Is my Scorpio punishing me or what!?!?

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I upset my Scorpio a few weeks ago, iced me out ignored me whatever. We talked and he understood. I later apologized maybe a week later he said that all was good and there were no hard feelings. I still has to proceed to message him first when usually he does. Said that he may be able to come over the wknd at least he was replying to my messages after the apology. But texted when he said he would possibly be able to come over and back to ignoring. What is the dang deal. Am I being punished? He wouldn't have said all was good and even say he'd come see me soon if he was done with me. 2 years of consistency and now this. Help please.
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
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I upset my Scorpio a few weeks ago, iced me out ignored me whatever. We talked and he understood. I later apologized maybe a week later he said that all was good and there were no hard feelings. I still has to proceed to message him first when usually he does. Said that he may be able to come over the wknd at least he was replying to my messages after the apology. But texted when he said he would possibly be able to come over and back to ignoring. What is the dang deal. Am I being punished? He wouldn't have said all was good and even say he'd come see me soon if he was done with me. 2 years of consistency and now this. Help please.
He's sulking.

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Lol still doesn't make sense. Never had an argument. He's always been the one to message me with somewhat instant replies. Doesn't seem the type to just cut it off without voicing it, considering he just said he'd come see me soon. Ugh. Drives me insane honestly
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Idk if it was a week or less. I was mad for being ignored when there was something serious wrong that involved him. We talked about it and only after we talked about it was when I apologized. Honestly I have my own stubborn ways I lashed out for a reason. After he found out the reason he understood.
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
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I could message u and maybe you could tell me what the punishment is lol. I was raised by a scorp but he's different more reserved. But still. Idk
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Idk if it was a week or less. I was mad for being ignored when there was something serious wrong that involved him. We talked about it and only after we talked about it was when I apologized. Honestly I have my own stubborn ways I lashed out for a reason. After he found out the reason he understood.
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I get it. Our mechanism for not being exposed of our overly sensitive side when we're upset is to ignore and give silent treatments. I have a bad temper so going silent is also my way to not explode, take a breather and come back with a more sound mind.. & I also go silent to "prove my point" that you've upset me.. lol.. EMOTIONAL ASS PPL.. It's not good to ignore or be ignored, so I get it.. But it's def a stubborn Scorp trait.

Would you care to share what happened.. Don't wanna get in your personal.. But maybe I can give better advice if I know why he was upset to begin with?
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
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LOL! I would like to know your POV! haa

I actually wanna know what she did to upset him.. that would help. 😉
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
I could message u and maybe you could tell me what the punishment is lol. I was raised by a scorp but he's different more reserved. But still. Idk
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Posted by GemStar
I upset my Scorpio a few weeks ago, iced me out ignored me whatever. We talked and he understood. I later apologized maybe a week later he said that all was good and there were no hard feelings. I still has to proceed to message him first when usually he does. Said that he may be able to come over the wknd at least he was replying to my messages after the apology. But texted when he said he would possibly be able to come over and back to ignoring. What is the dang deal. Am I being punished? He wouldn't have said all was good and even say he'd come see me soon if he was done with me. 2 years of consistency and now this. Help please.

Sounds like he's holding a grudge. It happens. It will eventually mellow out.

Curious, why didn't you apologize after the "talk" instead of a week later?
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I upset my Scorpio a few weeks ago, iced me out ignored me whatever. We talked and he understood. I later apologized maybe a week later he said that all was good and there were no hard feelings. I still has to proceed to message him first when usually he does. Said that he may be able to come over the wknd at least he was replying to my messages after the apology. But texted when he said he would possibly be able to come over and back to ignoring. What is the dang deal. Am I being punished? He wouldn't have said all was good and even say he'd come see me soon if he was done with me. 2 years of consistency and now this. Help please.

Sounds like he's holding a grudge. It happens. It will eventually mellow out.

Curious, why didn't you apologize after the "talk" instead of a week later?

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It was after the talk when I did.
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I upset my Scorpio a few weeks ago, iced me out ignored me whatever. We talked and he understood. I later apologized maybe a week later he said that all was good and there were no hard feelings. I still has to proceed to message him first when usually he does. Said that he may be able to come over the wknd at least he was replying to my messages after the apology. But texted when he said he would possibly be able to come over and back to ignoring. What is the dang deal. Am I being punished? He wouldn't have said all was good and even say he'd come see me soon if he was done with me. 2 years of consistency and now this. Help please.

Sounds like he's holding a grudge. It happens. It will eventually mellow out.

Curious, why didn't you apologize after the "talk" instead of a week later?


It was after the talk when I did.
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Okay, so the "talk" and the apology happened a week later.

Anyway, he's responding to you. I wouldn't consider that punishment. You're just expecting things to bounce like they were before you had a meltdown and fix signs don't always roll like that. That's a Gem trait, not a Scorp trait. It varies based on the situation and people involved, but generally it take a bit of time.

