brain if you ever want to understand Scorpio men.
Still, to this day, if she ever confessed her love to me, I would never accept. She had her chance. I would still come back of course, but she would never recieve my emotional openess that I offered once before.
If you reject us once (emotionally), it'll never happen again. But we will take you for what you have to offer, and that is sex, and nothing more.
Thanks this helped makes me think alot of my issue. Maybe I was an asshole but I was being honest. Sucks I cant change that oh well... I should tell him how I feel and if not just enjoy the sex & friendship or move on.
I don't think you're an asshole.
And I don't think it's too late to try again. If you think you're developing feelings for this man... I recommend that you try one more time.
But... Be honest with yourself and to him, as to why you rejected him the first time.
Something like this:
"I want to apologize for shooting you down when you felt comfortable enough to express your emotions to me. I've thought about it for a long while, and I feel a great connection between us and one that could go far. I was caught off gaurd, and due to prior experiences, I didn't know how to respond, or what to think of how I was feeling emotionally towards you. If you're willing to give me another chance, I am willing to be honest about my emotions towards you from now on and not hold anything back."click to expand
Totally steali
I'm stealing this **** typo ugh my internet blows.
I'm so ashamed that in the last 10 pages that I read.. I understood absolutely nothing.
But I giggled at the 'pussy' part.
😄
But I giggled at the 'pussy' part.
😄
*sigh*
Leo is the teenager of the zodiac. Seriously, all signs have an age attached, and this one is Leo's; it comes with being raw, undeveloped emotionally, suffering from bouts of low or high self esteem, etc.
@ op I'm with you cause I understand you pain, but your original text gives me the perception you don't understand what you want, who you are, you haven't asked yourself very important questions, such as how you'd like your relationships to be. Every single person is looking for a beautiful, rich display of feelings; they're looking for a partner who enriches their everyday lives, someone who helps them grow, makes efforts to understand and communicate to them frankly and kindly.
Any heart that opens up to you must be handled with enormous care and gentleness, and this, even if you happen to not share the feelings (which isn't the case).
Cause drama is easy, creating a beautiful trusting relationship is harder but it's so worth the effort 🙂
Leo is the teenager of the zodiac. Seriously, all signs have an age attached, and this one is Leo's; it comes with being raw, undeveloped emotionally, suffering from bouts of low or high self esteem, etc.
@ op I'm with you cause I understand you pain, but your original text gives me the perception you don't understand what you want, who you are, you haven't asked yourself very important questions, such as how you'd like your relationships to be. Every single person is looking for a beautiful, rich display of feelings; they're looking for a partner who enriches their everyday lives, someone who helps them grow, makes efforts to understand and communicate to them frankly and kindly.
Any heart that opens up to you must be handled with enormous care and gentleness, and this, even if you happen to not share the feelings (which isn't the case).
Cause drama is easy, creating a beautiful trusting relationship is harder but it's so worth the effort 🙂
Oh I definitely love how that wrapped up at the end, Recon. 🙂
When I left for work there were 50 posts, now there are 100. LOL Off to finish reading.......
Wow it keeps going and going ^_^ lol
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