I'm not sure what you said, but if it required an apology and an explanation for him to understand why you did/said what you said, it was enough to sit with him.
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
I could message u and maybe you could tell me what the punishment is lol. I was raised by a scorp but he's different more reserved. But still. Idk
If you can shed a tear do it while your at it.
MANIPULATION AT IT'S BEST.. ! Sad.
Well it's not really manipulating to be honest cause if you're sincere about it then shedding a tear would help lol
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True, if it's sincere.. Don't force it towards a scorp tho.. We see through that iish..
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
LOL! I would like to know your POV! haa

I actually wanna know what she did to upset him.. that would help. 😉

Lol my pov is this if you think my actions are stupid it's just a reaction to your stupidity lol just generally speaking

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LOL! If you can't take the heat.. STAY OUT THE KITCHEN!! 😛
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
LOL! I would like to know your POV! haa

I actually wanna know what she did to upset him.. that would help. 😉

Lol my pov is this if you think my actions are stupid it's just a reaction to your stupidity lol just generally speaking


LOL! If you can't take the heat.. STAY OUT THE KITCHEN!! 😛
But I like doing it it the kitchen counter lol

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I upset my Scorpio a few weeks ago, iced me out ignored me whatever. We talked and he understood. I later apologized maybe a week later he said that all was good and there were no hard feelings. I still has to proceed to message him first when usually he does. Said that he may be able to come over the wknd at least he was replying to my messages after the apology. But texted when he said he would possibly be able to come over and back to ignoring. What is the dang deal. Am I being punished? He wouldn't have said all was good and even say he'd come see me soon if he was done with me. 2 years of consistency and now this. Help please.
He's sulking.

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Lol still doesn't make sense. Never had an argument. He's always been the one to message me with somewhat instant replies. Doesn't seem the type to just cut it off without voicing it, considering he just said he'd come see me soon. Ugh. Drives me insane honestly
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And now he's not. so you asked, scorps answered. I know from my former relationship with scorpio that this is what they do

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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
LOL! I would like to know your POV! haa

I actually wanna know what she did to upset him.. that would help. 😉

Lol my pov is this if you think my actions are stupid it's just a reaction to your stupidity lol just generally speaking


LOL! If you can't take the heat.. STAY OUT THE KITCHEN!! 😛
But I like doing it it the kitchen counter lol

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Is it getting hawt or is it just meh! 😛
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
LOL! I would like to know your POV! haa

I actually wanna know what she did to upset him.. that would help. 😉

Lol my pov is this if you think my actions are stupid it's just a reaction to your stupidity lol just generally speaking


LOL! If you can't take the heat.. STAY OUT THE KITCHEN!! 😛
But I like doing it it the kitchen counter lol

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Lol ?
Is it getting hawt or is it just meh! 😛
It's always spicy ? when I'm around.

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Too much Sriracha Sauce, maybe? 😛
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You offended him.. then you waited a whole week to apologize for what you did..?

We are sensitive beings... It will take him a bit to get over what you did.. & the fact that you waited THAT long to apologize sends red flags for me. Doesn't mean he lost interest for you tho.. We don't give up that easily if you mean something to a scorp.. You have to "make up" for what you did.. (I don't just mean sexually either). Or he'll just try to make you feel how you made him feel .. Revenge is sweet for a scorp..
Lol still thinking what type of punishment fits the bill lol
LOL! I would like to know your POV! haa

I actually wanna know what she did to upset him.. that would help. 😉

Lol my pov is this if you think my actions are stupid it's just a reaction to your stupidity lol just generally speaking


LOL! If you can't take the heat.. STAY OUT THE KITCHEN!! 😛
But I like doing it it the kitchen counter lol

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Lol ?
Is it getting hawt or is it just meh! 😛
It's always spicy ? when I'm around.


Too much Sriracha Sauce, maybe? 😛
I'm a walking jalapeño lol
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hi, i read you story, and I'm a Scorpio, so maybe i can help you but what do I know?

I was in a simmer situation. But I was the one punishing My friend. Any ways let's call this friend bob. That's not his real name bu lets pretend. Bob talked about some bull@#@ behind my back. I found out because you can't hid sh# $ # from Scorpio they will find out! Bob said sorry and I said "I FORGIVE YOU!" which I didn't relay mean.

I ignored Bob for a month. Here's why, I couldn't look at him in the eyes with out thinking about how much I would want to hurt Bob. So instead of telling Bob how much he hurt me I jut ignored him. Since I thought he would probably not be able to handle what I had to say.

Back to your story, You Scorpio is probably doing the same thing and bode ling their feelings up since they don't think you can handle what they have to say or do. And don't want to break down in front of you because we have to much pride.

Here's what you do, hug Scorpio!!! Tell them I don't now what it is you going through but what ever it is you'll make it through. Or the long warm hug will be enough. We will probably break down and cry so get ready. As much as we hate it we have an emotional side. Then get ready for all the yelling and scraming at you, because of what you did to us.

I hope this helps